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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

this evening... How ill you know that you have achieved what you wanted to achieve? I mean when will you know you are happy with your life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30th september next year

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"30th september next year "
Sounds like something very specific

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the day my daughter was born did it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this evening... How ill you know that you have achieved what you wanted to achieve? I mean when will you know you are happy with your life? "

Human beings are never happy they always want more, apart from a few simpletons that is

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"the day my daughter was born did it for me "
yeah, I can relate to that - the days my kids were born were probably the best days of my life so far

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am truly happy now.... you never know what is around the corner so I am not complacent but for now, very content

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the day my daughter was born did it for me yeah, I can relate to that - the days my kids were born were probably the best days of my life so far "
mind you can you re post this again next year after her prom

kerching

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"the day my daughter was born did it for me yeah, I can relate to that - the days my kids were born were probably the best days of my life so far mind you can you re post this again next year after her prom

kerching "

and when they eventually have kids themselves etc lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am Happy with who I am...

The rest is just the trimmings...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my life

Im single so have noone to answer to, come and go as i please, money wise im doing ok and i have 3 beautiful daughters....what else could i need

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I have been very lucky in life

I always remember that through stressful times

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have achieved so much from being in the gutter living on the streets to getting a good job which I am in now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have achieved so much from being in the gutter living on the streets to getting a good job which I am in now... "
Good for you hunny

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm content now. Healthy, great family, great friends, comfortable, job I love.... Nothing to complain about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon when I get passed the latest health twatty problem .... and sell this money pit so I'm not skint all the time. Then I will feel much more contented with myself and my life...for a while anyway!

I'm quite a happy soul on most days and quite easily pleased ask anyone who knows me.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

i am in a job i love,have my little box to live in,not much money but enough,and best of all my Kids are all grown up and happy doing what they are doing

come September i will have a Grandchild to spoil,so not bad at all thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this evening... How ill you know that you have achieved what you wanted to achieve? I mean when will you know you are happy with your life?

Human beings are never happy they always want more, apart from a few simpletons that is "

OI! there's nuffin' wrong with being simple

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"this evening... How ill you know that you have achieved what you wanted to achieve? I mean when will you know you are happy with your life? "

I'm happy right now, got K, got a new grandson due this week and I got a new job today

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

pays a fiver and changes name to Phil O'Sophical.

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

one should always find new goals to achieve tho yes when the sprogs were born were the greatest two days of my life i will never achieve anything so amazing in my life again (tho the wife paid a small part too

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole


"this evening... How ill you know that you have achieved what you wanted to achieve? I mean when will you know you are happy with your life?

I'm happy right now, got K, got a new grandson due this week and I got a new job today "

congrats on your job!!

im am happy very happy and being a survivor i enjoy every day with relish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this evening... How ill you know that you have achieved what you wanted to achieve? I mean when will you know you are happy with your life?

Human beings are never happy they always want more, apart from a few simpletons that is

OI! there's nuffin' wrong with being simple "

I've got you an iced finger, what do you say to that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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OI! there's nuffin' wrong with being simple

I've got you an iced finger, what do you say to that? "

Anything you like

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"this evening... How ill you know that you have achieved what you wanted to achieve? I mean when will you know you are happy with your life?

I'm happy right now, got K, got a new grandson due this week and I got a new job today "
Well done, congratulations on both accounts

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

pays a fiver and changes name to Phil O'Sophical. "

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

pays a fiver and changes name to Phil O'Sophical. "

Hope you read the millionaire post first.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

pays a fiver and changes name to Phil O'Sophical.

Hope you read the millionaire post first. "
I did and chose to forgive you

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

pays a fiver and changes name to Phil O'Sophical.

Hope you read the millionaire post first. I did and chose to forgive you "

As in i don't have to repay my loan to you?

Ta. xx

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

pays a fiver and changes name to Phil O'Sophical.

Hope you read the millionaire post first. I did and chose to forgive you

As in i don't have to repay my loan to you?

Ta. xx "

As in payment terms may be subject to negotiation

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

pays a fiver and changes name to Phil O'Sophical.

Hope you read the millionaire post first. I did and chose to forgive you

As in i don't have to repay my loan to you?

Ta. xx

As in payment terms may be subject to negotiation"

Subject to a big deposit?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

pays a fiver and changes name to Phil O'Sophical.

Hope you read the millionaire post first. I did and chose to forgive you

As in i don't have to repay my loan to you?

Ta. xx

As in payment terms may be subject to negotiation

Subject to a big deposit?"
Lets put it this way, there are high risk investments which are invariably so much more exciting and promising than the safe low risk ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the risk of sending everyone running for the sick bucket, every time I see my kids confirms that I've done something right.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"At the risk of sending everyone running for the sick bucket, every time I see my kids confirms that I've done something right."
No, not running for the sick bucket - everytime I see mine I think it could have been soooo much worse

Serisouly? I agree with you there, best thing I ever did!

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

yes thats lovely if your kids are sorted u must have done something right x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"this evening... How ill you know that you have achieved what you wanted to achieve? I mean when will you know you are happy with your life? "

Have achieved certain goals in the past and continue to look to do so in the future, however if i popped me clogs tomorrow i wont have any regrets tbh..

had some great times and have with the oh and extended family raised the kids well and am thankfull they are healthy..

Also am happy with life each day tbh, seen too many have theirs ended suddenly to think it cant happen to anyone..

not being morose..

simple things are precious and pretty awesome..

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

When I was able to say this in my "Father of the Bride" speech for my second born..

"The sadness that this is the end of a chapter is there…Until… You realise that she has met someone who has made her happy, happy enough to want to spend the rest of her life with him. And when I looked at her getting ready, doing all the stuff women do when they are on an important mission, I realise just how happy she is. I realise just how much this day means to her… I realise that this is what we are all aiming at as parents… To see our children settled and making a life for themselves."

That was a turning point, the time when everything that was important to me came together.. A time when I stopped feeling left out just because there was someone else to pick my baby up when she fell...

Since then, life goes on and I really can't complain. I have a beautiful wife, great kids and two gorgeous and very clever Grandchildren.. AND.. we are allowed to go "out to play"..

Life is sweet...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"When I was able to say this in my "Father of the Bride" speech for my second born..

"The sadness that this is the end of a chapter is there…Until… You realise that she has met someone who has made her happy, happy enough to want to spend the rest of her life with him. And when I looked at her getting ready, doing all the stuff women do when they are on an important mission, I realise just how happy she is. I realise just how much this day means to her… I realise that this is what we are all aiming at as parents… To see our children settled and making a life for themselves."

That was a turning point, the time when everything that was important to me came together.. A time when I stopped feeling left out just because there was someone else to pick my baby up when she fell...

Since then, life goes on and I really can't complain. I have a beautiful wife, great kids and two gorgeous and very clever Grandchildren.. AND.. we are allowed to go "out to play"..

Life is sweet... "

Love the post - so positive, grateful, gracious and full of life

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"When I was able to say this in my "Father of the Bride" speech for my second born..

"The sadness that this is the end of a chapter is there…Until… You realise that she has met someone who has made her happy, happy enough to want to spend the rest of her life with him. And when I looked at her getting ready, doing all the stuff women do when they are on an important mission, I realise just how happy she is. I realise just how much this day means to her… I realise that this is what we are all aiming at as parents… To see our children settled and making a life for themselves."

That was a turning point, the time when everything that was important to me came together.. A time when I stopped feeling left out just because there was someone else to pick my baby up when she fell...

Since then, life goes on and I really can't complain. I have a beautiful wife, great kids and two gorgeous and very clever Grandchildren.. AND.. we are allowed to go "out to play"..

Life is sweet... "

very well said..

not looking forward to that day cos i know i will blub like a child when i 'give her away'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this evening... How ill you know that you have achieved what you wanted to achieve? I mean when will you know you are happy with your life? "

Being happy with your life is a mindset and is not necessarily linked to achievement. I'm happy with my life because I choose to be, my achievements may feed that happiness but are not the reason for it.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"this evening... How ill you know that you have achieved what you wanted to achieve? I mean when will you know you are happy with your life?

Being happy with your life is a mindset and is not necessarily linked to achievement. I'm happy with my life because I choose to be, my achievements may feed that happiness but are not the reason for it. "

in life i expected nothing,but i have received so much more,so i'm happy.

being happy is not about what you've achieved,it's about who you are.

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