FabSwingers.com forum: Stand Out Dude!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here we’re are ladies.

Please explain me how does a single guy stands out from the crowd of your 2345 messages without being rude, unapologetic, crying for help, sending cock pics or USING CAPITAL LETTERS. Lol

Thanks for your help xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a wonderful personality and make us laugh!! Works everytime!! Good luck!!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Use your sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use your sense of humour.

There you are ..... where have you BEEN !! I've been waiting for you to show up ALL day Stormtrooper!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be hot as fuck and have a handsome face, the rest is bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a wonderful personality and make us laugh!! Works everytime!! Good luck!!

This, it's not always about how you look. Involvement in my very humble opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use your sense of humour.

CG.. How goes it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be hot as fuck and have a handsome face, the rest is bollocks "
I think same dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually try to have a convo with woman and engage their mind. Don’t use text speak and understand through all the messages it make take some time but if it’s quality they will answer. Also be selective and go on chat sometimes to converse. Good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have a wonderful personality and make us laugh!! Works everytime!! Good luck!!

This, it's not always about how you look. Involvement in my very humble opinion.

Could you please be more specific?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Actually try to have a convo with woman and engage their mind. Don’t use text speak and understand through all the messages it make take some time but if it’s quality they will answer. Also be selective and go on chat sometimes to converse. Good luck mate "

All of this!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Use your sense of humour.

There you are ..... where have you BEEN !! I've been waiting for you to show up ALL day Stormtrooper!!

Hiya. Fab isnt my life. Im a busy man.

You could always send me a message

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a wonderful personality and make us laugh!! Works everytime!! Good luck!!

This, it's not always about how you look. Involvement in my very humble opinion.

Could you please be more specific?"

Specifically be yourself...it's not something someone can tell you. Be genuine and you will stand out to the right people.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use your sense of humour.

There you are ..... where have you BEEN !! I've been waiting for you to show up ALL day Stormtrooper!!

Hiya. Fab isnt my life. Im a busy man.

You could always send me a message

xxxxx"

Actually I was going to tomorrow Mr Fiesty Pants !!

So now you will just have to wait for it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use your sense of humour.

CG.. How goes it? "

Another one with personality!! Can you please leave a brief description

I don't think I said it right !!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Use your sense of humour.

There you are ..... where have you BEEN !! I've been waiting for you to show up ALL day Stormtrooper!!

Hiya. Fab isnt my life. Im a busy man.

You could always send me a message

xxxxx

Actually I was going to tomorrow Mr Fiesty Pants !!

So now you will just have to wait for it !!

Excuse me - do you mind?

It's SIR Feisty Pants thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Use your sense of humour.

CG.. How goes it? "

Yo dude. I'm busy, but trying to spread the love and laughter.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

What stands out will be different for different women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ohhh really? Why didn’t I think of that earlier

I’m so dumb lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

If I were a bloke:

Don't message anyone and everyone just coz they own a clunge. Seriously, be selective. If you JUST want sex then ignore that of course, I just know that I personally ain't gonna message someone and tell them they're so beautiful I'd love to meet them without knowing what their personality is like. Surely you want a laugh or whatever, or at least know you have some common ground that's not just "me penis, you vageeeen"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use your sense of humour.

There you are ..... where have you BEEN !! I've been waiting for you to show up ALL day Stormtrooper!!

Hiya. Fab isnt my life. Im a busy man.

You could always send me a message

xxxxx

Actually I was going to tomorrow Mr Fiesty Pants !!

So now you will just have to wait for it !!

Excuse me - do you mind?

It's SIR Feisty Pants thank you.

Clears throat .... My Bad ....

Oh Fablous Sir Fiesty Pants ... If it pleases you will you check your message box in the am tomorrow and look for my ever so humble message.Thank you kind Sir.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Have an an amazing sense of humour and think I’m the bees knees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

Lol"

Heyyyyyy I'm not flirting. I really was trying to be helpful.

And whoever said That they were trying to learn.... they had a personality!! It was a good example !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But what if bees don’t have knees?

Ladies, guys are dumb! They don’t speak your same language..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol "

It was you OP !

Well done you appear to have a personality... so you will stand out !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

Lol

Heyyyyyy I'm not flirting. I really was trying to be helpful.

And whoever said That they were trying to learn.... they had a personality!! It was a good example !!

Errrm.. am I missing something, again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have an an amazing sense of humour and think I’m the bees knees. "

One of those is an easy kill the other...well can’t have it all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have an an amazing sense of humour and think I’m the bees knees.

One of those is an easy kill the other...well can’t have it all "

You did actually acknowledged I’m still trying to understand what does that even means, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

Lol

Heyyyyyy I'm not flirting. I really was trying to be helpful.

And whoever said That they were trying to learn.... they had a personality!! It was a good example !!

Errrm.. am I missing something, again?"

No ... I don't think you are getting what I tried to say . Maybe I'm confused

When I read that I didn't know who wrote it. And it was a answer that had personality!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

It was you OP !

Well done you appear to have a personality... so you will stand out !!

Thank you 3 but I actually thought all people had a personality.. I mean Cogito ergo Sum

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

Lol

Heyyyyyy I'm not flirting. I really was trying to be helpful.

And whoever said That they were trying to learn.... they had a personality!! It was a good example !!

Errrm.. am I missing something, again?"

She was actually paying you a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what if bees don’t have knees?

Ladies, guys are dumb! They don’t speak your same language.. "

ALL guys are dumb.. Really?

Don't generalise all people under the one banner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be hot as fuck and have a handsome face, the rest is bollocks I think same dude"

You certainly have a much hotter body in your profile than mine but I'm not the one asking this question.

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

Show you have read their profile and are genuinely interested in them, or like someone who messaged me the other day ask a light-hearted, thought provoking question. It made me think and made me want to reply.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"But what if bees don’t have knees?

Ladies, guys are dumb! They don’t speak your same language.. "

dumb - awww thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be hot as fuck and have a handsome face, the rest is bollocks I think same dude

You certainly have a much hotter body in your profile than mine but I'm not the one asking this question."

I see Sir, so what would You eloquently suggest instead of making low insinuations, because from what I read You did not add any significant help to the post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

It was you OP !

Well done you appear to have a personality... so you will stand out !!

Thank you 3 but I actually thought all people had a personality.. I mean Cogito ergo Sum "

4.Yes that is true but some some people have sucky personalities!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Show you have read their profile and are genuinely interested in them, or like someone who messaged me the other day ask a light-hearted, thought provoking question. It made me think and made me want to reply.

I believe there’s a peculiar interest for anybody, in your case he hit the right spot probably or maybe you were just so annoyed by all the other useless messages and you wanted to give a chance to that touching provocation. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

It was you OP !

Well done you appear to have a personality... so you will stand out !!

Thank you 3 but I actually thought all people had a personality.. I mean Cogito ergo Sum

4.Yes that is true but some some people have sucky personalities!!

5- I believe that is actually me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be hot as fuck and have a handsome face, the rest is bollocks I think same dude

You certainly have a much hotter body in your profile than mine but I'm not the one asking this question.

I see Sir, so what would You eloquently suggest instead of making low insinuations, because from what I read You did not add any significant help to the post."

I was catching up on the thread as I don't see much point in offering advice that might've already been doled out to someone who obviously needs help, judging by your bull-in-a-china shop attitude.

For a start, recognise friendly banter for what it is and join in rather than throwing accusations of flirting......I'm not done yet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhh really? Why didn’t I think of that earlier

I’m so dumb lol

See the pattern here, bull-in-a-china shop?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be hot as fuck and have a handsome face, the rest is bollocks I think same dude

You certainly have a much hotter body in your profile than mine but I'm not the one asking this question.

I see Sir, so what would You eloquently suggest instead of making low insinuations, because from what I read You did not add any significant help to the post.

I was catching up on the thread as I don't see much point in offering advice that might've already been doled out to someone who obviously needs help, judging by your bull-in-a-china shop attitude.

For a start, recognise friendly banter for what it is and join in rather than throwing accusations of flirting......I'm not done yet....."

I’m still waiting for you to be done..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

It was you OP !

Well done you appear to have a personality... so you will stand out !!

Thank you 3 but I actually thought all people had a personality.. I mean Cogito ergo Sum

4.Yes that is true but some some people have sucky personalities!!

5- I believe that is actually me lol "

6. I think there is probaly still some hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I really don't want to waste any more time here. The more I scroll down this thread, the less I want to help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

It was you OP !

Well done you appear to have a personality... so you will stand out !!

Thank you 3 but I actually thought all people had a personality.. I mean Cogito ergo Sum

4.Yes that is true but some some people have sucky personalities!!

5- I believe that is actually me lol

6. I think there is probaly still some hope

7- on the Seventh Heaven there’s hope for all people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry, I really don't want to waste any more time here. The more I scroll down this thread, the less I want to help."

Hey let's go slay some dragons and literally get lit !!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Sorry, I really don't want to waste any more time here. The more I scroll down this thread, the less I want to help."

He's certainly standing out from other guys now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry, I really don't want to waste any more time here. The more I scroll down this thread, the less I want to help."

You see now, your friendly banter shown some vanity. There’s no good intentions in vanity.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

In our experience, read our profile and then don’t ignore it when you message. Most guys send one word or one sentence texts!

Don’t have a silhouette profile pic, right more than ‘I’ll fill this in later’ on your profile

have some pic’s which aren’t of your dick, by all means have nude pic’s but not just close ups.

If you do these things, then you get into the 1% that we would read and respond to. Nothing guaranteed, but you would have been noticed and saved a lot of wasted energy & frustration

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Write!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a wonderful personality like? Lol this is so ambiguous as an answer

A. Have a personality

B. HOPE it is wonderful and stands out !!

Like me then?

EXACTLY!!!

Hey could you guys flirt more privately? I’m trying to learn in here lol

It was you OP !

Well done you appear to have a personality... so you will stand out !!

Thank you 3 but I actually thought all people had a personality.. I mean Cogito ergo Sum

4.Yes that is true but some some people have sucky personalities!!

5- I believe that is actually me lol

6. I think there is probaly still some hope

7- on the Seventh Heaven there’s hope for all people."

8. I was honestly only trying to help you and be cute about it. Somewhere you misunderstood my intentions. First time ever on the forum that has happened. So it was a good lesson for me . I really wish you lots of fun in this site. IT'S what we are all here for . And just wanted to add those 3 gentlemen you were kind of not so nice in your reply to they actually have more personality than anyone on this forum. You could of learned alot from them .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

9- my apologies to whomever I may mistakenly offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"9- my apologies to whomever I may mistakenly offended."

10. Same goes for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sweet lady above trying to help you summoned me back after your apology to her.

Perhaps you were trying to crack a joke about the flirting but it didn't come across that way to people who aren't familiar with your style yet. The safest option is to join and and say the reverse, that you want to join in the flirt to be more inclusive rather than sounding like you're telling people to get lost. I didn't know how to interpret this at first, as a joke or an insult until I scrolled further down when you threw another insult to someone else....and then another, at which point, I thought I'd rather go on to another thread.

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