FabSwingers.com forum: a woman’s point of view ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just need some help is there anything I can do to help my profile in terms of the way it looks ? I have most of my pictures on private so that might be a problem but I send them to however ask or when I send a message. Also I feel like my age is a big factor on this site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is Sean spelled Sean in your username but as your name it's spelled Shaun like what one is it x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Too many cock pics for my liking and that yellow circle with sunglasses over your face does you no favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that's probably a bit irrelevant I just wondered

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair enough less is better I’ll look into that thank you, also I know ideally showing my face on my profile would be the best way forward but since I don’t trust people with my pictures what would u suggest ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My name is Sean but I prefer the spelling Shaun loool I change it now since that might be a problem ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair enough less is better I’ll look into that thank you, also I know ideally showing my face on my profile would be the best way forward but since I don’t trust people with my pictures what would u suggest ?"

But you do have a picture with your face on your profile by the way but if you don't want them there just send it in messages x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think the text isn't too bad at all, but I'm only one person.

Yes your age will play a factor to many as a lot of us won't consider those around the same age as our own children.

Anywhoos, take a look at my videos, they're full of useful advice.

I do have a question tho, and I'm not being facetious or snotty or anything, I really am genuinely curious.

Why do you state that you're black?

I see this a lot and don't understand why it's necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My name is Sean but I prefer the spelling Shaun loool I change it now since that might be a problem ??"

I don't know if it's a problem I just wondered lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a women but the profiles that get the most messages are single young females, so maybe have a sex change then post those pics? I guarantee you will get more interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I always try to send them straight away I’m just not getting any luck. I understand Seem to be a lot younger than most on here or just not just a lot of people’s cup of tea

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Yeah I always try to send them straight away I’m just not getting any luck. I understand Seem to be a lot younger than most on here or just not just a lot of people’s cup of tea "

If you press reply + quote (bottom right) it will be easier to work out what comment you're replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try putting normal photos up and leave the cock pics in private until they are asked for. If you do any sport or something active put a photo of that instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More cock pictures that should help

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Too many cock pics for my liking and that yellow circle with sunglasses over your face does you no favours."
I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mention you met a woman before lockdown, çan you ask her to verify you? As being on over a year with no verification is not a good look (and yes I know it's hard for single guys).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is very constructive thank you & yes i am start to believe the age part is my major problem. Also I mentioned black because I have come across profiles that say boldly they aren’t into black guys so I felt the need to mention it just in case. I’m not too sure if that makes sense as an outsider, if not I can remove it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is very constructive thank you & yes i am start to believe the age part is my major problem. Also I mentioned black because I have come across profiles that say boldly they aren’t into black guys so I felt the need to mention it just in case. I’m not too sure if that makes sense as an outsider, if not I can remove it lol "

I’d imagine the black cock pictures give away that you are black.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah I know at the time she said I should do it for her and she will return the favour. But I never know only verified people can verify someone first and now she is no longer on here. I’ve tried to see if anyone would do video verification with me but no luck so far unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lool yeah but some people are quick to check bio’s rather than pics so I thought that would just stop them in their tracks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lool yeah but some people are quick to check bio’s rather than pics so I thought that would just stop them in their tracks "

This is it , this site allows people to judge a book by its cover

As long as u got a clear profile picture n acouple other ones and private for friends only your naughty ones

Nothing more u can do

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I’d imagine the black cock pictures give away that you are black. "

That's how I see it.

Does 2 things in my mind (and again I'm only 1 person so could be the only person who thinks this way)

First up I see it as an insult of my intelligence. I think "you really didn't think I could work that out for myself? I ain't using the site in braille"

And secondly I think it must be incredibly important to that person for them to feel the need to state it, which means we ain't compatible in the slightest as we clearly place huge importance on different things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try putting normal photos up and leave the cock pics in private until they are asked for. If you do any sport or something active put a photo of that instead"

I don’t want people to take my pics and so on so what would u best recommend me to do ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’d imagine the black cock pictures give away that you are black.

That's how I see it.

Does 2 things in my mind (and again I'm only 1 person so could be the only person who thinks this way)

First up I see it as an insult of my intelligence. I think "you really didn't think I could work that out for myself? I ain't using the site in braille"

Okay thank you for that, it’s honestly very much appreciated I wouldn’t want to be seen in such light. I’ll be making adjustments now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lool yeah but some people are quick to check bio’s rather than pics so I thought that would just stop them in their tracks

This is it , this site allows people to judge a book by its cover

As long as u got a clear profile picture n acouple other ones and private for friends only your naughty ones

Nothing more u can do "

Yeah unfortunately nothing more you can do about it

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

An undisguised facee pic is really useful.

I understand wanting to be private, but unless I befriend you, I would not be able to see it and frankly I would not bother to look you up.

Dunno what happened yesterday, but I had over 200 messages, I can't scan back to old messages, as the system won't let you, to look for a specific message where you sent me a face pic.

If you want women to engage, you NEED a face pic, cause you're very forgetable otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"An undisguised facee pic is really useful.

I understand wanting to be private, but unless I befriend you, I would not be able to see it and frankly I would not bother to look you up.

Dunno what happened yesterday, but I had over 200 messages, I can't scan back to old messages, as the system won't let you, to look for a specific message where you sent me a face pic.

If you want women to engage, you NEED a face pic, cause you're very forgetable otherwise"

Yeah unfortunately this is how it is, I just don’t want my pictures on here going to family or random men using them. The best I can do is take pics my a mask I think that’s the closest substitute?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add."

Yeah I know the public ones. I send face pics immediately so it’s not an issue for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add.

Yeah I know the public ones. I send face pics immediately so it’s not an issue for me"

It might be an issue for the others who only see your cock in the profile..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add.

Yeah I know the public ones. I send face pics immediately so it’s not an issue for me

It might be an issue for the others who only see your cock in the profile.. "

Yeah definitely can u suggest what’s best to do as I don’t want a face out there as I don’t want family seeing it or random men using them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you don't want to have face pics up you don't need to but there's other pics you can have without it all just being cock pics x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Too many cock pics, generic profile. I find emoji over face pictures juvenile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add.

Yeah I know the public ones. I send face pics immediately so it’s not an issue for me"

Tbh women get lots of messages on here. Some females probably never need to send a message. The chances of you just getting a random message in your inbox are very slim. Being a guy you need to do the chasing on fab. And remember that a very, very small percentage of fab use the forums when anyone on the forums says I send messages to guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add.

Yeah I know the public ones. I send face pics immediately so it’s not an issue for me

It might be an issue for the others who only see your cock in the profile..

Yeah definitely can u suggest what’s best to do as I don’t want a face out there as I don’t want family seeing it or random men using them ?"

You cannot think of any other body parts apart from your cock? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add.

Yeah I know the public ones. I send face pics immediately so it’s not an issue for me

It might be an issue for the others who only see your cock in the profile..

Yeah definitely can u suggest what’s best to do as I don’t want a face out there as I don’t want family seeing it or random men using them ?"

Yes. Do as you are doing and just attach a face picture that gets auto deleted with every message you send.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

As others have said, you have more to your body than your face and your penis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add.

Yeah I know the public ones. I send face pics immediately so it’s not an issue for me

It might be an issue for the others who only see your cock in the profile..

Yeah definitely can u suggest what’s best to do as I don’t want a face out there as I don’t want family seeing it or random men using them ?

You cannot think of any other body parts apart from your cock? Really?"

I mean I have my stomach and ab region on my profile that’s the only other part of my body I think anyone would want to see Lool

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add.

Yeah I know the public ones. I send face pics immediately so it’s not an issue for me

It might be an issue for the others who only see your cock in the profile..

Yeah definitely can u suggest what’s best to do as I don’t want a face out there as I don’t want family seeing it or random men using them ?

You cannot think of any other body parts apart from your cock? Really?

I mean I have my stomach and ab region on my profile that’s the only other part of my body I think anyone would want to see Lool "

Look at pictures on here. Ones of guys. Yes you're allowed. See what they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I think I have said enough.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Even if you don't want to have face pics up you don't need to but there's other pics you can have without it all just being cock pics x"

I have an ab/chest pic up isn’t that good. It’s not as sexy as to other parts on women but it’s the best I can do loool

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add.

Yeah I know the public ones. I send face pics immediately so it’s not an issue for me

It might be an issue for the others who only see your cock in the profile..

Yeah definitely can u suggest what’s best to do as I don’t want a face out there as I don’t want family seeing it or random men using them ?

Yes. Do as you are doing and just attach a face picture that gets auto deleted with every message you send. "

Yeah I definitely sent a face pic with every message sent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"4 pictures outta 6 are of cock.

I have nothing else to add.

Yeah I know the public ones. I send face pics immediately so it’s not an issue for me

It might be an issue for the others who only see your cock in the profile..

Yeah definitely can u suggest what’s best to do as I don’t want a face out there as I don’t want family seeing it or random men using them ?

You cannot think of any other body parts apart from your cock? Really?

I mean I have my stomach and ab region on my profile that’s the only other part of my body I think anyone would want to see Lool

Look at pictures on here. Ones of guys. Yes you're allowed. See what they do. "

Thank you for the tips I do really appreciate them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've probably got more chance of a social by being in the forums and getting familiar with other users. You got to remember on FAB it's like a ratio of 100 men to 1 woman and the ladies probably get 100 messages per day. I've just discovered the forums and enjoy the interaction.

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