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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not on fab (although on here too I guess)

...is an absolute bitch

Where’s the wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever did that to you is a fool

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Just off to the wine cellar (off license) what are you fancying? Fresh crisp white or a full bodied red? Maybe something sparkly to lighten your mood?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Life's a bitch but wine is good.x

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Nothing worse x i totally sympathise x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Sometimes you just need to get squiffy and sing some songs

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Never pleasant. Nothing to do but pick ourselves up and move on. Chin up Op xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection can be a right kick in the teeth but look at it this way it's their loss and it wasn't meant to be but I have gin and jaeger for such an occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ach well. Drink up and here’s to tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)

...is an absolute bitch

Where’s the wine "

Yep it bloody is!! I've got a wine and gin here which I have already started on! Lol! Feel free to join me?!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Block and move on!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

It can certainly sting.

I look at it this way, it IS a 2 way street and if you weren't right for them, then that means they, by default, weren't right for you.

1 way rodeo would be worse than the initial rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I fully sympathise.

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

Ive been rejected way to many times and have grown some what of a thick skin to it.

But remembering the old days, it used to take me a few weeks to get my confidence back

Dont worry about it too much OP, time heals xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it just.

Wine and hugs sent to you, and its their loss

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

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"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)

...is an absolute bitch

Where’s the wine

Yep it bloody is!! I've got a wine and gin here which I have already started on! Lol! Feel free to join me?! "

What Gin are you drinking? Can I be a gooseberry too this party? I’ll bring extra gin!

Grab an extra bottle tonight OP. Get a bar of chocolate and have a flick through the forums for a little buzz.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Sometimes out of the fires grows something great. My ex wife rejected me. The lowest point of my life. Totally crushing and totally unexpected. My world was shattered and I was completely devastated. The rug totally pulled from underneath me. Turns out once the smoke cleared and started build my sense of self again that she did me a huge favour. I am stronger, wiser and more self aware than ever. And finding Mrs Misfit I realised I could have more from a relationship than I ever dreamed was possible. A bond profoundly closer that I ever thought possible. It also helped me understand in a clear head space the faults with my ex, her manipulation, the faults with our relationship and my own faults. Her leaving me gave me new life and a future more brilliant than I could ever imagine. It has ended up the best hidden blessing for me. Don't think it worked out so well for my ex but I wish her well too.

(Mr Misfit)

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

Totally shite I have to agree..... Spent my whole life trying to avoid and now.wonder what opportunities I may have missed.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Also wines ok but I'm a great advocate of after a break up, go get laid. No strings. It was advise a good female friend of mines friend gave her. And it worked for me as a stepping stone to recovery. It really helps build you and helps you to remember after a rejection you are desirable and you can move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)

...is an absolute bitch

Where’s the wine "

His loss hun..

A toast to bigger and better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a real b*tch, been there too often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also wines ok but I'm a great advocate of after a break up, go get laid. No strings. It was advise a good female friend of mines friend gave her. And it worked for me as a stepping stone to recovery. It really helps build you and helps you to remember after a rejection you are desirable and you can move on."

I think that advice can also be self defeating, so it won't work for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a firm believer of something better is round the corner.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)

...is an absolute bitch

Where’s the wine "

I sometimes think maybe it was for the better in the long run. I can think of a few occasion when afterwards I felt, thank goodness I was not part of this situation.

Now go and have that glass - I ll have one with you - mine is a red. Well, maybe two....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely their loss....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup I think we've all been there at some point unfortunately. Many on here will feel your pain.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)

...is an absolute bitch

Where’s the wine "

I’ll bring the bottle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I think its been said before but lifes a bitch. Don't let it put you off there are some good people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it on the chin and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's good for you won't go past you... Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get used to it

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)

...is an absolute bitch

Where’s the wine "

I'm sorry to hear, but it good to know sometimes the shoes on the other foot.

Ps his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up monkeynut - plenty more nuts to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely their loss...."

Please disregard this post.... I didn’t look at the profile... I thought it was a man posting.....

Now here is my true feelings.....

You can’t win them all.... just open up your filters , put a cool status message up , and enjoy your wine while the 1,000 ‘ s of messages roll in from guys who want you.....

Hugs

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)

...is an absolute bitch

Where’s the wine "

Donald Trump knows how you feel. Maybe there's somebody you can sue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not rejection, it’s redirection. The universe knew it wasn’t for you so it’s redirecting you to something better that’s going to come along.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Not rejection, it’s redirection. The universe knew it wasn’t for you so it’s redirecting you to something better that’s going to come along. "

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, it wasn’t through fab, I’m fine, just stung a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone, it wasn’t through fab, I’m fine, just stung a little."

We are'nt everyones cup of tea but by the looks they made a mistake x

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)

...is an absolute bitch

Where’s the wine "

Agree, believe me I am used to it on here

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