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"I'm aware of it and I try not to think about it." I try not to in general, until I take a pic of my arse then I'm confronted by it. Not sure if it's a good thing or a bad thing. Defo need to work on body acceptance more | |||
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"So my latest avatar I very nearly didn't post. Only reason was because of the cellulite dimples. Usually I try to hide the cellulite by being bent over. But it's something many of us ladies have, so why am I so embarrassed about it? Seems a bit pointless but can't shake off that it's a bad thing. What are your thoughts on cellulite? Is it something you're concious of or something you don't think about? " I can find it sexy, slightly depends but it can be for sure | |||
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"Do men get cellulite ?" They can but it’s not common. Women’s bodies store fat cells differently to men. About 80% of women have or will get cellulite at some point. | |||
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"I tend to think more about the wobbles I have than the cellulite." That's the thing though lots of us have wobbles too. I know I do | |||
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"It's taken me my 63 years to accept my body for how it is I'm more confident now than my younger years! I would never have displayed my flesh back in those days! X" And you look amazing x | |||
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"I tend to think more about the wobbles I have than the cellulite. That's the thing though lots of us have wobbles too. I know I do " If it wobbles enough in the flesh then the dimples get blurred | |||
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"Do men get cellulite ? They can but it’s not common. Women’s bodies store fat cells differently to men. About 80% of women have or will get cellulite at some point. " Exactly so the logical part of me knows I'm being ridiculous. So frustrating stupid arse brain | |||
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"Do men get cellulite ? They can but it’s not common. Women’s bodies store fat cells differently to men. About 80% of women have or will get cellulite at some point. " Oh right, thanks | |||
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"I tend to think more about the wobbles I have than the cellulite. That's the thing though lots of us have wobbles too. I know I do If it wobbles enough in the flesh then the dimples get blurred "Bloody love that thought  | |||
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"Do men get cellulite ? They can but it’s not common. Women’s bodies store fat cells differently to men. About 80% of women have or will get cellulite at some point. Exactly so the logical part of me knows I'm being ridiculous. So frustrating stupid arse brain " I’m exactly the same though. I know it’s so common and why it happens but I everytime I see it I think nooooo cover it up cover it up! | |||
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"It's taken me my 63 years to accept my body for how it is I'm more confident now than my younger years! I would never have displayed my flesh back in those days! X And you look amazing x" Ty u really do look amazing and that hair!  X | |||
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 as per, you look insanely beautiful!
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Ps she always impresses me when she pushes herself to do it.
But before anyone says I don't force her into anything she's not comfortable doing nor would I have her post anything that I don't think makes her look sexy. I'm not that much of a bastard. I build up her confidence not knock her down  | |||
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I love your shape and you look good in your skin.
I used to be bothered by it, but it's like stretch marks there's not alot you can do about them so why worry?!
I am starting to worry less. 
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"Shake dat ass for me Shake dat ass for me Embrace and love yourself If you've got it flaunt it Even if you see it as a flaw or to be embarrassed about Its also empowering and sexy when you exude confidence. I push Alice to be more confident with herself and be more comfortable with herself We have an agreement that she will put certain things up for 24hours of shes not keen and I love the response to it Madhatter
Ps she always impresses me when she pushes herself to do it.
But before anyone says I don't force her into anything she's not comfortable doing nor would I have her post anything that I don't think makes her look sexy. I'm not that much of a bastard. I build up her confidence not knock her down "I totally get you Madhatter, M has guided me into taking photos of my body. Before we got together I couldn't look at myself in the mirror. But we lived apart and well.... | |||
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"Other people's cellulite has never put me off anyone, I don't find it unattractive. My own, though I used to hate it, I've genuinely just gradually stopped caring...mostly because I've learned that all women have it. As for your pic...holy shitballs woman! as per, you look insanely beautiful!
Lu "Others cellulite I don't give a crap about but mine, need to give my head a wobble | |||
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"I love the picture Frida!
I love your shape and you look good in your skin.
I used to be bothered by it, but it's like stretch marks there's not alot you can do about them so why worry?!
I am starting to worry less.
Jo.Xx "Getting there slowly, wouldn't have posted that picture this time last year that's for sure | |||
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"Other people's cellulite has never put me off anyone, I don't find it unattractive. My own, though I used to hate it, I've genuinely just gradually stopped caring...mostly because I've learned that all women have it. As for your pic...holy shitballs woman! as per, you look insanely beautiful!
Lu
Others cellulite I don't give a crap about but mine, need to give my head a wobble "It's a journey...one I'm very much still on... But look atchoo! Travelling in style  | |||
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"I love the picture Frida!
I love your shape and you look good in your skin.
I used to be bothered by it, but it's like stretch marks there's not alot you can do about them so why worry?!
I am starting to worry less.
Jo.Xx
Getting there slowly, wouldn't have posted that picture this time last year that's for sure "When I say I was bothered I meant by mine not anybody else's.
And I was just the same this place has taught me some things. But I'm still learning. I love to see progression though in everyone.
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"I love the picture Frida!
I love your shape and you look good in your skin.
I used to be bothered by it, but it's like stretch marks there's not alot you can do about them so why worry?!
I am starting to worry less.
Jo.Xx
Getting there slowly, wouldn't have posted that picture this time last year that's for sure "I think you look amazing Frida. But I know what you mean. I hate pictures of my fat cellulitey belly, so never show it. I need to realise I'll never be 'perfect'! I AM gradually getting a little more body confident, though x | |||
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"Shake dat ass for me Shake dat ass for me Embrace and love yourself If you've got it flaunt it Even if you see it as a flaw or to be embarrassed about Its also empowering and sexy when you exude confidence. I push Alice to be more confident with herself and be more comfortable with herself We have an agreement that she will put certain things up for 24hours of shes not keen and I love the response to it Madhatter
Ps she always impresses me when she pushes herself to do it.
But before anyone says I don't force her into anything she's not comfortable doing nor would I have her post anything that I don't think makes her look sexy. I'm not that much of a bastard. I build up her confidence not knock her down
I totally get you Madhatter, M has guided me into taking photos of my body. Before we got together I couldn't look at myself in the mirror. But we lived apart and well...."Your picture/picture's are stunning. Photo's I have always been comfortable and confident with, cellulite, stretch marks and scars all good. But it's videos where I lose any confidence, I don't know why I just cringe but with his help I am getting better
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"Shake dat ass for me Shake dat ass for me Embrace and love yourself If you've got it flaunt it Even if you see it as a flaw or to be embarrassed about Its also empowering and sexy when you exude confidence. I push Alice to be more confident with herself and be more comfortable with herself We have an agreement that she will put certain things up for 24hours of shes not keen and I love the response to it Madhatter
Ps she always impresses me when she pushes herself to do it.
But before anyone says I don't force her into anything she's not comfortable doing nor would I have her post anything that I don't think makes her look sexy. I'm not that much of a bastard. I build up her confidence not knock her down
I totally get you Madhatter, M has guided me into taking photos of my body. Before we got together I couldn't look at myself in the mirror. But we lived apart and well....
Your picture/picture's are stunning.
Photo's I have always been comfortable and confident with, cellulite, stretch marks and scars all good. But it's videos where I lose any confidence, I don't know why I just cringe but with his help I am getting better
Alice x"Aw you two are too cute x | |||
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"In my experience, women tend to worry a lot about things men don't even consider an issue. I (Luke) have seen your photos and I think you look gorgeous, and that means all of you. If I ever had the privilege of getting my hands on your body, there is no way I would look at your bum and think there was anything wrong with it. It really wouldn't even cross my mind. But then again, your issues with your bum probably aren't because you think I would find fault with it. " Think you're right there with women holding different standards to things like cellulite, stretch marks and wobbly bits. And thank you that is kind of you to say | |||
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"It's bloody annoying though isn't it, you logic it all out and you know you're being stupid. And you definitely wouldn't be so mean to someone else, but you'll happily be your own worse enemy. Grr " We're all our own worst enemies | |||
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"It's bloody annoying though isn't it, you logic it all out and you know you're being stupid. And you definitely wouldn't be so mean to someone else, but you'll happily be your own worse enemy. Grr We're all our own worst enemies "I'm one of my own best friends  | |||
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It’s not something I think about anymore, I’m a bit girl and I’ve been so self conscious over my body in the past but I feel quite confident at the moment and I’m enjoying my lumps and bumps and wobbly bits | |||
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"In my experience, women tend to worry a lot about things men don't even consider an issue. I (Luke) have seen your photos and I think you look gorgeous, and that means all of you. If I ever had the privilege of getting my hands on your body, there is no way I would look at your bum and think there was anything wrong with it. It really wouldn't even cross my mind. But then again, your issues with your bum probably aren't because you think I would find fault with it. " | |||
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"Do men get cellulite ? They can but it’s not common. Women’s bodies store fat cells differently to men. About 80% of women have or will get cellulite at some point. " Exactly, my granddaughter doesn't have it yet, but she is only 6. Every other female bum I have seen in the flesh has had it! It's so common place I don't really notice it, it's just part of normal womanhood in my eyes. By the way, my granddaughter did have it as a baby though, made the raspberries better... | |||
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"So my latest avatar I very nearly didn't post. Only reason was because of the cellulite dimples. Usually I try to hide the cellulite by being bent over. But it's something many of us ladies have, so why am I so embarrassed about it? Seems a bit pointless but can't shake off that it's a bad thing. What are your thoughts on cellulite? Is it something you're concious of or something you don't think about? " Its not easy being a woman is it..jeez..seriously though...ye have so much to deal with ..periods...childbirth..menopause ..physical insecurities like as you say here cellulite..Stretch marks..etc etc ..Huge salute to the female species...how the fuck ye deal with it all is unbeliveable...Huge Salute. | |||
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"So my latest avatar I very nearly didn't post. Only reason was because of the cellulite dimples. Usually I try to hide the cellulite by being bent over. But it's something many of us ladies have, so why am I so embarrassed about it? Seems a bit pointless but can't shake off that it's a bad thing. What are your thoughts on cellulite? Is it something you're concious of or something you don't think about? " I'm in my 60s, losing friends younger than me. I'm grateful for each day and cellulite wouldn't be in the top 10,000 of things I worry about. Now if you're talking alopecia... | |||
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"So my latest avatar I very nearly didn't post. Only reason was because of the cellulite dimples. Usually I try to hide the cellulite by being bent over. But it's something many of us ladies have, so why am I so embarrassed about it? Seems a bit pointless but can't shake off that it's a bad thing. What are your thoughts on cellulite? Is it something you're concious of or something you don't think about? " I follow karinairby on Instagram for loads of cellulite positive pics and posts xx | |||
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"So my latest avatar I very nearly didn't post. Only reason was because of the cellulite dimples. Usually I try to hide the cellulite by being bent over. But it's something many of us ladies have, so why am I so embarrassed about it? Seems a bit pointless but can't shake off that it's a bad thing. What are your thoughts on cellulite? Is it something you're concious of or something you don't think about? Its not easy being a woman is it..jeez..seriously though...ye have so much to deal with ..periods...childbirth..menopause ..physical insecurities like as you say here cellulite..Stretch marks..etc etc ..Huge salute to the female species...how the fuck ye deal with it all is unbeliveable...Huge Salute." Thank you, Badboy. Your compassion is well received here. Child bearing has totally destroyed my body and left me with permeant disability and gynaecological damage. | |||
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"I don't have any." Congratulations. Most women do have cellulite to some extent. | |||
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"So my latest avatar I very nearly didn't post. Only reason was because of the cellulite dimples. Usually I try to hide the cellulite by being bent over. But it's something many of us ladies have, so why am I so embarrassed about it? Seems a bit pointless but can't shake off that it's a bad thing. What are your thoughts on cellulite? Is it something you're concious of or something you don't think about? I follow karinairby on Instagram for loads of cellulite positive pics and posts xx" Thank you checked her out and now following | |||
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"I saw your photo and thought you looked bloody gorgeous! I didn't even notice the cellulite but I do understand what you mean as I'm curvy and have cellulite too and it does bother me at times. I've always had it even when I was a size 10, but now as a size 16 it is pretty noticeable. I am more accepting about it than I used to be, it used to make me feel so miserable and I would obsess over it but now I just get on with it and don't think about it too much!! I don't like when I catch sight of it in the mirror though but it is so normal and I think we are seeing that more and more through social media etc which definitely helps to not be so hard on yourself. " Lemony lady - your bum is | |||
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"I saw your photo and thought you looked bloody gorgeous! I didn't even notice the cellulite but I do understand what you mean as I'm curvy and have cellulite too and it does bother me at times. I've always had it even when I was a size 10, but now as a size 16 it is pretty noticeable. I am more accepting about it than I used to be, it used to make me feel so miserable and I would obsess over it but now I just get on with it and don't think about it too much!! I don't like when I catch sight of it in the mirror though but it is so normal and I think we are seeing that more and more through social media etc which definitely helps to not be so hard on yourself. Lemony lady - your bum is "Thank you, you lovely lady!
You can kind of see mine under the butt crease in my avatar but the worst of my cellulite is mid thigh and I usually crop it out. But I have to remember that even even with my wobbly and chunky thighs I am still pretty awesome. | |||
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"I saw your photo and thought you looked bloody gorgeous! I didn't even notice the cellulite but I do understand what you mean as I'm curvy and have cellulite too and it does bother me at times. I've always had it even when I was a size 10, but now as a size 16 it is pretty noticeable. I am more accepting about it than I used to be, it used to make me feel so miserable and I would obsess over it but now I just get on with it and don't think about it too much!! I don't like when I catch sight of it in the mirror though but it is so normal and I think we are seeing that more and more through social media etc which definitely helps to not be so hard on yourself. Lemony lady - your bum is
Thank you, you lovely lady!
You can kind of see mine under the butt crease in my avatar but the worst of my cellulite is mid thigh and I usually crop it out. But I have to remember that even even with my wobbly and chunky thighs I am still pretty awesome. "Definitely. Funnily enough, both you and Frida have been on my hot list for a while... | |||
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"I saw your photo and thought you looked bloody gorgeous! I didn't even notice the cellulite but I do understand what you mean as I'm curvy and have cellulite too and it does bother me at times. I've always had it even when I was a size 10, but now as a size 16 it is pretty noticeable. I am more accepting about it than I used to be, it used to make me feel so miserable and I would obsess over it but now I just get on with it and don't think about it too much!! I don't like when I catch sight of it in the mirror though but it is so normal and I think we are seeing that more and more through social media etc which definitely helps to not be so hard on yourself. " Thank you LBC had a bit of a fuck if moment last night. And same I normally hide it because I don't like it. But the more I see it and put it out there, the more I hope it becomes normal to me. | |||
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"So my latest avatar I very nearly didn't post. Only reason was because of the cellulite dimples. Usually I try to hide the cellulite by being bent over. But it's something many of us ladies have, so why am I so embarrassed about it? Seems a bit pointless but can't shake off that it's a bad thing. What are your thoughts on cellulite? Is it something you're concious of or something you don't think about? " I think us women of any age are way too critical of ourselves and think guys notice our little imperfections far more than they actually do. For me OP the first thing I see in your picture is your lovely hair. | |||
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"So my latest avatar I very nearly didn't post. Only reason was because of the cellulite dimples. Usually I try to hide the cellulite by being bent over. But it's something many of us ladies have, so why am I so embarrassed about it? Seems a bit pointless but can't shake off that it's a bad thing. What are your thoughts on cellulite? Is it something you're concious of or something you don't think about? " I love cellulite, stretch marks, wobbly bits so it's a good thing. Women you're all beautiful in different ways and don't let imperfections hold you back. | |||
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