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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dick pics always welcome

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We wouldn't presume to send unsolicited nudes to anyone. I don't think there are double standards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say."

Are you talking about on here or in the real world?

I’m pretty sure an unsolicited nude pic sent by a woman in the real world would be classified as harassment too

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"We wouldn't presume to send unsolicited nudes to anyone. I don't think there are double standards?"
I was so wishing to get un solicited pics from a woman you burst my bubble

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would not class it as harrassment if i were sent a cock pic. I would just know they had not bothered to read my profile.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Is it any worse than abusing your celebrity status on here Spidey?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say.

Are you talking about on here or in the real world?

I’m pretty sure an unsolicited nude pic sent by a woman in the real world would be classified as harassment too "

This.

And not everyone is nowhere by an unsolicited dick pic on here either. Just depends if it's pretty or looks like something the cat killed in the middle of the night and brought home to give you as a present first thing in the morning when hungover.

A

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say.

Are you talking about on here or in the real world?

I’m pretty sure an unsolicited nude pic sent by a woman in the real world would be classified as harassment too

This.

And not everyone is nowhere by an unsolicited dick pic on here either. Just depends if it's pretty or looks like something the cat killed in the middle of the night and brought home to give you as a present first thing in the morning when hungover.

A"

*offended. Not 'nowhere'.

A

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say."

Posting nudes on a profile is not the same as sending them in a message!

And show me a woman that sends them without being asked first

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish


"If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say."

Women posting nudes is a double standard? No one here counts cocks posted as harrassment whatsoever. The

difference is that many women state they don't want an overload of them waving in their face with every message. It's a preference that many have (not all, of course).

Are you harrassed by women frequently sending unsolicited nudes?

Maybe your next new post could be to ask women to please stop!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say."

Men, don't complain about unsolicited fanny/boobs pics, they take it as a cum on.

You are right, one rule for one, one rule for the other.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Is it any worse than abusing your celebrity status on here Spidey? "

Ohh just seen that too.. someone has just shot his self in the foot

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is it any worse than abusing your celebrity status on here Spidey?

Ohh just seen that too.. someone has just shot his self in the foot "

Looks more like that bloke from Seabiscuit than Spiderman.....

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it any worse than abusing your celebrity status on here Spidey? "

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My Spidey senses are finely tuned

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Is it any worse than abusing your celebrity status on here Spidey?

Ohh just seen that too.. someone has just shot his self in the foot "

I noticed too, as much as I like Toby Maguire especially Spiderman 2, I'm a Tom Holland fan.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say."

You appear to be a little confused, on many levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, did someone block you for sending a dick pic?

It’s not ‘classified’ as harassment, I just know what one looks like and don’t particularly wish to see some randoms penis attached to a message.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say.

You appear to be a little confused, on many levels.

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So were admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say."

I wouldn’t say harassment, I’m just not interested in random dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's almost as if single guys in this site are treated more harshly than other people...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's almost as if single guys in this site are treated more harshly than other people..."

Especially the straight ones verified by a man and using pics that aren't theirs

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"It's almost as if single guys in this site are treated more harshly than other people..."

But he is spiderman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's almost as if single guys in this site are treated more harshly than other people...

Especially the straight ones verified by a man and using pics that aren't theirs"

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's almost as if single guys in this site are treated more harshly than other people...

But he is spiderman "

There can't be two of us

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Cock pics?

Dammit Parker - get me photos of spiderman!!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pics?

Dammit Parker - get me photos of spiderman!!

A"

That's brilliant, best reply I've seen today so far

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"It's almost as if single guys in this site are treated more harshly than other people...

But he is spiderman

There can't be two of us "

This is true but as he has disappeared maybe he actually is spiderman ??

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's almost as if single guys in this site are treated more harshly than other people...

But he is spiderman

There can't be two of us

This is true but as he has disappeared maybe he actually is spiderman ??"

Based on his op he's more likely Venom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone send an unsolicited dick pic it's classified as harassment but Nobody raises an Eyebrow if women post nudes or send

Sexist, I say."

Sadly some of the same men sending dick picks are the same type of men that would flash lone females at bus stops back in the day. Just because you're a female on a swinging site dosen't mean your fair game. In the last week I've been threatened with r ape and murder by creeps on here, luckily I don't take it to heart and report and block. Some women might appreciate a dick pick but why not ask first?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It's almost as if single guys in this site are treated more harshly than other people...

But he is spiderman

There can't be two of us

This is true but as he has disappeared maybe he actually is spiderman ??"

Thanos been clicking his fingers again?

A

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sending things on here isn't harassment unless it's repeated. It might be unwelcome: this goes for cock shots and any other picture (this is why we read profiles).

I assume that sending nudes is unwelcome, so tend not to under most circumstances.

Posting nudes isn't inappropriate on a site where you expect to see images of a sexual nature. It isn't directed at anyone.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

That should say repeated and clearly unwelcome. I know I send nudes to some people repeatedly, but they seem to like it.

It's just a matter of preference. It would seem that many men (#notallmen) like to receive more graphic images, and many women (do we have to say not all women? is that a thing?) prefer not to receive them.

Different people like different things. That may correlate with demographic. No discrimination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the ratio of single guys on the site, imagine if your inbox was bursting all the time because you were getting pics you didn't ask for.... if in doubt, ask first, it's that simple.

We get dick pics constantly, and it helps us block that type of person, I'm sure we're not alone in this.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don’t suppose OP will be around long enough to see this, but just in case.

On here, I don’t bother getting upset about unsolicited dick pics, I just delete them. I feel like it’s a bit different on a site of this nature. However, in the wider world it’s an offence (I think it is, anyway) - and by that I mean in legal terms, not that people are offended by it. Though we’re entitled to be offended by it if it’s someone on Facebook or wherever and we’re just going about our business.

I don’t think women send unsolicited nudes anywhere near as much as men do and honestly on here if I do get an unsolicited nude from a supposed woman, I tend to assume it’s a man using someone else’s photos.

Posting nudes on our profiles, whatever gender we are, is a different thing than sending them to people without asking. You have the choice to not look at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t suppose OP will be around long enough to see this, but just in case.

On here, I don’t bother getting upset about unsolicited dick pics, I just delete them. I feel like it’s a bit different on a site of this nature. However, in the wider world it’s an offence (I think it is, anyway) - and by that I mean in legal terms, not that people are offended by it. Though we’re entitled to be offended by it if it’s someone on Facebook or wherever and we’re just going about our business.

I don’t think women send unsolicited nudes anywhere near as much as men do and honestly on here if I do get an unsolicited nude from a supposed woman, I tend to assume it’s a man using someone else’s photos.

Posting nudes on our profiles, whatever gender we are, is a different thing than sending them to people without asking. You have the choice to not look at them."

Very well put x

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