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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do I get gosted when I'm not rude and chat going ok I guess and then nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had you actually met them in the flesh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are fickle. And get bored easily. Don't take it personally. Welcome to the wonderful world of fab.

J

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

I get the same just when you think things are getting somewhere then it's nothing or worse block.

Just need to develop a thick skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you class as ghosting?

Ghosting to me is waiting at a meet and they don’t turn up or they are someone you have met and have plans with and they go silent on you.

Just chatting to someone on here isn’t ghosting.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

You may think the chat is going ok, but they may be just politely replying with no real interest or spark.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Why do I get gosted when I'm not rude and chat going ok I guess and then nothing "

I wouldn't call that ghosting, it's just conversation running dry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens a lot, ive had a number of girls do it. Had one who blocked me cos she got bored within 5 minutes of getting into conversation, then messaged me again a few months later.. told her to go do one

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everyone here will filter others for compatibility. As you get to know someone, there will be a moment when most of them become incompatible, so there's no point in continuing.

In Fab, no reply = no further interest. See site terms.

Set your expectations accordingly. Blocking prevents further chat with the wrong people.

It's not ghosting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m well used to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may think the chat is going ok, but they may be just politely replying with no real interest or spark."

^ this

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