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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com"

Put the news on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on."

Have the aliens finally commenced their invasion

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com"

A lot will be unwilling to meet currently due to the obvious... if you’re looking for post Covid then maybe cast your eye further afield...

I don’t know what it’s like in Liverpool for meets, but I’d be very surprised if you’re not getting plenty of offers, you have a very good profile and certainly sound like a couple I would personally like to meet.

There are decent guys out there, unfortunately there’s a lot of fantasists too

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Is it a problem finding men who are interested or finding men who are on your wavelength?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love that the lady appreciates a bum hole the way I do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on."

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over ) "

Unfortunately there is a lot of that here... Verifications help but people don’t always get left them.

If they ONLY want to talk sex though I’d take it as a bad sign..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

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Because men dont do planning ahead

They want instant gratification

They are hard and horny, this minute

They arent interested in the fact that you may have jobs, family responsibilities, childcare issues etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

"

Are you giving them wank chat/ sex pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found it relatively straightforward

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

Because men dont do planning ahead

They want instant gratification

They are hard and horny, this minute

They arent interested in the fact that you may have jobs, family responsibilities, childcare issues etc"

Not all men (cliche I know), but unfortunately you’re correct that a lot are like that. And as has been said many times in many threads, they spoil things for the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

Because men dont do planning ahead

They want instant gratification

They are hard and horny, this minute

They arent interested in the fact that you may have jobs, family responsibilities, childcare issues etc

Not all men (cliche I know), but unfortunately you’re correct that a lot are like that. And as has been said many times in many threads, they spoil things for the rest."

That, and the fact that alot of guys on here are total dreamers

Or attached, and like the idea of a threesome, but in reality have to go Christmas shopping with the missus

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

"

We tend not to engage in sexting etc initially And tend to just chat with men and get to know them a little bit. It tends to filter out the ones who are using you as wank fodder.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

Because men dont do planning ahead

They want instant gratification

They are hard and horny, this minute

They arent interested in the fact that you may have jobs, family responsibilities, childcare issues etc

Not all men (cliche I know), but unfortunately you’re correct that a lot are like that. And as has been said many times in many threads, they spoil things for the rest.

That, and the fact that alot of guys on here are total dreamers

Or attached, and like the idea of a threesome, but in reality have to go Christmas shopping with the missus"

That too!... Always look for those that can accommodate!

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

We tend not to engage in sexting etc initially And tend to just chat with men and get to know them a little bit. It tends to filter out the ones who are using you as wank fodder. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

Because men dont do planning ahead

They want instant gratification

They are hard and horny, this minute

They arent interested in the fact that you may have jobs, family responsibilities, childcare issues etc"

Your totally spot on they don’t realise the work it takes to get away for the night for sure , great response thank you .

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

Because men dont do planning ahead

They want instant gratification

They are hard and horny, this minute

They arent interested in the fact that you may have jobs, family responsibilities, childcare issues etc"

Indeed. Once they've blown their beans and the urge has left their body, they roll over and snore forgetting about you until they get wood once more and you can be of use.

To be honest tho, at the start of 'rona I thought it would be a good opportunity to get to know people and make future plans, but the fact is it's worn people down, killed libidos, ravished families, businesses and so much more.

I for one don't really look to the future as it seems pointless, I'm just winging it day by day.

I reckon there's more out there like me, where looking to the future just feels like an extra layer of pressure in a world that's already heavy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

Are you giving them wank chat/ sex pics?"

No not really they try for the sexy chat and always want our friends photos and videos, after a couple of messages , we have over 50 pics on our profile so plenty for them to look at and know what their getting unfortunately they don’t do the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

Because men dont do planning ahead

They want instant gratification

They are hard and horny, this minute

They arent interested in the fact that you may have jobs, family responsibilities, childcare issues etc

Not all men (cliche I know), but unfortunately you’re correct that a lot are like that. And as has been said many times in many threads, they spoil things for the rest.

That, and the fact that alot of guys on here are total dreamers

Or attached, and like the idea of a threesome, but in reality have to go Christmas shopping with the missus"

Spot on again , that’s why most don’t want to show their faces .

I would think most our attached and when you ask to meet them it becomes a problem for them .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

We tend not to engage in sexting etc initially And tend to just chat with men and get to know them a little bit. It tends to filter out the ones who are using you as wank fodder. "

For sure , in general the honest ones are good with that and it works out ok . Laughing, great saying wank fodder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come to Devon !

I’ll not disappoint!

You’ve a great profile btw

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com"
plenty enjoy the chase then shit themselves when finally invited.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

We tend not to engage in sexting etc initially And tend to just chat with men and get to know them a little bit. It tends to filter out the ones who are using you as wank fodder.

For sure , in general the honest ones are good with that and it works out ok . Laughing, great saying wank fodder "

Exactly, think with lockdown it's been harder to keep conversations going. But we speak have managed to keep it going with a couple of blokes and definitely hope to meet them in the future. Wank fodder is one of my favourite terms lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

Are you giving them wank chat/ sex pics?

No not really they try for the sexy chat and always want our friends photos and videos, after a couple of messages , we have over 50 pics on our profile so plenty for them to look at and know what their getting unfortunately they don’t do the same "

When they do that I just stop chatting as I know they just want a wank. No time wasted.

I always have a social meet within 2 weeks of first chatting. If they can't do that I stop chatting because it will never happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on."

Post Covid !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a problem finding men who are interested or finding men who are on your wavelength? "

Finding men that are who they say they are or guys that aren’t just here for the horny chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love that the lady appreciates a bum hole the way I do!"

Hahah hahahahha

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Love that the lady appreciates a bum hole the way I do!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are we finding it so hard finding single males to join in mfm.. seems a lot of guys are all talk and no action.. bewildered.com

Put the news on.

We’re talking for a while now ,not in the last few months here, there’s blokes we’re wasting our time with , and when it comes to it are just blagging , think there’s quite a few just want us as there personal wank line ( were trying to talk with people for possible actual meets when this is over )

Are you giving them wank chat/ sex pics?

No not really they try for the sexy chat and always want our friends photos and videos, after a couple of messages , we have over 50 pics on our profile so plenty for them to look at and know what their getting unfortunately they don’t do the same

When they do that I just stop chatting as I know they just want a wank. No time wasted.

I always have a social meet within 2 weeks of first chatting. If they can't do that I stop chatting because it will never happen."

That’s really good way to look at it .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Use your experience to get better at ing the s out earlier. Be honest with yourselves after you engage with someone. Let then go easily if they don't seem right.

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