FabSwingers.com forum: Found someone I know

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all

Recently found someone I know by accident.

Sent them a mail before I realised I knew who it was.

I know the male half but not the female.

Female is hot!!

The mail was read

But now I don’t know if they know who I am or if they know that I know etc etc!!!

What is the fab etiquette??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, hi dave.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The fab etiquette is not to take photos in a messy bedroom.

Anything after that stays in Fab

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

You have a face pic showing. Of course they’ll know you if you know them.

Just play it cool. Nonchalant. Icy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If the female read and looked I have never met her - hence why I don’t know if a connection has been made.

If he saw it - he would obviously recognise as I recognised him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're here as a couple, it's likely he would be looking with her as well, unless you think she had already deleted you as unsuitable before showing the filtered candidates to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave it alone

If they read it and didn't respond, they're not interested

Your privacy and discretion is as important as theirs

You're all grown ups doing grown up things

No one else needs to know

If you see the guy, don't mention it unless he does

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

"Leave it alone

If they read it and didn't respond, they're not interested

Your privacy and discretion is as important as theirs

You're all grown ups doing grown up things

No one else needs to know

If you see the guy, don't mention it unless he does "

Sound advice.

Pretend it never happened until you cant.

What happens on fab, stays on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all

Recently found someone I know by accident.

Sent them a mail before I realised I knew who it was.

I know the male half but not the female.

Female is hot!!

The mail was read

But now I don’t know if they know who I am or if they know that I know etc etc!!!

What is the fab etiquette??"

Guess you didn't send a face pic?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Go round their house, knock on the door and ask them why they haven’t responded to your message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all

Recently found someone I know by accident.

Sent them a mail before I realised I knew who it was....

What is the fab etiquette??"

Be more careful before sending mail would be my advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys

Sound advice -

What happens on fab stays on fab!!

Difficult when it crosses into work life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys

Sound advice -

What happens on fab stays on fab!!

Difficult when it crosses into work life "

As someone said earlier, you have your face in your profile.

If you don't mind that they know who you are, which I would assume they already do and it's quite clear to them that you know who they are, and things will be awkward at work in this status quo, I would rather speak to him at work, tell him it was a mistake and block, if necessary. Reassure him that what you've seen here remains here and ask the same of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys

Sound advice -

What happens on fab stays on fab!!

Difficult when it crosses into work life "

How is it difficult?

Respect their right to privacy

What he does in his private life has zero to do with you, either personally or professionally

Don't make it your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a couple on here,messaged them,saying I'm the guy that fitted your floor,friendly as they were on the day I was working,they blocked me.

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By *..FirstMan
over a year ago

london

Yep, have a friend from school on here. We live too far away for anything but on a horny night if one or the other is keen to cam we do get dirty...

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