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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have not been on here that long.. And were wondering what the etiquette was for "winks". If we send a message in response to a winks we have received is it reasonable to expect a common decency message back. Even if it's just a "no thanks". We understood a wink to mean people are interested in us in the first place ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its different for everyone so you take your life in your hands what ever you do. Good luck and go for it I say though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you guys I only wink on the rare occasion but if I do it's because I'm interested. I tend to send a message if I receive a wink but not always get a reply.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I occasionally wink back if I receive a wink and the profile interests me a little....if I receive a message back from that, then I will respond (assuming they've included a joke n face pic as requested in my profile), if nothing comes back, I'm rarely bothered as I hadn't had to expend too much energy in winking in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As the saying goes .. Manors cost nothing !!!

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I like a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a wink"

I agree, its nice to get a wink.

I never assume anything more, but will often say thanks

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I am grateful for anything

#attentionwhore

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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My profile states that if you send me a wink and I will wink back if I am interested.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Everyone is different. But I dont even look at them. Every once in a while I will bulk delete them, but never check them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is different. But I dont even look at them. Every once in a while I will bulk delete them, but never check them"

I think it's different for us guys - we hardly get flooded with winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever look at winks as I spend more than enough time dealing with messages. Besides I would rather look for people I like rather than just take what is offered to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the saying goes .. Manors cost nothing !!!"

The manor I stayed in cost a fortune

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

For us winks are welcome, if we return then we're interested in chatting, looking at one another further with a view to meeting.

If we wink first again we obviously have you in our crosshairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile states that if you send me a wink and I will wink back if I am interested."

I guess guys get way less than others. To me it's a polite way of indicating interest - nothing more! I'll tend to message - but if the profile isn't one that says 'wink and get blocked' - I see it as nothing more than a 'smile across a bar' ice breaker!

Harmless, yet for some reason often seen as either rude or lazy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just bulk delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like what you see...give it a wink.

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By *oonytoonMan
over a year ago

derby

I use the wink option a lot more than I do messages as I have very little time when I first joined I tailormade numerous messages to profiles I liked (1 each) for very little in return so I now wink to indicate I like what I've seen and read and am iviting you to read my profile to see if finding out more about each other is something they would be interested in

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London


"If you like what you see...give it a wink."
Giving it a wink now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile states that if you send me a wink and I will wink back if I am interested.

I guess guys get way less than others. To me it's a polite way of indicating interest - nothing more! I'll tend to message - but if the profile isn't one that says 'wink and get blocked' - I see it as nothing more than a 'smile across a bar' ice breaker!

Harmless, yet for some reason often seen as either rude or lazy!! "

Yep! My thoughts exactly.

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