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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I said an another thread that people arent here to service each other. But is that infact what we are all doing (not talking money changing hands) just servicing each others needs with various niceties added along the way to call it swinging.

Ive probably just said something that is plainly obvious to all?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

That's probably true but some people have different expectations.

Some are only here to have their own needs attended to with little or no interest in who is attending.

Some are only here to attend to the needs of others and that's how they feel they are fulfilling their own needs.

Others are here to enjoy shared experiences to the full.

They may have come in for the main course but stayed for dessert and those things that weren't on their menu in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's probably true but some people have different expectations.

Some are only here to have their own needs attended to with little or no interest in who is attending.

Some are only here to attend to the needs of others and that's how they feel they are fulfilling their own needs.

Others are here to enjoy shared experiences to the full.

They may have come in for the main course but stayed for dessert and those things that weren't on their menu in the first place. "

That is a nice way to look at it, I do like a dessert.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I agree.

Mutual servicing with hothusbands is fun, I don't want anything more than fun sex with friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree.

Mutual servicing with hothusbands is fun, I don't want anything more than fun sex with friends "

Mutual servicing sounds hot, I could do with some of that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Our preferences are just varying degrees of mating rituals. Some are happy with a quick bum sniff before a leg over, others want a whole bower building or a pretty dance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our preferences are just varying degrees of mating rituals. Some are happy with a quick bum sniff before a leg over, others want a whole bower building or a pretty dance. "

I like this ^^

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"That's probably true but some people have different expectations.

Some are only here to have their own needs attended to with little or no interest in who is attending.

Some are only here to attend to the needs of others and that's how they feel they are fulfilling their own needs.

Others are here to enjoy shared experiences to the full.

They may have come in for the main course but stayed for dessert and those things that weren't on their menu in the first place. "

Sweet Dreams are made of this. Who am I to dissagree...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Servicing needs, our own, or others, just sounds a little too bleak, too clinical, too cold and soulless to me....

Maslows hierarchy doesn't even go as far a suggesting such a bleak transactional premise.

Guess it depends on how needs are defined, but such a cold transactional self seeking focus on servicing needs, perhaps it lacks a level of humanity...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Servicing needs, our own, or others, just sounds a little too bleak, too clinical, too cold and soulless to me....

Maslows hierarchy doesn't even go as far a suggesting such a bleak transactional premise.

Guess it depends on how needs are defined, but such a cold transactional self seeking focus on servicing needs, perhaps it lacks a level of humanity...

"

I was watching paint dry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all only here because we want to be , looking for what we want. No one ever joined this site out of a sense of benevolence.

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