FabSwingers.com forum: Fairly certain

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There must be at least one other thread on this subject, but i couln't find it.

Why do guys think it's cool to have a pic of their dick as a profile pic? Are you that ugly that you think your dick will get you through the door, or do you think it's your best feature?

Personally, if I was a woman or a couple, I'd block you so fast your head would spin. I have to wonder, is this the first thing you do when meeting new people, whip your dick out? Come on guys, you make it almost impossible for the rest of us to meet others with your daft ideas. Oh yeah, and give up on the chat cams with the one liners, no one falls for that nonsense, I get embarrassed by some of the comments you come out with. Really, they don't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol...this is a common discussion on the forums, and we're all still none the wiser as to why (mostly) single guys think their cocks are gorgeous and impossible to resist....certainly not what I want to see when I look at my messages lol

Nice to hear to your opinion on this though...sure they'll be more to follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said! I feel the same way, it doesn't take much longer to use correct words and spellings and to put on a face photograph rather than one of genitalia...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@ OP, of course one could take the stance of "who are you to question what others do?" After all, it is their choice. Whether you think it's right or wrong doesn't really come into it. "Some" women/couples might like it, after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@ OP, of course one could take the stance of "who are you to question what others do?" After all, it is their choice. Whether you think it's right or wrong doesn't really come into it. "Some" women/couples might like it, after all. "

yep...they could always ask for a cock shot if they do, just like I have to say 'do you have a face pic'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

slarty, absolutely true, what they do is their choice, I'm not trying to deny them that right. What i am trying to say is if you really want your dick pic, then put in in your gallery, no need to use it as your profile pic. Like you, my profile pic is of my face, some folk will like it, some won't, but at least they know what i look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"slarty, absolutely true, what they do is their choice, I'm not trying to deny them that right. What i am trying to say is if you really want your dick pic, then put in in your gallery, no need to use it as your profile pic. Like you, my profile pic is of my face, some folk will like it, some won't, but at least they know what i look like."

Can I have a cock shot please lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not denying that, what I'm saying is that some people choose to do that, for whatever reason, anonimity, they think it's a good feature, etc. Maybe they think it's an "eye catcher" if you'll pardon the pun lol.

Some men choose to have a face pic as a profile pic, some don't. Equally as many women have boob shots as their profile pics but there's never many complaints about that though....Strange that huh...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

LMAO! yeah, i guess there's that, there are lot's of boobs, butts and fannys on here. each to his own i guess. I just think that guys with dick pics come across as "i'll shag it if it moves and if it doesn't. I'll kick it till it does and then shag it." Desperation in other words, whereas women or couples who have pics like that aren't desperate really are they?

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By *omealone17Man
over a year ago

CREWE

Yes I agree what posses people to just display there cock or even pussy for that matter. At end of day people go for chemistry first and foremost wich canonly come from a face piccie Yes dont get me wrong I love a piccie of a young ladies boobs and a pussy shot as well if that is there thing but it is the facial picture that attracts to chat and hopefully meet and discover the other afterwards intimatley

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By *omealone17Man
over a year ago

CREWE

ps awaiting facial pics to be verified as updateing profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're opening up a MASSIVE can of worms with your last comment. Why is it that men appear desperate whilst women/couples don't? Yes, of course, men are in the minority but I know of women and couples who are struggling for meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's why I started the thread, if I am wrong, I'll apologise, no harm done and I'll put a dick pic up if that really is what attracts women. Isn't that what the forum is for, debate? Or at least part of it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You understand why people don't feel comfortable with putting face pics up as avatars don't you! Its a swingers site after all.

You also understand that people have the right to choose what pic they put up, why worry about what other people are doing, it doesn't matter to you if they are successful or not does it.

The majority of avatars are of specific body parts. Is a woman who displays her pussy desperate? Is a pic of a womans boobs desperate? Is showing a backside desperate? Is it desperate to show a guys cock being sucked as an avatar? All these pics are of specific body parts, exactly the same as a cock pic. Don't you think its a bit of a one sided argument to state that single guys are wrong to show their cocks but everyone else is ok. After all you wouldn't meet a woman in a bar and she'd whip out her tits so you'd recognise her, or her ass, or a couple would start oral sex in front of you in a bar so you'd recognise them that way.

You're argument is hugely flawed. Single guys who have avatars of cock pics are not making it difficult for the rest of you single guys. They are not to blame. If guys don't get meets then that is solely their own doing. You are the keeper of your own destiny as it were.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 10/07/12 07:12:00]

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I wouldn't worry what other guys have on their profiles, just maximise yours and the fun that will come along.

People approach this in different ways and there really is no right or wrong, just do it your way.

True colours shine through eventually.

All the best and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 10/07/12 07:12:00]"

It wouldnt profit me to put up a cock shot...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"[Removed by poster at 10/07/12 07:12:00]

It wouldnt profit me to put up a cock shot...

lol I was listening to a dip in M&S financial results due to a lack of stock in their women's range and the bad weather in April and June and had PROFITS and share price in my mind at the same time as typing PROFILE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You understand why people don't feel comfortable with putting face pics up as avatars don't you! Its a swingers site after all.

You also understand that people have the right to choose what pic they put up, why worry about what other people are doing, it doesn't matter to you if they are successful or not does it.

Agree with what Iconic says. At the end of the day, if a guy (or anyone else!) wants to use a cock pic as their profile pic - then so be it. Where I do get annoyed is when they then start posting on the forums with comments along the lines of 'I have a great pic of my wonderful cock on my profile, so why aren't all you sex-starved bitches beating a path to my door?' Tells you far more about WHY they chose a cock pic for their profile than anything else. Also, when the pic choice AND whinging comment are taken together, it tells you everything you need to know about the guys attitude to swinging, doesn't it?

Although Perky likes to see a cock pic before we meet, we would sooner that is done via message than it being the first/main attraction - we want more out of meets than just a lump of man meat!

Not only that, any guy who IS putting a cock pic up runs the gauntlet of having is compared to every other cock pic on here. Whilst the 'owner' may think he has the most attractive cock in the known Universe, beauty is - of course - in the 'eye' (Ahem!...) of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 10/07/12 07:12:00]

It wouldnt profit me to put up a cock shot...

Yada yada..

You were fixatin on the PROFIT of havin a DIP into the women's S&M range...

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

i like cock shots but then im a dirty bitch

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"[Removed by poster at 10/07/12 07:12:00]

It wouldnt profit me to put up a cock shot...

Yada yada..

You were fixatin on the PROFIT of havin a DIP into the women's S&M range...

my lawyer will be in touch in due course...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Yada yada..

You were fixatin on the PROFIT of havin a DIP into the women's S&M range...

my lawyer will be in touch in due course...

Good grief man... Now ya Soliciting...

Ya'll be postin a cock pic avatar next...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like cock shots just not as the only pic nor the main profile pic, I know my inbox is full of cocks (pics irrelivant

hehe)

I dont think I have ever asked for a 'cock' shot yet I've had to ask for a face pic hundreds of times.

I change my avatar, and changed it after a request here on the forums but it isnt and wont be a 'pussy shot' as I only have that in private.

I know its about the sex but still there has to be a person on the end of it otherwise I could stay home and use my wand

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

I guess you do understand that some people could lose their jobs by showing face pics on a site like this - bringing their profession into disrepute, etc.

Nurses, doctors, policemen, etc., all have professional codes of conduct and that can spread into their personal lives as well as professional.

it's a choice not to put a face pic up and the fact that one has a choice is surely a good thing.

Don't you think there's a bit too much criticism from the forum police of other people and their actions/choices? I do.

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

"I guess you do understand that some people could lose their jobs by showing face pics on a site like this - bringing their profession into disrepute, etc.

Nurses, doctors, policemen, etc., all have professional codes of conduct and that can spread into their personal lives as well as professional.

it's a choice not to put a face pic up and the fact that one has a choice is surely a good thing.

Don't you think there's a bit too much criticism from the forum police of other people and their actions/choices? I do."
well said nice cock shot by the way

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Don't you think there's a bit too much criticism from the forum police of other people and their actions/choices? I do."

At times yes and on occasion unwarranted.... more often than not... people ask 'what's my profile like' and they get an answer.

This thread's a great example, a new poster so not a 'forum police/regular' mentions his _iew on cock pics on other guys profiles and others have said 'their choice'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There must be at least one other thread on this subject, but i couln't find it.

Why do guys think it's cool to have a pic of their dick as a profile pic? Are you that ugly that you think your dick will get you through the door, or do you think it's your best feature?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not everyone thinks the same as you

some of us like looking at cock pics

i often think if a bloke hasnt got a picture of his cock on his profile, its because he has got a small one.

they are proud of what they have got, and who can blame them.

just as long as they have got a clear face pic as well.

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

"You understand why people don't feel comfortable with putting face pics up as avatars don't you! Its a swingers site after all.

You also understand that people have the right to choose what pic they put up, why worry about what other people are doing, it doesn't matter to you if they are successful or not does it.

Although Perky likes to see a cock pic before we meet, we would sooner that is done via message than it being the first/main attraction - we want more out of meets than just a lump of man meat!

and

Shouldn't that be 'in the Japs eye of the beholdder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LMAO! yeah, i guess there's that, there are lot's of boobs, butts and fannys on here. each to his own i guess. I just think that guys with dick pics come across as "i'll shag it if it moves and if it doesn't. I'll kick it till it does and then shag it." Desperation in other words, whereas women or couples who have pics like that aren't desperate really are they?"

Just wondering why it's any different if female has a photo almost showing her cervix, isn't it the same thing?....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sassy, it's no different. I do understand the need for privacy for a lot of people, I also understand that some folk like looking at dick pics, hell, I'm impressed when I see a big one! I was just curious as to why so many guys use it as their profile pic. I think I have the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are two types of salesmen in the world, the ones who know they have a good product and are confident enough just to sell it's benefits. Then there are the ones who spend their time attacking the competition and engaging in smear campaigns. It's usually because they're not as successful. Knocking the competition often shows desperation.

Op, if your happy with your 'product' and it's working for you why do you care what your competition does?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are two types of salesmen in the world, the ones who know they have a good product and are confident enough just to sell it's benefits. Then there are the ones who spend their time attacking the competition and engaging in smear campaigns. It's usually because they're not as successful. Knocking the competition often shows desperation.

Op, if your happy with your 'product' and it's working for you why do you care what your competition does?

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

well said black spice i bet your glad you asked this question now huh??? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sassy, it's no different. I do understand the need for privacy for a lot of people, I also understand that some folk like looking at dick pics, hell, I'm impressed when I see a big one! I was just curious as to why so many guys use it as their profile pic. I think I have the answer.

I think the mistake some might be making is in your use of the words 'profile pic' - when I suspect you mean avatar?

There's nothing wrong (IMHO) with the odd cock shot in your pics, so long as its balanced with other styles. But I think your spot on - having a cock shot as your avatar (main profile pic) can be off putting to some and can be seen as either lazy, uncreative or 'look at me'!!

But as others have said - your profile is your own to do what you want with, so it's back to personal choice I guess!

And there seem to be as many 'boob shots' as cock ones out there! (not that I'm complaining!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep. I do mean avatar. Sorry for any confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the difference between a 'profile pic' and an 'avatar'? Aren't they the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. I do mean avatar. Sorry for any confusion.

No apology needed!!

Nice cock - sorry - 'stocks' pic BTW!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apparently not, it seems some folk understand any pic on your profile page to be a profile pic and your avatar is the one that appears next to your name under search or when you post in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats the difference between a 'profile pic' and an 'avatar'? Aren't they the same thing?"

Guess so - but to some profile pics are seen as anything open to public _iewing - just wanted to clarify the OP's thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats the difference between a 'profile pic' and an 'avatar'? Aren't they the same thing?

Guess so - but to some profile pics are seen as anything open to public _iewing - just wanted to clarify the OP's thoughts.

Cheers, just wondered.

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