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By *ddietall OP   Man
over a year ago

central

Who else is missing the simple things like hugging friends and shaking hands with people?

I look forward to the day when you can do this again

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We spend lots of time just hugging and touching. I find the lack of physical touch with others very alien.

C

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Sometimes the non-sexual touches say so much more - that natural and instinctive reaching for someone's hand, or a touch of their thigh, even a stolen glance or smile

And yes in the current world a hug or a handshake with friends and loved ones is missed - the awkwardness of standing knowing you usually would but you can't do those natural and instinctive things is palpable.

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By *ddietall OP   Man
over a year ago

central

I still have to check myself When I go to hug friends. It still feels wrong and as you say, alien!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

To be honest no i don't. I was never in the habit of hugging or shaking hands with friends although i still have alot of physical contact with people i care for at work so guess i am luckier than most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest no i don't. I was never in the habit of hugging or shaking hands with friends ..."

^^This^^ also. And, personally, I find it odd when someone I've just met wants to shake my hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else is missing the simple things like hugging friends and shaking hands with people?

I look forward to the day when you can do this again

"

100%. I'm a tactile person so limited to hugging my sister and nephews ATM. Not hugged my mum since March either.

And as much as I love female contact I'm not ashamed to say there'll be some awkward man hugs with my male buddies when all this blows over (closely followed by a dead arm to show I'm not a big wuss ).

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"To be honest no i don't. I was never in the habit of hugging or shaking hands with friends ...

^^This^^ also. And, personally, I find it odd when someone I've just met wants to shake my hand."

Hand shaking is for UK business. I'm more comfortable with the European two/three cheek kissing and great big hugs.

A hello is just not the same these days

C

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I didn't realise how much we take it all for granted. While watching tv shows where people normally hug each other e.g. Naked Attraction I couldn't work out why I felt something was wrong, then realised it seemed very alien because there was no physical contact.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Im a hugger and cuddler of my mates so we just blow kisses instead, looking forward to bear hugs and arm holding with the girls

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

In fact I'd go so far as to say that non sexual physical contact is more important than sexual. It's what separates strangers from friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Sex is only a small part, having been home alone since March, craving touch and contact as much as anything sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love hugs, i am a giver, if someone looks like they need a hug they get one.

Hugs make the worst kind of situation a little better knowing that someone cares enough to put their arms around you..

To me it shows you care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend is in my bubble as we’re both single ladies. We always greet and goodbye with a hug.

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By *ddietall OP   Man
over a year ago

central

There’s nothing better than giving friends big hugs especially if you’ve not seen them in a while!

Big thumbs up to all of you huggers and tactile people out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would fucking love a hug right now

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