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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

. Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

Horses for courses......

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Nah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah fam. It’s all preferences innit?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Not at all. I don't think many people find lots of people attractive on here tbh.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I think you might find you’re in the deep end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might just mean you know what you like and what you are looking for. I'm not attracted to the majority on here and wouldn't expect to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you're basing 'attractive' on? There are people on here that for looks could have come straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole. Alternatively, others physically, probably wouldn't get a second glance if you passed them in the street, but in fact are the warmest, kindest people you could ever wish to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

Yes. Swingers fuck everyone who asks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole"

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?"

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see pics that I find attractive, then read the profile and think 'nah'

I can also read profiles and think 'yeah, this might have legs', but then when you get chatting or meet you think 'nah'

I am really fussy, like the smallest thing can put me off

I don't find it frustrating or shallow in the slightest

As for you OP, do you think you are shallow or would you like people to think you are shallow?

I've seen you make a couple of threads recently eluding to the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nah just doing it for attention!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Depends on what you're basing 'attractive' on? There are people on here that for looks could have come straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole. Alternatively, others physically, probably wouldn't get a second glance if you passed them in the street, but in fact are the warmest, kindest people you could ever wish to meet."

That also applies in reverse. Some Vogue cover models are the warmest, kindest people you could ever wish to meet and the ones who wouldn't get a second glance are deeply unattractive personally.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

Nope, we can’t like everything about everyone, that’s not how people work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't."

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on what you're basing 'attractive' on? There are people on here that for looks could have come straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole. Alternatively, others physically, probably wouldn't get a second glance if you passed them in the street, but in fact are the warmest, kindest people you could ever wish to meet.

That also applies in reverse. Some Vogue cover models are the warmest, kindest people you could ever wish to meet and the ones who wouldn't get a second glance are deeply unattractive personally.

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No hot people are mean and ugly people are lovely... Its just facts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

A little, I think I understand what you mean but I like to think there's always something "attractive" in everyone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Depends on what you're basing 'attractive' on? There are people on here that for looks could have come straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole. Alternatively, others physically, probably wouldn't get a second glance if you passed them in the street, but in fact are the warmest, kindest people you could ever wish to meet.

That also applies in reverse. Some Vogue cover models are the warmest, kindest people you could ever wish to meet and the ones who wouldn't get a second glance are deeply unattractive personally.

No hot people are mean and ugly people are lovely... Its just facts"

You're right of course. It's why I have no friends

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?"

Yes really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat"

Dipping your wick isn't the b all and end all, there's got to be some kind of rapport otherwise how are you going to fill the remaining 29 minutes of the half hour after finishing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

Same.

Shrugs.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Being 'the hottest person on earth' doesn't mean the sex will be good with them and I don't have enough spare time to waste on bad sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

Same.

Shrugs. "

Especially old people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

Nope, there's no rule that says you have to be attracted to anyone it doesn't make you shallow, we all have our types and preferences and if you haven't found yours on here then that's a shame but it's no reflection on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being 'the hottest person on earth' doesn't mean the sex will be good with them and I don't have enough spare time to waste on bad sex "

No but it's a risk I'm willing to take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No hot people are mean and ugly people are lovely... Its just facts

You're right of course. It's why I have no friends "

I think mean people are mean and lovely people are lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t come on here to look for attractive people so not a problem for me. Couldn’t care less about age or looks..... Kinky, horny types who actually want to meet and play attract me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

Same.

Shrugs.

Especially old people"

Ooo....that hurt.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No hot people are mean and ugly people are lovely... Its just facts

You're right of course. It's why I have no friends

I think mean people are mean and lovely people are lovely."

Precisely.

So many people ask you not to judge on looks. What they mean is don't judge on looks unless they are really good looking then it's fine to infer they're horrible.

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By *ohnny2006Man
over a year ago

worcester


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

For me the most attractive thing in a woman aside form the normal physical traits is dancing eyes. That playful intelligence you can see when they look at you and smile.

You can't see that online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeahhhh call everyone ugly OP - the attention will help you get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeahhhh call everyone ugly OP - the attention will help you get laid "

I take it that he's off your list then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeahhhh call everyone ugly OP - the attention will help you get laid

I take it that he's off your list then? "

Anyone that is young enough to be my child is off my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeahhhh call everyone ugly OP - the attention will help you get laid

I take it that he's off your list then?

Anyone that is young enough to be my child is off my list "

I'm off his list because, apart from everything else, I'm old, hence unattractive.

Someone should have told Sean Connery that in his 80s.

NOT saying I'm of that calibre, mind you.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

Same.

Shrugs.

Especially old people"

Shallow? Probably.

Horrible? Undoubtedly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeahhhh call everyone ugly OP - the attention will help you get laid "

I don't think I did? I've been very careful to not say anyone is ugly

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I can relate to this x

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

Horses for courses......"
Absolutely correct, you can only be yourself and if someone finds you unappealing it is just as it is.

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By *uicy jugsWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

Yes. Swingers fuck everyone who asks. "

Realy?? You have just opened the flood gates for men to expect you to fuck them just cos your a swinger.... not the case swingers still have a choice ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

Same.

Shrugs.

Especially old people"

Again, it depends on your definition, to an 18 yr old, you at 28 are getting old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeahhhh call everyone ugly OP - the attention will help you get laid

I take it that he's off your list then?

Anyone that is young enough to be my child is off my list

I'm off his list because, apart from everything else, I'm old, hence unattractive.

Someone should have told Sean Connery that in his 80s.

NOT saying I'm of that calibre, mind you."

People are so sensitive about age on here. It's just a preference. You have all said I can have my own preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

Same.

Shrugs.

Especially old people"

My son is 32 and I refer to my children as my kids so I guess I am old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[can't be arsed by poster at 20/11/20 11:03:27]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeahhhh call everyone ugly OP - the attention will help you get laid

I take it that he's off your list then?

Anyone that is young enough to be my child is off my list

I'm off his list because, apart from everything else, I'm old, hence unattractive.

Someone should have told Sean Connery that in his 80s.

NOT saying I'm of that calibre, mind you.

People are so sensitive about age on here. It's just a preference. You have all said I can have my own preferences."

Don't get me wrong, I'm not at all sensitive about my age. I have lived the experiences befitting it and that's what counts for me, not the number or whether I'm attractive to everyone, which no one is.

I'm simply saying women were swooning over Sean Connery in his 80s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[can't be arsed by poster at 20/11/20 11:03:27]"

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

Yes. Swingers fuck everyone who asks.

Realy?? You have just opened the flood gates for men to expect you to fuck them just cos your a swinger.... not the case swingers still have a choice .... "

I don't think that was a serious response.

A

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

A little, I think I understand what you mean but I like to think there's always something "attractive" in everyone. "
sometimes you just need to look harder....and listen

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Yeahhhh call everyone ugly OP - the attention will help you get laid

I take it that he's off your list then?

Anyone that is young enough to be my child is off my list

I'm off his list because, apart from everything else, I'm old, hence unattractive.

Someone should have told Sean Connery that in his 80s.

NOT saying I'm of that calibre, mind you.

People are so sensitive about age on here. It's just a preference. You have all said I can have my own preferences.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not at all sensitive about my age. I have lived the experiences befitting it and that's what counts for me, not the number or whether I'm attractive to everyone, which no one is.

I'm simply saying women were swooning over Sean Connery in his 80s."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractiveness is subjective.

There are many men I find attractive on here, some are beautiful to look at but I see their posts or speak to them and I no longer find them attractive.

It works the other way too.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Everyone is attracted to different people

It’s not all about the photo on profile as on meeting they could have bad attitude

Each to their own

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are so sensitive about age on here. It's just a preference. You have all said I can have my own preferences.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not at all sensitive about my age. I have lived the experiences befitting it and that's what counts for me, not the number or whether I'm attractive to everyone, which no one is.

I'm simply saying women were swooning over Sean Connery in his 80s."

I hope you don't get defensive about this but regarding my experiences, I have people engaged in talking to me because of said experience. If they found me unattractive in the first place, it soon disappears as we connect through communication. I hope you will find it in yourself to look past the superficial and see what lies behind a profile beyond age and photos. You might surprise yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

Is it any different than in the real world?

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I don't think its particularly shallow. We all have a 'type' that we're attracted to physically and character/personality traits we prefer. For some those definitions are broader than others. I would dare guess that on a site like this there is maybe more weight given to looks, at least at first, than when meeting in real life.

I would say the same about myself in that I am not attracted to a good many of the people here - that's not the same as saying they are unattractive of course, but I wouldn't meet for the sake of meeting. There has to be some kind of attraction *and* connection.

I often find that the ones I find physically attractive I don't 'click' with in terms of personality, and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

Yes. Swingers fuck everyone who asks.

Realy?? You have just opened the flood gates for men to expect you to fuck them just cos your a swinger.... not the case swingers still have a choice .... "

My inbox is empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?

Same.

Shrugs.

Especially old people"

Not shallow, just horrible. I wouldn’t worry about it too much OP, judging from this thread, very few people will find you attractive either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see pics that I find attractive, then read the profile and think 'nah'

I can also read profiles and think 'yeah, this might have legs', but then when you get chatting or meet you think 'nah'

I am really fussy, like the smallest thing can put me off

I don't find it frustrating or shallow in the slightest

As for you OP, do you think you are shallow or would you like people to think you are shallow?

I've seen you make a couple of threads recently eluding to the same "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat"

I met a man who looked like Daniel Craig. I've never seen someone walk where both men and women stopped to stare: he was GORGEOUS!!!

He was oblivious to those around him, he was searching the crowd for me. When he came over, smiled his mega watt smile and started to talk my face fell: he sounded like Joe Pasquale.

I had a drink with him, he must have thought me a lush as I couldn't drink it fast enough to get away.

He made me change how I meet people, I have to speak over the phone. Anyone who sounds like Joe Pasquale, Danny Dwyer, Brian Blessed...no!

For some, good looks really isn't enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat

I met a man who looked like Daniel Craig. I've never seen someone walk where both men and women stopped to stare: he was GORGEOUS!!!

He was oblivious to those around him, he was searching the crowd for me. When he came over, smiled his mega watt smile and started to talk my face fell: he sounded like Joe Pasquale.

I had a drink with him, he must have thought me a lush as I couldn't drink it fast enough to get away.

He made me change how I meet people, I have to speak over the phone. Anyone who sounds like Joe Pasquale, Danny Dwyer, Brian Blessed...no!

For some, good looks really isn't enough. "

Glad you ran away and didn't do anything daft like move him in!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat

I met a man who looked like Daniel Craig. I've never seen someone walk where both men and women stopped to stare: he was GORGEOUS!!!

He was oblivious to those around him, he was searching the crowd for me. When he came over, smiled his mega watt smile and started to talk my face fell: he sounded like Joe Pasquale.

I had a drink with him, he must have thought me a lush as I couldn't drink it fast enough to get away.

He made me change how I meet people, I have to speak over the phone. Anyone who sounds like Joe Pasquale, Danny Dwyer, Brian Blessed...no!

For some, good looks really isn't enough.

Glad you ran away and didn't do anything daft like move him in! "

Like Catherine Tate?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat

I met a man who looked like Daniel Craig. I've never seen someone walk where both men and women stopped to stare: he was GORGEOUS!!!

He was oblivious to those around him, he was searching the crowd for me. When he came over, smiled his mega watt smile and started to talk my face fell: he sounded like Joe Pasquale.

I had a drink with him, he must have thought me a lush as I couldn't drink it fast enough to get away.

He made me change how I meet people, I have to speak over the phone. Anyone who sounds like Joe Pasquale, Danny Dwyer, Brian Blessed...no!

For some, good looks really isn't enough. "

See here's where I suspect there's a definite difference between men and women (especially on here).

I'd wager most men would put up with a squeaky voice/irritating laugh (think Janice from Friends) for a one time, meaningless shag if she was attractive.

There's plenty of ways to stop someone talking after all.....

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

Terms like attractive, or beautiful gorgeous etc are both subjective and personal. Each person has their own definition of what they mean to them.

The concept of attraction is a hugely complex field. As a sapiosexual, in essence I find attraction in lots of things beyond a physical presence. Also, I don't have a type as such. But sexy... that's much easier. It's not a shape or size, but an attitude.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

You fancy who you fancy as far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You like who you like whether you like it or not..

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

So why stay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat

Dipping your wick isn't the b all and end all, there's got to be some kind of rapport otherwise how are you going to fill the remaining 29 minutes of the half hour after finishing? "

I agree, it’s more about the chemistry and connection. They could be the best looking man on earth, but if I’m not attracted to his personality then it’s not happening.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No it's a very rare thing to find x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Better to be honest o/p, hope you find someone who ticks all the boxes.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

Oooofffffttttt

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat

I met a man who looked like Daniel Craig. I've never seen someone walk where both men and women stopped to stare: he was GORGEOUS!!!

He was oblivious to those around him, he was searching the crowd for me. When he came over, smiled his mega watt smile and started to talk my face fell: he sounded like Joe Pasquale.

I had a drink with him, he must have thought me a lush as I couldn't drink it fast enough to get away.

He made me change how I meet people, I have to speak over the phone. Anyone who sounds like Joe Pasquale, Danny Dwyer, Brian Blessed...no!

For some, good looks really isn't enough.

See here's where I suspect there's a definite difference between men and women (especially on here).

I'd wager most men would put up with a squeaky voice/irritating laugh (think Janice from Friends) for a one time, meaningless shag if she was attractive.

There's plenty of ways to stop someone talking after all.....

A"

God, he was boring to boot too. In the time it took me to down a small riojka I'd learnt his mum wasn't happy he was going to London to meet me. She was worried it would be a regular occurrence and what would happen to her...I like strong, confident to the point of arrogant men.

Mummies boys with cartoon voices are not sexy...yuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you OP. Keep it real

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat

I met a man who looked like Daniel Craig. I've never seen someone walk where both men and women stopped to stare: he was GORGEOUS!!!

He was oblivious to those around him, he was searching the crowd for me. When he came over, smiled his mega watt smile and started to talk my face fell: he sounded like Joe Pasquale.

I had a drink with him, he must have thought me a lush as I couldn't drink it fast enough to get away.

He made me change how I meet people, I have to speak over the phone. Anyone who sounds like Joe Pasquale, Danny Dwyer, Brian Blessed...no!

For some, good looks really isn't enough.

See here's where I suspect there's a definite difference between men and women (especially on here).

I'd wager most men would put up with a squeaky voice/irritating laugh (think Janice from Friends) for a one time, meaningless shag if she was attractive.

There's plenty of ways to stop someone talking after all.....

A

God, he was boring to boot too. In the time it took me to down a small riojka I'd learnt his mum wasn't happy he was going to London to meet me. She was worried it would be a regular occurrence and what would happen to her...I like strong, confident to the point of arrogant men.

Mummies boys with cartoon voices are not sexy...yuck!"

A ballgag and a strap on would have soon sorted him out.

A

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Always follow your dreams

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat

Dipping your wick isn't the b all and end all, there's got to be some kind of rapport otherwise how are you going to fill the remaining 29 minutes of the half hour after finishing?

I agree, it’s more about the chemistry and connection. They could be the best looking man on earth, but if I’m not attracted to his personality then it’s not happening."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's full of ugly losers I don't blame you love. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a bit OP. I've been on here five and half years now and I've had sex with three people. Though I've been going back to one for over two years now so he's got something going on.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

If your attracted to some then good if your not your not plain and simple..

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

Absolutely not.. it is what it is .. we all shallow too an extent just not everyone cares to admit it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm way too ugly to be on here. Even in the mirror I don't have a reflection....

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By *aCaiMan
over a year ago

Telford


"Nah fam. It’s all preferences innit?"

Man said, nah fam, with a picture of a toe as his profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat"

OK here's an example.. Tom Hardy starts chatting me up in a Bar (no it's not a Bar at the Visually Impaired Convention) before anyone says something!

Now I fancy the beejesus pants off him... But he's coming across as rude, arrogant and an ego that's so inflated it could lift my fat old arse off the chair and he's boring...

He offers me sex..

Would I decline...

Damn right I would.

It takes more than attraction to have some fun with me.

And whilst there has to be mutual attraction, there also (in my opinion) has to be personality as well.

And 1,2,3...open your eyes and you are awake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat

OK here's an example.. Tom Hardy starts chatting me up in a Bar (no it's not a Bar at the Visually Impaired Convention) before anyone says something!

Now I fancy the beejesus pants off him... But he's coming across as rude, arrogant and an ego that's so inflated it could lift my fat old arse off the chair and he's boring...

He offers me sex..

Would I decline...

Damn right I would.

It takes more than attraction to have some fun with me.

And whilst there has to be mutual attraction, there also (in my opinion) has to be personality as well.

And 1,2,3...open your eyes and you are awake "

But how do you know unless it happens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat

OK here's an example.. Tom Hardy starts chatting me up in a Bar (no it's not a Bar at the Visually Impaired Convention) before anyone says something!

Now I fancy the beejesus pants off him... But he's coming across as rude, arrogant and an ego that's so inflated it could lift my fat old arse off the chair and he's boring...

He offers me sex..

Would I decline...

Damn right I would.

It takes more than attraction to have some fun with me.

And whilst there has to be mutual attraction, there also (in my opinion) has to be personality as well.

And 1,2,3...open your eyes and you are awake

But how do you know unless it happens?"

Because I know what's more important to me,its as simple as that.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nah we're just ugly

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Didn't this kid make a thread about shagging an older women in the back of car a few weeks back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah we're just ugly "

We all ugly when the lights go out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find many people on here attractive... Either in terms of personality or looks. Am I a horrible shallow person?"

I feel like it’s pretty hard to judge personality on here in all honesty especially for guys (or just me) to get a potential reply and have enough interaction to get their true personality across,(or I’m totally wrong and I’m just a hell of a lot better face to face hah)

Also not finding people attractive doesn’t make you a horrible shallow person... we like what we like after all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on what you're basing 'attractive' on? There are people on here that for looks could have come straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole. Alternatively, others physically, probably wouldn't get a second glance if you passed them in the street, but in fact are the warmest, kindest people you could ever wish to meet."

And we're good at sex too because we're not afraid to be open about what we need. But, attraction starts with looks. Always has if you've a chance to see what they look like before having a conversation with them.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Don't understand there are loads of extremely hot females and couples on here.

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By *_DirectorMan
over a year ago

Middle of somewhere

Lots of people here are ugly on the inside I'm afraid

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


" straight off the cover of Vogue, but as soon as they express themselves, you wouldn't touch them with a barge pole

Really... You wouldnt want to have sex with them? Even if they said you could do anything? And you didn't have to talk to them?

Call me old fashioned, but I prefer there to be some kind of mutual like if I'm having sex. Would I have sex with someone based on looks alone? No I wouldn't.

I find this very hard to believe... I'm talking about being offered sex with the most beautiful person on the planet that really fancies you but you turn her down because she pronunces 'specific' as Pacific and thinks the world is flat"

Bad enunciation is a deal breaker for us, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people here are ugly on the inside I'm afraid "

Ugly is only an inside trait... People's outsides aren't ugly... Only unattractive to some, there is a massive difference... Being beautiful on the outside is not enough and doesn't necessarily make someone attractive either

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