FabSwingers.com forum: The Truth

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems to be rare on here

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

With ourselves or each other?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With ourselves or each other?

Both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t trust or believe anyone on here.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

What's up Poppins? Hope you are ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t trust or believe anyone on here."

It's getting that way for me too which is a shame

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's up Poppins? Hope you are ok"

I'm all good thanks lovely - just sick of all the bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be rare on here

Yep! Hope you're okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t trust or believe anyone on here.

It's getting that way for me too which is a shame

Yup. This is proved to be the case on a regular basis.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hope you're ok beautiful lady.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou

I'm fine - maybe it's time for a Fab break

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

A fab break is never a bad thing if you become disheartened with it. There are truthful folk out there, it can just be trickier to find them over the louder sorts. Stay strong Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up Poppins? Hope you are ok

I'm all good thanks lovely - just sick of all the bullshit."

There are some of us on here who don't bullshit.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"A fab break is never a bad thing if you become disheartened with it. There are truthful folk out there, it can just be trickier to find them over the louder sorts. Stay strong Op

This OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he say he was a millionaire astronaut cowboy ?

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

Best not to let it get under your skin OP, every drop is a lesson learned on a long long road.

Power to you

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By *stroboy78Man
over a year ago

Abergavenny

"What's up Poppins? Hope you are ok

I'm all good thanks lovely - just sick of all the bullshit.

There are some of us on here who don't bullshit."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always honest, I'm just a terrible shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always honest, I'm just a terrible shag

Always lower expectations, that way no ones disappointed.

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By *roggrt1919Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I tend to find that the people that are honest are not looked at where as the ones that are looked are the dishonest. Bit pants really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t trust or believe anyone on here."

Ouch

Well, that doesn't exactly encourage anyone to tell the truth, now does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always honest, I'm just a terrible shag

Snap

I'm always honest, just fat'n'ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be rare on here

Finally! Some truth at last

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By *utecontradictionMan
over a year ago

Malvern

"Seems to be rare on here

Sadly it seems to be rare everywhere these days. Sometimes though that's because people just dont want to hear the genuine truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you've been jaded. There's some lovely guys about but they definitely get lost in amongst the large quantity of fuckwits that reside here.

If you take a break, I hope it makes you feel better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural born cynic here

Takes me quite a while for me to accept someone as 'genuine'

I can like them before then, chat with them before then, even warm to them before then

I've even shagged people I wouldn't trust as far as I could throw 'em

It is very rare for me to let them see 'me' though

I'd say only 3 or 4 have seen that in me

I am probably more open in the forums than I am away from them though, so you guys get to see more of me than casual users ever would

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Im very open and honest so i think everyone else is the same. Ive learned a valuable lesson on here - and thats - not every one is like me, so now i take everything with a pinch of salt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up trusting people here. Even the ones who aren't lying just let you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dickheads everywhere. It definitely can get disheartening.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Seems to be rare on here

Sadly it seems to be rare everywhere these days. Sometimes though that's because people just dont want to hear the genuine truth. "

Unfortunately it seems to be the case in all walks of life. I personally find dealing with bullshit extremely wearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very long time ago I learned that truth is different to everyone, as in my truth will be different to your truth. How people are with themselves is very relevant to how they are with others ... as goes for truths.

Though I view all online fab relationships with a healthy distance until you actually start meeting people, simply because why we're all here and how we all think of ourselves differs enormously so our "truths" will all be different!

Fab breaks are always a good thing as is stepping away from anything that isn't good for you at this point in life! Wishing you happiness xx

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

A popular wise young man explained that he only shows people on here what he wants them to see, I keep this in my mind whenever I am considering trusting someone on fab as it leaves less room for disillusionment

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By *stroboy78Man
over a year ago

Abergavenny

I'm too lazy to fib. Plus I'd easily get confused and caught out so can't be bothered. I have nothing to hide.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Seems to be rare on here

Im blunt but yet truth full with it

Though it hasnt done me any favours for it as most of the time I get ignored.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

It's right disheartening ain't it. Not just on here as in looking for people or any of that, but in general...it breaks your faith in humanity as a whole. Well does me anyway.

Yes this place is somewhere people can come to fulfil fantasies, but that's where the fantasy side should stop. Anything else is trickery, and I don't fucking like that shit.

I always think if someone coms you out of money there's consequences for them, if someone cons you out of your emotion and time there's fuck all consequence, yet to me that's the more costly of the two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly it's not just here! I've always got my guard up! Having been cheated on in the past and also finding out other little lies from various people over the years I never 100% trust anyone!! Sad but true! Hope you're ok OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a problem with online groups, whether this one or for example dating sites. It's so much easier to be dishonest in the virtual world

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m not sure there’s anything you can do about others lying, that’s always going to happen at some point. Really sorry to hear that it’s getting to you though

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

Take a break. I had what I thought was a beautiful ethical transparent poly thing going with two lads on here. One of them gave me an STD but both of them showed me negative test results and swore it wasn’t them. I lost trust in both of them as a result and two good friends in the process. I took a long long break after that. This site has made me more wary than I ever imagined but that is not a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve talked to some lovely people here but truth is a hard thing to find on fab. Unless it’s a single male who wants to ‘fuck right now’ lol

Most of the times it’s all fun but sometimes it will get to you.

Hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to chat a fair bit before we even think about meeting, just to establish some common ground and see what people are like before we arrange to meet.

Sadly because some people are shit, we tend to keep the defences up for a while regarding trust, but never say never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up Poppins? Hope you are ok

I'm all good thanks lovely - just sick of all the bullshit."

Poppins

Bullshit is everywhere but the block button is your friend.

And look how many nice people like luna and sparkles and _eli got your back

Sending you love

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