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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely 100

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

110

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By *andj17Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

99.9 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale. "

75

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

100

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By *andj17Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale. "

What are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

85

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Right now probably about 70ish? It sort of slides up and down the scale though a lot.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

I’m about a 75. Mr is a level 50.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale. "

100...

Cal

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It varies but I suppose around 70.

I am definitely bi but don't think that I would be happy in a standard relationship with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10-20.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale.

What are you? "

Yes, I’m on the spectrum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im curious.. depends on how horny i am and circumstance.

If in bed with a guy and we were watching porn and it was 2 girls id find it hot.

If i was in a club, being fucked by a guy and a woman went to kiss me id probs go for it..

If i was 'in the zone' kinda horny and her pussy appeared in my face pretty sure id tuck in..

So very curious.. So id go 70% straight

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

Depends on my mood...

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

80 ish

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Fiddy

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Dressed I’d say 40 - as a Man I’m not that attracted to other guys unless they’re really feminine. So in male form 80

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right now probably about 70ish? It sort of slides up and down the scale though a lot."

What’s the lowest it’s been ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Right now probably about 70ish? It sort of slides up and down the scale though a lot.

What’s the lowest it’s been ? "
101

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

About 90

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight. "

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

75%?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's a sliding scale but somewhere in the 80-90 range mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It changes with the wind for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orientation about 70

Experience 99.5

Actual sexuality right now - Wanker

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

85-90

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Another 100% here

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

100 %

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

100

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight

It doesn't need a number

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

51%

Maybe 52%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

80/20 in favour of women x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 95. There are certain guys you can't help but go "what a handsome bastard"

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale. "

Interesting thread OP, perfect on Fab from a cohort sampling survey perspective!

Interesting people averaging around 70 to 80 straight. I would be too... 70-80 for men, 20-30 for women.

Kinsey would be proud of your curiosity young man!

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

95 ish.

Katie.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

100% of a hundred

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm straight

It doesn't need a number "

100 then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say 95. There are certain guys you can't help but go "what a handsome bastard" "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

70

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If 0 is gay and 100 is straight and 50 is exactly bi, whereabouts are you on the scale.

Interesting thread OP, perfect on Fab from a cohort sampling survey perspective!

Interesting people averaging around 70 to 80 straight. I would be too... 70-80 for men, 20-30 for women.

Kinsey would be proud of your curiosity young man!"

I dunno who Kinsey is, but he’s got excellent taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment about 90? Depends on the situation though I think ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

About a 100 given i don't meat a very convincing shemale somewhere down the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

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By *enhamhoopMan
over a year ago

Denham

69 obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say 95. There are certain guys you can't help but go "what a handsome bastard"

Thank you "

No worries, gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say 95. There are certain guys you can't help but go "what a handsome bastard"

Thank you

No worries, gorgeous "

Don’t make me slide down the scale!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have the experience to not think I'm 100.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

100

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have the experience to not think I'm 100."

Neither have bi curious people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 without any shadow of a doubt.

Strickly dickly!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Depends.

Usually on what prison i'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

95 ish for me

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By *ickinNottsMan
over a year ago

Hucknall

I am probably right in the middle. But it isn't that simple.

There have been times in my life when I was close to 0. Others I was 100.

It is like asking are you top or bottom, the truth is that I have, and will, enjoy both.

And then you have to differentiate between love and sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am probably right in the middle. But it isn't that simple.

There have been times in my life when I was close to 0. Others I was 100.

It is like asking are you top or bottom, the truth is that I have, and will, enjoy both.

And then you have to differentiate between love and sex."

So 50 then

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Right now probably about 70ish? It sort of slides up and down the scale though a lot.

What’s the lowest it’s been ? "

0% before it crept up during my ermmm adventurous years. I thought men were incredibly unattractive and couldn't fathom why women would get so ridiculous over a pair of thighs and a dangly thing between it. Maybe 0% is a bit low. 5%? I was gay as gay could be though.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Mr 100

Miss 70

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I dunno who Kinsey is, but he’s got excellent taste."

Alfred Charles Kinsey (June 23, 1894 – August 25, 1956) was an American biologist, professor of entomology and zoology, and sexologist who, in 1947, founded the Institute for Sex Research at Indiana University, previously known as the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction. He is best known for writing Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (1948) and Sexual Behavior in the Human Female (1953), also known as the Kinsey Reports, as well as the Kinsey scale. Kinsey's research on human sexuality, foundational to the field of sexology, provoked controversy in the 1940s and 1950s. His work has influenced social and cultural values in the United States as well as internationally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have the experience to not think I'm 100.

Neither have bi curious people."

Touche my good fellow. I can't say I'm at all curious.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I'm around 80

K is 100.

The 80 may drop post-covid, and I'm reminded of what I've been missing

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe around 75

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45.5

Yes I'm bi but usually only in a mmf situation but recently looking at guys and tv/ts a bit more,

I like cock but LOVE pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 85 for me

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By *inky_katrinaTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *inky_katrinaTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

0.5, there's leeway for a woman with a big strap on xx

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By *tallion6969Man
over a year ago

somerset

100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It varies but I suppose around 70.

I am definitely bi but don't think that I would be happy in a standard relationship with a woman. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

50.

I am 100% bi.

Crave sex with ladies and gents.

Mrs

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown


"Depends.

Usually on what prison i'm in. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

75-85

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am exactly wherever it is that i fancy at any given time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am exactly wherever it is that i fancy at any given time. "

There’s always one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 85 I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am exactly wherever it is that i fancy at any given time.

There’s always one."

I can relate to this

I have no interest in dating women and don’t fancy women but have had sexual interaction with couples in a club because I fancied it at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where on the scale would you put me OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Where on the scale would you put me OP? "

I wouldn’t have a clue, do I can’t answer, this thread is about where you would put yourself on the scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where on the scale would you put me OP?

I wouldn’t have a clue, do I can’t answer, this thread is about where you would put yourself on the scale. "

I'm edging somewhere in the 20-25 region I'd say, although faced with a good showtune, I'm a definite 5

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Where on the scale would you put me OP?

I wouldn’t have a clue, do I can’t answer, this thread is about where you would put yourself on the scale. "

We can all make a stab at where we are, it is down to personal desires & sometimes experience

B - 60% (experience)

M - 90% (interest, mainly sharing B!)

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By *ayTTV/TS
over a year ago

Porthmadog

50% best of both worlds xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Where on the scale would you put me OP?

I wouldn’t have a clue, do I can’t answer, this thread is about where you would put yourself on the scale.

I'm edging somewhere in the 20-25 region I'd say, although faced with a good showtune, I'm a definite 5 "

Ah crap, I was going to say 20-30, but I thought you were trying to catch me out, saying my scale was bullshit or something!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100.

I appreciate the aesthetics of a beautiful female form, but it doesn't turn me on

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Entirely depends

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

Sex about 55

Romantic about 95

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I’m probably about a 60 as it’s been awhile since I’ve been with a women I hope it’s like riding a bike and I haven’t forgotten what to do .

My husband is more like a 85 as he’s curious and hasn’t had the chance but is something we are looking forward to trying ..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

90%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

75

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

mood dependant I guess.

Anywhere from 65-90% for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I flit between 40-60 these days...

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight."

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I'd like to be a 50 but in reality it's about 15.

I love looking at ladies admiring how pretty they look and the clothes they wear. Just don't have sex with them very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 90. Never say never kind of guy

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By *redzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

About 25 maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!"

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Currently around 95 - when I'm active maybe closer to 75

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Between 70-80..in play scenarios only

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I think it needs complex numbers in my case... Possibly even quarternions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50.

I am bi.

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

50 although only in the right situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approaching 50 fast (from 100 lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex. "

Asexuality has a spectrum too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 but can easily drop to 40 with the right woman

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By *dhollieTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

I’m not sure where I fit on the spectrum I guess I’d say I’m bisexual I enjoy lots of things about dressing not just a sexual thing either sometimes it’s nice to just out on nice clothes and make an effort and lady’s underwear is much much prettier than men’s but at the same time I enjoy being a guy and wouldn’t want to transition to being a women I like the best of both worlds so I guess I’m greedy

If I had to say a number then probably smack in the middle .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

89% wanna save for myself 11% of time I mastrubate

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex. "

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

100 ish

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

99 (Ian Somerhalder is just so beautiful!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on that scale I would 25% but that’s only because there’s no room there for demisexuality.

(To save you a google trip, that’s sexual attraction based on emotional connection I.e. I can find anyone sexually attractive if I have built that connection with them)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 85?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case. "

Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrm I'm probably around 70.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Always entertaining

Continuum is probably a better word as spectrum has pretty firm boundaries and you would be hard pushed to see one part start or stop.

The spectrum of the mind?

(100 score and yet watch and wank as men/women cum in porn? Enjoy watching but not doing is 100 ?)

Based on What they have done? (opportunity is not best illustration of previous or future intent)

or What they would do if circumstances were right?

(fear of Fab judgement removed, right people, right environment, understanding that sex does not determine who you are)

and what people are like when NOT under influence of a raging horn...

And to those who go ahhha so Where do YOU sit? We would say Somewhere on the continuum, depending on the above

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over a year ago

I'm around 70%

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

75

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sliding scale dependent on my mood on the day, but if I have to put a number on it 55/45

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Hard to put a number I am situationally bi I dont especially find men attractive but i like to be naked with other people who ever they are in a group or solo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always entertaining

Continuum is probably a better word as spectrum has pretty firm boundaries and you would be hard pushed to see one part start or stop.

The spectrum of the mind?

(100 score and yet watch and wank as men/women cum in porn? Enjoy watching but not doing is 100 ?)

Based on What they have done? (opportunity is not best illustration of previous or future intent)

or What they would do if circumstances were right?

(fear of Fab judgement removed, right people, right environment, understanding that sex does not determine who you are)

and what people are like when NOT under influence of a raging horn...

And to those who go ahhha so Where do YOU sit? We would say Somewhere on the continuum, depending on the above "

Spectrum is perfectly fine, you can slide up and down the spectrum, you can be 0 one minute and 100 the next, if I asked where on the continuum are you, that would be overly complicated for a thread. The only boundaries on the spectrum are both the extremes of sexuality. Remember you’re on a site with 3 sexuality options to click.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"Always entertaining

Continuum is probably a better word as spectrum has pretty firm boundaries and you would be hard pushed to see one part start or stop.

The spectrum of the mind?

(100 score and yet watch and wank as men/women cum in porn? Enjoy watching but not doing is 100 ?)

Based on What they have done? (opportunity is not best illustration of previous or future intent)

or What they would do if circumstances were right?

(fear of Fab judgement removed, right people, right environment, understanding that sex does not determine who you are)

and what people are like when NOT under influence of a raging horn...

And to those who go ahhha so Where do YOU sit? We would say Somewhere on the continuum, depending on the above

Spectrum is perfectly fine, you can slide up and down the spectrum, you can be 0 one minute and 100 the next, if I asked where on the continuum are you, that would be overly complicated for a thread. The only boundaries on the spectrum are both the extremes of sexuality. Remember you’re on a site with 3 sexuality options to click."

Very true only 3 which we know doesnt even cover the biological options let alone personal statements! Accept that in a thread 'spectrum' by its limitations may be more useful to define, but a continuum is actually more appropriate by its recognition of indeterminate boundaries, and the possibility that you can go in one direction and end up back where you started! (waves goodbye as climbs back in pedant box and closes lid)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D at about 90, K around the 50 mark

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm about a 98.

Hannah I would estimate at somewhere around 70-80.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 75 probably.

I am bi, but for every 100 men I’d sleep with there is only really 1 woman. I’m picky! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case. "

That's only one aspect of asexuality.

There are few people on here who say they are demisexual. From reading the forums, there's probably many more who don't realise there's a term for it.

"Most people can feel sexually attracted to random people whom they meet in public or at work or school. In some cases, this is based purely on physical attraction and comes from simply seeing the person.

In contrast, a demisexual will only feel sexual attraction toward a person once they have had the chance to develop a strong emotional bond with them. If they feel a sexual attraction toward a person, they may choose to engage in sexual activity with them, but the urge is often weaker. In some cases, it may never develop, despite the emotional connection.

In other words, an emotional bond does not guarantee that the person will have any sexual desire, but it is necessary for them even to consider sexual activity.

The emotional bond that a demisexual person feels does not necessarily need to be romantically inclined. The bond could be due to a close and otherwise platonic relationship with another person."

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.

"

Asexuality is way, way more complicated than that and can mean different things to different people. In fact, there's a whole spectrum within Asexuality and not just one way: A sliding scale if you like.

Its not correct to say that people who identify on that scale just have no or little interest in sex because that's not factually correct. Some do, some don't. It's can be complicated, just like with any other sexuality.

I identify on that scale, and I'm here and I'm doing OK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

That's only one aspect of asexuality.

There are few people on here who say they are demisexual. From reading the forums, there's probably many more who don't realise there's a term for it.

"Most people can feel sexually attracted to random people whom they meet in public or at work or school. In some cases, this is based purely on physical attraction and comes from simply seeing the person.

In contrast, a demisexual will only feel sexual attraction toward a person once they have had the chance to develop a strong emotional bond with them. If they feel a sexual attraction toward a person, they may choose to engage in sexual activity with them, but the urge is often weaker. In some cases, it may never develop, despite the emotional connection.

In other words, an emotional bond does not guarantee that the person will have any sexual desire, but it is necessary for them even to consider sexual activity.

The emotional bond that a demisexual person feels does not necessarily need to be romantically inclined. The bond could be due to a close and otherwise platonic relationship with another person.""

*takes of glasses, pinches bridge of nose, puts glasses back on*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.

Asexuality is way, way more complicated than that and can mean different things to different people. In fact, there's a whole spectrum within Asexuality and not just one way: A sliding scale if you like.

Its not correct to say that people who identify on that scale just have no or little interest in sex because that's not factually correct. Some do, some don't. It's can be complicated, just like with any other sexuality.

I identify on that scale, and I'm here and I'm doing OK. "

So if they have interest in sex, they then overlap onto the spectrum I started then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

That's only one aspect of asexuality.

There are few people on here who say they are demisexual. From reading the forums, there's probably many more who don't realise there's a term for it.

"Most people can feel sexually attracted to random people whom they meet in public or at work or school. In some cases, this is based purely on physical attraction and comes from simply seeing the person.

In contrast, a demisexual will only feel sexual attraction toward a person once they have had the chance to develop a strong emotional bond with them. If they feel a sexual attraction toward a person, they may choose to engage in sexual activity with them, but the urge is often weaker. In some cases, it may never develop, despite the emotional connection.

In other words, an emotional bond does not guarantee that the person will have any sexual desire, but it is necessary for them even to consider sexual activity.

The emotional bond that a demisexual person feels does not necessarily need to be romantically inclined. The bond could be due to a close and otherwise platonic relationship with another person."

*takes of glasses, pinches bridge of nose, puts glasses back on* "

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility


" That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

~~

Asexuality is way, way more complicated than that and can mean different things to different people. In fact, there's a whole spectrum within Asexuality and not just one way: A sliding scale if you like.

Its not correct to say that people who identify on that scale just have no or little interest in sex because that's not factually correct. Some do, some don't. It's can be complicated, just like with any other sexuality.

I identify on that scale, and I'm here and I'm doing OK.

~~

So if they have interest in sex, they then overlap onto the spectrum I started then. "

~~

Some will, some won't, but I do.

Id put myself between 0 and 100 but it changes. It really is a sliding scale.

Oh, to fit into a box, that would be so much easier.

Interesting thread

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Update: I may have dropped to 98% - I just saw a YouTube clip of Hugh Jackman

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over a year ago


"Update: I may have dropped to 98% - I just saw a YouTube clip of Hugh Jackman "

He’s way to manly for me, I like my men to look like women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update: I may have dropped to 98% - I just saw a YouTube clip of Hugh Jackman "

Yup, Hugh is going to have that effect on you. Watching him dance in greatest showman is better than porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update: I may have dropped to 98% - I just saw a YouTube clip of Hugh Jackman

Yup, Hugh is going to have that effect on you. Watching him dance in greatest showman is better than porn "

Ew I hate The Greatest Showman it's worse than all of these sexual elitist folk

Hugh needs to stay as Wolverine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only ghey on Fridays.

Does the spectrum allow for one day a week gheys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

65

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 straight but 100 experimental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m only ghey on Fridays.

Does the spectrum allow for one day a week gheys?"

Yeah, by my reckoning that’s 14.28% gay

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By *yphodMan
over a year ago

London

Probably only a 10. I can appreciate a good looking man and if with a couple I have to like the look of the man as well as woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

70 straight but can be persuaded to venture that 30 for the right woman and situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m only ghey on Fridays.

Does the spectrum allow for one day a week gheys?"

Simple slide it down to 0 when you fancy some cock action, then back up to 100 when you get home to the missus.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Update: I’ve just dropped to 97%.

Yep.....Joe Manganiello this time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say about 90. I like to look at boobs. But that's it for me and girls lol

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Probably 90 since I’ve been on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m only ghey on Fridays.

Does the spectrum allow for one day a week gheys?

Simple slide it down to 0 when you fancy some cock action, then back up to 100 when you get home to the missus."

stop labelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m only ghey on Fridays.

Does the spectrum allow for one day a week gheys?

Simple slide it down to 0 when you fancy some cock action, then back up to 100 when you get home to the missus.

stop labelling "

I’ll know to start a continuum next time

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.

"

That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.

That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals. "

Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.

That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.

Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex."

No its lack of sexual attraction to other people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.

That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.

Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex.

No its lack of sexual attraction to other people. "

Which results in them not being interested in sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

~~

Asexuality is way, way more complicated than that and can mean different things to different people. In fact, there's a whole spectrum within Asexuality and not just one way: A sliding scale if you like.

Its not correct to say that people who identify on that scale just have no or little interest in sex because that's not factually correct. Some do, some don't. It's can be complicated, just like with any other sexuality.

I identify on that scale, and I'm here and I'm doing OK.

~~

So if they have interest in sex, they then overlap onto the spectrum I started then.

~~

Some will, some won't, but I do.

Id put myself between 0 and 100 but it changes. It really is a sliding scale.

Oh, to fit into a box, that would be so much easier.

Interesting thread

"

Are you demisexual? Or prefer not to say?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

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over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 27/11/20 20:21:56]"

Has it gone up or down since you deleted ?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

It's less a linear scale for me. More like a... *Thinks*

A sphere maybe? Although that's not the right shape either.

It's not just about who you have sex with, it's about who you are attracted to, because attraction can be emotional, physical or intellectual.

My husband is asexual. He's tactile and desires sexual gratification. He just doesn't like/get/understand sex. We have it very rarely when he initiates it, but it's not generally his thing. But he'll happily have a wank.

Me, couldn't give two hoots about wanking, sure it's needed sometimes but for me its like... A single McNugget shitty, bad and not gonna satisfy but puts you in.

Who do I interact with physically, it's very fluid, it can be anyone that turns my head. For a multitude of reasons.

Although girls nice to look at than boys.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"[Removed by poster at 27/11/20 20:21:56]

Has it gone up or down since you deleted ?"

I realised my answer was too glib and actually wanted to answer it properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

85

Will suck a cock but not attracted to guys

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.

That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.

Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex.

No its lack of sexual attraction to other people.

Which results in them not being interested in sex."

Not necessarily true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.

That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.

Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex.

No its lack of sexual attraction to other people.

Which results in them not being interested in sex.

Not necessarily true. "

Not being interested in sex, doesn’t mean they don’t have sex, but they have sex for other reasons other than being sexually attracted to someone.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What about other sexualities?

I would say I am Pansexual play/sex wise.

Relationship wise I am straight.

Surely it’s covered on the spectrum, one end is gay the other straight.

No not at all. Gay, bi and straight are not the only sexualities!

That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

Asexuality is about a lack of sexual attraction to others, not necessarily a lack of desire for sex though that can be the case.

Asexuals desire emotionally intimate relationships, but have no interest or little interest in sex, so again, I’m guessing this isn’t the site for them.

That is one type of asexuality but isn't true for all asexuals.

Surely that’s the fundamental of being asexual, not being interested in sex.

No its lack of sexual attraction to other people.

Which results in them not being interested in sex.

Not necessarily true.

Not being interested in sex, doesn’t mean they don’t have sex, but they have sex for other reasons other than being sexually attracted to someone."

Like being horny.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

60-70

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Caroline - 50

Dave - 95

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility


" That’s why it’s a spectrum, gay at one end, straight at the other and everything else in between. The only sexuality not covered is Asexual, but I’m guessing there’s not many asexuals on a site for people looking for sex.

~~

Asexuality is way, way more complicated than that and can mean different things to different people. In fact, there's a whole spectrum within Asexuality and not just one way: A sliding scale if you like.

Its not correct to say that people who identify on that scale just have no or little interest in sex because that's not factually correct. Some do, some don't. It's can be complicated, just like with any other sexuality.

I identify on that scale, and I'm here and I'm doing OK.

~~

So if they have interest in sex, they then overlap onto the spectrum I started then.

~~

Some will, some won't, but I do.

Id put myself between 0 and 100 but it changes. It really is a sliding scale.

Oh, to fit into a box, that would be so much easier.

Interesting thread

Are you demisexual? Or prefer not to say? "

I'm demisexual, but I used to identify as aromantic - Grey A. Gotta love that sliding scale.

At a very basic level, it just takes the right person and their mind to turn me on. I always look for a connection.

And I love sex.

But I'm very definitely on the asexual spectrum.

And that's ok.

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About 65.. Sometimes a 10 sometimes 100

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over a year ago

Good Sexuality spectrum everyone

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