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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where did you go?

Speak!!!!

Don't be rude answer me!!

cock tease :/

what have I said wrong?????!!!!

Does this do anybody else's fucking head in when guys are like this I genuinely want to just reply FUCK OFF lmao. Sometimes it's been like ten minutes and they go like this I'm just absolutely tired of it like I'm replying to someone else/on the forums and John from Birmingham is going mad cos i haven't replied to him wanting to fuck me tonight, I live in Scotland JOHN!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in scotland too! Just saying.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Just block 'em.

If you don't want to talk to them - that's your choice.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Where did you go?

Speak!!!!

Don't be rude answer me!!

cock tease :/

what have I said wrong?????!!!!

Does this do anybody else's fucking head in when guys are like this I genuinely want to just reply FUCK OFF lmao. Sometimes it's been like ten minutes and they go like this I'm just absolutely tired of it like I'm replying to someone else/on the forums and John from Birmingham is going mad cos i haven't replied to him wanting to fuck me tonight, I live in Scotland JOHN!!!!!! "

Drugs, drink or an over excited imagination. Don’t fret. Plenty of sexy this side of the boarder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just block 'em.

If you don't want to talk to them - that's your choice. "

I know but it's such a chore I need someone to run my profile for me and pick what guys I've to meet things meet be better then. Send your applications in to be my fab meet event planner xo

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Just block 'em.

If you don't want to talk to them - that's your choice.

I know but it's such a chore I need someone to run my profile for me and pick what guys I've to meet things meet be better then. Send your applications in to be my fab meet event planner xo"

If you knew me - you'd have already chosen me for the job.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’"

this

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By *AD1Man
over a year ago

East London


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’"

This is fucking hilarious!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’"

Why they always gotta be John or James (or variant of Jame's)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's brilliant Jamie lol xx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I also get this as well, the sense of entitlement really annoys me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yea.....Jesus wept!

No half measures there.... Christ Almighty.

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By *AD1Man
over a year ago

East London


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’

Why they always gotta be John or James (or variant of Jame's)

"

Hahaha I’m sure it’s nothing personal James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’

Why they always gotta be John or James (or variant of Jame's)

Hahaha I’m sure it’s nothing personal James "

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’

This is fucking hilarious!!!! "

But true. So. Fucking. True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s normally me like that. Not anymore though.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’

This is fucking hilarious!!!!

But true. So. Fucking. True "

Way to many peeps that talk a good talk but fail when simply trying to walk.. it’s part and parcel of being on here and soon you will develop ‘spidey filters’ to suss the twats out x

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By *AD1Man
over a year ago

East London


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’

This is fucking hilarious!!!!

But true. So. Fucking. True "

Yeah, I truly do feel for women when it comes to this type of shit. I now understand why I’m reading so many profiles requesting “SANE men” was a tad bit confused before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message tonight that simply said " tits"

Such eloquence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’

This is fucking hilarious!!!!

But true. So. Fucking. True

Way to many peeps that talk a good talk but fail when simply trying to walk.. it’s part and parcel of being on here and soon you will develop ‘spidey filters’ to suss the twats out x"

Shit, you have to be able to walk on here? They didn't tell me that. I'm out

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By *AD1Man
over a year ago

East London

Lucky boys you have. You can’t beat a good old cheese & cucumber sandwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner "

When you say "bashing"

What exactly do you mean?

Cos all the stories women on here tell. About the braindeads

They're real. You know that, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner "

She’s just learning the way. It’s very overwhelming till you figure out what the sites about and how to manage your box.

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By *AD1Man
over a year ago

East London


"I had a message tonight that simply said " tits"

Such eloquence"

I’m guilty of the odd one liner I’m learning to up the character count as we speak

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner "

She was critiquing a specific behaviour. Not all the single men. Have you taken offence because it applies to you or...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner "

I'm not really bashing single guys am I, I'm just saying I find that really annoying when guys are like that and hopefully some of them will think twice about acting like that if they read this because it's ridiculous to repeat message someone several times in sometimes quite a short space of time because they haven't replied. Give them a chance. Guys on here are asking for advice all the time well my advice is don't do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

When you say "bashing"

What exactly do you mean?

Cos all the stories women on here tell. About the braindeads

They're real. You know that, right?"

Yes we all know they exist. But who cares about them. What about the decent guys.

Some positivity would be good. Especially how things are at the moment.

Don’t shoot me. Just a option

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I had a message tonight that simply said " tits"

Such eloquence"

What??????

No 'please' or 'thank you'?

Pfffffft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

I'm not really bashing single guys am I, I'm just saying I find that really annoying when guys are like that and hopefully some of them will think twice about acting like that if they read this because it's ridiculous to repeat message someone several times in sometimes quite a short space of time because they haven't replied. Give them a chance. Guys on here are asking for advice all the time well my advice is don't do this "

Just use it as a filter and add to the blocklist. Decent guys don’t need tips. Let the arseholes show themselves for who they really are. Giving them tips is just painting over the cracks

Welcome to the forums btw

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By *AD1Man
over a year ago

East London


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

When you say "bashing"

What exactly do you mean?

Cos all the stories women on here tell. About the braindeads

They're real. You know that, right?

Yes we all know they exist. But who cares about them. What about the decent guys.

Some positivity would be good. Especially how things are at the moment.

Don’t shoot me. Just a option "

Love is the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a message tonight that simply said " tits"

Such eloquence

What??????

No 'please' or 'thank you'?

Pfffffft. "

Nope

Just four letters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

I'm not really bashing single guys am I, I'm just saying I find that really annoying when guys are like that and hopefully some of them will think twice about acting like that if they read this because it's ridiculous to repeat message someone several times in sometimes quite a short space of time because they haven't replied. Give them a chance. Guys on here are asking for advice all the time well my advice is don't do this "

Don’t worry about it.

I stick my age filters to 99 so nobody under that age can message me. I do get some new profiles with young looking 99 year old men messaging me but they’re easy to manage.

When I used to allow messages I’d would just delete every message from someone that didn’t interest me. As soon as you reply to say no thank you it opens things up for them to message again.

You’ll find your own way to manage and run your inbox. It’s just figuring out what works best for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

When you say "bashing"

What exactly do you mean?

Cos all the stories women on here tell. About the braindeads

They're real. You know that, right?

Yes we all know they exist. But who cares about them. What about the decent guys.

Some positivity would be good. Especially how things are at the moment.

Don’t shoot me. Just a option "

Well sometimes I just want to have a little rant, there's other threads for talking about the positive and good side of guys on here too. Having one to have a little rant ain't taking that away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately as I've always said been on the website like this you are always going to find guys that get too heavily emotional with a woman or a couple sometimes they just can't let go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

When you say "bashing"

What exactly do you mean?

Cos all the stories women on here tell. About the braindeads

They're real. You know that, right?

Yes we all know they exist. But who cares about them. What about the decent guys.

Some positivity would be good. Especially how things are at the moment.

Don’t shoot me. Just a option "

Well sometimes I just want to have a little rant, there's other threads for talking about the positive and good side of guys on here too. Having one to have a little rant ain't taking that away x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

When you say "bashing"

What exactly do you mean?

Cos all the stories women on here tell. About the braindeads

They're real. You know that, right?

Yes we all know they exist. But who cares about them. What about the decent guys.

Some positivity would be good. Especially how things are at the moment.

Don’t shoot me. Just a option "

Well sometimes I just want to have a little rant, there's other threads for talking about the positive and good side of guys on here too. Having one to have a little rant ain't taking that away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

When you say "bashing"

What exactly do you mean?

Cos all the stories women on here tell. About the braindeads

They're real. You know that, right?

Yes we all know they exist. But who cares about them. What about the decent guys.

Some positivity would be good. Especially how things are at the moment.

Don’t shoot me. Just a option "

Well obviously the ladies that post care

Because they are the ones that are the recipients of the mindless, selfish garbage

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By *AD1Man
over a year ago

East London


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

I'm not really bashing single guys am I, I'm just saying I find that really annoying when guys are like that and hopefully some of them will think twice about acting like that if they read this because it's ridiculous to repeat message someone several times in sometimes quite a short space of time because they haven't replied. Give them a chance. Guys on here are asking for advice all the time well my advice is don't do this

Don’t worry about it.

I stick my age filters to 99 so nobody under that age can message me. I do get some new profiles with young looking 99 year old men messaging me but they’re easy to manage.

When I used to allow messages I’d would just delete every message from someone that didn’t interest me. As soon as you reply to say no thank you it opens things up for them to message again.

You’ll find your own way to manage and run your inbox. It’s just figuring out what works best for you. "

Now it makes sense why I can’t message you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow my reply posted 3 times what the fuck and in an unexpected twist of events I am the crazy replier o.o dun dun dun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

When you say "bashing"

What exactly do you mean?

Cos all the stories women on here tell. About the braindeads

They're real. You know that, right?

Yes we all know they exist. But who cares about them. What about the decent guys.

Some positivity would be good. Especially how things are at the moment.

Don’t shoot me. Just a option

Well obviously the ladies that post care

Because they are the ones that are the recipients of the mindless, selfish garbage"

It works both ways. Just like I’m getting profile criticism from another guy on this thread. Yet no one is coming to my aid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

I'm not really bashing single guys am I, I'm just saying I find that really annoying when guys are like that and hopefully some of them will think twice about acting like that if they read this because it's ridiculous to repeat message someone several times in sometimes quite a short space of time because they haven't replied. Give them a chance. Guys on here are asking for advice all the time well my advice is don't do this

Don’t worry about it.

I stick my age filters to 99 so nobody under that age can message me. I do get some new profiles with young looking 99 year old men messaging me but they’re easy to manage.

When I used to allow messages I’d would just delete every message from someone that didn’t interest me. As soon as you reply to say no thank you it opens things up for them to message again.

You’ll find your own way to manage and run your inbox. It’s just figuring out what works best for you. "

Can you still message other people then and if they reply you'll see it? Or are you just not messaging anyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

I'm not really bashing single guys am I, I'm just saying I find that really annoying when guys are like that and hopefully some of them will think twice about acting like that if they read this because it's ridiculous to repeat message someone several times in sometimes quite a short space of time because they haven't replied. Give them a chance. Guys on here are asking for advice all the time well my advice is don't do this

Don’t worry about it.

I stick my age filters to 99 so nobody under that age can message me. I do get some new profiles with young looking 99 year old men messaging me but they’re easy to manage.

When I used to allow messages I’d would just delete every message from someone that didn’t interest me. As soon as you reply to say no thank you it opens things up for them to message again.

You’ll find your own way to manage and run your inbox. It’s just figuring out what works best for you.

Can you still message other people then and if they reply you'll see it? Or are you just not messaging anyone xx"

If you have all filters up you can message people and they can message you back then. I think it still comes up as this person is not looking for but you can still message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

I'm not really bashing single guys am I, I'm just saying I find that really annoying when guys are like that and hopefully some of them will think twice about acting like that if they read this because it's ridiculous to repeat message someone several times in sometimes quite a short space of time because they haven't replied. Give them a chance. Guys on here are asking for advice all the time well my advice is don't do this

Don’t worry about it.

I stick my age filters to 99 so nobody under that age can message me. I do get some new profiles with young looking 99 year old men messaging me but they’re easy to manage.

When I used to allow messages I’d would just delete every message from someone that didn’t interest me. As soon as you reply to say no thank you it opens things up for them to message again.

You’ll find your own way to manage and run your inbox. It’s just figuring out what works best for you.

Can you still message other people then and if they reply you'll see it? Or are you just not messaging anyone xx"

I can message guys first and then they reply but they can’t message me first x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

I'm not really bashing single guys am I, I'm just saying I find that really annoying when guys are like that and hopefully some of them will think twice about acting like that if they read this because it's ridiculous to repeat message someone several times in sometimes quite a short space of time because they haven't replied. Give them a chance. Guys on here are asking for advice all the time well my advice is don't do this

Don’t worry about it.

I stick my age filters to 99 so nobody under that age can message me. I do get some new profiles with young looking 99 year old men messaging me but they’re easy to manage.

When I used to allow messages I’d would just delete every message from someone that didn’t interest me. As soon as you reply to say no thank you it opens things up for them to message again.

You’ll find your own way to manage and run your inbox. It’s just figuring out what works best for you.

Can you still message other people then and if they reply you'll see it? Or are you just not messaging anyone xx

I can message guys first and then they reply but they can’t message me first x "

Omg I'm going to copy you (if that's okay) and see how it goes!!! Might be better for me lol you've inspired me x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner "

Not all the single guys ..just the idiots who spoil fabs for the rest of us

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

OP - you'll probably make a dozen changes before you find what's right and works for you.

Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

Not all the single guys ..just the idiots who spoil fabs for the rest of us "

No one spoils it for anyone. You make your own luck and the idiots make the good ones stand out

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By *oreno0969Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

Not all the single guys ..just the idiots who spoil fabs for the rest of us "

No single guy spoil it for any other single guys. They just spoil it for themselves. Piece of advice to all simple really DON'T BE A DICK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

Not all the single guys ..just the idiots who spoil fabs for the rest of us

No single guy spoil it for any other single guys. They just spoil it for themselves. Piece of advice to all simple really DON'T BE A DICK "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Boys behave yourself and stop arguing on my post x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boys behave yourself and stop arguing on my post x"

See I rest my case. I get called a boy when my profile gets criticised, called a snowflake, yet no one as called him out like a few have on my comment to you. Always the same on the forums

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

Not all the single guys ..just the idiots who spoil fabs for the rest of us

No one spoils it for anyone. You make your own luck and the idiots make the good ones stand out "

I totally AGREE...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

Not all the single guys ..just the idiots who spoil fabs for the rest of us

No one spoils it for anyone. You make your own luck and the idiots make the good ones stand out

I totally AGREE... "

can you stop trolling. Like someone said above back to the op post now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

Having read your profile i am not in the least surprised by your comment. It’s a swingers site and you clearly are not a Swinger... best of luck on Tinder "

What does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

I'm not really bashing single guys am I, I'm just saying I find that really annoying when guys are like that and hopefully some of them will think twice about acting like that if they read this because it's ridiculous to repeat message someone several times in sometimes quite a short space of time because they haven't replied. Give them a chance. Guys on here are asking for advice all the time well my advice is don't do this

Don’t worry about it.

I stick my age filters to 99 so nobody under that age can message me. I do get some new profiles with young looking 99 year old men messaging me but they’re easy to manage.

When I used to allow messages I’d would just delete every message from someone that didn’t interest me. As soon as you reply to say no thank you it opens things up for them to message again.

You’ll find your own way to manage and run your inbox. It’s just figuring out what works best for you. "

I made my thing 99 to 99 like yours we'll see how long I last before I crack up and miss the attention lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Karl17, I asked here, a response here would have been sufficient thanks no need to private message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Karl17, I asked here, a response here would have been sufficient thanks no need to private message "

At least he as shown he’s true colours

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

I just ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She ignores them. ^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I created this mess x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Karl17, I asked here, a response here would have been sufficient thanks no need to private message "

Please excuse me, message as requested;

Scroll up one comment, he clearly does not consider himself a swinger and if u scroll up further it is more evident x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I created this mess x"

Your be ok I’ll get the blame

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"Sorry I created this mess x"

It’s not your fault. It was a lighthearted thread until someone piped up to have a pop about a woman speaking out against what they don’t like.

Classic John’s always gonna John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a message tonight that simply said " tits"

Such eloquence

What??????

No 'please' or 'thank you'?

Pfffffft.

Nope

Just four letters"

At least your four letters form one recognisable word. Mine comes in the form of "R u bi". Not even a question mark with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Karl17, I asked here, a response here would have been sufficient thanks no need to private message

Please excuse me, message as requested;

Scroll up one comment, he clearly does not consider himself a swinger and if u scroll up further it is more evident x"

Cheers for the free publicity. I’ve made a new friends from them looking at my profile

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Sorry I created this mess x"

You've done nothing wrong - don't apologise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I created this mess x

Your be ok I’ll get the blame "

See I told ya

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"Sorry I created this mess x"

No , you didn't they did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner "

My bad. I should of added a instead of the thumb

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Karl17, I asked here, a response here would have been sufficient thanks no need to private message

Please excuse me, message as requested;

Scroll up one comment, he clearly does not consider himself a swinger and if u scroll up further it is more evident x

Cheers for the free publicity. I’ve made a new friends from them looking at my profile "

Free publicity about not being a Swinger on a Swingers site... Oh OK, more than Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow my reply posted 3 times what the fuck and in an unexpected twist of events I am the crazy replier o.o dun dun dun"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner "

Are all men like the OP says? Or just some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Karl17, I asked here, a response here would have been sufficient thanks no need to private message

Please excuse me, message as requested;

Scroll up one comment, he clearly does not consider himself a swinger and if u scroll up further it is more evident x

Cheers for the free publicity. I’ve made a new friends from them looking at my profile

Free publicity about not being a Swinger on a Swingers site... Oh OK, more than Welcome "

What exactly is wrong with not being a swinger on this swingers site? I’m not a swinger, are you gonna tell me and the thousands of other single people on here that they shouldn’t be on the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

Are all men like the OP says? Or just some? "

Not all men, I haven’t messaged her yet.

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

[Removed by poster at 13/11/20 07:49:29]

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I had a message tonight that simply said " tits"

Such eloquence"

He was obviously playing Catchphrase... How did you not know?

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale


"Where did you go?

Speak!!!!

Don't be rude answer me!!

cock tease :/

what have I said wrong?????!!!!

Does this do anybody else's fucking head in when guys are like this I genuinely want to just reply FUCK OFF lmao. Sometimes it's been like ten minutes and they go like this I'm just absolutely tired of it like I'm replying to someone else/on the forums and John from Birmingham is going mad cos i haven't replied to him wanting to fuck me tonight, I live in Scotland JOHN!!!!!! "

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

leave john alone guys he's just trying his best

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Sorry I created this mess x

You've done nothing wrong - don't apologise!"

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

This was a funny morning read with my tea! .

Welcome to the forums OP.

Jo.Xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Sorry I created this mess x

It’s not your fault. It was a lighthearted thread until someone piped up to have a pop about a woman speaking out against what they don’t like.

Classic John’s always gonna John "

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Welcome to the forum, OP. Looks like you're going to fit in well around here

I've read this whole thing through twice now but is it just me that can't see the original mention of Tinder in the spat above?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi you ok’

‘Aww you shy?’

‘Fucking fat slag’

‘£250 fuck and go’

‘Hi’

In what world is this laid back hornytruckerdaveheavycummermakeyousquirt69?’"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where did you go?

Speak!!!!

Don't be rude answer me!!

cock tease :/

what have I said wrong?????!!!!

Does this do anybody else's fucking head in when guys are like this I genuinely want to just reply FUCK OFF lmao. Sometimes it's been like ten minutes and they go like this I'm just absolutely tired of it like I'm replying to someone else/on the forums and John from Birmingham is going mad cos i haven't replied to him wanting to fuck me tonight, I live in Scotland JOHN!!!!!! "

To be fair, you are gorgeous. So I can understand a bloke losing it a bit.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

And this is why I use all the message filters. Can't be arsed with the grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

Are all men like the OP says? Or just some?

Not all men, I haven’t messaged her yet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this brightened up my morning

Welcome to the forum OP

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By *AD1Man
over a year ago

East London


"Sorry I created this mess x"

I just hope you’re happy with yourself young lady!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry I created this mess x

I just hope you’re happy with yourself young lady! "

I chat so much shit on the night time lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well this brightened up my morning

Welcome to the forum OP "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where did you go?

Speak!!!!

Don't be rude answer me!!

cock tease :/

what have I said wrong?????!!!!

Does this do anybody else's fucking head in when guys are like this I genuinely want to just reply FUCK OFF lmao. Sometimes it's been like ten minutes and they go like this I'm just absolutely tired of it like I'm replying to someone else/on the forums and John from Birmingham is going mad cos i haven't replied to him wanting to fuck me tonight, I live in Scotland JOHN!!!!!! "

It's the ones that message you and say I saw that!, when you read their message and then marked it as unread and then they block you.... that makes me laugh.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"

Yes!

I’ve had a few John’s having a meltdown because I haven’t replied.

I like the ones that go the other way too:

‘9” hung laid back reliable fun’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

‘Hi’

Block

"

There... sorted!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Yep, people being that needy is really off putting and sometimes a little creepy.

Though I have to admit that when I started here, I did send a "where did you go?" type message.

We had had quite a good long conversation over the course of a week, then she asked for a social. I agreed and asked where but got no reply. A couple of days later I followed it up asking if everything was OK and where did she go, and still got no reply. Then I noticed the message got deleted.

Dissapointing and confusing tbh as I thought we were getting on well, but I just moved on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep, people being that needy is really off putting and sometimes a little creepy.

Though I have to admit that when I started here, I did send a "where did you go?" type message.

We had had quite a good long conversation over the course of a week, then she asked for a social. I agreed and asked where but got no reply. A couple of days later I followed it up asking if everything was OK and where did she go, and still got no reply. Then I noticed the message got deleted.

Dissapointing and confusing tbh as I thought we were getting on well, but I just moved on. "

Yeah but I'd say thats totally fair and reasonable for you to say that since you had actually planned a meet and chatted a while. It's when guys say that to because I ain't replied for 10 / 15 mins because I'm on the phone or just away to do something it stresses me out like give me a chance. Awh maybe she just got nervous or something x

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Yep, people being that needy is really off putting and sometimes a little creepy.

Though I have to admit that when I started here, I did send a "where did you go?" type message.

We had had quite a good long conversation over the course of a week, then she asked for a social. I agreed and asked where but got no reply. A couple of days later I followed it up asking if everything was OK and where did she go, and still got no reply. Then I noticed the message got deleted.

Dissapointing and confusing tbh as I thought we were getting on well, but I just moved on.

Yeah but I'd say thats totally fair and reasonable for you to say that since you had actually planned a meet and chatted a while. It's when guys say that to because I ain't replied for 10 / 15 mins because I'm on the phone or just away to do something it stresses me out like give me a chance. Awh maybe she just got nervous or something x"

Yeah, that's just needy and creepy.

Really not needed, and probably kills any chance of the conversation continuing.

Good luck with finding your way.

That 99 to 99 idea sounds pretty solid... though it might make some 99 old blokes day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep, people being that needy is really off putting and sometimes a little creepy.

Though I have to admit that when I started here, I did send a "where did you go?" type message.

We had had quite a good long conversation over the course of a week, then she asked for a social. I agreed and asked where but got no reply. A couple of days later I followed it up asking if everything was OK and where did she go, and still got no reply. Then I noticed the message got deleted.

Dissapointing and confusing tbh as I thought we were getting on well, but I just moved on.

Yeah but I'd say thats totally fair and reasonable for you to say that since you had actually planned a meet and chatted a while. It's when guys say that to because I ain't replied for 10 / 15 mins because I'm on the phone or just away to do something it stresses me out like give me a chance. Awh maybe she just got nervous or something x

Yeah, that's just needy and creepy.

Really not needed, and probably kills any chance of the conversation continuing.

Good luck with finding your way.

That 99 to 99 idea sounds pretty solid... though it might make some 99 old blokes day "

Awh a woman on here inspired me to do it lol x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Is this a muppet free zone tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newish to the forums and the bashing of single guys as started. You are a fast learner

I'm not really bashing single guys am I, I'm just saying I find that really annoying when guys are like that and hopefully some of them will think twice about acting like that if they read this because it's ridiculous to repeat message someone several times in sometimes quite a short space of time because they haven't replied. Give them a chance. Guys on here are asking for advice all the time well my advice is don't do this

Just use it as a filter and add to the blocklist. Decent guys don’t need tips. Let the arseholes show themselves for who they really are. Giving them tips is just painting over the cracks

Welcome to the forums btw "

Spot on young man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a muppet free zone tonight? "

Yes, it seems the children are tucked up in bed.

It really got out of hand and completely took from iwannabe's topic.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Is this a muppet free zone tonight?

Yes, it seems the children are tucked up in bed.

It really got out of hand and completely took from iwannabe's topic.

"

Phew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a muppet free zone tonight?

Yes, it seems the children are tucked up in bed.

It really got out of hand and completely took from iwannabe's topic.

Phew. "

Ahem to that.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Sooooo. OP - How's your initial experience in the forums going???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooooo. OP - How's your initial experience in the forums going??? "

Yeah it's good I like it xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Sooooo. OP - How's your initial experience in the forums going???

Yeah it's good I like it xx"

Woop woop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just blocked everyone from messaging me now lmao x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just blocked everyone from messaging me now lmao x"

I imagine that will be relaxed a bit at some point.

Welcome OP, hope you enjoy it.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I've just blocked everyone from messaging me now lmao x"

Having been here for a year - i can understand that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just blocked everyone from messaging me now lmao x

I imagine that will be relaxed a bit at some point.

Welcome OP, hope you enjoy it. "

Lol I've changed it like 50 times in the last 24 hours but I like it quiet and thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just blocked everyone from messaging me now lmao x

I imagine that will be relaxed a bit at some point.

Welcome OP, hope you enjoy it.

Lol I've changed it like 50 times in the last 24 hours but I like it quiet and thank you xx"

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