FabSwingers.com forum: Scars

By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I have a rather obvious scar running across my pubic area,...does this put a woman off, or actually draw a woman's eye, who else has scars and wonders how's their perceived by the opposite sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a c section scar.

If I thought it was ever going to put someone off whilst we were naked together, we wouldn't be naked together

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I quite like them to be honest. I think they’re quite interesting. I’d never be put off by one

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Scars don't bother me, its just a unique part of someone

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I’ve rather a lot of scars, however only was from a sexual encounter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv a few from previous surgery I had. They don't like them. Its bye bye from me lol

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

As I'm sure people are aware who follow the forums, I regularly place pics up, my scar is never really something I've thought about, though in some pics, I've started to look, and really realise how obvious it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion, scars make us who we are. I would say that as someone that has literally hundreds, and I like them on other people. Do I know if ladies like them or think they are sexy? I dunno. But we are who we are. They add to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few scars from injuries, 1 on my thigh and 1 on my groin as well as a load of small ones all over my body. If people ask i tell them where they come from, for yeaes i hated them and was embarrassed by them but now i dont care and alot of people who've seen them aren't bothered by them.

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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire

A scar wouldn't put me off OP, I'd most likely just be curious as to how you got it.

V x

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

That scar just makes me want to trace it with my tongue

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I have scars. It would be incredibly hypocritical for me to have a problem with other people’s scars (not that I would anyway!)

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

The strangest thing is, I don't even know how I got mine,...I was circumsized at a young age, but you don't get a scar like that from being circumsized so it baffles me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scarring on my face, one of my lower eyelids is pulled down (it often doesn't shut fully when I'm asleep apparently) to me it is very obvious and I hate face pics of me. If I'm taking a selfie I'll always try and squint slightly to even my eyes up.

Everyone I mention it to says they don't see it - they're either just used to it or telling me lies

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

"That scar just makes me want to trace it with my tongue

You sure your looking at the right scar

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"The strangest thing is, I don't even know how I got mine,...I was circumsized at a young age, but you don't get a scar like that from being circumsized so it baffles me

that’s odd you don’t know.

I guess that means you can make ip your own story.

Shark attack?

Wrestling an alligator?

Saving kittens from a burning building?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a scar on a finger from an axe... You wouldn't really notice it unless I told you it was there and it is a couple of inches long but scars shouldn't be seen as a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a c-section scar that I don't think puts anyone off. Personally a scar doesn't both me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scarred knuckles from boxing years ago. I don’t mind because it just means my hands tell stories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a large scar on right hand side just under my ribs from a life saving operation when i was a baby. No one has ever even mentioned it or even asked about it

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"That scar just makes me want to trace it with my tongue

You sure your looking at the right scar

If were talking about your first pic.. then yip thats the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got lots of scars, some more obvious than others, worst are the ones on my hand but having it dragged in a circular bench saw would do that!

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"As I'm sure people are aware who follow the forums, I regularly place pics up, my scar is never really something I've thought about, though in some pics, I've started to look, and really realise how obvious it is"

I've looked at your pics quite a bit

but never noticed it until now.

I have a scar on my neck from surgery when I was 17. I forget about it most the time but when I see it in pics it bothers me sometimes x

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I know we are always told that scars are what makes us, and I appreciate that this statement is so true, though in our thoughts, we always have that small thought of doubt, what they might be thinking...

And btw I got mine saving a child from the top of a tree and ripped my pubic area on a branch

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I have a 'tram line' down my lower back from a spinal fusion operation over 20 years ago.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have a scar across my upper abdomen. I've had it since I was a baby ao I often forget that I'm any different to anyone else.

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

"That scar just makes me want to trace it with my tongue

You sure your looking at the right scar

If were talking about your first pic.. then yip thats the one

Yea that's the one....maybe I should do a pic which obviously shows it, without showing more

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've got a number of scars. It's a sign of a life lived.

Ironically I felt quite ashamed of some of my (tiny) surgical scars, until I got myself a much bigger one. Something about gynaecological surgery being secret.

Nope. If you can see the scars you can deal with the fact that I have lady bits *shrug* Nothing to be ashamed of

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"That scar just makes me want to trace it with my tongue

You sure your looking at the right scar

If were talking about your first pic.. then yip thats the one

Yea that's the one....maybe I should do a pic which obviously shows it, without showing more

Tease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body has a hysterectomy scar, scars from various other surgeries, stretch marks from pregnancies and weight loss. They are part of me and are my life tattoos.

If someone didn't like those then we are not compatible as two individuals, nevermind as lovers.

I do have body insecurities not needed to be mentioned now and these make me feel weak and vulnerable, I won't add my life tattoos to that list.

Her x

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

scars show you have lived a life..lifes score card xxx

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By *kagaMan
over a year ago

oxford

I have a nasty scar from an injury years ago it's not a tidy surgical scar it runs from higher than belly button right down past my groin I forget it's there but people are only curious when they see it not put off

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Omg, I am absolutely blown away with people's comments and remarks on this thread,...the comments made are endearing and so honest about each and every individual, it's really rather eye opening our inner thoughts at times, and the fact you have shared these thoughts, it's inspiring, heart warming and endearing,...I love all of you here

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Scars are interesting. They all have a story to tell .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars show our stories. Iv 1 30cm long on my tummy yours (u tease) looks sexy

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

"Scars show our stories. Iv 1 30cm long on my tummy yours (u tease) looks sexy "

Have never thought of it looking sexy, I've just always thought a woman would see it,...and wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few scars, a decent one on my face too. I forget they're there until people ask about them

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"Scars show our stories. Iv 1 30cm long on my tummy yours (u tease) looks sexy

Have never thought of it looking sexy, I've just always thought a woman would see it,...and wonder"

Oh my mind wondered how far I could trace it before you stopped me

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

"Scars show our stories. Iv 1 30cm long on my tummy yours (u tease) looks sexy

Have never thought of it looking sexy, I've just always thought a woman would see it,...and wonder

Oh my mind wondered how far I could trace it before you stopped me

I would never stop you tracing it with my tongue, I'm actually massively turned on when a woman does trace that area, I even find it more of a turn on then a blow job

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"Scars show our stories. Iv 1 30cm long on my tummy yours (u tease) looks sexy

Have never thought of it looking sexy, I've just always thought a woman would see it,...and wonder

Oh my mind wondered how far I could trace it before you stopped me

I would never stop you tracing it with my tongue, I'm actually massively turned on when a woman does trace that area, I even find it more of a turn on then a blow job

Ooh my .. get ya coat you’ve pulled

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

"Scars show our stories. Iv 1 30cm long on my tummy yours (u tease) looks sexy

Have never thought of it looking sexy, I've just always thought a woman would see it,...and wonder

Oh my mind wondered how far I could trace it before you stopped me

I would never stop you tracing it with my tongue, I'm actually massively turned on when a woman does trace that area, I even find it more of a turn on then a blow job

Ooh my .. get ya coat you’ve pulled

Mmmmmmm....your place or mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars don't bother me. I'd want to ask how the person came to have it but wouldn't as I'd be too scared of upsetting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No most of us are probably 2 busy enjoying ourselves... iv seen scars on men (they felt similar to u) I soon made them feel at ease ...

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

"Scars don't bother me. I'd want to ask how the person came to have it but wouldn't as I'd be too scared of upsetting them. "

So sweet,....but damn that crop could probably give a few scars of their own, mine did not come from any sexual acts btw, just so you know

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I've got a number of scars. It's a sign of a life lived.

Ironically I felt quite ashamed of some of my (tiny) surgical scars, until I got myself a much bigger one. Something about gynaecological surgery being secret.

Nope. If you can see the scars you can deal with the fact that I have lady bits *shrug* Nothing to be ashamed of"

Can't see my latest gynae scar but you can feel it with fingers or a penis

All my others are surgery related and honestly I forget I have them and wouldn't even think about someone else noticing or caring. I have multiple scars from a fundoplication surgery, an appendicectomy scar, a laparoscopy scar and enough stretch marks to confuse me with a zebra but *shrug*

OP - honestly I wouldn't know you had a scar, all I'm seeing is what looks like your abdomen creasing due to your position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never understood people worrying about scars... Maybe because my Dad was covered in them from rugby, maybe... I love mine tbh so seeinv them on others would just make me ask about them n yjen show them mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never understood people worrying about scars... Maybe because my Dad was covered in them from rugby, maybe... I love mine tbh so seeinv them on others would just make me ask about them n yjen show them mine

Mine are from Afghan, and remind me off a bad time which put me off alot until recnetly when my mindset started to change. I used to question if i thought it was horrible does everyone else so tried to hide them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all worry about something, like that... Takes a long time to get over/through some things. There's lots that can make us feel ugly, when we're not, mental aswell as physical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually like scars for some reason, they tell a story doesn’t bother me in the slightest x

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

"I actually like scars for some reason, they tell a story doesn’t bother me in the slightest x "

Would you like to know the story of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars and they have bothered some people. Others have made jokes, but it all just washes away now. and for the most part people don't acknowledge them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars tell a story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 6" scar on my ankle and a 4" scar on the inside leg after having an ORIF procedure. Plates one side, pins the other.

If you press down you can feel the plate and screws through the skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a 6" scar on my ankle and a 4" scar on the inside leg after having an ORIF procedure. Plates one side, pins the other.

If you press down you can feel the plate and screws through the skin

And yup I am proud of them, wouldn't change them even if I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually like scars for some reason, they tell a story doesn’t bother me in the slightest x

Would you like to know the story of mine

Of course x here orrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a 15inch scar going down & a 4 inch scar across on my leg. Shattered my knee cap so I've nice big scar. I get very conscious about it only wear trousers to cover it up. Even on holiday I try to cover it as much as I can. But scars don't put me off others. Thankfully it didn't put S off me lol

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I'd rather a scar than a bad tattoo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars on my knees, legs, arms, all from coming off bikes both types.

I have a rather fetching operation scar on my abdomen, this was due to having a testicle removed due to cancer. No one has commented on it.

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

"I have a rather obvious scar running across my pubic area,...does this put a woman off, or actually draw a woman's eye, who else has scars and wonders how's their perceived by the opposite sex

I have scars too... They're just part of your bodies story... What are yours from? I've got some from a few different times and reasons.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Chicks Dig Scars

or so the t-shirt says. They don't bother me at all. I have a few myself from adrenalin sports in the past, operations and youth antics. None are very obvious though. They're part of your life story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a large scar too, but find my vietnam story makes if more sexy. Despite not been born until way after Nam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chicks dig scars!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I have scars and I hate them and am very self conscious. Scars on other people don't bother me one bit, in fact they are an interesting feature and can be a great talking point.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I guess how people react to the quite often depends on the scar itself.

Personally, I like hearing the stories around them. Gives a person a bit more character.

The only largish scar I have is on my head (luckily under my hairline) from when I was a kid and fell and cracked my head open on a the corner of a concrete post.

The scar itself isn't really that big, but the invisible crack in my skull runs from the top of my nose to the middle of my head. Oddly, I quite like running a finger along the groove

The thing I find funny about it though is that as I grew up, the scar moved with my skin and no longer lines up with the crack in my skull.

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By *oshamguy30Man
over a year ago

Waterlooville

I have a fair few scars from silly childhood behaviour years ago ( fall out of a tree and opening up my back 8 inches) and a few from lofe saving surgery in the past few years. No one has ever made a comment about them. They just want to know more and attention is drawn elsewere too when I'm naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a rather obvious scar running across my pubic area,...does this put a woman off, or actually draw a woman's eye, who else has scars and wonders how's their perceived by the opposite sex

Scars are sexy as fuck! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A scar wouldn't put me off OP, I'd most likely just be curious as to how you got it.

V x"

Me too coz I’m nosy. My guess inguinal hernias. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread makes me happy I’m about to have a few more scars on my belly from keyhole surgery. I have a few on my shoulder from keyhole someone asked me if they were acne scars the cheeky sod. Nope.

I have a Harry Potter type scar on my forehead too I got from walking into a door as a kid

. My first ever bf had loads of major abdominal scars from liver surgery I loved them.

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By *oshamguy30Man
over a year ago

Waterlooville

"This thread makes me happy I’m about to have a few more scars on my belly from keyhole surgery. I have a few on my shoulder from keyhole someone asked me if they were acne scars the cheeky sod. Nope.

I have a Harry Potter type scar on my forehead too I got from walking into a door as a kid

. My first ever bf had loads of major abdominal scars from liver surgery I loved them.

Scar are part of who we are and where we have been in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a scar on my right thigh from a stupid knife incident.

No one ever sees it as no one gets that intimate lol

I also have a scar on my head. Usually hidden by my hair but is getting more exposed as time goes by lol

I'm happy with them both...they are part of my life story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a Harry Potter type scar on my forehead too I got from walking into a door as a kid

. My first ever bf had loads of major abdominal scars from liver surgery I loved them.

Scar are part of who we are and where we have been in life

Absolutely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worst scare nearly paralyze me only about 6/7 years old.. Got loads of scars some you can see some only for certain people lol.

Can't even remember how I got them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have a Harry Potter type scar on my forehead too I got from walking into a door as a kid

. My first ever bf had loads of major abdominal scars from liver surgery I loved them.

Hopefully the keyhole ones aren't too obvious. Mine have faded a lot

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By *oshamguy30Man
over a year ago

Waterlooville

I have a Harry Potter type scar on my forehead too I got from walking into a door as a kid

. My first ever bf had loads of major abdominal scars from liver surgery I loved them.

Hopefully the keyhole ones aren't too obvious. Mine have faded a lot"

Mine have too they do go over time but you know they are there.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have a Harry Potter type scar on my forehead too I got from walking into a door as a kid

. My first ever bf had loads of major abdominal scars from liver surgery I loved them.

Hopefully the keyhole ones aren't too obvious. Mine have faded a lot

Mine have too they do go over time but you know they are there. "

Oh mine are visible but not like they were. And I lived

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By *oshamguy30Man
over a year ago

Waterlooville

I have a Harry Potter type scar on my forehead too I got from walking into a door as a kid

. My first ever bf had loads of major abdominal scars from liver surgery I loved them.

Hopefully the keyhole ones aren't too obvious. Mine have faded a lot

Mine have too they do go over time but you know they are there.

Oh mine are visible but not like they were. And I lived

Thats the main thing x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I have a battery acid burn, on my torso, about the size if a 50p.

Its not that noticeable, but i usual tell a meet - just in case it affects them.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I have a Harry Potter type scar on my forehead too I got from walking into a door as a kid

. My first ever bf had loads of major abdominal scars from liver surgery I loved them.

I had keyhole surgery just over a year ago, three scars on my belly and one on my bikini line. I’ve set a photo as my profile photo that shows the belly ones a year on - they’re very small and not very noticeable, I hope that might help to reassure you that yours will be just fine as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars don't bother me, they make me curious but I won't ask for fear of making the person uncomfortable. I have a few, they aren't very noticeable but I can see them so I can get insecure about them, never had anyone actually mention them though and I hide them in my pictures. I have stretch marks aswell which I'm slowly learning to not let them bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've far too many of them to be worried by them anymore....

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have several on my back, I didn’t get them in a pleasurable way either

Obviously I can’t see them, but occasionally I’ll have some discomfort when I’m really cold or hot.

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