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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious as to how long people have been without sex so far, has it been hard ? How have you tried to cope ? And when will u say enough is enough Loool I haven’t had sex since the start of lockdown, march

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By *omino51Man
over a year ago

loughborough

Tuesday night. With the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last Sunday with my new guy. He lives alone so I’m his support bubble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious as to how long people have been without sex so far, has it been hard ? How have you tried to cope ? And when will u say enough is enough Loool I haven’t had sex since the start of lockdown, march "

Loooool literally the same with me

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

March.

No I don't miss it.

No I don't want it.

Doesn't mean I don't want to want it tho

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

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Last Tuesday.. 2m apart of course..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve formed a support bubble, so it was Sunday morning and will no doubt be Saturday night for the next time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you live with a partner you sonny count Lool but I’m seeing some replies saying last week, how lucky

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

March.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sunday morning

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By *essica FlabbitWoman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire

Ah man some of you are so lucky

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

1 month

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yesterday bouncing in our bubble

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of hours ago between Zoom meetings. Loving working from home.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It was only Tuesday, which seems ages ago now. The more we have, the more I seem to want... And we have week to wait til we're together again.

I really do feel for you non-bubbled singles

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Monday night and it was hard.

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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

6 days ago .... too long lol

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By *isa_29fWoman
over a year ago

London

With fiance 2 days

With a naughty other... beginning of lockdown

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By *arriLadMan
over a year ago

North West

Far too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put me in the March column if you're doing a spreadsheet and graph. Aching isn't the word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 weeks,

Was in a relationship until 5 weeks ago,

Some might say crap timing but it's one of those things I guess,

My wrist support is arriving tomorrow

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Last night we had rudies. Ahhh I feel so much for you that want it so bad - but hats off to you for being good and 'following the rules!' xxher

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

About 2hrs

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By *uLou69Couple
over a year ago

Glos

Monday and last night.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

March...

....2017 - so as of today, three years, eight months and two days ago, to be exact...

....not that I'm counting - just happen to know the precise date of my last meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

February

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

About 12 months ago, but I've gone longer without sex.

Im a patient guy. I can wait (biting my knuckles).

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

2 years and 9 months, this lockdown shits got nothing on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 days ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To long

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

September 2019.

I've previously gone 14 years without sex, and planned for this year to be celibate. However, not being able to change my mind and having enforced celibacy has left me craving.

I'm here to gaze on pictures of naked men.

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By *ntheroad 123Man
over a year ago

Naunton

Over a month not going to work out exactly how long cant do it to myself

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

10am today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

February

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It's been seven hours and fifteen days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a few hours for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 wks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday morning

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

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"September 2019.

I've previously gone 14 years without sex, and planned for this year to be celibate. However, not being able to change my mind and having enforced celibacy has left me craving.

I'm here to gaze on pictures of naked men.

"

F.. fou..forte... I can’t even finish that sentence. Wut?! How even.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just coming up to a year..... I'm sure its healed up!

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"It's been seven hours and fifteen days"

Since she took her love away?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Just over a year now. when this pandemic is over someone is going to have a very willing partner

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

July 2019.

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By *j69funCouple
over a year ago

kildare

Last night

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

1 month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approx year ago but been seriously ill this year, still recovering to some extent, happy the old mojo is stirring again but there's no rush. Just curious to see if the treatments affected my performance!!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"September 2019.

I've previously gone 14 years without sex, and planned for this year to be celibate. However, not being able to change my mind and having enforced celibacy has left me craving.

I'm here to gaze on pictures of naked men.

"

I was same nearly from 2004 till 2017 x

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By *uLou69Couple
over a year ago

Glos

Last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Earlier today, with my husband and a toy. You could say it was hard....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last weekend...thankfully we are bubbled up this lockdown so able to see each other weekends...

Roll in Friday

First lockdown we didn't see each other for over 4 months...that was shit!

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 month deployment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well over a month ago think it might be 2 months actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 months

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I was celibate from my mid-20s to my mid-30s. I've gone much longer without sex.

I miss touch. I've never gone so long without casual touch and I miss that far more than I miss sex. I need someone to touch my face, or put a hand on my arm, tuck my hair behind my ear, put their hand at the small of my back.

I'd settle for someone honking my tits at this point.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I was celibate from my mid-20s to my mid-30s. I've gone much longer without sex.

I miss touch. I've never gone so long without casual touch and I miss that far more than I miss sex. I need someone to touch my face, or put a hand on my arm, tuck my hair behind my ear, put their hand at the small of my back.

I'd settle for someone honking my tits at this point."

(Warms up his hands).

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Errrmmmm about 19hrs sorry to those of you that don't have or can't see there partner...but... We'll try to have your share too so the universe is in balance because we are nice like that you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 months

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Errrmmmm about 19hrs sorry to those of you that don't have or can't see there partner...but... We'll try to have your share too so the universe is in balance because we are nice like that you see "

All good

I'm doing my bit and will make up for lost time at jab two plus fourteen days

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By *ly-FoxMan
over a year ago

mobile

7 hours and 37 minutes. It was a good day. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

February....currently tucking my balls into my socks they are that heavy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about 2 years now. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest.

It would if I was in a relationship but I’m not and random meaningless sex with strangers does nothing for me.

Not being able to give friends and family a hug is hard as it’s something my family do regularly.

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

Well...apart from accidentally, a few months ago with a student that got me d*unk...No I'm not their teacher or even a teacher! Its been since a break up in feb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a year and never met anyone off this, did pick the start of lockdown to sign up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was 6 weeks but broke that a few days ago, 6 weeks for me may aswell be 6 months as I hadnt gone that long in 7 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it count if you're on your own...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of years

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

Far far too long ago ..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

7 days, and I'm getting antsy.....

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Early October...feels like last century

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Tuesday night. With the wife "

I shagged your wife last night, you didn't need to bother with the tea and biscuits after though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had last had sex on the 4th of July this year.

Absolutely not interested in one off sex so I’ve just not thought about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve honestly lost track now, think it was august 2019

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

About 2.5 years now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 ish weeks I guess. Not counting the days or anything. (4 + 3)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 weeks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unsure how long but its been way too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 3 years, I miss it, but I’m not desperate for it......... if that makes sense.

I’d like to meet and form a bubble, maybe one day ....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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With how I'm feeling today, years. It's been over a week sadly which is far too long for me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes, YES, Jesus, fill me Boris!, Santa’s coming baby........... just this second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 months and 16 days... Not that I'm counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of weeks now ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roughly quater of an hour ago seeing as you're asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roughly quater of an hour ago seeing as you're asking "
rub it in a bit why don't you lucky bloke though

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

10.00 pm this evening was my last time. Still smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

August

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday !!!!! And the day before !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week locked in with my 2 favourite people is just around the corner.so he that was with me will be us 3 with each other soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

March. The 21st to be precise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 year

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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3 years, it's getting easier the longer that I go without. I'm in no hurry to have sex just for the sake of having it anymore.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

10 months it's not fun. But it's no good worrying about stuff you can do nothing about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since 1st January 2018

Yes, it's been hard.

I cope, full stop.

When I meet the right woman.

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