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By *ent in Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Silsden

Have pictures of naked women on their profiles? Do the ladies know they are on said profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shows the world that they have had sex, even if it was only the once

I doubt the women in the photo's know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...suddenly appear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that. I want to see the profile owner not who they have been with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ib often wondered that!

S

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Fuck knows maybe to show that they are good or that they have had sex a least once also why do some men use pictures from the internet

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"...suddenly appear? "

Every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that not count as a form of revenge porn and so bordering on illegality?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"...suddenly appear?

Every time"

You are near?

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"It shows the world that they have had sex, even if it was only the once

I doubt the women in the photo's know"

Shit, are we supposed to prove that?

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Have pictures of naked women on their profiles? Do the ladies know they are on said profile?"

Never from me.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have allowed men to put a pic with me on their profiles if asked.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I have allowed men to put a pic with me on their profiles if asked."

It is only friends i know very well and trust who i allow to take pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we talking about full pics of a woman on there own ?

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Are we talking about full pics of a woman on there own ?"

Your profile picture is the example of what we are talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we talking about full pics of a woman on there own ?

Your profile picture is the example of what we are talking about "

Ok but do t people do the polite and ask if it’s ok first like I did lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be insecure and want to take the focus off them.

Might want to show off hot women they've slept with.

Might get off on people seeing them.

Personally I don't like them, but to each their own. I just avoid and move on. But no, I think a large of the women sadly aren't aware of how their pics are being used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the woman knows and gives her permission then that’s ok, but I guess then she has no control of where the pictures end up, either by accident or getting hacked.

Besides if you are having great sex who has a hand free to take the pictures

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Fab rules are that if you are a single man, then every picture must show some part of your own body, and if there is anybody else in the picture must have faces or any other identifiable parts (tattoos etc) hidden or obscured.

Similarly for single women or Tv/Ts.

For a couples profile, pictures must include some part of one or both of the couple, and anybody else in the picture unidentifiable same as above. It is sort of expected, but i don't think an actual rule, that on a couples profile there should be photos of both of you (kind of demonstrates that you are an actual couple).

It is allowed for you yourself to be identifiable, but that is completely your own choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have pictures of naked women on their profiles? Do the ladies know they are on said profile?"

I've wondered this too... I doubt alot of the women know they're pics are splattered all over Fab.

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By *onnnie72Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Maybe its like a serving suggestion ?? Like buying a tin of beans and the label shows them enhanced by a bit of toast ??

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By *onnnie72Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Maybe its like a serving suggestion ?? Like buying a tin of beans and the label shows them enhanced by a bit of toast ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on fwbs profiles and vice versa but I don’t get men who don’t have fwbs having pics on their profile. It’s off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It shows the world that they have had sex, even if it was only the once

I doubt the women in the photo's know"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe its like a serving suggestion ?? Like buying a tin of beans and the label shows them enhanced by a bit of toast ??"

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By *ent in Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Silsden


"Fab rules are that if you are a single man, then every picture must show some part of your own body, and if there is anybody else in the picture must have faces or any other identifiable parts (tattoos etc) hidden or obscured.

Similarly for single women or Tv/Ts.

For a couples profile, pictures must include some part of one or both of the couple, and anybody else in the picture unidentifiable same as above. It is sort of expected, but i don't think an actual rule, that on a couples profile there should be photos of both of you (kind of demonstrates that you are an actual couple).

It is allowed for you yourself to be identifiable, but that is completely your own choice. "

I wonder why they don’t get removed then?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Probably the same reason some women do it

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

This is a CLEAR red flag for us. if any single chap messages and he has pics of him with other ladies in that are either unblurred or they have ink showing etc.. we view it as a privacy violation and just nope them instantly.

They may well have permission! but its just a precaution from our end!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We are usually more interested in the woman when we see pics on a man’s profile who’s messaged us.

We often ask if she’s available instead

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I’d say it’s no different from couples or single ladies having pics of men or women in theirs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...suddenly appear?

Every time

You are near? "

Just like me

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By *ewforestguyMan
over a year ago

England


"...suddenly appear?

Every time

You are near?

Just like me"

They long to be

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Probably the same reason some women do it

"

Yep, it can be equally off putting when women have pics of guys they've been with

I'm insecure enough as it is, without worrying about the competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of tha ladies I met asked if I wanted to take pictures of her sucking me for my profile and I said no after all it's a single male profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...suddenly appear?

Every time

You are near?

Just like me

They long to be "

Close to yooooooou

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"One of tha ladies I met asked if I wanted to take pictures of her sucking me for my profile and I said no after all it's a single male profile "

I'd have the pics as a memento of the occasion but not for use on my profile

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If the woman knows and gives her permission then that’s ok, but I guess then she has no control of where the pictures end up, either by accident or getting hacked.

Besides if you are having great sex who has a hand free to take the pictures "

The people watching

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

As long as others aren't identifiable, and the profile owner is in the picture, it's allowed in Fab rules as noted.

One may draw one's own inferences from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have pictures of naked women on their profiles? Do the ladies know they are on said profile?"

Why? Who knows? It could be because it's a really good picture and there's only a small amount of the lady in it. I've had my hand in guys pics with my permission. As long as they have permission and the rules are followed it's fine although personally I'm not keen on seeing a potential meet hanging out the back of someone else or action shots in general. It's preference though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do I have a photo of me being fucked from behind in my friends photos? I like to look at it, but dont want it on my phone camera roll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?

Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.

We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.

Mr

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By *ent in Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Silsden


"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?

Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.

We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.

Mr"

It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?

Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.

We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.

Mr

It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query."

So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.

What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?

Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.

We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.

Mr

It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.

So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.

What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?

Mr"

Discussion surely. He has achieved that.

Why the angst?

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"Have pictures of naked women on their profiles? Do the ladies know they are on said profile?"

Yes, this? I’ve been wondering this a lot lately. And if I’m honest it’s not going to encourage me to converse with them.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?

Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.

We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.

Mr

It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.

So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.

What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?

Mr

Discussion surely. He has achieved that.

Why the angst?"

Because its men bashing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?

Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.

We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.

Mr

It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.

So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.

What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?

Mr

Discussion surely. He has achieved that.

Why the angst?

Because its men bashing? "

He asked a question. That's not men bashing.

And if he was, the question relates to revenge porn laws. So those men who are posting pics without consent should be bashed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?

Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.

We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.

Mr

It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.

So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.

What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?

Mr

Discussion surely. He has achieved that.

Why the angst?"

Because I'm fed up with threads that attack others for absolutely no reason. Why do we need a thread to create 'discussion' about other people's behaviour that has no bearing on us? That isn't discussion, it's gossip - and it's malicious. It feeds into a narrative that men are abusers of women. Now I know that this is true in some cases, and I know that there are men that use photos inappropriately (women too) but to imply all (or a majority) of men who have such pictures are somehow doing something illegal (which it is) is frankly wrong.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?

Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.

We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.

Mr

It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.

So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.

What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?

Mr

Discussion surely. He has achieved that.

Why the angst?

Because I'm fed up with threads that attack others for absolutely no reason. Why do we need a thread to create 'discussion' about other people's behaviour that has no bearing on us? That isn't discussion, it's gossip - and it's malicious. It feeds into a narrative that men are abusers of women. Now I know that this is true in some cases, and I know that there are men that use photos inappropriately (women too) but to imply all (or a majority) of men who have such pictures are somehow doing something illegal (which it is) is frankly wrong.

Mr"

He asked a question. There's a lot of inference from other people. Not from the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?

Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.

We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.

Mr

It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.

So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.

What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?

Mr

Discussion surely. He has achieved that.

Why the angst?

Because its men bashing?

He asked a question. That's not men bashing.

And if he was, the question relates to revenge porn laws. So those men who are posting pics without consent should be bashed!"

And where is the evidence that anybody has done that? He (and you) have made the assumption that this is what is happening. That is why this is men bashing. The automatic assumption that a man posting a pic does not have permission but is breaking the law.

Why not ask the same of women? Couples? Plenty of them have pics of others - but no, once again it is men that are singled out

Mr

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?

Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.

We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.

Mr

It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.

So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.

What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?

Mr

Discussion surely. He has achieved that.

Why the angst?

Because its men bashing?

He asked a question. That's not men bashing.

And if he was, the question relates to revenge porn laws. So those men who are posting pics without consent should be bashed!"

If the header was...

Why do people?

I’d agree.

but it’s not... so I don’t.

It’s aimed specifically at men. The casual misandry of this place just bores the life out of me.

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