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Catching Feelings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever caught feelings with your “no strings attached” partner at some point and how did it feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes! Far more than I should have and yes... Iv got my fingers burnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I did once and he became my boyfriend and we now live together. Been together over 4 years and I am head over heels in love with him.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have complete NSA sex so no, I suppose I haven't. There's always some type of feelings for me to want to have sex with them in the first place.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes my current fwb! Just remind myself I dont want commitment,but it's ok to have feelings for someone! In fact I find it better to have! I tell my self I have best of both worlds the nice bits without the mundane sock washing and stuff lol x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yes I did.

We were a couple for almost 2 years and last lockdown exposed he was living a double life.

One with me, one with his wife, hence my profile text being the way it is.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No, I think I was dickmatised.

Sex was good. He was an amazing kisser. Easy to get carried away with all that sexual magic going on.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Twice, more fool me.

The first time I tried to ignore them for quite a few months until I realised that I really loved him and him me. We're now engaged and living together and very happy.

The second time I thought "maybe he'll be fun for a meet or two". We met in a pub for a social and I got tipsy and he was ever the gentleman. After we began talking in earnest, daily, about everything and anything and it flowed. I'm now dating him and although he lives a good distance away, he means so much to me.

Sometimes catching the feels isn't too bad.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have been very fond of a few but that feeling has never been love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, met 2 years ago, living together for 1 year, just started looking for a woman to join us, my idea but he of course loved it lol

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I don't have complete NSA sex so no, I suppose I haven't. There's always some type of feelings for me to want to have sex with them in the first place.

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Exactly this for me too

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Yes twice one was on the same page as me and we had a wonderful couple of years playing and exploring together , second wasn’t caught up feelings as I was to him so I decided to remove myself from the equation. It can be painful or hurtful otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did.

We were a couple for almost 2 years and last lockdown exposed he was living a double life.

One with me, one with his wife, hence my profile text being the way it is.

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Thing is lovely lady, people who tread on others and use and abuse.

Usually end up on their own

Karma's a bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mutually we had feelings for each other but for numerous reasons we ended things. We are still good friends and care for each other. I don’t regret falling for him, he was an amazing part of my life for a period of time

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I have feelings and care for all of my stable playmates, its very important to me to have feelings for them, but thats part of my poly lifestyle

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Yes twice, the first meet I had we been and very close and had a couples profile, it was good and lasted about 5 years, then circumstances happened and I called it off. Second was someone so very special, started as meeting once a week to him saying he can’t wait a whole week to meet again, to him melting my defense barrier down with his kisses and tenderness, I loved him a lot .

People say swinging isn’t the right place to meet a partner but it’s as good a place as any when you meet that one person who rocks your world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did.

We were a couple for almost 2 years and last lockdown exposed he was living a double life.

One with me, one with his wife, hence my profile text being the way it is.

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Wow this happened to me met on here Aswell

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By *stroboy78Man
over a year ago

Abergavenny

Yes. Only once and to this day, because I stupidly said nothing until it was too late we unfortunately parted ways. We did everything together and we were a couple in every sense of the word but I always denied it until she couldn't take any more of the unnecessary secrecy. Stupid me and never again will I let something so amazing slip away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet.. I think I did start to feel some sort of ‘something’ for someone I’ve met but wasn’t sure, but still felt best to put some distance between us.

A fb has recently confessed that he’s caught feelings and I’m not really sure how to deal with it now. Bahhh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.... I did even though he was emotionally unavailable...well everything unavailable! It felt great at the time but now I look back and question myself! Lol!! In reality it was probably lust and not love! Now I don't trust myself to not catch the feels so I don't go there really because its unlikely to be reciprocated! I don't think I'm cut out for NSA! Lol! Probably not the right site for me really but there is always that chance that you meet someone and it leads to more, like it has for others on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I think I was dickmatised.

Sex was good. He was an amazing kisser. Easy to get carried away with all that sexual magic going on."

This, completely!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"No, I think I was dickmatised.

Sex was good. He was an amazing kisser. Easy to get carried away with all that sexual magic going on.

This, completely!

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sometimes it’s very hard not to dickmatised, I totally feel you

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Yes, a few years ago. He ended up feeling the same. Unfortunately he was in the middle of sorting out moving to China. I was a bit vulnerable at the time and it was the worst heartbreak I’ve been through

He’s moved back now and we meet up as friends occasionally

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yes, it didnt end well.

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By *oodgirlieWoman
over a year ago

London

I absolutely have, sometimes you just click with someone and you can't help it. It is easy to mistake lust for love at times so I take my time to work it out.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"I absolutely have, sometimes you just click with someone and you can't help it. It is easy to mistake lust for love at times so I take my time to work it out. "

Exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it had happened to me.....

I actually did everything in my power to push her away, and couldn’t shake the feelings....

I just decided to grow up and marry her......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its difficult not to...

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