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"I agree but I also understand that the volume of mails that some get probably makes that difficult " If they are reading there messages Doesn’t take all day to type thanks then press send | |||
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"Also OP you may indeed be polite which is great. However some chaps use the reply as a way of trying to get an in and then try and carry on further. " I don’t ask to meet them ever Just compliment them | |||
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"I always say thanks to compliments." Very nice pictures and profile | |||
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"Sometimes I do say thank you. The problem is you then end up with further message's and potentiality in an exchange you don't really want to be in. " Understand that I really do Once I’ve complimented said profile I don’t expect any more replies as many are not looking for mature guys It’s just a compliment after all | |||
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"I always say thanks to compliments. Very nice pictures and profile " Thank you.x | |||
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"Sometimes I do say thank you. The problem is you then end up with further message's and potentiality in an exchange you don't really want to be in. Understand that I really do Once I’ve complimented said profile I don’t expect any more replies as many are not looking for mature guys It’s just a compliment after all " Is it just a compliment though, there’s usually always a deeper subtext. | |||
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"I agree but I also understand that the volume of mails that some get probably makes that difficult If they are reading there messages Doesn’t take all day to type thanks then press send " Too many men see any reply as If people reply as some kind of interest. So they reply to the 'thanks' to try and get a conversation going. Blame the men who are disrespectful. | |||
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Not to mention the replies from the thankyou message.
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"Sometimes I do say thank you. The problem is you then end up with further message's and potentiality in an exchange you don't really want to be in. Understand that I really do Once I’ve complimented said profile I don’t expect any more replies as many are not looking for mature guys It’s just a compliment after all " I understand that however, I also see posts like this and status updates complaining which in itself is off-putting. If you genuinely expect nothing in return for your compliment then why this thread? Please don't think I'm being cheeky, I'm not I'm just bemused by it all. There will be loads of reasons why there's no reply but the assumption is often that it's rude or the receiver is up the self etc etc. I'm sure you're lovely and your compliments will make someone smile, you don't need the validation of a response surely  | |||
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"Sometimes I do say thank you. The problem is you then end up with further message's and potentiality in an exchange you don't really want to be in. Understand that I really do Once I’ve complimented said profile I don’t expect any more replies as many are not looking for mature guys It’s just a compliment after all " I also try to reply but sadly 99.7%* of messagers dont see it the way you do so 300 messages becomes 599 messages. *made up statistics | |||
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"It leads to ping pong and grows exponentially" I love your use of the word exponentially. No need to thank me for complimenting your vocabulary. | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready " We/I reply to all messages as per our profile because I have plenty of time on my hands but to be honest we get so many crap messages I wish I could just reply with a short sharp FUCK OFF because some men not all but some just don’t deserve a reply because they put no effort in to their migration message at all. Alas op a non reply is as per fab rules a no thank you but I do feel your pain. T | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? " Oh give over | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready " Don't send compliments to people you don't know in case they might not thank you afterwards Problem solved. | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? " I actually love this! | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? " If you don't want comments on your body don't post it on the internet  | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? I actually love this! " I don't love this- it comes across as snooty and full of bad attitude. | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? If you don't want comments on your body don't post it on the internet " | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? " Really lol Don't flaunt it then. Then they won't ?????? | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? " Love your profile pic  | |||
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So annoying, especially as they sent the first wink. Had I replied with 'Thanks for the wink, fancy a shag?' then I'd understand the radio silence!! | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? Love your profile pic "Not as much as I love yours  | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? Love your profile pic
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"I almost posted on the same topic earlier. I had a couple wink at me...so I sent a message with a good morning, happy Saturday kind of thing. They read it but no reply
So annoying, especially as they sent the first wink. Had I replied with 'Thanks for the wink, fancy a shag?' then I'd understand the radio silence!!"I’ve had the same happen to me Some have blocked me before I’ve even seen the wink | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? I actually love this! I don't love this- it comes across as snooty and full of bad attitude. " I'm often accused of being those things. And if that's what they think, then fine. Their perogative. The reality is I'm here for me, not to please other people. So if I don't want to respond, I won't. If I want to post photos I will. If I choose to ignore my messages, I can. Too many people assume that being on here must mean you're constantly up for it and are going to forget your own preferences. Or worse, have some sort of unwritten obligations to random strangers on the internet. | |||
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"We can and we always reply, may take a while sometimes but think it’s only polite. " My point too | |||
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"I agree but I also understand that the volume of mails that some get probably makes that difficult If they are reading there messages Doesn’t take all day to type thanks then press send " We used to politely say Ty to such messages, although that often led to the sender thinking being replied to meant a shag was on the cards.. Granted that's not the case with all guys but there are some who are pinging out the same message to multiple people they even forget that 24 hrs previously they had politely been told no Ty.. | |||
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"We can and we always reply, may take a while sometimes but think it’s only polite. My point too " Alternatively cut the crap and add a line in to your opening message OP... "I understand no reply means no thanks, happy fabbing" Simples.. Done | |||
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"We can and we always reply, may take a while sometimes but think it’s only polite. My point too Alternatively cut the crap and add a line in to your opening message OP... "I understand no reply means no thanks, happy fabbing" Simples.. Done" The point was to your point if you get my point Done | |||
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"We can and we always reply, may take a while sometimes but think it’s only polite. My point too Alternatively cut the crap and add a line in to your opening message OP... "I understand no reply means no thanks, happy fabbing" Simples.. Done The point was to your point if you get my point Done " No your point is putting the onus onto the receiver, my point is take ownership and be accountable for your own actions | |||
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"Sometimes I do say thank you. The problem is you then end up with further message's and potentiality in an exchange you don't really want to be in. Understand that I really do Once I’ve complimented said profile I don’t expect any more replies as many are not looking for mature guys It’s just a compliment after all I understand that however, I also see posts like this and status updates complaining which in itself is off-putting. If you genuinely expect nothing in return for your compliment then why this thread? Please don't think I'm being cheeky, I'm not I'm just bemused by it all. There will be loads of reasons why there's no reply but the assumption is often that it's rude or the receiver is up the self etc etc. I'm sure you're lovely and your compliments will make someone smile, you don't need the validation of a response surely "Nail. Head. Imagine you walked into a bar, saw an attractive woman and said something complimentary. How do you think they'd react to a random stranger saying something? A suspect the majority would give you an odd look and ignore you. Why should it be any different on here? Compliments are nice of course but you can't expect a response. Nobody is obliged to do anything on here. A | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready " When visible my profile states, without ambiguity the type of person I'm looking for. Belt and braces: I state I won't reply to anyone outwith what I'm looking for. If someone wants to waste their time contacting me, knowing they don't meet what I'm looking for I really could give a toss if they're offended I've not replied to their message. | |||
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"Am taking it that no body likes or wants compliments Fair enough I respect everyone’s views and decisions Happy Fabbing people stay safe and stay sane Have a great weekend " So couples and women are rude if they don’t reply to your complimentary messages. But you still haven’t replied to every comment made on your thread. Wouldn’t you agree that’s a bit hypocritical? | |||
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"Some use it as an opener to strike up random conversations though. They say hi one week, and then disappear, only to emerge three months later with a message asking how my fanny is doing. Because I look at their profile and see we chatted (albeit forgotten about what) I give them a full on gynaecological review. "Remind me never to ask you how your fanny is doing | |||
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"Sometimes I do say thank you. The problem is you then end up with further message's and potentiality in an exchange you don't really want to be in. " Yes, that happens quite a lot so i use the "thank you, hope you find what you're looking for, happy fabbing" closure response | |||
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"Another thing in my humble opinion. Would you take a compliment as genuine from a guy with a full bag of balls..." Quite frequently it's so over the top and laid on so thick it clearly isn't genuine x | |||
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"Another thing in my humble opinion. Would you take a compliment as genuine from a guy with a full bag of balls..."
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? I actually love this! I don't love this- it comes across as snooty and full of bad attitude. I'm often accused of being those things. And if that's what they think, then fine. Their perogative. The reality is I'm here for me, not to please other people. So if I don't want to respond, I won't. If I want to post photos I will. If I choose to ignore my messages, I can. Too many people assume that being on here must mean you're constantly up for it and are going to forget your own preferences. Or worse, have some sort of unwritten obligations to random strangers on the internet. " If you are directing all of that rant at my comment then just
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"I always say thanks to compliments." As do I. Common courtesy, it costs nothing but a few moments of your time. The whole of the web could do with remembering that. | |||
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"I always say thanks to compliments. As do I. Common courtesy, it costs nothing but a few moments of your time. The whole of the web could do with remembering that." I think that's the crux of the matter. Virtual communication removes people from each other. On the awfulness scale of internet nastiness not saying thanks when complimented is at the low end. However I think as you say everybody should consider how their messages impact others. Everybody. | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready " Because what in your mind is a "polite complement " to my mind and perhaps some ladies appears to be yet a other lame platitude I do not understand the psychology behind the men who feel them giving an unsolicited compliment is some sort of valiant act worthy of praise ???? It's not rude if a person finds you unattractive, you may need to get used to this ! | |||
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"Also OP you may indeed be polite which is great. However some chaps use the reply as a way of trying to get an in and then try and carry on further. I don’t ask to meet them ever Just compliment them " How annoying for them I almost see this action as a little patronising??? Perhaps I say this as I think a complement is special for it to mean something it should not become trite, over used  | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready Because what in your mind is a "polite complement " to my mind and perhaps some ladies appears to be yet a other lame platitude I do not understand the psychology behind the men who feel them giving an unsolicited compliment is some sort of valiant act worthy of praise ???? It's not rude if a person finds you unattractive, you may need to get used to this !" Not asking them there opinion on my profile or if the fancy me just a thanks is enough Really opened a worm farm today haven’t I Makes great reading anyway It’s just a compliment not a request | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? I actually love this! I don't love this- it comes across as snooty and full of bad attitude. " Yep, it’s like people who say I don’t engage in small talk, well aren’t you just the maverick outsider! | |||
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"Sometimes I do say thank you. The problem is you then end up with further message's and potentiality in an exchange you don't really want to be in. Understand that I really do Once I’ve complimented said profile I don’t expect any more replies as many are not looking for mature guys It’s just a compliment after all " Ok, so look at the responses on here and see that the trend is usually people carry on after the thankyou. Whilst that might not be you, the emerging trend is. How does the receiver of the message know your that small minority that doesn’t continue? They don’t so they treat all messages the same. Not all wasps will sting you. | |||
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"I agree but I also understand that the volume of mails that some get probably makes that difficult If they are reading there messages Doesn’t take all day to type thanks then press send " Since I uploaded my new videos this morning I've had 238 messages. It's only 1.15pm Shall I reply to everyone who has said "nice vids"? I'd run out of message allowance so I cant chat to friends. I wouldn't have the time. I'd rather save my messages for those who spark a conversation, not reply to someone who says "nice ass" | |||
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"I always say thanks to compliments. As do I. Common courtesy, it costs nothing but a few moments of your time. The whole of the web could do with remembering that." A few moments to say thanks to each compliment some women get on here can take literally hours. If women are expected to answer every message, I'm pretty sure a lot would leave. Fab is meant to be about having fun, not endless admin work to save hurting some men's delicate egos | |||
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"I agree but I also understand that the volume of mails that some get probably makes that difficult If they are reading there messages Doesn’t take all day to type thanks then press send " It does if you've got 347 messages to respond to. You're not owed a response I'm afraid. Lu | |||
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"In my (very humble) opinion, a compliment is not so different from an insult in that it is an unsolicited opinion. I struggle to adhere to convention. Why should I be grateful for your opinion about my body? I actually love this! I don't love this- it comes across as snooty and full of bad attitude. Yep, it’s like people who say I don’t engage in small talk, well aren’t you just the maverick outsider! " Ha yeah ' maverick outsider' being the polite version of what I'd call them | |||
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"I prefer to do a bit of gentle piss taking, rather than pay a compliment, that way you get to see if they can give as good as they get and whether they’ve got something about them, where can they go with ‘you’re gorgeous!’ Etc, you just set yourself as a fawning sycophant." I would agree with this... I'm not into the whole ott compliment thing. Making me laugh will get you further than telling me I'm "soooooo hot"
And let's be honest, there are some beautiful people on fab...but if you're telling some woman you've seen 3 pics of that she's the most beautiful woman you've ever seen, you either need to get out more, or someone lied to you when they said that approach would work
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready " How about they add an automatic reply button like "Thanks but you're not what I'm looking for" | |||
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"All these threads banging on about people not replying to messages is really starting to suck the fun out of the forums now like...maybe have a whinging section like the virus one so we don’t have to enter " yeah moan club | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready " Problem is that many (maybe most) guys on here take the "thanks" as an invite to get into a conversation. | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready How about they add an automatic reply button like "Thanks but you're not what I'm looking for" "That would be awesome!!!!! Yes please Mr Admin Make it so | |||
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"I agree but I also understand that the volume of mails that some get probably makes that difficult If they are reading there messages Doesn’t take all day to type thanks then press send It does if you've got 347 messages to respond to. You're not owed a response I'm afraid. Lu "This! I uploaded some pics today and my inbox was filled with almost 100 messages, I don't have time to go through every one of them to say thanks | |||
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"I agree but I also understand that the volume of mails that some get probably makes that difficult If they are reading there messages Doesn’t take all day to type thanks then press send It does if you've got 347 messages to respond to. You're not owed a response I'm afraid. Lu
This! I uploaded some pics today and my inbox was filled with almost 100 messages, I don't have time to go through every one of them to say thanks "A fab is a compliment | |||
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"Women do get 100s of messages Just put thanks in your Status As they say in Yorkshire “that’ll do” " Why should we? We're here for us...not random strangers enjoyment. No one is entitled or owed anything here, you should reeeeeally get your head around that or you're gonna end up pretty disappointed a lot of the time. Lu | |||
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"I feel a thread coming on ......... I'm resisting .... but we all know what resistance is... Yes, Resistance = Voltage ÷ Current No.... it's few tiles"I would like to read that thread Granny | |||
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"If the ladies don't like the look of the profile or photos you won't get a response .. "Tbh even if they do like the look they still don’t reply | |||
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"True , I'm no stranger here and I'm an no fool , but it seem like eBay for the ladies here , no matter how nice you can be , if you don't fit a list of requirements you can forget it .. " Well.. Yes?! It's like going to B+Q for a specific spare part, but they don't have your brand... You wouldn't buy a similar one because there are lots available and it looks nice.. But won't fit  | |||
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"I agree but I also understand that the volume of mails that some get probably makes that difficult If they are reading there messages Doesn’t take all day to type thanks then press send " Does to do it 1000 times plus them can then always get past your filters once you've messaged them. | |||
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"True , I'm no stranger here and I'm an no fool , but it seem like eBay for the ladies here , no matter how nice you can be , if you don't fit a list of requirements you can forget it .. Well.. Yes?! It's like going to B+Q for a specific spare part, but they don't have your brand... You wouldn't buy a similar one because there are lots available and it looks nice.. But won't fit "At least you admit it ... | |||
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"True , I'm no stranger here and I'm an no fool , but it seem like eBay for the ladies here , no matter how nice you can be , if you don't fit a list of requirements you can forget it .. Well.. Yes?! It's like going to B+Q for a specific spare part, but they don't have your brand... You wouldn't buy a similar one because there are lots available and it looks nice.. But won't fit
At least you admit it ... "Arrgghh, but there is nothing to 'admit'?! It's the way it is ?! Say if you liked blondes and i sent you a sultry, funny, witty, friendly first contact message.. But mentioned i was a redhead, you'd think, oh she sounds like a top bird, but she's not blonde.. Hey ho.. Maybe the next one will be as good, but blonde too! | |||
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"Fab a pic is a compliment. Continuous messages when not asked for is not." | |||
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"Fab a pic is a compliment. Continuous messages when not asked for is not." | |||
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"I would say approximately 100% of the messages we receive from single men (despite an express instruction that we are not looking for single men) starts off as a compliment. Then invariably turns in to let's meet if we engage in any shape or form. So usually we just ignore. " Why don't you use your filters to stop them being able to contact you? | |||
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"I would say approximately 100% of the messages we receive from single men (despite an express instruction that we are not looking for single men) starts off as a compliment. Then invariably turns in to let's meet if we engage in any shape or form. So usually we just ignore. Why don't you use your filters to stop them being able to contact you?" Once you have replied to let's say a guy, even filters on they can still contact you there after. | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready " I always reply and say Thankyou ........ that being said , some people take that as I’m interested and then get very funny when I say thank you for the compliment but I’m not looking to take things Further. It won’t change me, I still intend to say thanks but it is somewhat upsetting when you receive horrible messages x | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready " Nobody owes you anything. | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready I always reply and say Thankyou ........ that being said , some people take that as I’m interested and then get very funny when I say thank you for the compliment but I’m not looking to take things Further. It won’t change me, I still intend to say thanks but it is somewhat upsetting when you receive horrible messages x" Do they take the compliment back once no thanks is mentioned | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready I always reply and say Thankyou ........ that being said , some people take that as I’m interested and then get very funny when I say thank you for the compliment but I’m not looking to take things Further. It won’t change me, I still intend to say thanks but it is somewhat upsetting when you receive horrible messages x Do they take the compliment back once no thanks is mentioned "They do sometimes actually
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready " If you want to be my Secretary (full time) in order to send a "thanks" to every mail received, crack on! I've taken to hiding most of the time now, just to cut down on mails as I have a life as well as a Fab account and have lost control of unread mails in my inbox due to the sheer volume of incoming!! | |||
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"About to open a can of worms here Why can’t people mainly women and couples on here cannot accept a nice compliment from guys A simple thanks is enough to be polite Even if the guy is not what they are looking for Can’t wait for the fab site rules to be quoted Get the popcorn ready If you want to be my Secretary (full time) in order to send a "thanks" to every mail received, crack on! I've taken to hiding most of the time now, just to cut down on mails as I have a life as well as a Fab account and have lost control of unread mails in my inbox due to the sheer volume of incoming!! "I feel ya! I've got over a thousand sat unread | |||
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