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Women do you love the chase

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So a real thought here women of fab inhave to ask you. Do you prefer it when a guy plays hard to get if they seem un interested or only slightly interested does that make you want him more or do you prefer a guy to make it easy for you and offer it on a plate????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't play games.. If I like someone, I'll be up front and honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't play games.. If I like someone, I'll be up front and honest. "
so you would rather a guy makes it easy for you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't play games.. If I like someone, I'll be up front and honest. so you would rather a guy makes it easy for you then "

If a guy is messing about and not being upfront about his intentions, I'll walk away, cba with games.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s a two-way street .... and I expect it to be so or I don’t engage

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"It’s a two-way street .... and I expect it to be so or I don’t engage"

I agree with you DC.

I like some tease, but it gets annoying if its taken over the edge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bradley Walsh for me although I wouldn't say no to the Vixen either

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I never chase, I only respond if I am being pursued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was daft enough to chase a man when I was younger, it won't happen again

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Why am I presently experiencing visions of the Benny Hill show?

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I love chase!! Not in a weird, stalkerish, making a fool of myself kind of way though

I think the part of the fun is the chase, the anticipation, and the build up.

Getting it offered on a plate is boring IMO x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out! "

This guys who play games bore me to death

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not the chase however it annoys when ppl assume you will fuck anyone simply being on here that's defo not the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chase a man on here? That'll be the day, they come in droves, never the need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out!

This guys who play games bore me to death"

Just because a person is hard to get doesn’t mean that they are playing games.

That is assuming that all guys/girls want you but may pretend they don’t at first?

I like the chase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't play games.. If I like someone, I'll be up front and honest. "
same here...

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby


"Why am I presently experiencing visions of the Benny Hill show? "
You probably saw it too many times Never a dull moment with benny..

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out! "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out!

Exactly this "

But for some getting to the point where you realise you like someone and want to meet them has been the chase?

For example I have chatted to people on fab and at first I wasn’t 100% interested in them but willing to find out more. They have made an effort to show me more about them and I have then realised I am really interested. No games. Just someone chasing and catching me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are nice I think. When its mutual its great!!

If I want someone they are going to know usually pretty quick. I try to let them know in a cute way!! Worse case you will end up Friends. Win/Win but ALWAYS better when you get the Guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out!

This guys who play games bore me to death

Just because a person is hard to get doesn’t mean that they are playing games.

That is assuming that all guys/girls want you but may pretend they don’t at first?

I like the chase. "

i dont assume anything everything is a 2way process just because i dont like silly games dont mean im a prima donna

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both are nice I think. When its mutual its great!!

If I want someone they are going to know usually pretty quick. I try to let them know in a cute way!! Worse case you will end up Friends. Win/Win but ALWAYS better when you get the Guy! "
dont you just invite them fishing? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t bother with any of it. I have had enough of making a tit of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both are nice I think. When its mutual its great!!

If I want someone they are going to know usually pretty quick. I try to let them know in a cute way!! Worse case you will end up Friends. Win/Win but ALWAYS better when you get the Guy! dont you just invite them fishing? Xx"

HA HA !! Should of saw that one coming .... Yep and in the Dark if I really Fancy them !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both are nice I think. When its mutual its great!!

If I want someone they are going to know usually pretty quick. I try to let them know in a cute way!! Worse case you will end up Friends. Win/Win but ALWAYS better when you get the Guy! "

I agree both ways are the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both are nice I think. When its mutual its great!!

If I want someone they are going to know usually pretty quick. I try to let them know in a cute way!! Worse case you will end up Friends. Win/Win but ALWAYS better when you get the Guy! dont you just invite them fishing? Xx

HA HA !! Should of saw that one coming .... Yep and in the Dark if I really Fancy them !! "
I will go get my rods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't chase anyone, full stop. If I like them, I tell them. If it's not reciprocated then fine, I'll walk away. If it is but they mess about, play hard to get it play games in general, I'll walk away. I'm too old to be playing games.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out!

Exactly this

But for some getting to the point where you realise you like someone and want to meet them has been the chase?

For example I have chatted to people on fab and at first I wasn’t 100% interested in them but willing to find out more. They have made an effort to show me more about them and I have then realised I am really interested. No games. Just someone chasing and catching me"

But that to me isn't chasing, that's just chatting to someone...like you'd do to someone you met in the pub or at work. I'm talking about when I've made it clear that I like someone after we've chatted and that I'd like to meet them, and they then start wanting to make me "work" for that meet in a sense...nope,I'm not down for that, if you want to meet then let's make some concrete plans, if you don't want to make plans then in my view you're not fully interested so let's just leave it there.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

If a guy doesn’t show any interest like that then I wouldn’t bother or I would very quickly lose interest myself.

It is a two way thing though. I don’t think a man has to chase you as such, but making it clear that they’re interested in you (I do require some reassurance at times)

I hate those that play mind games. Keep it simple if you like someone and just don’t play with the head

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't chase anyone, full stop. If I like them, I tell them. If it's not reciprocated then fine, I'll walk away. If it is but they mess about, play hard to get it play games in general, I'll walk away. I'm too old to be playing games. "
I'd hardly say your old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a guy doesn’t show any interest like that then I wouldn’t bother or I would very quickly lose interest myself.

It is a two way thing though. I don’t think a man has to chase you as such, but making it clear that they’re interested in you (I do require some reassurance at times)

I hate those that play mind games. Keep it simple if you like someone and just don’t play with the head "
love you gobby always interested in you.. I hope your well and truly reassured now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t chase and I don’t like being chased as such.

If I like someone I will tell them.

There’s a difference between chasing and putting effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out!

Exactly this

But for some getting to the point where you realise you like someone and want to meet them has been the chase?

For example I have chatted to people on fab and at first I wasn’t 100% interested in them but willing to find out more. They have made an effort to show me more about them and I have then realised I am really interested. No games. Just someone chasing and catching me

But that to me isn't chasing, that's just chatting to someone...like you'd do to someone you met in the pub or at work. I'm talking about when I've made it clear that I like someone after we've chatted and that I'd like to meet them, and they then start wanting to make me "work" for that meet in a sense...nope,I'm not down for that, if you want to meet then let's make some concrete plans, if you don't want to make plans then in my view you're not fully interested so let's just leave it there. "

Just a difference in how we interpret chasing the . For your interpretation then I agree with you.

But for me the chase is from the first message to meeting for a social.

I have chatted to many people who I can tell at first are maybe not sure if they want to meet me...I have chased them, making sure they know that I like them whilst letting them get to know me. But it has been me driving the conversation maybe. Making an effort. Over time they have realised that I am someone they want to meet. And that is the chase. No games involved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I won’t chase and I don’t like being chased as such.

If I like someone I will tell them.

There’s a difference between chasing and putting effort in."
god you always wanna making hard work for us we say we fancy you you say that's tidy we both get naked bam job done simples

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"If a guy doesn’t show any interest like that then I wouldn’t bother or I would very quickly lose interest myself.

It is a two way thing though. I don’t think a man has to chase you as such, but making it clear that they’re interested in you (I do require some reassurance at times)

I hate those that play mind games. Keep it simple if you like someone and just don’t play with the head love you gobby always interested in you.. I hope your well and truly reassured now "

Awww you are a sweet heart wookie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a guy doesn’t show any interest like that then I wouldn’t bother or I would very quickly lose interest myself.

It is a two way thing though. I don’t think a man has to chase you as such, but making it clear that they’re interested in you (I do require some reassurance at times)

I hate those that play mind games. Keep it simple if you like someone and just don’t play with the head love you gobby always interested in you.. I hope your well and truly reassured now

Awww you are a sweet heart wookie "
not realy I'm just butter you to so I can get my leg over

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By *ollymopWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I can't be bothered chasing anyone if we click great but if it becomes hard work I give up it's fab not real life

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"If a guy doesn’t show any interest like that then I wouldn’t bother or I would very quickly lose interest myself.

It is a two way thing though. I don’t think a man has to chase you as such, but making it clear that they’re interested in you (I do require some reassurance at times)

I hate those that play mind games. Keep it simple if you like someone and just don’t play with the head love you gobby always interested in you.. I hope your well and truly reassured now

Awww you are a sweet heart wookie not realy I'm just butter you to so I can get my leg over "

If only if it was that easy hey

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