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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It has been suggested I stay off fab until COVID is over because on my status I indicated that I’m not meeting until I have had my jab. Has the world gone mad??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some parts of the world, yes.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes, the world has gone mad.

Don't let that stop you doing you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of requests I get asking to meet is insane.

Back in March we had a fighting spirit, helped neighbours, set up online help groups.

Now there's more and more people who don't give a fuck.

Covid fatigue is in full effect now.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Was it your mum again ?

Or someone you've never met ?

Reign in your reaction ....... and breaaaaaaaaaaaaathe.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The amount of requests I get asking to meet is insane.

Back in March we had a fighting spirit, helped neighbours, set up online help groups.

Now there's more and more people who don't give a fuck.

Covid fatigue is in full effect now. "

Agreed

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

If it’s just randomers suggesting you stay off fab, I would suggest that you politely suggest that they fuck off and mind their own business. Just a suggestion.

If the suggestion was made by a health professional, trusted friend or loved one then maybe consider their opinion and then either take their advice or politely tell the to fuck off and mind their own business.

Follow your own path

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has a duty to follow guidelines.

It's your call if you want to ignore it.

If you want to meet then meet.

If you dont then dont.

Covid isnt going anywhere in 2021 so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

If you cant wait then go meet.

Theres plenty of people on here who will despite what uncle fab orders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

"

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love "

Yup. I'm not suddenly going to get so horny that risking people's health is acceptable ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Yup. I'm not suddenly going to get so horny that risking people's health is acceptable ffs"

Thank god for dildos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab has a duty to follow guidelines.

It's your call if you want to ignore it.

If you want to meet then meet.

If you dont then dont.

Covid isnt going anywhere in 2021 so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

If you cant wait then go meet.

Theres plenty of people on here who will despite what uncle fab orders.

"

Who hurt you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Yup. I'm not suddenly going to get so horny that risking people's health is acceptable ffs"

You're not Jesus.

Do you think you not meeting will save anyones life?

You stay in whilst 1000s are meeting.let me know when you want to join in in what?

2022?

Wasting your own life wont save others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab has a duty to follow guidelines.

It's your call if you want to ignore it.

If you want to meet then meet.

If you dont then dont.

Covid isnt going anywhere in 2021 so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

If you cant wait then go meet.

Theres plenty of people on here who will despite what uncle fab orders.

Who hurt you? "

Noone on here.if I felt an emotion for anyone on here then I'd call it a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Yup. I'm not suddenly going to get so horny that risking people's health is acceptable ffs

You're not Jesus.

Do you think you not meeting will save anyones life?

You stay in whilst 1000s are meeting.let me know when you want to join in in what?

2022?

Wasting your own life wont save others."

It will help save my Mum's life who has chronic obstructive pulmonary disease and my Dad's life who had a stroke this year and one of his heart valves only operates at 20% effectiveness, my life as I'm type1 diabetic with a damaged immune system

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Yup. I'm not suddenly going to get so horny that risking people's health is acceptable ffs

You're not Jesus.

Do you think you not meeting will save anyones life?

You stay in whilst 1000s are meeting.let me know when you want to join in in what?

2022?

Wasting your own life wont save others."

If I go out unnecessarily I potentially become a disease vector.

2025 if I must.

I can't control other people, just myself. I can do my bit.

I don't consider "not having sex" wasting my life. I got shit to do otherwise

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Yup. I'm not suddenly going to get so horny that risking people's health is acceptable ffs

You're not Jesus.

Do you think you not meeting will save anyones life?

You stay in whilst 1000s are meeting.let me know when you want to join in in what?

2022?

Wasting your own life wont save others.

It will help save my Mum's life who has chronic obstructive pulmonary disease and my Dad's life who had a stroke this year and one of his heart valves only operates at 20% effectiveness, my life as I'm type1 diabetic with a damaged immune system "

I have vulnerable relatives too, and yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

? I do care. I won't meet until I'm jabbed."

Sorry, I thought the reply was from the other guy, in in the park with dog and the sun is shining on my phone lol

My mistake

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

As others have said, I can wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, I can wank "

I'm a proper wanker

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As others have said, I can wank

I'm a proper wanker "

Saame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab has a duty to follow guidelines.

It's your call if you want to ignore it.

If you want to meet then meet.

If you dont then dont.

Covid isnt going anywhere in 2021 so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

If you cant wait then go meet.

Theres plenty of people on here who will despite what uncle fab orders.

Who hurt you?

Noone on here.if I felt an emotion for anyone on here then I'd call it a day."

Do you feel emotion for anyone? Who hurt you?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We got a similar message overnight saying why did we have a profile if we're not meeting and we should delete our profile and leave Fab to the "real swingers". Blocked, deleted, ignored. Fin.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Doormat"

Why doormat? Not quite getting this comment. You saying you want to wipe your feet on people who are trying to not catch covid?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We got a similar message overnight saying why did we have a profile if we're not meeting and we should delete our profile and leave Fab to the "real swingers". Blocked, deleted, ignored. Fin."

I didn't know there was an exclusion criteria. You must be this unaware of exponential growth to enter.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"We got a similar message overnight saying why did we have a profile if we're not meeting and we should delete our profile and leave Fab to the "real swingers". Blocked, deleted, ignored. Fin.

I didn't know there was an exclusion criteria. You must be this unaware of exponential growth to enter."

Apparently there is and apparently we shouldn't mention anything we like sexually on the profile if we're not meeting

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"We got a similar message overnight saying why did we have a profile if we're not meeting and we should delete our profile and leave Fab to the "real swingers". Blocked, deleted, ignored. Fin.

I didn't know there was an exclusion criteria. You must be this unaware of exponential growth to enter.

Apparently there is and apparently we shouldn't mention anything we like sexually on the profile if we're not meeting "

What’s the timeframe for eligibility?... if you’re not meeting anyone for a couple of weeks because you’re visiting family, do you have to leave? (Post Covid obviously... anyone suggesting meeting during is an irresponsible arsehole)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We got a similar message overnight saying why did we have a profile if we're not meeting and we should delete our profile and leave Fab to the "real swingers". Blocked, deleted, ignored. Fin.

I didn't know there was an exclusion criteria. You must be this unaware of exponential growth to enter.

Apparently there is and apparently we shouldn't mention anything we like sexually on the profile if we're not meeting "

I shudder to think what my inbox would be like if my filters weren't on "fuck off, pandemic" mode

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Doormat

Why doormat? Not quite getting this comment. You saying you want to wipe your feet on people who are trying to not catch covid? "

I think it's "you believe The Man and submit to what he says".

Personally, not really. Once I figured out this would be a big deal I found science communication sources and stuck with them. I don't give a toss what The Man thinks, except for avoiding breaking the law

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"We got a similar message overnight saying why did we have a profile if we're not meeting and we should delete our profile and leave Fab to the "real swingers". Blocked, deleted, ignored. Fin."

Our block list has grown considerably larger during the last few months. Is there a limit on how many folks we can block as I can see it getting so big that half of Fab will be on it soon

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We got a similar message overnight saying why did we have a profile if we're not meeting and we should delete our profile and leave Fab to the "real swingers". Blocked, deleted, ignored. Fin.

Our block list has grown considerably larger during the last few months. Is there a limit on how many folks we can block as I can see it getting so big that half of Fab will be on it soon "

Fortunately there isn't.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Doormat

Why doormat? Not quite getting this comment. You saying you want to wipe your feet on people who are trying to not catch covid?

I think it's "you believe The Man and submit to what he says".

Personally, not really. Once I figured out this would be a big deal I found science communication sources and stuck with them. I don't give a toss what The Man thinks, except for avoiding breaking the law"

I think it's a shame there's this constant bitching and finger pointing from both sides really.

There's the covid police constantly moaning about people on here looking to meet (block and move on ffs, you'll always get people who think covid will never touch them, until it does).

And there's the ones at the other end taking the piss out of people who are being careful and trying to stick with guidelines - and are doing so for their own good reasons.

Wouldn't it be awesome if people would just mind their own business and do what's right for themselves, instead of this constant arguing about what everyone else is doing wrong x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Doormat

Why doormat? Not quite getting this comment. You saying you want to wipe your feet on people who are trying to not catch covid?

I think it's "you believe The Man and submit to what he says".

Personally, not really. Once I figured out this would be a big deal I found science communication sources and stuck with them. I don't give a toss what The Man thinks, except for avoiding breaking the law

I think it's a shame there's this constant bitching and finger pointing from both sides really.

There's the covid police constantly moaning about people on here looking to meet (block and move on ffs, you'll always get people who think covid will never touch them, until it does).

And there's the ones at the other end taking the piss out of people who are being careful and trying to stick with guidelines - and are doing so for their own good reasons.

Wouldn't it be awesome if people would just mind their own business and do what's right for themselves, instead of this constant arguing about what everyone else is doing wrong x"

Public health during an outbreak of infectious disease requires all of us to do the right thing, not just those with a social conscience.

I don't start the threads but I do participate, and I'm allowed to take a dim view of people's conduct.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"We got a similar message overnight saying why did we have a profile if we're not meeting and we should delete our profile and leave Fab to the "real swingers". Blocked, deleted, ignored. Fin.

I didn't know there was an exclusion criteria. You must be this unaware of exponential growth to enter.

Apparently there is and apparently we shouldn't mention anything we like sexually on the profile if we're not meeting

What’s the timeframe for eligibility?... if you’re not meeting anyone for a couple of weeks because you’re visiting family, do you have to leave? (Post Covid obviously... anyone suggesting meeting during is an irresponsible arsehole)"

Not sure, you should probably ask the numpty who messaged us

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We got a similar message overnight saying why did we have a profile if we're not meeting and we should delete our profile and leave Fab to the "real swingers". Blocked, deleted, ignored. Fin.

I didn't know there was an exclusion criteria. You must be this unaware of exponential growth to enter.

Apparently there is and apparently we shouldn't mention anything we like sexually on the profile if we're not meeting

What’s the timeframe for eligibility?... if you’re not meeting anyone for a couple of weeks because you’re visiting family, do you have to leave? (Post Covid obviously... anyone suggesting meeting during is an irresponsible arsehole)

Not sure, you should probably ask the numpty who messaged us "

I used to get messages saying that if I ignore all men on Fab I should leave. Even with filters up the wazoo I'm still sending plenty of messages to men (who I'm talking to already).

I think it means "you didn't magically know to message me, therefore dummy spit"

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Doormat

Why doormat? Not quite getting this comment. You saying you want to wipe your feet on people who are trying to not catch covid?

I think it's "you believe The Man and submit to what he says".

Personally, not really. Once I figured out this would be a big deal I found science communication sources and stuck with them. I don't give a toss what The Man thinks, except for avoiding breaking the law

I think it's a shame there's this constant bitching and finger pointing from both sides really.

There's the covid police constantly moaning about people on here looking to meet (block and move on ffs, you'll always get people who think covid will never touch them, until it does).

And there's the ones at the other end taking the piss out of people who are being careful and trying to stick with guidelines - and are doing so for their own good reasons.

Wouldn't it be awesome if people would just mind their own business and do what's right for themselves, instead of this constant arguing about what everyone else is doing wrong x

Public health during an outbreak of infectious disease requires all of us to do the right thing, not just those with a social conscience.

I don't start the threads but I do participate, and I'm allowed to take a dim view of people's conduct. "

Did I say you weren't? That's not what I meant, if that's how it came across I apologise. Was just questioning the doormat remark and seen an awful lot of those stupid digs flying back and forth x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


" so all these idiots on here waiting for a miracle vaccine and "saving lives" will still be sat on their arse on here this time next year.

I'd happily be an idiot and sit on my arse for as long as it takes if it helped protect those I care about and love

Doormat

Why doormat? Not quite getting this comment. You saying you want to wipe your feet on people who are trying to not catch covid?

I think it's "you believe The Man and submit to what he says".

Personally, not really. Once I figured out this would be a big deal I found science communication sources and stuck with them. I don't give a toss what The Man thinks, except for avoiding breaking the law

I think it's a shame there's this constant bitching and finger pointing from both sides really.

There's the covid police constantly moaning about people on here looking to meet (block and move on ffs, you'll always get people who think covid will never touch them, until it does).

And there's the ones at the other end taking the piss out of people who are being careful and trying to stick with guidelines - and are doing so for their own good reasons.

Wouldn't it be awesome if people would just mind their own business and do what's right for themselves, instead of this constant arguing about what everyone else is doing wrong x

Public health during an outbreak of infectious disease requires all of us to do the right thing, not just those with a social conscience.

I don't start the threads but I do participate, and I'm allowed to take a dim view of people's conduct.

Did I say you weren't? That's not what I meant, if that's how it came across I apologise. Was just questioning the doormat remark and seen an awful lot of those stupid digs flying back and forth x"

And it's the same as telling people they shouldn't be on fab, because they're not meeting during a pandemic. That's not up to anyone but the person who the profile belongs to (OP's profile in this case) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Wouldn't it be awesome if people would just mind their own business and do what's right for themselves, instead of this constant arguing about what everyone else is doing wrong x"

Unfortunately, "what's right for themselves" isn't often good for everyone else. We know how the virus spreads and people shagging around spreads it. It might be great for them to get a leg over but it might well kill others they come in contact with.

I prefer to take the "what's best for everyone" approach. I'd rather be a "jobsworth" and stick my nose in if it protects people.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


" Wouldn't it be awesome if people would just mind their own business and do what's right for themselves, instead of this constant arguing about what everyone else is doing wrong x

Unfortunately, "what's right for themselves" isn't often good for everyone else. We know how the virus spreads and people shagging around spreads it. It might be great for them to get a leg over but it might well kill others they come in contact with.

I prefer to take the "what's best for everyone" approach. I'd rather be a "jobsworth" and stick my nose in if it protects people."

So just block the ones who want to shag you and you'll never have to hear from them or see them again. By far the majority of people is sticking to the rules and quite frankly this 2nd spike wasn't caused by some fabbers shagging x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


" Wouldn't it be awesome if people would just mind their own business and do what's right for themselves, instead of this constant arguing about what everyone else is doing wrong x

Unfortunately, "what's right for themselves" isn't often good for everyone else. We know how the virus spreads and people shagging around spreads it. It might be great for them to get a leg over but it might well kill others they come in contact with.

I prefer to take the "what's best for everyone" approach. I'd rather be a "jobsworth" and stick my nose in if it protects people."

Yes, and "I'll probably be fine" doesn't mean they will be fine. They might die or suffer long term morbidity too.

Or have to pick up the tax bill for the looming disability crisis coming.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


" Wouldn't it be awesome if people would just mind their own business and do what's right for themselves, instead of this constant arguing about what everyone else is doing wrong x

Unfortunately, "what's right for themselves" isn't often good for everyone else. We know how the virus spreads and people shagging around spreads it. It might be great for them to get a leg over but it might well kill others they come in contact with.

I prefer to take the "what's best for everyone" approach. I'd rather be a "jobsworth" and stick my nose in if it protects people.

So just block the ones who want to shag you and you'll never have to hear from them or see them again. By far the majority of people is sticking to the rules and quite frankly this 2nd spike wasn't caused by some fabbers shagging x"

I do, my filters are set to "no", and I can still talk about it.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


" Wouldn't it be awesome if people would just mind their own business and do what's right for themselves, instead of this constant arguing about what everyone else is doing wrong x

Unfortunately, "what's right for themselves" isn't often good for everyone else. We know how the virus spreads and people shagging around spreads it. It might be great for them to get a leg over but it might well kill others they come in contact with.

I prefer to take the "what's best for everyone" approach. I'd rather be a "jobsworth" and stick my nose in if it protects people.

So just block the ones who want to shag you and you'll never have to hear from them or see them again. By far the majority of people is sticking to the rules and quite frankly this 2nd spike wasn't caused by some fabbers shagging x

I do, my filters are set to "no", and I can still talk about it."

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