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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens

Was just thinking what it would be like in society, if swinging was taught as a way of life in school and was considered mainstream?

Where Monogamist monotheism being a rural backwater.

Any thoughts?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Swinging isn't a way of life. It is a lifestyle choice.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Was just thinking what it would be like in society, if swinging was taught as a way of life in school and was considered mainstream?

Where Monogamist monotheism being a rural backwater.

Any thoughts?"

Monogamist monotheism? At what age is that taught in schools?

A

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens


"

Monogamist monotheism? At what age is that taught in schools?

A"

A huge number of schools are Church of England and others are also Christian themed. Then there are plenty of other faith based schools, the vast majority of which currently are understandably monotheistic and focus on monogamy. They start at about 5.

I have nothing against this. It's just a thought experiment...

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens


"Swinging isn't a way of life. It is a lifestyle choice."

Can you explain in more detail?

I can agree that swinging isnt a way of life for most people.

In a different society it could be. In some societies there is something much more similar to swinging as a social norm, at which point it probably isnt a lifestyle choice but a way of life.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Was just thinking what it would be like in society, if swinging was taught as a way of life in school and was considered mainstream?

Where Monogamist monotheism being a rural backwater.

Any thoughts?"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens


"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!"

Yet just about everything is in some part.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Swinging isn't a way of life. It is a lifestyle choice.

Can you explain in more detail?

I can agree that swinging isnt a way of life for most people.

In a different society it could be. In some societies there is something much more similar to swinging as a social norm, at which point it probably isnt a lifestyle choice but a way of life. "

No need for me to expand. What you are suggesting is for it to become the norm, I am saying what is is now

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!

Yet just about everything is in some part. "

That doesn't make it right though.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!

Yet just about everything is in some part. "

Nope and av brought my two lads up to be individual when it comes to sex and sexuality.. they can do what they want with no judgment from me!! The have had respect and know right from wrong!! Why should anyone be be judged for enjoying something different?

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens


"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!

Yet just about everything is in some part.

Nope and av brought my two lads up to be individual when it comes to sex and sexuality.. they can do what they want with no judgment from me!! The have had respect and know right from wrong!! Why should anyone be be judged for enjoying something different?"

So you have brought them up and taught and 'brainwashed' them. That's fine.

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens

I think if society was swinging and it was the common thing to do it would lead to a lot more openess with regard to sex.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!

Yet just about everything is in some part.

Nope and av brought my two lads up to be individual when it comes to sex and sexuality.. they can do what they want with no judgment from me!! The have had respect and know right from wrong!! Why should anyone be be judged for enjoying something different?

So you have brought them up and taught and 'brainwashed' them. That's fine.

"

How open minded of you of others

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens


"

How open minded of you of others "

Do you not agree we are all taught and learn things?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!

Yet just about everything is in some part.

Nope and av brought my two lads up to be individual when it comes to sex and sexuality.. they can do what they want with no judgment from me!! The have had respect and know right from wrong!! Why should anyone be be judged for enjoying something different?

So you have brought them up and taught and 'brainwashed' them. That's fine.

"

Bring a child up isnt brain washing them its setting them on the right path.. you asking about the life style to be taught!! Or am I missing something?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"

How open minded of you of others

Do you not agree we are all taught and learn things? "

That is nothing to do with your attack on some one else's views in raising children.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


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Monogamist monotheism? At what age is that taught in schools?

A

A huge number of schools are Church of England and others are also Christian themed. Then there are plenty of other faith based schools, the vast majority of which currently are understandably monotheistic and focus on monogamy. They start at about 5.

I have nothing against this. It's just a thought experiment..."

It's not taught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was just thinking what it would be like in society, if swinging was taught as a way of life in school and was considered mainstream?

Where Monogamist monotheism being a rural backwater.

Any thoughts?

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!"

I second that

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens


"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!

Yet just about everything is in some part.

Nope and av brought my two lads up to be individual when it comes to sex and sexuality.. they can do what they want with no judgment from me!! The have had respect and know right from wrong!! Why should anyone be be judged for enjoying something different?

So you have brought them up and taught and 'brainwashed' them. That's fine.

Bring a child up isnt brain washing them its setting them on the right path.. you asking about the life style to be taught!! Or am I missing something?"

I am more thinking of a society where swinging is the norm. I suppose varieties of polygyny and polyandry are much more common.

Maybe all nightclubs would have a swinging section.

Maybe there wouldnt be reasons for sex being considered illegal in public.

What other things would be different?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!

Yet just about everything is in some part.

Nope and av brought my two lads up to be individual when it comes to sex and sexuality.. they can do what they want with no judgment from me!! The have had respect and know right from wrong!! Why should anyone be be judged for enjoying something different?

So you have brought them up and taught and 'brainwashed' them. That's fine.

Bring a child up isnt brain washing them its setting them on the right path.. you asking about the life style to be taught!! Or am I missing something?

I am more thinking of a society where swinging is the norm. I suppose varieties of polygyny and polyandry are much more common.

Maybe all nightclubs would have a swinging section.

Maybe there wouldnt be reasons for sex being considered illegal in public.

What other things would be different?"

Thats not how your first posts reads .. too me anyway!

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens


"

How open minded of you of others

Do you not agree we are all taught and learn things?

That is nothing to do with your attack on some one else's views in raising children."

There is no attack. My interpretation of 'brainwashing' was wider than the context used above. I wasnt trying to suggest there is anything wrong with someone's children or their upbringing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be no preaching of any one rhetoric like sexuality or religion.

Children should be given incoragment in freedom of expression, choice and exceptance in all aspects of life.

With those in place surely society as a whole would be a more tolerant place and hold no prejudice, then grow up into who they are and not fitting predetermined pigeon holes.

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens


"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!

Yet just about everything is in some part.

Nope and av brought my two lads up to be individual when it comes to sex and sexuality.. they can do what they want with no judgment from me!! The have had respect and know right from wrong!! Why should anyone be be judged for enjoying something different?

So you have brought them up and taught and 'brainwashed' them. That's fine.

Bring a child up isnt brain washing them its setting them on the right path.. you asking about the life style to be taught!! Or am I missing something?

I am more thinking of a society where swinging is the norm. I suppose varieties of polygyny and polyandry are much more common.

Maybe all nightclubs would have a swinging section.

Maybe there wouldnt be reasons for sex being considered illegal in public.

What other things would be different?

Thats not how your first posts reads .. too me anyway!"

Sorry didnt mean to set us off on the wrong track.

If swinging was the way of life for almost everyone wouldnt life be different? How would it be?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"

Nothing should be taught or brainwashed into us..!!

Yet just about everything is in some part.

Nope and av brought my two lads up to be individual when it comes to sex and sexuality.. they can do what they want with no judgment from me!! The have had respect and know right from wrong!! Why should anyone be be judged for enjoying something different?

So you have brought them up and taught and 'brainwashed' them. That's fine.

Bring a child up isnt brain washing them its setting them on the right path.. you asking about the life style to be taught!! Or am I missing something?

I am more thinking of a society where swinging is the norm. I suppose varieties of polygyny and polyandry are much more common.

Maybe all nightclubs would have a swinging section.

Maybe there wouldnt be reasons for sex being considered illegal in public.

What other things would be different?

Thats not how your first posts reads .. too me anyway!

Sorry didnt mean to set us off on the wrong track.

If swinging was the way of life for almost everyone wouldnt life be different? How would it be?"

I don’t think anything would change.. I choose a swinging lifestyle it wasn’t taught!

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens

Do you get approached in public? In the library, on the bus, in the supermarket?

I should imagine if swinging was commonplace that it would be more common to be approached by people in everyday life.

The postman would be very busy and there would be a milkman in every neighbourhood

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Do you get approached in public? In the library, on the bus, in the supermarket?

I should imagine if swinging was commonplace that it would be more common to be approached by people in everyday life.

The postman would be very busy and there would be a milkman in every neighbourhood "

So you think that a swinging lifestyle is just randoms fucking anywhere anytime??

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By *ogloom OP   Man
over a year ago

Levens

Lol no.

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