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"Don't play games.. If I like someone, I'll be up front and honest. " so you would rather a guy makes it easy for you then | |||
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"Don't play games.. If I like someone, I'll be up front and honest. so you would rather a guy makes it easy for you then " If a guy is messing about and not being upfront about his intentions, I'll walk away, cba with games. | |||
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"It’s a two-way street .... and I expect it to be so or I don’t engage" I agree with you DC. I like some tease, but it gets annoying if its taken over the edge. | |||
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"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out! " This guys who play games bore me to death | |||
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"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out! This guys who play games bore me to death" Just because a person is hard to get doesn’t mean that they are playing games. That is assuming that all guys/girls want you but may pretend they don’t at first? I like the chase. | |||
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"Don't play games.. If I like someone, I'll be up front and honest. " same here... | |||
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"Why am I presently experiencing visions of the Benny Hill show? " You probably saw it too many times Never a dull moment with benny.. | |||
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"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out! " Exactly this | |||
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"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out! Exactly this " But for some getting to the point where you realise you like someone and want to meet them has been the chase? For example I have chatted to people on fab and at first I wasn’t 100% interested in them but willing to find out more. They have made an effort to show me more about them and I have then realised I am really interested. No games. Just someone chasing and catching me | |||
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"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out! This guys who play games bore me to death Just because a person is hard to get doesn’t mean that they are playing games. That is assuming that all guys/girls want you but may pretend they don’t at first? I like the chase. " i dont assume anything everything is a 2way process just because i dont like silly games dont mean im a prima donna | |||
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"Both are nice I think. When its mutual its great!! If I want someone they are going to know usually pretty quick. I try to let them know in a cute way!! Worse case you will end up Friends. Win/Win but ALWAYS better when you get the Guy! " dont you just invite them fishing? Xx | |||
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"Both are nice I think. When its mutual its great!! If I want someone they are going to know usually pretty quick. I try to let them know in a cute way!! Worse case you will end up Friends. Win/Win but ALWAYS better when you get the Guy! dont you just invite them fishing? Xx" HA HA !! Should of saw that one coming .... Yep and in the Dark if I really Fancy them !! | |||
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"Both are nice I think. When its mutual its great!! If I want someone they are going to know usually pretty quick. I try to let them know in a cute way!! Worse case you will end up Friends. Win/Win but ALWAYS better when you get the Guy! " I agree both ways are the best | |||
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"Both are nice I think. When its mutual its great!! If I want someone they are going to know usually pretty quick. I try to let them know in a cute way!! Worse case you will end up Friends. Win/Win but ALWAYS better when you get the Guy! dont you just invite them fishing? Xx HA HA !! Should of saw that one coming .... Yep and in the Dark if I really Fancy them !! " I will go get my rods | |||
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"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out! Exactly this But for some getting to the point where you realise you like someone and want to meet them has been the chase? For example I have chatted to people on fab and at first I wasn’t 100% interested in them but willing to find out more. They have made an effort to show me more about them and I have then realised I am really interested. No games. Just someone chasing and catching me" But that to me isn't chasing, that's just chatting to someone...like you'd do to someone you met in the pub or at work. I'm talking about when I've made it clear that I like someone after we've chatted and that I'd like to meet them, and they then start wanting to make me "work" for that meet in a sense...nope,I'm not down for that, if you want to meet then let's make some concrete plans, if you don't want to make plans then in my view you're not fully interested so let's just leave it there. | |||
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"I don't chase anyone, full stop. If I like them, I tell them. If it's not reciprocated then fine, I'll walk away. If it is but they mess about, play hard to get it play games in general, I'll walk away. I'm too old to be playing games. " I'd hardly say your old | |||
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"If a guy doesn’t show any interest like that then I wouldn’t bother or I would very quickly lose interest myself. It is a two way thing though. I don’t think a man has to chase you as such, but making it clear that they’re interested in you (I do require some reassurance at times) I hate those that play mind games. Keep it simple if you like someone and just don’t play with the head " love you gobby always interested in you.. I hope your well and truly reassured now | |||
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"No...but I'd never expect anyone to chase me either. If I'm interested I'll tell them outright that I want to meet them...if they then start trying to be all teasing and messing about I'll just move on. I don't have the time or the inclination to be arsing about with all that shizzle...if we're both interested in meeting then let's just sort it out! Exactly this But for some getting to the point where you realise you like someone and want to meet them has been the chase? For example I have chatted to people on fab and at first I wasn’t 100% interested in them but willing to find out more. They have made an effort to show me more about them and I have then realised I am really interested. No games. Just someone chasing and catching me But that to me isn't chasing, that's just chatting to someone...like you'd do to someone you met in the pub or at work. I'm talking about when I've made it clear that I like someone after we've chatted and that I'd like to meet them, and they then start wanting to make me "work" for that meet in a sense...nope,I'm not down for that, if you want to meet then let's make some concrete plans, if you don't want to make plans then in my view you're not fully interested so let's just leave it there. " Just a difference in how we interpret chasing the . For your interpretation then I agree with you. But for me the chase is from the first message to meeting for a social. I have chatted to many people who I can tell at first are maybe not sure if they want to meet me...I have chased them, making sure they know that I like them whilst letting them get to know me. But it has been me driving the conversation maybe. Making an effort. Over time they have realised that I am someone they want to meet. And that is the chase. No games involved. | |||
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"I won’t chase and I don’t like being chased as such. If I like someone I will tell them. There’s a difference between chasing and putting effort in." god you always wanna making hard work for us we say we fancy you you say that's tidy we both get naked bam job done simples | |||
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"If a guy doesn’t show any interest like that then I wouldn’t bother or I would very quickly lose interest myself. It is a two way thing though. I don’t think a man has to chase you as such, but making it clear that they’re interested in you (I do require some reassurance at times) I hate those that play mind games. Keep it simple if you like someone and just don’t play with the head love you gobby always interested in you.. I hope your well and truly reassured now " Awww you are a sweet heart wookie | |||
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"If a guy doesn’t show any interest like that then I wouldn’t bother or I would very quickly lose interest myself. It is a two way thing though. I don’t think a man has to chase you as such, but making it clear that they’re interested in you (I do require some reassurance at times) I hate those that play mind games. Keep it simple if you like someone and just don’t play with the head love you gobby always interested in you.. I hope your well and truly reassured now Awww you are a sweet heart wookie " not realy I'm just butter you to so I can get my leg over | |||
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"If a guy doesn’t show any interest like that then I wouldn’t bother or I would very quickly lose interest myself. It is a two way thing though. I don’t think a man has to chase you as such, but making it clear that they’re interested in you (I do require some reassurance at times) I hate those that play mind games. Keep it simple if you like someone and just don’t play with the head love you gobby always interested in you.. I hope your well and truly reassured now Awww you are a sweet heart wookie not realy I'm just butter you to so I can get my leg over " If only if it was that easy hey | |||
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