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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

what if anything in your life would you do differently and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been less impetuous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't change anything so I try not to dwell, learn a lesson and move on!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id not get married!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Honestly.... Not a thing. Happy with my life how it is, and who knows what would have happened if I'd changed anything

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I chose not to return to the UK to reconcile with my dad just before he died. I often think if that was the right decision, it was then, it probably is now but would be a fibber if I said I didn't wonder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing...my experiences good and bad have made me the person I am today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing...my experiences good and bad have made me the person I am today "

Jackpot answer

Same goes for me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

A few things but no point pondering about the decisions I have made but remember at the time it was the right decision..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id not get married! "
snap

its the one thing i really wish i hadn't done it

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

Not had 8 Stella and that madras last nite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married my first boyfriend and not been single in my 40's

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Nothing...my experiences good and bad have made me the person I am today "
I like that attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not have gotten caught glancing at the amazing cleavage on this sexy woman sat opposite me on the train.

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By *ush_tushWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"what if anything in your life would you do differently and why?"

I didn't go into teaching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few things but no point pondering about the decisions I have made but remember at the time it was the right decision.. "

I'd agree to that

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"A few things but no point pondering about the decisions I have made but remember at the time it was the right decision..

I'd agree to that "

SHould you not cover up a bit more before making a serious statement?;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger and better tattoos early on and really should have gone to university

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"and really should have gone to university "
Never ... NEVER too late

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I often wonder what if...... but I would never change anything.

I am who I am because of the mistakes I've made, the people I've loved and lost, and the paths that seemed right at the time. Without any of that, I wouldn't have what I have now. But still I wonder!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and really should have gone to university Never ... NEVER too late "

I'm too old to live the life of a student, it'd kill me and I prefer the more mature lady

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Bigger and better tattoos early on and really should have gone to university "

And really it is never too late. I started with the Open University last year. Life experience makes it so much more fun

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"and really should have gone to university Never ... NEVER too late

I'm too old to live the life of a student, it'd kill me and I prefer the more mature lady "
You could do OU?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldn't have gone to uni, waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and really should have gone to university Never ... NEVER too late

I'm too old to live the life of a student, it'd kill me and I prefer the more mature lady You could do OU? "

I don't feel I missed out on the learning just the lifestyle...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"i wouldn't have gone to uni, waste of time."
Not saying everybody has to, as it is not suitable for everybody - but why would you think it is a waste of time?

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I rarely hold back in arguments, I tend to regret more the times when I have (like today)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wouldn't have gone to uni, waste of time.Not saying everybody has to, as it is not suitable for everybody - but why would you think it is a waste of time? "

certain subjects are better learnt on the job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been people in my life that when I met them, I should have run away and not stopped running

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole


"what if anything in your life would you do differently and why?

I didn't go into teaching "

i would definately not have gone into teaching if i knew then what i know now

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Seems like for most people any regrets or feelings they could have done better are focussing on either partners or jobs. Just curious if there are other things that could have been done differently?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There have been people in my life that when I met them, I should have run away and not stopped running "

I'm quick and might catch you

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I have loads of regrets about things I could have changed. Yes, I may have been a different person if I had changed them, but that may have been a good thing!

I refuse to believe that there are those that have absolutely nothing they would change....

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have loads of regrets about things I could have changed. Yes, I may have been a different person if I had changed them, but that may have been a good thing!

I refuse to believe that there are those that have absolutely nothing they would change.... "
I suppose it depends on the depth of "regret". There is a difference between "strong feeling of having missed out on something big time" and then the sense of gentle wondering/ musing about "what if I had done this differently"?

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I have loads of regrets about things I could have changed. Yes, I may have been a different person if I had changed them, but that may have been a good thing!

I refuse to believe that there are those that have absolutely nothing they would change.... I suppose it depends on the depth of "regret". There is a difference between "strong feeling of having missed out on something big time" and then the sense of gentle wondering/ musing about "what if I had done this differently"?"

Yep! So true, but they are still regrets and if you regret doing something, you wouldn't do it with hindsight.. Yes, it makes us what we are, but as I said, we could have become even better people (Yes, or worse) and had a better life?

But, what do I know, I am just a bloke!! lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have one huge regret but I have to live with that.. I think about that regret everyday but I can't think about it or it will eat me alive so best let it go and move on..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Not sure really, yes there are certainthings where you can look back and say what if..

but most things like meeting partners, making friends etc sometimes happen cos of circumstance and where you were at a certain time or a specific event..

and most of them are not 'planned or scripted', the film closing doors? with Gwyneth Paltrow springs to mind..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have taken notice of my (usually hyperchondriac) brother when he told me he thought someone I loved dearly wasn't well. Who knows what would have happened if I did?

Sometimes it's best not to look back; it's painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have one huge regret but I have to live with that.. I think about that regret everyday but I can't think about it or it will eat me alive so best let it go and move on.. "

I know that feeling

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have one huge regret but I have to live with that.. I think about that regret everyday but I can't think about it or it will eat me alive so best let it go and move on.. "
Yes, some things should be left alone - if they cause pain and unnecessary suffering that serves no purpose as you cannot change the past. I can empathise with you very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id not get married! "

Same here, worst decision of my life by a country mile, especially as I don't even believe in marriage and only agreed to it after lots if pressure and for a 'quiet life', oh the irony! ;( What an idiot I am

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'd have taken notice of my (usually hyperchondriac) brother when he told me he thought someone I loved dearly wasn't well. Who knows what would have happened if I did?

Sometimes it's best not to look back; it's painful. "

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"id not get married!

Same here, worst decision of my life by a country mile, especially as I don't even believe in marriage and only agreed to it after lots if pressure and for a 'quiet life', oh the irony! ;( What an idiot I am "
ooops - shame that happened. I bet you are stronger today and find it easier to say "no"?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Not lent my mate £10 in 1981

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not kept going after bad boys :-/

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Not kept going after bad boys :-/"
Unfortunately they are often more exciting than the good ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id not get married!

Same here, worst decision of my life by a country mile, especially as I don't even believe in marriage and only agreed to it after lots if pressure and for a 'quiet life', oh the irony! ;( What an idiot I am ooops - shame that happened. I bet you are stronger today and find it easier to say "no"? "

Not when I'm offered sex I don't

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"id not get married!

Same here, worst decision of my life by a country mile, especially as I don't even believe in marriage and only agreed to it after lots if pressure and for a 'quiet life', oh the irony! ;( What an idiot I am ooops - shame that happened. I bet you are stronger today and find it easier to say "no"?

Not when I'm offered sex I don't "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id not get married!

Same here, worst decision of my life by a country mile, especially as I don't even believe in marriage and only agreed to it after lots if pressure and for a 'quiet life', oh the irony! ;( What an idiot I am ooops - shame that happened. I bet you are stronger today and find it easier to say "no"?

Not when I'm offered sex I don't "

Hah!

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