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"When visible my profile states, without ambiguity the type of person I'm looking for and what I'm offering. For the hard of understanding I underpin with I won't reply to anyone outwith what I'm looking for: and I don't! Everyone who meets what I'm looking for receives a message: works for me. " ^^this is exactly the same for us | |||
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"I have a policy to respond to the majority of messages, but I do make exceptions. Must admit the more I’m honest about why I don’t want to meet presently with some and definitely not with others, the more abuse I’ve been getting. So I do wonder if I should just go back to deleting them " I know that feeling too | |||
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"I have a policy to respond to the majority of messages, but I do make exceptions. Must admit the more I’m honest about why I don’t want to meet presently with some and definitely not with others, the more abuse I’ve been getting. So I do wonder if I should just go back to deleting them " Answering messages on Fab shouldn't be a chore/stressful. Set boundaries as you do in other areas of your life. You know what you want etc if someone doesn't respect that why feel obliged to waste a nanosecond of your time? | |||
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"We respond to some and delete others. It's a bit like if I go out wearing a green hat and someone approaches me asking "do you have a green hat?" i probably wouldn't answer. If they said "I like your green hat and would be interested in finding out more about it" I probably would. " Yep I get plagued with the green hat messages as well, small world | |||
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"We respond to some and delete others. It's a bit like if I go out wearing a green hat and someone approaches me asking "do you have a green hat?" i probably wouldn't answer. If they said "I like your green hat and would be interested in finding out more about it" I probably would. Yep I get plagued with the green hat messages as well, small world" I sometimes wear a blue hat just to change things up a bit. Alters the type of message quite a lot | |||
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"I’m lucky to get a message so I always try to respond even if they’re not my type or what I’m looking for " Same here | |||
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"I try to answer most messages, but occasionally some people keep on and on. So sorry I do delete a couple " Some people do push their luck. I usually have men filtered so they can’t message, but left that open during the first lockdown so I could join in forum games. Huge mistake as every man and his dog (but very few from the forums) messages and keeps on messaging with the most inane or suggestive drivel. The reply of, “No, I don’t want my cock sucked by you” doesn’t seem to put them off. Unfortunately, it’s now a block and delete rather than just a delete | |||
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"I try to answer most messages, but occasionally some people keep on and on. So sorry I do delete a couple Some people do push their luck. I usually have men filtered so they can’t message, but left that open during the first lockdown so I could join in forum games. Huge mistake as every man and his dog (but very few from the forums) messages and keeps on messaging with the most inane or suggestive drivel. The reply of, “No, I don’t want my cock sucked by you” doesn’t seem to put them off. Unfortunately, it’s now a block and delete rather than just a delete" Which is why I have sympathy for ladies on fab that must get that drivel by the hundreds! | |||
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"I try to answer most messages, but occasionally some people keep on and on. So sorry I do delete a couple Some people do push their luck. I usually have men filtered so they can’t message, but left that open during the first lockdown so I could join in forum games. Huge mistake as every man and his dog (but very few from the forums) messages and keeps on messaging with the most inane or suggestive drivel. The reply of, “No, I don’t want my cock sucked by you” doesn’t seem to put them off. Unfortunately, it’s now a block and delete rather than just a delete Which is why I have sympathy for ladies on fab that must get that drivel by the hundreds! " Exactly. I’m amazed by how many guys offer money to suck cock. It must be a fetish to offer cash rather than the hope it’ll sway you? I’m giving them the benefit of the doubt that they’re not simply desperate | |||
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"I try to answer most messages, but occasionally some people keep on and on. So sorry I do delete a couple Some people do push their luck. I usually have men filtered so they can’t message, but left that open during the first lockdown so I could join in forum games. Huge mistake as every man and his dog (but very few from the forums) messages and keeps on messaging with the most inane or suggestive drivel. The reply of, “No, I don’t want my cock sucked by you” doesn’t seem to put them off. Unfortunately, it’s now a block and delete rather than just a delete Which is why I have sympathy for ladies on fab that must get that drivel by the hundreds! Exactly. I’m amazed by how many guys offer money to suck cock. It must be a fetish to offer cash rather than the hope it’ll sway you? I’m giving them the benefit of the doubt that they’re not simply desperate " I’m sure there are websites that offer that service for those kind of fellas. | |||
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"We do get a lot, but try to reply to polite personalised messages. Cut n'paste jobs and one liners are deleted." As above and we do say on our profile but still get silly random messages. | |||
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"On the rare occasion I get one. I have a hot shower, put on my best dressing gown, make a cuppa or pour a glass of wine, depending on time of day. Sit in my most comfortable chair. Put my glasses on. I treat it as an event. Get all excited, open the message to see it’s from admin - usually a forum ban." Not just me then lol | |||
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"On the rare occasion I get one. I have a hot shower, put on my best dressing gown, make a cuppa or pour a glass of wine, depending on time of day. Sit in my most comfortable chair. Put my glasses on. I treat it as an event. Get all excited, open the message to see it’s from admin - usually a forum ban." Brilliant awww I hope you get another soon | |||
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