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More male or female friends?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't have any guys I call friends but quite a few women. How about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some amazing girl friends in real life, but I also have a couple of good platonic male friends too

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

In real life i have more female friends. On here i have more male

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"In real life i have more female friends. On here i have more male"

The same but the other way round

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

It’s a 50/50 mix for me.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

About an equal balance on here and off. Always has been the case since I was teenager

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Male.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

50/50

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

More male friends for sure, and only one true female friend who knows everything about me

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Definitely more male...in fact, hardly any female

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I’m a girls girl. Most of my friends are women, although I do have a quite a few guy friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I seem to be the odd one out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely more male...in fact, hardly any female "

Are females harder to be friends with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More male friends than female in the real world. My friends list here is only female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have far more closer and better female friends off fab, just a couple of male friends

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Definitely more male...in fact, hardly any female

Are females harder to be friends with?"

I used to think so. It's changed for me probably in the last ten years. For me it's down to communication style and a willingness to be vulnerable in different ways.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Most of my friends are male, in real life and the fabosphere as well.

The few female friends I do have tend to be very very close or just acquaintances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely more male...in fact, hardly any female

Are females harder to be friends with?

I used to think so. It's changed for me probably in the last ten years. For me it's down to communication style and a willingness to be vulnerable in different ways. "

How is the communication different?

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

One or two of each for me

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

I have only one proper female friend and a few, close, platonic male friends. I just seem to find it easier to get on with guys x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Definitely more male...in fact, hardly any female

Are females harder to be friends with?

I used to think so. It's changed for me probably in the last ten years. For me it's down to communication style and a willingness to be vulnerable in different ways.

How is the communication different?"

It's difficult to explain, and it's not entirely generalisable because women don't all interact in the same way, clearly.

But there's ways women and men are usually taught to interact. I used to shy away from the roles I'd been taught, almost trying to be an honorary boy. But it doesn't serve me.

I find my relationships richer and fuller being myself, including the gendered conditioning I've experienced.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"Definitely more male...in fact, hardly any female

Are females harder to be friends with?"

For me, yes...I don't "get" women. I just find men easier to get along with, always have. I can be very straight talking, and I've found that generally men appreciate that, but women tend to think I'm being nasty and get upset by it (* gross generalisation, not all men or women, but the majority in my personal experience). Plus I'm not a girly girl, I'd rather have a conversation about cars than makeup or clothes. I have more male friends than female away from fab too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life I have very few friends, but about 50/50 really. Have more female friends on here than male.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Real life it's evens of both sexes

On here its mostly men

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Mainly female friends on here but I do chat a couple of guy's too.

In life I have a mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any guys I call friends but quite a few women. How about you?"

I thought you and I had a connection... it seems I was just dreaming

In real life I have a lot of man friends but one of my oldest and dearest friends is a chick.

Also... my wife and I are really good friends.

She’s a good friend, I hold her hair back when she’s drank to many shots and is icky.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I (Mrs) get on better with guys, Mr gets on better with women. But neither of us has very many really close friends, we mainly have each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have any guys I call friends but quite a few women. How about you?

I thought you and I had a connection... it seems I was just dreaming

In real life I have a lot of man friends but one of my oldest and dearest friends is a chick.

Also... my wife and I are really good friends.

She’s a good friend, I hold her hair back when she’s drank to many shots and is icky."

Maybe I won't have as many female friends if I ever get a wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a solid mix of both male and female, and have always had a mix since I was a kid. I was probably one of the only girls who was encouraged to have more male friends as a kid ??

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I prefer the humour of men.

I only have two close female friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any guys I call friends but quite a few women. How about you?

I thought you and I had a connection... it seems I was just dreaming

In real life I have a lot of man friends but one of my oldest and dearest friends is a chick.

Also... my wife and I are really good friends.

She’s a good friend, I hold her hair back when she’s drank to many shots and is icky.

Maybe I won't have as many female friends if I ever get a wife!"

You can have both.

You just have to find the right wife!

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By *awhWoman
over a year ago

here

More male friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More male friends "

Did one of them do that to your bum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 5 or 6 close male friends

I get on very well with women, especially the ones who are open to a bit of smut

I don't mix well with prudes

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Many more female friends. I just don't get men, women are so much easier to get along with. I find that very often men fail to see the nuances of, well anything, while women are more appreciative of the complexities inherent in negotiating modern society. I guess not all men are the same, maybe it's just those in my experience.

It may be that I'm just not that interested in "manly" things, I frankly get bored by anyone talking about cars or football or nights out on the piss... Conversing about literature, feminism, equality, society, science, the arts is much more me and for whatever reason seems to be more likely to be found in female company than male. This is not just my experience on fab either, it's very much the same across all parts of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good mixture of both

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I don't have any guys I call friends but quite a few women. How about you?"
I have mostly male friends... but basically as I'm into Cars and bikes etc.. I do have a few great female friends but I'm such a laddette half the time x

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