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Pics alone don’t turn me on

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Seeing if anyone had this , It’s weird I don’t seem to get turned on my pics anymore unless I try to create a whole fantasy around it , am I too de-sensitised or do I just like different things now am not sure

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont get turned on by pictures either

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I get intrigued by pictures. Won’t deny it. But I guess that’s the same thing as building a scenario around the pic.

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks to see am not alone

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Flipping ’eck, I look at the pictures if I’m cooking, (which I do in a manly Floyd style), my imagination goes straight to my place where I shouldn’t be draining blood from my brain...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing if anyone had this , It’s weird I don’t seem to get turned on my pics anymore unless I try to create a whole fantasy around it , am I too de-sensitised or do I just like different things now am not sure "

Perhaps you see them as people and not just as 'porn'.

Depends on what the fantasy is I suppose.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Can't remember the last time a picture, or even a video aroused me physically - mentally it might spark something but even then not enough to reach physical arousal based on the pic/video alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pics on Fab don't turn me on. I can appreciate them and give fabs out to ones I like. Words turn me on more and allow me to build my own mental image.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"The pics on Fab don't turn me on. I can appreciate them and give fabs out to ones I like. Words turn me on more and allow me to build my own mental image."

Yep this. I've never seen a photo on here and been turned on - a photo taken just for me and that shows a level of intimacy, yes. Words are far more erotic and enticing to me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I get intrigued by pictures. Won’t deny it. But I guess that’s the same thing as building a scenario around the pic. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing if anyone had this , It’s weird I don’t seem to get turned on my pics anymore unless I try to create a whole fantasy around it , am I too de-sensitised or do I just like different things now am not sure "

Still very much turned on by pics here (... even at this age) but I'm from the generation who's whole month could be brightened by finding somebodies wank mag stash so we're all like kids in the proverbial sweet shop. I guess the Internet has instilled a degree of boredom through normalisation.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd add OP that some pics have quite the opposite effect.

As for reasons why they don't turn me on - de-sensitisation probably comes into it, when you spend a lot of time here, seeing naked pics becomes almost routine - in my case age is probably a factor too, de-personalisation is another and many other subliminal things too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The pics on Fab don't turn me on. I can appreciate them and give fabs out to ones I like. Words turn me on more and allow me to build my own mental image.

Yep this. I've never seen a photo on here and been turned on - a photo taken just for me and that shows a level of intimacy, yes. Words are far more erotic and enticing to me."

Yes an intimate photo just for me and words with it would get me more turned on

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd add OP that some pics have quite the opposite effect.

As for reasons why they don't turn me on - de-sensitisation probably comes into it, when you spend a lot of time here, seeing naked pics becomes almost routine - in my case age is probably a factor too, de-personalisation is another and many other subliminal things too."

100% agreed , I get put off when I see dick pics mainly even if the person is just messaging me but they pic is a dick pic it put me off the convo it self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visually people don’t turn me on. I can think someone is hot but I need to be mentally engaged to want them sexually

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Visually people don’t turn me on. I can think someone is hot but I need to be mentally engaged to want them sexually "

I can be attracted but need to know that’s they on the same wavelength as me to want more , might be different from you

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Same.

I think I'm desensitised plus nothing really turns me on at the moment!

But mostly...I've seen so much underlying turmoil that I have begun to genuinely worry about people.

It's almost like I think "ok, what level of fucked-upness badge are you wearing, and if you're not wearing one, what the fuck are you hiding?"

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Same.

I think I'm desensitised plus nothing really turns me on at the moment!

But mostly...I've seen so much underlying turmoil that I have begun to genuinely worry about people.

It's almost like I think "ok, what level of fucked-upness badge are you wearing, and if you're not wearing one, what the fuck are you hiding?"

"

Haha I feel you on that , but tbh talking dirty doesn’t work for me either.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Same.

I think I'm desensitised plus nothing really turns me on at the moment!

But mostly...I've seen so much underlying turmoil that I have begun to genuinely worry about people.

It's almost like I think "ok, what level of fucked-upness badge are you wearing, and if you're not wearing one, what the fuck are you hiding?"

Haha I feel you on that , but tbh talking dirty doesn’t work for me either. "

Nor me.

I have to be already into someone for it to get my juices flowing, same as pics.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Pictures, video and certainly chatting about it, doesn’t turns me on anymore. However I’ve always found erotic stories a massive turn on and last week found a really great one that certainly had me tingling

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I can see a pic, or a video and it gets my juices flowing and I imagine what I'd like to do is I was there. I've always been very visual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only really get turned on by a photo if I share a connection with that person.

I definitely can still look at a random cock picture or a topless man and appreciate it, but I wouldn't say it makes me horny.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I like to look at pictures to see if there is a possible interest but I don’t get turned on until the actual face to face meet

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I only really get turned on by a photo if I share a connection with that person.

I definitely can still look at a random cock picture or a topless man and appreciate it, but I wouldn't say it makes me horny. "

That bum makes me horny.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I think a picture of a well-dressed guy is often sexier, hornier than a number of shots of his genitals. Not saying they cannot be sexy but having something for the imagination can be a huge turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only really get turned on by a photo if I share a connection with that person.

I definitely can still look at a random cock picture or a topless man and appreciate it, but I wouldn't say it makes me horny. "

I'd agree with this from my point of view (although very very very occasionally a really lovely erect cock pic. will get me hard).

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