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By *lumbercouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Vera Playa

First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why exactly ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same what he said

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Ah, inclusion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do TV/TS do?

Enlighten me, please, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are also on Fabguys (swingers partner site for gays/bisexuals)

We have been asking our admin there for months for our own version of 'Fab' = 'Fabgurls'

But nothing is in the works yet

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By *axo25Man
over a year ago

lightwater

This will end well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't have to hide thou this is an adult fun site this is why we all joined if there's something not to Ur taste don't search or look at it there's filters to use this is for every1 don't like don't look simple!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Err... Like with everyone else because they're not lesser to cis people?

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

With all due respect..

The site should 'stupid proof' some threads.

Just a humble opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not if your not interested in them just scroll on I ain't interested in meeting them cos I'm straight but I love TVs/TS some of them look so amazing and I'm like how you so good at make up teach me lol x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go "

Why ? Are you finding it difficult to find one ?

They are men and women ....

You do have a problem with it......

Either that or this is to get attention.

I think it's homophobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure they would love to tell you where to go with that comment, OP

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Makes no sense.

If you want to meet you tick it if you don't then to block all of that sex.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I really think you should maybe try wording that again coz it comes across really cocking rude.

You do realise "THEY" are people don't ya, not some freak aliens?

I dunno if you're maybe a little bit technophobic as well as anything you're uncomfortable with phobic, but if you do this thing called a SEARCH, you can select TV/TS, same as you can man, woman, couple! Guess what, you can also block them from showing on your lists if they creep ya out that much.

To quote Peach Swayze "nobody puts trans peeps in a corner"

Just wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anywho, thanks for answering all the questions OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anywho, thanks for answering all the questions OP! "

Must be busy arranging another meet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I can pass comment Op I'm not sure what you mean by 'a section of fab'? Do you mean a separate Forum or Chatroom within Fabswingers or a separate site? This will undoubtedly affect the responses that follow in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before I can pass comment Op I'm not sure what you mean by 'a section of fab'? Do you mean a separate Forum or Chatroom within Fabswingers or a separate site? This will undoubtedly affect the responses that follow in this thread."

You shouldn't need a seperate anything Xx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I can only assume that back in the day the OP had a 'Lola' moment down in Old Soho and got emotionally scarred by one of those tricksy trannies that looked all fit and sexy.

"I know who I am and I know I'm a man and so was Lola"

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I will start with:

Set your message filter so only those you are iterested in can contact you.

You can also search by gender in the browse section.

And there is a drop box in the new pics section so you can choose whose pics you would like to view.

And end with:

Let's remember to not get abusive please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before I can pass comment Op I'm not sure what you mean by 'a section of fab'? Do you mean a separate Forum or Chatroom within Fabswingers or a separate site? This will undoubtedly affect the responses that follow in this thread.

You shouldn't need a seperate anything Xx "

I agree totally but I am curious as to where the Op is coming from. Further comments will follow xx

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I think im going to sit back and watch this for a little while and see how this all pand out before I wade in with my size 10 heels spouting all sorts of anti-transphobic crap.

As has been said above, maybe the OP's are a little tech-phobic so I will wait for a more full explanation of what the hell that opening post even means as it sure didn't seem like the Queens (sic) English that 'my kind' are using these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go "

wow just wow!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go "

The opening line of this is basically the equivalent of when someone says 'I'm not racist, but.....'

Your basically saying 'I don't care what they do (when in reality you do) but I dont want to to see or hear about it'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really think you should maybe try wording that again coz it comes across really cocking rude.

You do realise "THEY" are people don't ya, not some freak aliens?

I dunno if you're maybe a little bit technophobic as well as anything you're uncomfortable with phobic, but if you do this thing called a SEARCH, you can select TV/TS, same as you can man, woman, couple! Guess what, you can also block them from showing on your lists if they creep ya out that much.

To quote Peach Swayze "nobody puts trans peeps in a corner"

Just wow."

Perfectly put as always

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I wish “raging bigotry” was one of the report options on here.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I wish “raging bigotry” was one of the report options on here."

Can we also have one for hypocrisy as well? Reading profiles is an enlightening pastime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish “raging bigotry” was one of the report options on here.

Can we also have one for hypocrisy as well? Reading profiles is an enlightening pastime."

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

OP

First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for Bigots to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go!!!

You can rant all you want about us then!

R xx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I really think you should maybe try wording that again coz it comes across really cocking rude.

You do realise "THEY" are people don't ya, not some freak aliens?

I dunno if you're maybe a little bit technophobic as well as anything you're uncomfortable with phobic, but if you do this thing called a SEARCH, you can select TV/TS, same as you can man, woman, couple! Guess what, you can also block them from showing on your lists if they creep ya out that much.

To quote Peach Swayze "nobody puts trans peeps in a corner"

Just wow."

Just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the all

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Was going to write a long thing, but cant be bothered x

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Wrong, wrong, wrong on so many counts. I do not like how this thread starts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a really shitty sounding comment, OP. There are filters for a reason, just because someone doesn't fit into your "normal" doesn't mean they should be hidden away.

Maybe you could learn a thing or two?

I'm not looking for tgirls myself, but I love talking to them about outfits whatever because a lot of them are sexy as hell!

Honestly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go "

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it."

I fear Sophie this will fall on stoney ground. No response from the OP as yet and I suspect there won't be. x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it."

Well said

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I stand with my trans sisters and brothers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it."

You shouldn't get banned for that - well done for writing that your 100? on point Trans rights are human rights x

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it."

Here here xxxxx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I stand with my trans sisters and brothers."

About time you showed up

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it.

You shouldn't get banned for that - well done for writing that your 100? on point Trans rights are human rights x "

You'd be suprised. Back when I was active on the forums I was banned multiple times for calling out people spouting blatant homophobia and transphobia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it.

You shouldn't get banned for that - well done for writing that your 100? on point Trans rights are human rights x

You'd be suprised. Back when I was active on the forums I was banned multiple times for calling out people spouting blatant homophobia and transphobia"

On here or different forums? I'm sorry that's awful xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I stand with my trans sisters and brothers.

About time you showed up "

Sorry

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it.

You shouldn't get banned for that - well done for writing that your 100? on point Trans rights are human rights x

You'd be suprised. Back when I was active on the forums I was banned multiple times for calling out people spouting blatant homophobia and transphobia

On here or different forums? I'm sorry that's awful xx "

Here. You'd be suprised at the amount of hate that is around on this site. Ask any tv or trans person and id put money on them having recieved some pretty vile messages on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it.

You shouldn't get banned for that - well done for writing that your 100? on point Trans rights are human rights x

You'd be suprised. Back when I was active on the forums I was banned multiple times for calling out people spouting blatant homophobia and transphobia

On here or different forums? I'm sorry that's awful xx

Here. You'd be suprised at the amount of hate that is around on this site. Ask any tv or trans person and id put money on them having recieved some pretty vile messages on here"

I constantly get hate messages.

But I'm thick skinned, send them a picture of me sucking a guy off and block them

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it.

You shouldn't get banned for that - well done for writing that your 100? on point Trans rights are human rights x

You'd be suprised. Back when I was active on the forums I was banned multiple times for calling out people spouting blatant homophobia and transphobia"

I love ya Lily, even if you're one of those 'dress wearers'

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

So you have no problem with men or women doing what they want and why on earth should you, I have no problem with it either and actively encourage it as long as nobody gets hurt in any way.

What I do have a problem with and its the polar opposite of yours is that bigots think that they can marginalise people who are in an already heavily marginalised minority and in some cases actively victimised by people who have zero understanding of their lives or plight.

To stand in a position as you are OP in your gracious CISness is all fine and dandy but do you not realise that being on the trans spectrum is categorically NOT a choice that anyone makes.

You know you are going to suffer abuse, abandonment in many cases and being ostracised in society by many and often loaded over by those in positions to make decisions for them on their behalf.

Your words above are appalling and display your total lack of compassion for a fellow HUMAN and its is not the trans people or anyone else of any minority who need to have their own space to do as they please, it is what narrow minded uncaring and un-empatgetic bigots should have forced upon them and inside that little space, they should be educated.

Now I may get a ban for this as I have called you out OP but being able to say this in the hope that you read it will have been worth it.

You shouldn't get banned for that - well done for writing that your 100? on point Trans rights are human rights x

You'd be suprised. Back when I was active on the forums I was banned multiple times for calling out people spouting blatant homophobia and transphobia

I love ya Lily, even if you're one of those 'dress wearers' "

Right back at you peach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go "

I spent enough time locked in a closet thank you very much, and I'm not going back into it for anyone.

Thank you for the support everyone. It's very uplifting x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

I spent enough time locked in a closet thank you very much, and I'm not going back into it for anyone.

Thank you for the support everyone. It's very uplifting x"

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I stand with my trans sisters and brothers.

About time you showed up

Sorry "

Missed you

Ignore the Op as they seem to have ignored their thread

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I stand with my trans sisters and brothers.

About time you showed up

Sorry

Missed you

Ignore the Op as they seem to have ignored their thread "

I'm here for you guys, not for the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

I spent enough time locked in a closet thank you very much, and I'm not going back into it for anyone.

Thank you for the support everyone. It's very uplifting x"

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I will meet any trans hater head on

I'm confident in all I do

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I wish “raging bigotry” was one of the report options on here.

Can we also have one for hypocrisy as well? Reading profiles is an enlightening pastime."

Sorry, do you mean me? If you do, please do tell me where you think I’m being bigoted, perhaps you’ve misunderstood something.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go

I spent enough time locked in a closet thank you very much, and I'm not going back into it for anyone.

Thank you for the support everyone. It's very uplifting x"

Echo this .... it gives us hope that folk like the OP are thankfully a minority - thank you all xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stand with my trans sisters and brothers.

About time you showed up

Sorry

Missed you

Ignore the Op as they seem to have ignored their thread

I'm here for you guys, not for the OP."

One

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

OP, there are loads of swinging sites catering only for M and F.

You can join them if you are not happy with how fabswingers include people like us in here.

One special thing about fabswingers and the reason I am here is because of the inclusiveness of TV/TS with the M and F community.

It is the only place where Sultry Succubus exist.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I wish “raging bigotry” was one of the report options on here.

Can we also have one for hypocrisy as well? Reading profiles is an enlightening pastime.

Sorry, do you mean me? If you do, please do tell me where you think I’m being bigoted, perhaps you’ve misunderstood something."

It looks like Sophie meant the Op not you, due to their preferences

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I wish “raging bigotry” was one of the report options on here.

Can we also have one for hypocrisy as well? Reading profiles is an enlightening pastime.

Sorry, do you mean me? If you do, please do tell me where you think I’m being bigoted, perhaps you’ve misunderstood something.

It looks like Sophie meant the Op not you, due to their preferences "

That’s a relief, I was genuinely horrified that she might have meant me, and worrying about which part of my profile is giving the wrong impression!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - In the absence of a response to my first post in this thread, you need to be aware that your words imply that TS/TV (as your title) would be better removed to a separate section and not be in the main areas of the site.

Sophie’s post above should give you a very good feeling and understanding of how offensive that is. I need add nothing further.

The trans community on this site is very open and tolerant in my opinion and accepted by the majority of members. We are very much aware that we that we are not everyones’ flavour and as others have said, the use of site filters can minimise your exposure to us if that is your preference.

From my personal perspective I prefer to have the mix found in a ‘swingers site’ hence my being a member here. I have my preferences and select and filter accordingly and I strongly recommend you do likewise.

To single out ‘TV/TS’ is crass of you in my view. I’m trusting you have not realised the implications of your post and you may feel it appropriate to comment accordingly. Only you know what you were trying to impart by posting this opening post but if it was meant to separate this community from the mainstream … well being polite … shame on you!

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough


"OP - In the absence of a response to my first post in this thread, you need to be aware that your words imply that TS/TV (as your title) would be better removed to a separate section and not be in the main areas of the site.

Sophie’s post above should give you a very good feeling and understanding of how offensive that is. I need add nothing further.

The trans community on this site is very open and tolerant in my opinion and accepted by the majority of members. We are very much aware that we that we are not everyones’ flavour and as others have said, the use of site filters can minimise your exposure to us if that is your preference.

From my personal perspective I prefer to have the mix found in a ‘swingers site’ hence my being a member here. I have my preferences and select and filter accordingly and I strongly recommend you do likewise.

To single out ‘TV/TS’ is crass of you in my view. I’m trusting you have not realised the implications of your post and you may feel it appropriate to comment accordingly. Only you know what you were trying to impart by posting this opening post but if it was meant to separate this community from the mainstream … well being polite … shame on you!

"

Well said xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dictionary definition

the activity or act of a person who swings. Slang. the act or practice of being free and uninhibited sexually.

Human right.

Not to suffer discrimination

Trannys and your good selves are free to practice their sexuality without fear of discrimination.

Don't box me in

Filter me out

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I wish “raging bigotry” was one of the report options on here.

Can we also have one for hypocrisy as well? Reading profiles is an enlightening pastime.

Sorry, do you mean me? If you do, please do tell me where you think I’m being bigoted, perhaps you’ve misunderstood something."

Oh my gosh no! I mean have a read of the OP's profile and you will see hypocrisy first hand in what I mean.

I apologise for not being clearer

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Big hug for you all x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I wish “raging bigotry” was one of the report options on here.

Can we also have one for hypocrisy as well? Reading profiles is an enlightening pastime.

Sorry, do you mean me? If you do, please do tell me where you think I’m being bigoted, perhaps you’ve misunderstood something.

Oh my gosh no! I mean have a read of the OP's profile and you will see hypocrisy first hand in what I mean.

I apologise for not being clearer "

You’re fine, I totally panicked and started worrying that my profile might be unintentionally hurtful, I’m so glad that’s not what you meant!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

For people that post these kind of things, there's a simple way for you to know whether its a good idea or not. When you type it out, change tvs to black people or women and reread it before you post, if it makes you sound like a bigoted idiot then realise you are infact being a bigoted idiot

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I wish “raging bigotry” was one of the report options on here.

Can we also have one for hypocrisy as well? Reading profiles is an enlightening pastime.

Sorry, do you mean me? If you do, please do tell me where you think I’m being bigoted, perhaps you’ve misunderstood something.

Oh my gosh no! I mean have a read of the OP's profile and you will see hypocrisy first hand in what I mean.

I apologise for not being clearer

You’re fine, I totally panicked and started worrying that my profile might be unintentionally hurtful, I’m so glad that’s not what you meant!"

Im a lot harder to hurt than that so don't worry yourself at all

Bigotry is one thing I cannot stand and with you standing in this thread as you have done i very much doubt you could be called a bigot

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"For people that post these kind of things, there's a simple way for you to know whether its a good idea or not. When you type it out, change tvs to black people or women and reread it before you post, if it makes you sound like a bigoted idiot then realise you are infact being a bigoted idiot"

That's assuming that they would see the wrong in that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go "

Absolutely not!

OP I know exactly where to go to contact a TV/TS it's here, with us all, where we all belong, within our inclusive community.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

We exist we are human

I interact with everyone

So for you to say we should have our little corner or whatever is wrong

So

No.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I wish “raging bigotry” was one of the report options on here.

Can we also have one for hypocrisy as well? Reading profiles is an enlightening pastime.

Sorry, do you mean me? If you do, please do tell me where you think I’m being bigoted, perhaps you’ve misunderstood something.

Oh my gosh no! I mean have a read of the OP's profile and you will see hypocrisy first hand in what I mean.

I apologise for not being clearer

You’re fine, I totally panicked and started worrying that my profile might be unintentionally hurtful, I’m so glad that’s not what you meant!

Im a lot harder to hurt than that so don't worry yourself at all

Bigotry is one thing I cannot stand and with you standing in this thread as you have done i very much doubt you could be called a bigot

"

It’s something I hope I couldn’t be called, but I’m not complacent.

I genuinely do wish it was against forum rules though, it seems rather backwards that it’s ok to be as transphobic, homophobic or racist as you like but as long as you’re not directly abusive to another poster, it seems to be fine

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't search for them and block them from contacting you. Drama over.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"You shouldn't have to hide thou this is an adult fun site this is why we all joined if there's something not to Ur taste don't search or look at it there's filters to use this is for every1 don't like don't look simple!"

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go "

I also don't have any problem with what you do or what you don't do , is people's choices and your choices you can keep to yourself because i have no problem with what you do or not , live and let live , enjoy the ride and let people enjoy their own ride here on fabs,if you feel is not for you , you always can go to another bus station as there's always a bus every hour that will take you to any destination you will choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marginalizing people seems wrong to me

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

The 1950s called and they want their attitude back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. .. is this where Trumps wall ultimately leads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 1950s called and they want their attitude back "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go "

Next you’ll be saying there should be a separate section for Black and Asians.

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By *ayTTV/TS
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Just yuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No response from OP.

That's what cowards do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wanted to thank everyone for their kind comments and messages.

Its not easy being a Tgirl online at times and it's heartwarming to see such support

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"First of all I have no problem with men / women doing what they want to do but shouldn't there be a section of fab for them to do this in and then who ever wants to contact or just look knows where to go "

Isn’t this a little homophobic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why exactly ? "

Yes why?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No response from OP.

That's what cowards do."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stand with my trans sisters and brothers."

Me too x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

To conclude:

OP there is no shame in getting a chubby from catching glimpse of a TV/TS, however if you find it frustrating and uncomfortable when that happens because you find yourself questioning your toxic masculinity, then your best bet is to block them. They won't show in your searches or updates.

It won't stop you seeing their avatars on forum posts tho, so maybe tape it to your leg as a pre-forum ritual to stop any embarrassment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No response from OP.

That's what cowards do.

"

Yep to be expected but backfired on the OP given the positive messages of support in here x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No response from OP.

That's what cowards do.

Yep to be expected but backfired on the OP given the positive messages of support in here x"

I do love it when bigotry backfires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP hasn’t had the decency to respond to any of the comments made regarding their little rant of hate and discrimination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How fucking rude. I have no words. Love you Gurls xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP hasn’t had the decency to respond to any of the comments made regarding their little rant of hate and discrimination. "

Well the OP can read all the posts in their thread and get an understanding of what a lot of members in an inclusive community feels. x

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