FabSwingers.com forum: How tidy is your inbox?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How well do you look after yours?

Do you answer messages as soon as they come through, ignore them, bulk delete?

I'm terrible with mine even with friends they can wait an age for a reply

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I tend to just get messages from friends and a few random.ones. I reply when i see it usually

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By *laytime432Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Yes.

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By *aughty.little.secretCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

We try to answer all especially couples as thats what we're into atm. Never had one from a single female except a nice lass that helped us yesterday be able to finally post to forums (she had the same issue x)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I douche my inbox daily

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Opened and deleted .. got a few in my inbox which are on going. I like a tidy box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't action messages as they arrive.

I let them build up for 3 hours or so then sort them out.

Then back to forum and repeat

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By *inell1Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

It's almost always empty

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Having not looking for anyone on, has reduced my messages to forum thread messages only its soo much easier to check and reply, I'm not unread deleting at all now

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I douche my inbox daily"

Slightly turned on right now

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Shocking. I need to start replying soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate an unkempt box

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Having not looking for anyone on, has reduced my messages to forum thread messages only its soo much easier to check and reply, I'm not unread deleting at all now

Good idea. I don't get many messages anyway but even just from friends or playing a game here, I'm terrible. Anyone that knows me, knows they may get a reply this year haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How well do you look after yours?

Do you answer messages as soon as they come through, ignore them, bulk delete?

I'm terrible with mine even with friends they can wait an age for a reply

I reply to friends first, then women then couples

And I only reply so I use my emojis

The day isn't over till I've use all of them at least once.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Having not looking for anyone on, has reduced my messages to forum thread messages only its soo much easier to check and reply, I'm not unread deleting at all now

Good idea. I don't get many messages anyway but even just from friends or playing a game here, I'm terrible. Anyone that knows me, knows they may get a reply this year haha! "

I'm the same. I warn people tho, I rarely read messages.

If I see a thread title as a heading I'm much more likely to notice it.

I'm constantly in the multiple hundreds of unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to keep on top of it.

Only leaving odd messages unread so the other can see them.

As the majority are horseshit though, from twats that cant be fucked reading a profile it's fairly simple admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m scan mine but mainly mass delete when it gets to so much due to my profile text saying not interested

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

My PA deals with all the mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As quite as the roads on Christmas Morning lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It's clean as a whistle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I clean it with antibacterial wipes due to all those filthy messages and pics women are sending me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very as fuck all appears

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

It's never a problem when no one messages randomly. I only get messages from women I know & even then, I usually have to make the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is a total mess... I have so many unopened messages ones I've opend and not got round to replying to... Feel like just hitting delete all and starting again sometimes lol

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I have a few messages in my inbox

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"How well do you look after yours?

Do you answer messages as soon as they come through, ignore them, bulk delete?

I'm terrible with mine even with friends they can wait an age for a reply

I do a daily naked yoga show for an inspirational lush lady whom in return administrates my inbox affairs. We like to keep the box tidy but with an aura of randomness

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I read, reply, delete as soon as they come in.

I only get a backlog if I’ve not been online for a day or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My message box is empty, all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/11/20 18:26:59]

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Mine isnt too busy so easy to keep on top of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is a total mess... I have so many unopened messages ones I've opend and not got round to replying to... Feel like just hitting delete all and starting again sometimes lol"

mine has looked like this on many occasions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I spotted some tumble rolling in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to reply as soon as I see them, it’s only fair after all, someone took the trouble to send a message so to my mind they should get a reply ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always delete everything. It’s the ocd in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to read reply to some and clear mine everyday.Now I need to spend a boring hour going through the 600+ that have built up from those morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the amount of mail women get it’s a wonder their inbox isn’t in tatters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always try to read reply to some and clear mine everyday.Now I need to spend a boring hour going through the 600+ that have built up from those morning

THIS morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have to look after an inbox if you get no messages through.

*Points to head like man in meme*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I douche my inbox daily

Slightly turned on right now

Glad I could help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceedingly well kept ... especially as only show profile when I'm actually online, have the time and the inclination! Friends I mainly talk to off fab so that's no worries!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't have to look after an inbox if you get no messages through.

*Points to head like man in meme*

Maybe they all got distracted by your bum and forgot what they were doing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always try to read reply to some and clear mine everyday.Now I need to spend a boring hour going through the 600+ that have built up from those morning

THIS morning

600+

Sod that for a game of soldier's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always try to read reply to some and clear mine everyday.Now I need to spend a boring hour going through the 600+ that have built up from those morning

THIS morning

600+

Sod that for a game of soldier's! "

Yes and I think I might have a OCD thing as it bugs me if there not checked incase I miss friends chats so then check my texts and then check on here and theres more built up so I get bored of ot and just skip through them fast and read the first line and reply to the interesting ones and delete the others and then breath lol sorry for the non full stop rant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always delete everything. It’s the ocd in me

I guess I’m the invisible man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always try to read reply to some and clear mine everyday.Now I need to spend a boring hour going through the 600+ that have built up from those morning

You need to crank those filters up

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Ohh I’m shit it’s a bit like my unread emails

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By *essica FlabbitWoman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire

Mine needs a dusting and hoovering

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Always reply back soon as possible hate it when people have read your message and don't reply back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always delete everything. It’s the ocd in me

I guess I’m the invisible man

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"How well do you look after yours?

Do you answer messages as soon as they come through, ignore them, bulk delete?

I'm terrible with mine even with friends they can wait an age for a reply

Oh that inbox

yes, mines very organised. I read, mostly reply and delete if that’s the conversation done

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Only ever had 1 message from the forums and the rest are from folks we know so we read and reply to all we get as we feel its ignorant not to unless they are knob shot type messages

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Being a bloke never got many anyway, so what I did get was always manageable - get even less now I'm less active on the forums and the site generally so it's not a problem.

When I do get them I usually try to reply (if it merits one) as soon as possible but am like that with work and personal emails too

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Realtively tidy. Only 57 unread at the min

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Realtively tidy. Only 57 unread at the min

Thank you for your prompt replies.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Realtively tidy. Only 57 unread at the min

Thank you for your prompt replies."

Yours generally float to the top

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Delete it once a week or so

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

As a single guy, it's quite easy to keep mine tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Realtively tidy. Only 57 unread at the min

Thank you for your prompt replies.

Yours generally float to the top

They are very buoyant, probably cause they’re mostly hot air.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answer mine as soon as i see them.

Occasionally i do a good clean out

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I answer mine when I get em but I'm bad at deleting afterwards.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Correction I've now totally emptied my box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit like my sex life at the moment, empty

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I only get a few messages so easy look after it..no need for the hoover for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Very tidy, I don't get many messages so it's easy to manage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Correction I've now totally emptied my box."

Well done! Wanna take a feather duster to mine?

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Complete mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clear

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Errrmmm...lots of unread messages...I need someone to do my fabmin for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages only seem to come through at lunchtime now, so if I avoid being here then I barely get any. I read them all to get rid of the yellow inbox light, and reply sometimes. Message traffic seems a lot lighter these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never delete mine. They vanish anyway so there’s no point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full of spiders webs...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I love when the black bar gets a yellow flash in it

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By *i1971Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

Absolutely spotless

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By *ookieJarWoman
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

I delete nothing..... Its funny seeing the same copy and paste messages from the same people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely manic!

I got a message only the other day......telling me my site supporter pass was about to run out

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Since I started using all the filters, it's much more manageable as it's only friends and people I've messaged before who can message me now. I still can get a little lazy with it though. Especially when I'm tired out or overwhelmed with live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How well do you look after yours?

Do you answer messages as soon as they come through, ignore them, bulk delete?

I'm terrible with mine even with friends they can wait an age for a reply

Mine is a little too tidy lately! Can do with making a mess of it!

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