FabSwingers.com forum: What would your former partner

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

think or even say about you if he knew you were on this site?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends which former partner. My last ond is dead and he knew i was here. My ex husband wouldnt be the least surprised i certainly wouldnt be surprised if i found him here

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My ex would not even allow me to sunbathe topless. He would be horrified and disgusted.x

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

He would try & use it against me to get full custody of our kids.

Jealous also. We dabbled years ago when we were together. Went to La Boudoir once. He couldnt get a hard on. Found out he was/is on viagra practically our entire 18yr relationship but never told me.

MsD

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"think or even say about you if he knew you were on this site?

Omg he was so vanilla he made vanilla look exotic. He would make my life a living hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex Mrs does know

As for what she thinks, I couldn't care less

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"think or even say about you if he knew you were on this site?

He does know. He’s disgusted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think or even say about you if he knew you were on this site?

Both my ex husbands wouldn't believe it and would probably be horrified!! Would love to tell them just to see the look on their faces!!

My ex partner is still on here somewhere...

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Actually I should have phrased it differently - I should have asked "What would your former partner think or say if he/ she knew" - apologies, the question is, of course, open to everybody.

I am asking because I recently told a very good friend of mine, who did not know and is rather straight laced. His response was disbelief and probably shock and he said that "people will judge you if they know"

For me that means that he probably judges me for it but tbh it does not bother me as it is my life and my decision.We are still good friends anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think or even say about you if he knew you were on this site?

Absolutely nothing as they know

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

She's freezing her tits off on the moral high ground

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I don’t think any of mine would be all that bothered. None of them are particularly judgemental. They’re good eggs

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

He's extremely vanilla so wouldn't understand why I do it

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

I think my past three partners would be more shocked if I wasnt here since this is where i met them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well she will be shocked but since I came over here she's been shocked by a lot of my activities so it might surprise her too much tbh lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He would be horrified and disgusted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He would hit the roof, and quite possibly me while he was at it.

Good reason he's an ex.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Ex husband I couldn’t give a fuck what he thought about anything to be honest.

First long term fwb (5 years together) I met on another site however he always made comments about meets I had even thought he was a swinger long before me

Last long term partner I also met on another site and he also had a profile here too so he was pretty cool about it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He knows, he wasn't happy but it's none of his bloody business. He doesn't particularly agree with the way I choose to live my life.

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

"think or even say about you if he knew you were on this site?

Used to be on here with her as a couple

She enjoyed the experience but i guess i enjoyed it more lol

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

1st major partner would probably be intrigued...

2nd only has interest in her own dealings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She'd probably think "I'm sorry, who?"

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Doubt he’d care. He’s married to someone else now and a lot of water has floated under that bridge. He’d probably want to check I’m not entertaining strange men under the same roof as his kids, which is understandable. I’d be the same.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Several of mine would probably horrified but not overly surprised

The most recent one would probably be intrigued and interested, but miffed that I was here as a single. I did want to go to clubs with her, not necessarily to play with others but to show off and be exhibitionists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex would probably say ... "he's a c*nt and a pervert"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would probably make me out to be an unsuitable mother like I'm not allowed a sex life...

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

No doubt he's on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

dunno, don't care. It was over 40 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have absolutely no idea what she'd think, and I couldn't really care.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

You didn’t leave

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

He'd likely use it to "clear his name" in his mind and tell people "see, I told ya she was fucked up in the head"

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I’m lucky as I don’t have a former partner I met and married my only partner and we have fun together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my ex on here, so no shocks for her there.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Oh she already knows and it pisses her off because shes in a vanilla relationship now, ex wives are never happy

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By *awhWoman
over a year ago

here

He wouldn't be surprised lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have thought she'd be shocked and appalled as she was quite prudish and really wasn't keen on sex for the last few years we were together.

However.... I've since found she was seeing another bloke, cheating, and talking via sex chat groups to numerous fellas. So she obviously wasn't as boring as I thought and so can't judge me if she does find out! Lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I don't care what he thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last one would likely be jealous.

My ex husband would be horrified

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

He joined fab just after I did with the woman he left me for - the reason for the name changes

J x

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

"Depends which former partner. My last ond is dead and he knew i was here. My ex husband wouldnt be the least surprised i certainly wouldnt be surprised if i found him here"

Yep my last one is dead too. But before he became ill we dipped our toe into the swingimg world for a few months. After 6 mths i decided to get back into it at clubs. Few yrs down the line met del.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends which former partner. My last ond is dead and he knew i was here. My ex husband wouldnt be the least surprised i certainly wouldnt be surprised if i found him here"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He'd be jealous.

He 'thought' he was sexually adventurous, but was a coward when it came to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was on here with me and wants us to have a couples account again even after the divorce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my current partner on here, been monogamous for 2 years until I suggested threesomes mff, now have a couple account. My ex would say "why the hell didnt we do this"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’ve been on and off it for about 12 years so most of them know

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Had a threesome with my last and was on here many years before with the one before that so they wouldn't be shocked haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex husband knows and really doesn't understand or approve.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met two of them here...

Anyone I've been involved with since I was 18 has known what I'm into.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've never been married, but ma last g/f knew that I was on here, we even toyed with the idea of setting up a couple's profile, but sadly that never happened as she got cold feet. I doubt it would come as any great surprise to any of ma previous long term partners if I'm honest

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

And tbh it wouldn't surprise me if my ex ex was on here as he was heavily into the swinging scene

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