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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Self love doesn't always mean liking what you see in a mirror. Often it's a quiet thing. Soft but certain. A gentle rebellion. It's the day you wake up and realise you've stopped apologising for the space you take up; it's removing yourself from the people who make you feel like you're less than enough. It's wanting to learn from and challenge yourself; it's knowing your worth on the days nobody else sees it and standing up for yourself when no one else does. But there will be days when you don't. Days when you can't. And on those days, it's forgiving yourself. It's trying again. And again. And again.

I didn't write this. But saw it online earlier and thought it summed it all up beautifully.

So I'm sharing it for all who need it.

You are worthy, all of you. Just as you are

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great message, thanks for sharing

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Kaboom

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for sharing.

I'm having one of those days, where I'm struggling to like me.

Little wobble but ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self love doesn't always mean liking what you see in a mirror. Often it's a quiet thing. Soft but certain. A gentle rebellion. It's the day you wake up and realise you've stopped apologising for the space you take up; it's removing yourself from the people who make you feel like you're less than enough. It's wanting to learn from and challenge yourself; it's knowing your worth on the days nobody else sees it and standing up for yourself when no one else does. But there will be days when you don't. Days when you can't. And on those days, it's forgiving yourself. It's trying again. And again. And again.

I didn't write this. But saw it online earlier and thought it summed it all up beautifully.

So I'm sharing it for all who need it.

You are worthy, all of you. Just as you are

Lu "

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Such a positive and lovely message. And hopefully it'll be something that people struggling will be able to take in and remember on bad days.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Love this

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Yes I agree it’s a lovely message at this moment in time as a few of us are feeling a bit low with one thing or another

Hopefully we will all pull through everything and feel better in ourselves very soon

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Well said Lu

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Very eloquently put and so true

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

I was expecting a wank joke....

Sound sentient of the resilience of the human soul.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Shameless bump of this because I think there may be people who need to see it and haven't......

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you can't 'remove yourself from the people who make you feel like you're less than enough'?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"What if you can't 'remove yourself from the people who make you feel like you're less than enough'? "

I've been in that situation. It's the hardest thing. And in that case you have to just keep telling yourself they're wrong until you believe it.

Or find some way if you can to get away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What if you can't 'remove yourself from the people who make you feel like you're less than enough'?

I've been in that situation. It's the hardest thing. And in that case you have to just keep telling yourself they're wrong until you believe it.

Or find some way if you can to get away "

Yeah, been there too...

There's no quick fix unfortunately, it's a journey and most times a long one!

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