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Cuddling after sex, yes or no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you have a meet and you're finished having sex, cuddle after or just leave?

No judgements, just wanted to find out.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Cuddles preferably, but no pressure if they don't want to.

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By *nooshWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

At least time to chat and catch your breath

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I always try and do an over night meet, so I'd say it's essential,..most of my meets have been 3 or 4 days, I even met one woman and stayed 12 days, that was a little different

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

If there is no time to cuddle before and after, its not a meet I'd bother going to tbh

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Absolutely!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

A meet for me is about far more than sex - it's spending time with someone socially as well as intimately in fact the thought of sex and go leaves me cold personally, although appreciate it works for some, so yes cuddling would form part of any time spent with someone

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Absolutely

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I always try and do an over night meet, so I'd say it's essential,..most of my meets have been 3 or 4 days, I even met one woman and stayed 12 days, that was a little different "

I had a one night stand once, I’m still here 27 years later....

Definitely cuddles, fuck and go does nothing for either of us

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I love cuddles and kind a seals the meet for the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who I'm with..... Some people I don't really have any compatibility to out side of the bedroom and we both know it's just sex and nothing els there.... Some people are friends who I have sex with so after we'll just lay and chat shit for ages after and some there is that affection with where its nice to lay and cuddle... Also mood and the kind of play can change how it ends... I quite like when really rough sessions end kinda sweet and cuddly... Dno why tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I love cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fan of a cuddle here

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By *nooshWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It depends on who I'm with..... Some people I don't really have any compatibility to out side of the bedroom and we both know it's just sex and nothing els there.... Some people are friends who I have sex with so after we'll just lay and chat shit for ages after and some there is that affection with where its nice to lay and cuddle... Also mood and the kind of play can change how it ends... I quite like when really rough sessions end kinda sweet and cuddly... Dno why tho "

I agree. Different people and moods make a difference. I love cuddling and hanging out watching tv, having a meal etc but with 1 or 2 guys the "thing" is purely sexual

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Of coursely. Not for too long though as I overheat

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

As a couple the cuddles are between us only, we have no interest in cuddling or kissing a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of coursely. Not for too long though as I overheat "

That's okay, when you get too hot you can make coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would prefer cuddles if I'm honest, as all part of it in my opinion. Wouldn't get upset if not though. (until later when I'd cry)

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

It depends on if I'm too hot & sweaty or out of breath then just leave me on the bed 5mins like a baby ready for a nappy change

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Of coursely. Not for too long though as I overheat

That's okay, when you get too hot you can make coffee "

Certainly. Milk, sugar or both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes always cuddle

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

Depends with whom but more likely a yes

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I just pop down stairs put the kettle on for a quick cuppa and a bacon sandwich but cuddles are involved, yes.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Definitely love me some cuddles after, it kinda finishes the meet for me.

But it depends on what kind of meet it is and who you have met I guess as to if it happens.

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Hugs and kisses all the way....

Feels like I'm missing out without them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of coursely. Not for too long though as I overheat

That's okay, when you get too hot you can make coffee

Certainly. Milk, sugar or both? "

Both please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most defo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sure I'm up for cuddles post action x helps relax

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Cuddles absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to have a cuddle after it’s a must

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes please. And if cuddling turns to smooching and round 2,3 or more, all the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. And before. And during.

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By *aytay987Man
over a year ago

MK

100%! Love the worn out, deep breathing, soft cock holding that happens in the cuddles after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a cuddle, one thing I miss being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely but then I only do regular meets. I cancelled a meet when he said he didn’t think he would be able to cuddle- I’ve been in that situation before and didn’t want to be in that situation again. I cuddles

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Of coursely. Not for too long though as I overheat

That's okay, when you get too hot you can make coffee

Certainly. Milk, sugar or both?

Both please "

I'll go and buy us some sugar cubes, I'm very upmarket

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

A resounding yes from me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely love me some cuddles after, it kinda finishes the meet for me.

But it depends on what kind of meet it is and who you have met I guess as to if it happens.

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I would defo enjoy a cuddle with you

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Depends if I want more sex or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes please. And if cuddling turns to smooching and round 2,3 or more, all the better "

If the cuddle goes on long enough round 2 is defo happening

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By *ightowlingWoman
over a year ago

Near Taunton

Yes please! It warms my cockles to see everyone else saying 'yes' too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only to get a glance of some side boob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes definitely! Would feel horrible if someone literally unloaded, pulled out and said they had to go!! Not a good ending for me!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Always

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"As a couple the cuddles are between us only, we have no interest in cuddling or kissing a meet."
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only to get a glance of some side boob "

I dont want to glance side boob if its a proper spoon i am reaching round and cupping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always Cuddles !!

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends on the scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always! Always!! Always!

Love a cuddle

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Yes please. And if cuddling turns to smooching and round 2,3 or more, all the better "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a meet and you're finished having sex, cuddle after or just leave?

No judgements, just wanted to find out."

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meet for me is about far more than sex - it's spending time with someone socially as well as intimately in fact the thought of sex and go leaves me cold personally, although appreciate it works for some, so yes cuddling would form part of any time spent with someone "

Definitely agree with you

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Cuddles are fab, especially while you recover your energy for round 2 I've enjoyed one or two "fuck and go" meets with hot younger guys, but it's a bit soulless and I enjoy myself more when I can relax

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Seeing as I'm generally more girly than most girls I'd arguably rather have the cuddles over the sex....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God yeah! Naked cuddles are the best part of any meet.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Interesting that it's a resounding 'yes' from the singles.

I suspect you'd probably get a different answer from couples playing with an extra person (or two or more) for group fun whether male or female or even couples who just swap.

Having been both I can see the difference feom my past experiences. Singles meeting singles is likely to be closer to a normal vanilla relationship scenario whereas couples are more likely to be meeting others for purely physical fun with less emotional interaction.

I was always happy to do the 'cuddle' thing as a single. Wouldnt dream of it now.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a regular meet then cuddles for sure random in a club not so bothered about xx

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

If it’s a one off meet then no. Regular meet maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly cuddles while everyone gets their breath back. Regular playmates then longer cuddles for sure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddle

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Of course yes ..as long as it's a consentual cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely! Unless it's a scorching evening

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby


"When you have a meet and you're finished having sex, cuddle after or just leave?

No judgements, just wanted to find out."

Each case is different but if you want to cuddle and kiss after sex you’ve probably caught feelings and maybe in love

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale


"Always Cuddles !! "

Ill cuddle you regardless

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I’ve not cuddled on any of my meets..... I don’t know why, maybe because I don’t look for one and they don’t feel they need to I don’t know. They are usually over night too and we usually sleep opposite sides of the bed

I just might not seem a very cuddly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, otherwise it's a bit impersonal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my hubby yes, with a fwb after a few meets maybe, with a first meet or one off defo not

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By *rygveMan
over a year ago

The Shires

Depends on the kind of meet up you’ve had and how you’ve got on. Non cuddles don’t mean a cold meet either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a meet and you're finished having sex, cuddle after or just leave?

No judgements, just wanted to find out.

Each case is different but if you want to cuddle and kiss after sex you’ve probably caught feelings and maybe in love "

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love nothing more than snuggling into him after sex, chatting a bit, laughing together maybe, kissing which invariably leads to more sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is no time to cuddle before and after, its not a meet I'd bother going to tbh"

Same here

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

If its just sex then it's not really for me especially if it's a regular thing as I don't want feelings to start blurring the lines.

If we have engaged in BDSM/Sun-Domme play it's up the the sub. I know a few subs that can't relax without it. Really complex for a cuddle

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"When you have a meet and you're finished having sex, cuddle after or just leave?

No judgements, just wanted to find out.

Each case is different but if you want to cuddle and kiss after sex you’ve probably caught feelings and maybe in love "

That’s where we are going wrong , All this time worried about catching Corona but been catching flipping love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a meet and you're finished having sex, cuddle after or just leave?

No judgements, just wanted to find out."

Love to hug ..

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Yes. Cuddles are always nice afterwards.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Cuddling before, cuddling during, cuddling afterwards and cuddling as she’s trying to leave and go out the door......I’m really bloody clingy

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes often it can lead to round 2

Jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a meet and you're finished having sex, cuddle after or just leave?

No judgements, just wanted to find out.

Each case is different but if you want to cuddle and kiss after sex you’ve probably caught feelings and maybe in love

That’s where we are going wrong , All this time worried about catching Corona but been catching flipping love "

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"When you have a meet and you're finished having sex, cuddle after or just leave?

No judgements, just wanted to find out.

Each case is different but if you want to cuddle and kiss after sex you’ve probably caught feelings and maybe in love "

Erm... What makes you think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah nothing wrong with a good cuddle after. Catch your breath and relax for a while with a snuggle up is always a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nice to have cuddle

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By *erb51Man
over a year ago

Northants

Yes deffo, need a good cuddle buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely cuddles, especially if the fucking finished with spooning, I like to stay inside and keep slowly pushing in and out while having a good cuddle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how much energy I spend having sex, if I've got the energy to stay awake and cuddle I've not done it right, cuddling kissing and foreplay before sex and pass out from exhaustion after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on who I'm with..... Some people I don't really have any compatibility to out side of the bedroom and we both know it's just sex and nothing els there.... Some people are friends who I have sex with so after we'll just lay and chat shit for ages after and some there is that affection with where its nice to lay and cuddle... Also mood and the kind of play can change how it ends... I quite like when really rough sessions end kinda sweet and cuddly... Dno why tho "

This! though I much prefer meets with a bit of affection physical touch and cuddles thrown in.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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I do love some cuddles and kisses...especially if it means my hair is being stroked

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I do love some cuddles and kisses...especially if it means my hair is being stroked "

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me yes cuddles & snuggles are important... But that's when I kinda know them well after chatting for quite sometime... Sensual Sex Is My Thing. I so detest wham bam also.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I'm one of those weird people who can fuck the shit out of someone I don't love, but I HAVE to have SOME sort of feelings for you to want to have intimate cuddles with or kiss you.

By all means, stay and chat shit, have a laugh and a shower, but those breathless, intimate post-coital cuddles feel very unnatural to me with a stranger.

The only person I want to cuddle is Bradley, but I can see how that would make other people feel cold about the meet.

- Amy. x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Always it is a must. A good tight one as as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always Cuddles !! "

Agreed, and not just after.

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By *irebird567Woman
over a year ago

near by

Definitely cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm one of those weird people who can fuck the shit out of someone I don't love, but I HAVE to have SOME sort of feelings for you to want to have intimate cuddles with or kiss you.

By all means, stay and chat shit, have a laugh and a shower, but those breathless, intimate post-coital cuddles feel very unnatural to me with a stranger.

The only person I want to cuddle is Bradley, but I can see how that would make other people feel cold about the meet.

- Amy. x"

Exactly this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess one-night stands might be a bit more in-out-shake it all about whereas a relationship should warrant a little cuddling I think. I'd cuddle anyway, keeps you warm

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm one of those weird people who can fuck the shit out of someone I don't love, but I HAVE to have SOME sort of feelings for you to want to have intimate cuddles with or kiss you.

By all means, stay and chat shit, have a laugh and a shower, but those breathless, intimate post-coital cuddles feel very unnatural to me with a stranger.

The only person I want to cuddle is Bradley, but I can see how that would make other people feel cold about the meet.

- Amy. x"

I feel similarly and none of the men we've met either single or as part of a couple have wanted cuddles.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think if it has been an intense meet, a cuddle and a safe space are imperative/essential.

Saying that, cuddles are important even in a non sexual way.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes lots of cuddles for me

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

Definitely!

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By *j69funCouple
over a year ago

kildare

Big yes for us

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By *ly-FoxMan
over a year ago

mobile

YES.

I prefer to be big spoon

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I love a good cuddle and natter after.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

Oh yess

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It completely depends on the situation and if it feels right. I wouldn't be against it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes please. And if cuddling turns to smooching and round 2,3 or more, all the better "

This.

Cuddles and marathon session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely but then I only do regular meets. I cancelled a meet when he said he didn’t think he would be able to cuddle- I’ve been in that situation before and didn’t want to be in that situation again. I cuddles "

Cuddles Mandatory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cuddles, no sex lol

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By *ack-rayMan
over a year ago

worthing

Cuddle chat and chill out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve not cuddled on any of my meets..... I don’t know why, maybe because I don’t look for one and they don’t feel they need to I don’t know. They are usually over night too and we usually sleep opposite sides of the bed

I just might not seem a very cuddly "

You not doing it right.

Let me show you all about cuddling, spooning and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person I’m with...

some cuddle and I like that, some don’t and I’m ok with that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No cuddles, no sex lol"

That’s fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is no time to cuddle before and after, its not a meet I'd bother going to tbh"

I’m not interested in cold, clinical sex. If I don’t fancy a man enough for kisses and cuddles then I won’t want sex with him either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind either way, depending at the time xx

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By *rownhotnessMan
over a year ago

Cheshire/Midlands

Big spoon always

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

With another couple, especially one that has become friends then definitely.. normally a sleep over as well.

With a single guy, not so much as we’re waiting to cuddle ourselves.

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By *nAChinaShopMan
over a year ago

London


"With another couple, especially one that has become friends then definitely.. normally a sleep over as well.

With a single guy, not so much as we’re waiting to cuddle ourselves. "

I don’t think a guy could be too picky if you chose them, you’d just have to be grateful ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God yeah, her head on my chest playing with my chest hair!

Then off we go again hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely!!!!

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

Absolutely, for me a cuddle and a chat is part of of having sex

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It depends on who I'm with..... Some people I don't really have any compatibility to out side of the bedroom and we both know it's just sex and nothing els there.... Some people are friends who I have sex with so after we'll just lay and chat shit for ages after and some there is that affection with where its nice to lay and cuddle... Also mood and the kind of play can change how it ends... I quite like when really rough sessions end kinda sweet and cuddly... Dno why tho "

I fully agree. There are some guys I meet were we cuddle and chat after but others were we know what we are there for and cuddles and intimacy are not needed and in some cases don't even feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only cuddle with Kush after sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not to cuddle, I find it far too personal....yeah yeah I know we just banged each others brains out, but thats what the meet was for right?

I'd much prefer a cuppa and chat afterwards.

I think playing as a single that is married to playing as a couple with him it differs greatly.

We'd happily cuddle with a single fem who's joined us for a Ffm infact I think it essential if the fem wants it.

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By *igBick48Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

Spooning always leads to forking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me yes cuddles & snuggles are important... But that's when I kinda know them well after chatting for quite sometime... Sensual Sex Is My Thing. I so detest wham bam also."

Me too! Slow & easy, taking time to pleasure yourself and your partner. Lots of touching & kissing. Im a very tactile lover. Hate rushing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is no time to cuddle before and after, its not a meet I'd bother going to tbh

I’m not interested in cold, clinical sex. If I don’t fancy a man enough for kisses and cuddles then I won’t want sex with him either."

There has to be a serious level of attraction otherwise its not happening!

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

It depends on the meet and the couple but we like a cuddle with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. I do enjoy the cwtching and chatting after a session.. Feels too Mechanical otherwise.

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"A meet for me is about far more than sex - it's spending time with someone socially as well as intimately in fact the thought of sex and go leaves me cold personally, although appreciate it works for some, so yes cuddling would form part of any time spent with someone

Definitely agree with you "

I'll third this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

Cuddles and hair stroking are a definite must after all the rumpy pumpy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cuddling after a meet it’s sex and fun only. Cuddling is intermit for the partner only ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the dark room in chams after a marathon session! Not sure if it was cuddling or everyone collapsed gasping for water!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple the cuddles are between us only, we have no interest in cuddling or kissing a meet."

I would have to agree. I don't think I would be comfortable with Mike kissing or cuddling another woman. I think it would make it too personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No cuddling after a meet it’s sex and fun only. Cuddling is intermit for the partner only ??"

Not a great deal of experience, I must admit, but I think cuddling is important not only after but before and during as well.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I’ve not cuddled on any of my meets..... I don’t know why, maybe because I don’t look for one and they don’t feel they need to I don’t know. They are usually over night too and we usually sleep opposite sides of the bed

I just might not seem a very cuddly

You not doing it right.

Let me show you all about cuddling, spooning and more."

I’m quite happy to lie there and chat and laugh for a bit. Plus you haven’t seen my hair, you would have to be the little spoon

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"When you have a meet and you're finished having sex, cuddle after or just leave?

No judgements, just wanted to find out."
with a friend yes.. with a meet in a club... nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With hubby, always. With playmates, he’ll no. Drink and a chat is fine though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With hubby, always. With playmates, he’ll no. Drink and a chat is fine though x"
even if you come repeatedly and are totally exhausted? x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

No. I just wipe my knob on the curtains and I’m off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we have to have sex before we cuddle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a signed up member of the cuddle club

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A meet for me is about far more than sex - it's spending time with someone socially as well as intimately in fact the thought of sex and go leaves me cold personally, although appreciate it works for some, so yes cuddling would form part of any time spent with someone "

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a post sex spooning, big spoon here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have a meet and you're finished having sex, cuddle after or just leave?

No judgements, just wanted to find out."

Cuddle definitely. Hugely important to me. I don’t think I’d be able to care so little that I left a woman feel used up and not cared for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddling for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very important as it leads to round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, cuddles, then round 2 hopefully .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A drink and a chat is enough for us. But with each other, all the cuddles x

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"No cuddles, no sex lol"

Fancy a hug?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

A cuddle and a kiss, maybe a drink then another kiss and more cuddling is lovely

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Cuddling for me, It could lead to round two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes! Love cuddling, actually missing cuddling right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our meets (pre covid) were usually all-nighters so they’d get breakfast as well.

If they did leave early hours then always hugs and chats to come down from the high of the meet.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Husband yes, meets, drink and a chat

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By *essica FlabbitWoman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire

Yes you need a good cwtch after xx

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Absolutely yes

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By *risky businessMan
over a year ago

APharaohWay

Definitely yes gets you ready for round 2 lol x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Yes you need a good cwtch after xx"

Absolutely. Wouldn't be able to keep my hands off those curves.

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By *ivaniaMan
over a year ago

London

Yes from me, love cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I think I've only had one man I've met from here cuddle me after sex, and he doesn't do that often, even though I've been seeing him for almost 5 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't fuck a guy I cant cuddle

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I think I've only had one man I've met from here cuddle me after sex, and he doesn't do that often, even though I've been seeing him for almost 5 years."
I've had a few try and I freak...

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I think I've only had one man I've met from here cuddle me after sex, and he doesn't do that often, even though I've been seeing him for almost 5 years. I've had a few try and I freak... "

I think I would to be honest. Not used to it.

There may have been a couple more people who had a quick cuddle but I don't remember.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I wouldn't fuck a guy I cant cuddle "

How do you know he won't cuddle after sex, before sex?

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Got to have a cuddle..... before the next session!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Oh, cuddles are a must. If he don't cuddle me before, during & after, then I've seriously misjudged. X

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I love a cuddle, it would be nice to feel relaxed enough to kiss and cuddle but we haven’t met another couple yet, I hope they’d be up for it or we would at least cuddle our own partners whilst we all relax together rather than parting promptly after play.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to have a cuddle..... before the next session! "
just way i like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what the situation is when you meet but I would personally like a cuddle after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would be comfortable with it. Be it me or Mr. He doesn't see it as an issue. He's done it before with couples, but he was a single man. Maybe they were both comfortable with that. Surely everyone involved has to be comfortable? Mrs

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Depending on circumstances but it's lovely to have a great spoon afterwards it's recovery mode even more so depending on number of hours or how intense things have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depending on circumstances but it's lovely to have a great spoon afterwards it's recovery mode even more so depending on number of hours or how intense things have been "

I get his point and yours, but as a couple surely both parties have to be comfortable with it? Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London

Yes 100%.

Gotta love a naked spoon after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who with. A random hook up? Then nope. A fwb? Perhaps depending on the relationship. I feel like psychologically thats the time where lines get blurred for those who have fwb and want to keep it as such.

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By *xxsomonMan
over a year ago

rugeley

Thats a great question

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