FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think is keeping you from experiencing complete happiness?

By *itty9899 OP Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Definitely my trust issues.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Reframe it- why are you allowing your trust issues to get in the way of possible happiness?

Why do you boobytrap yourself?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Is there such a thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing there is no such thing as complete happiness, keeps me contented and that’s all I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reframe it- why are you allowing your trust issues to get in the way of possible happiness?

Why do you boobytrap yourself?"

I do this.

It's a fear of getting hurt.

I have trust issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Knowing there is no such thing as complete happiness, keeps me contented and that’s all I want."

Yeah I agree.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Chasing complete happiness, don't think it exists to be honest

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By *itty9899 OP Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Reframe it- why are you allowing your trust issues to get in the way of possible happiness?

Why do you boobytrap yourself?"

I wish I knew.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No such thing. And I think emotions are defined by contrast. If we were perfectly content we'd not understand how good it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Knowing there is no such thing as complete happiness, keeps me contented and that’s all I want."

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By *lter_ego78Man
over a year ago

wirral

Poor choices.

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By *palWoman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

I think one can be completely happy for a little while but realistically never long term. Life is full of surprising challenges so I think complete happiness is non existent.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

The fear of losing my independence and being controlled again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way to be truly happy is to be content with what you have and what you have achieved, want for nothing and need for nothing and don’t judge your success of any value, be it, money, car, house, relationship, cock size, tit size, weight blah blah on what you see of others

content = happiness,

jealousy = bitterness / not being content = misery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can we ever recognise complete happiness unless we experience those less happy parts of life.

Be careful what you wish for OP, complete happiness is just an illusion, and may lose its allure if not balanced with the rest of human experience.

Take your happiness as and where you find it, be grateful for it, because its those moments that make up for lifes troubles....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There would only be myself getting in the way of any perceived happiness. So I try not too get in the way.

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Both of us having/needing to work

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

A few million quid and the power of time travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely my trust issues."

Myself...

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"Definitely my trust issues.

Myself..."

Ditto x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Financial security.

Our current financial situation is what's keeping us in the UK and not living together atm. (Rona aside)

That aside, I'm the happiest I've ever been and far more happy than I ever thought possible!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Life is what you make it OP and the only barrier to happiness is the one you create yourself ...

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over a year ago

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By *attM73Man
over a year ago

Oldham

"Definitely my trust issues."
yeah same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Money!

That's what you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chasing complete happiness, don't think it exists to be honest "

It does.

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By *attM73Man
over a year ago

Oldham

"Poor choices. "
agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think there’s is such a thing as complete happiness. I am pretty happy though but I know I would be happier if I wasn’t worrying about financial things

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I don't think complete happiness exists, but I'm the happiest that I could possibly be in my current circumstances...we have to work with the cards that we're dealt in life

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Myself

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Unable to meet someone who wants me for keeps.

Solitary life been forced on us singles this year.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a spectrum, or an aspect of many spectra?, as the labels we give to our emotions probably don't all add up to what ee feel in entirety. Satisfaction, contentment and many other things are likely to be related.

I don't think much, if anything is missing or stopping me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete happiness as in contentment?

I don't think it's a permanent state to be in - happiness like all other emotions wave in and out.

I have moments of it.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Insufficient money and attractiveness. It's that simple.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Money & i’m not talking the millions & a yacht.

Literally £1k a month would do just for a touch more security, less worry/stress & be able to travel a bit for the kids.

We are working on it, though Covids fucked up this years outlook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being with someone

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I don't want complete happiness, I want the drive to make something better in a small part of my life, I thrive on the changes and chasing adventure and look forward to them, 75% is more than enough for me

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I have it ... it’s a state of mind and internal setting ...

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