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"The site seems to be awash with guys less scrupulous than before the pandemic. Most of the nice guys have gone to ground.... It’s turned into a ‘fuck n go’ site - even through all this I see status updates for meets "Very true. | |||
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"The site seems to be awash with guys less scrupulous than before the pandemic. Most of the nice guys have gone to ground.... It’s turned into a ‘fuck n go’ site - even through all this I see status updates for meets "Works both ways. Try searching for females. | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. " Even if they just say 'hung'...  | |||
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"I'm put off by so many things I'm starting to think I'll be alone forever " Right?! | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. " Men think it will impress you, it another one of our deluded thought I'm afraid. | |||
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). So guys boasting about having a large Johnson will get plenty of attention.
It'll put a lot of women off tho. Guys with big cocks tend to think they've done something special to get it but fact is it's just luck of the draw!
I'm not bitter, honest.... | |||
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"TBF there are a lot of female profiles that do clearly state "must be 8" minimum" (trust me I've browsed a LOT of profiles! ). So guys boasting about having a large Johnson will get plenty of attention.
It'll put a lot of women off tho. Guys with big cocks tend to think they've done something special to get it but fact is it's just luck of the draw!
I'm not bitter, honest.... "Agreed, i have lost count how many penis fourms that have been generated by both sexes. The bigger the penis, the bigger the compliment they receive. Outside fab, nobody gives a crap how big the tool is. | |||
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"Good guys are out there, folks (if not being alone for ever is on your objective list). You'll find them in the strangest of places, like on your mother's bathroom floor in a puddle of puke "Thanks for the image  | |||
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"Good guys are out there, folks (if not being alone for ever is on your objective list). You'll find them in the strangest of places, like on your mother's bathroom floor in a puddle of puke
Thanks for the image "In my defence, I also found him in physics A level lessons and the sixth form common room  | |||
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"I can’t believe the amount of cock pics guys send in their messages! As a single guy’s profile I was oblivious to cocks. Now in a couples profile it’s like we’ve put a subliminal message in our profile to send cock pics! Every message from a guy has one...but usually at least 6 from different angles "I’ve just added this onto my couples profile about not sending dick pics earlier this evening. Still got some though | |||
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"Totally, plus if they mention 'heavy cummer' I switch off instantly and think 'nope we clearly find importance in different things' I dunno, something about it just makes me think they have the Jay from the inbetweers level of understanding women " I hate that phrase! | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. Even if they just say 'hung'... "Yeah I'm on some other sites and it's often just slipped in their profile text and it just makes me nope out of there | |||
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"TBF there are a lot of female profiles that do clearly state "must be 8" minimum" (trust me I've browsed a LOT of profiles! ). So guys boasting about having a large Johnson will get plenty of attention.
It'll put a lot of women off tho. Guys with big cocks tend to think they've done something special to get it but fact is it's just luck of the draw!
I'm not bitter, honest.... "If only they did have to do something to get it. Like grow half a centimetre for every orgasm they give . | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. " I’m the same when I see a woman or couple stating “Must be VWE/ 9” and above only”  | |||
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"I always put im 10 inches plus and then hope to god they have poor eye sight." My long distance vision isn't great. You'll have to stay the other end of the room . | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. I’m the same when I see a woman or couple stating “Must be VWE/ 9” and above only” "Might add to mine "must have a brain and a mouth, a penis is desirable but not essential" | |||
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"Depends what he says about his penis size and how he words it. If it was witty I’d just chuckle to myself. I like a funny guy, regardless of cock size "Yes that's true, jokes are fine. | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. I’m the same when I see a woman or couple stating “Must be VWE/ 9” and above only”
Might add to mine "must have a brain and a mouth, a penis is desirable but not essential" "Where else can they keep their brain? | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. I’m the same when I see a woman or couple stating “Must be VWE/ 9” and above only”
Might add to mine "must have a brain and a mouth, a penis is desirable but not essential" "As long as you don’t mind an inbox full of brains and mouth pics....... | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. I’m the same when I see a woman or couple stating “Must be VWE/ 9” and above only”
Might add to mine "must have a brain and a mouth, a penis is desirable but not essential"
As long as you don’t mind an inbox full of brains and mouth pics....... "I can live with that | |||
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"To put the case for cocks... It is a swinging site (or perhaps just sex at moment). So for many, if not most a dick will serve some purpose in the transaction. Preference for turnip rather than chantenay carrot is a lot easier to research when it is mentioned/shown somewhere. Of course how you advertise your veg makes a difference. Clean, well packed and clearly priced in M&S vs dirty, damaged and measured with a thumb on the scale by a market man who could strip paint with his breath. YMMV. " | |||
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"To put the case for cocks... It is a swinging site (or perhaps just sex at moment). So for many, if not most a dick will serve some purpose in the transaction. Preference for turnip rather than chantenay carrot is a lot easier to research when it is mentioned/shown somewhere. Of course how you advertise your veg makes a difference. Clean, well packed and clearly priced in M&S vs dirty, damaged and measured with a thumb on the scale by a market man who could strip paint with his breath. YMMV. "I tip my hat to you...... it’s refreshing to read something intelligent on the forums...... | |||
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"The site seems to be awash with guys less scrupulous than before the pandemic. Most of the nice guys have gone to ground.... It’s turned into a ‘fuck n go’ site - even through all this I see status updates for meets " | |||
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"My theory on this is because Fabs awash with cock, we’ve all gone cockblind. It takes something different to entice us. " I agree. They just want to try and find something that will get people interested. Lots of things put me off on profiles, but it's usually things that other people find attractive. | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. " Love your new pic! Xx | |||
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"Totally, plus if they mention 'heavy cummer' " Hate that phrase!! | |||
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"TBF there are a lot of female profiles that do clearly state "must be 8" minimum" (trust me I've browsed a LOT of profiles! ). So guys boasting about having a large Johnson will get plenty of attention.
It'll put a lot of women off tho. Guys with big cocks tend to think they've done something special to get it but fact is it's just luck of the draw!
I'm not bitter, honest....
If only they did have to do something to get it. Like grow half a centimetre for every orgasm they give . "I'd be up to 4" by now if that was the case.  | |||
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"I'm put off by so many things I'm starting to think I'll be alone forever " I completely relate | |||
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"Let's be honest. For most the guys it really doesn't matter a fuck what they put on their profile as nearly all of them get ignored regardless of cock size and substance of profile. Guy's who get regular meets for the most part are the ones who have figured out how to play the game or just happened to be in the right place at the right time. For some persistence is the key ,not giving up regardless of the odds. But given the amount of threads about cock size and the majority of comments from women saying that a good sized cock is a must,it's hardly surprising that guys are obsessed. However I also think regardless of what women say men are going to be obsessed with their cocks in fact I would go as far as saying that even if there was no actual real women on here they would still put up endless amounts of cock pic's. " Well said | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. " The are many profiles here who specifically request that a mans cock size be a certain size or shape or colour. Obviously the same goes for profiles that require a specific body shape, size or colour for women etc It's a two way street basically. Imagine some dude posted here saying 'fellas, do you get put off when a womens profile shows what dress size she is' Being put off by someone typing their cock size on a profile is childish at best lol Let people advertise whatever they want, it's there space, no need to be put off by it. If anything, it can be a point of reference (and is for a lot of people) Lets say OP is looking for a specific thing, can be anything, as an example i will use big feet. Would you rather ask every other profile if they have big feet or not, or would you rather easily access this information by looking at a profile? | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. " nice landing strip | |||
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"I may get yelled at for this but ......... a lot of women here aren’t looking for a ‘nice’ guy. Because most wont give us nice guys a chance. You are quick to say what you don’t like in a profile but rarely tell us what we do right. There is an old phrase from a movie I think ‘nice guys come last’ well that is certainly the case here for the majority of the time" I think people's idea of a "nice guy" as you put it can vary but generally people want others to be a decent human being. As for the OP, yes I have no reason to want read a description of their cock size and if it's all they can talk about, it definitely puts me off. | |||
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"Let's be honest. For most the guys it really doesn't matter a fuck what they put on their profile as nearly all of them get ignored regardless of cock size and substance of profile. Guy's who get regular meets for the most part are the ones who have figured out how to play the game or just happened to be in the right place at the right time. For some persistence is the key ,not giving up regardless of the odds. But given the amount of threads about cock size and the majority of comments from women saying that a good sized cock is a must,it's hardly surprising that guys are obsessed. ***However I also think regardless of what women say men are going to be obsessed with their cocks in fact I would go as far as saying that even if there was no actual real women on here they would still put up endless amounts of cock pic's.*** " Especially *** | |||
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"I may get yelled at for this but ......... a lot of women here aren’t looking for a ‘nice’ guy. Because most wont give us nice guys a chance. You are quick to say what you don’t like in a profile but rarely tell us what we do right. There is an old phrase from a movie I think ‘nice guys come last’ well that is certainly the case here for the majority of the time" We want nice guys we find attractive... If you want to just fuck nice women you aren't attracted to, fine... I only want to fuck nice guys I fancy the arse off of(don't bother with the good looking, six pack crap, I find many different types of men attractive) ... Just being nice is not enough, it doesn't mean we don't want that... Being yourself, not blaming women for not being attracted to you (there will always be someone that is) or acting like a desperate arse... That's doing it right. | |||
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"I may get yelled at for this but ......... a lot of women here aren’t looking for a ‘nice’ guy. Because most wont give us nice guys a chance. You are quick to say what you don’t like in a profile but rarely tell us what we do right. There is an old phrase from a movie I think ‘nice guys come last’ well that is certainly the case here for the majority of the time" Well I'm certainly not looking for a grade A cunt. | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. " It's because you know they are going to be arrogant if they already announced the size of their cock! X | |||
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"Totally, plus if they mention 'heavy cummer' I switch off instantly and think 'nope we clearly find importance in different things' I dunno, something about it just makes me think they have the Jay from the inbetweers level of understanding women " Heavy cummer makes me gag! Lol,not in a good way, horrible x | |||
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"I really have no idea what to put on my profile. So much opposing advice, and so much is based on pictures, which I admit, mine are shit!" That's why you're best off being yourself on your profile. You'll never please everyone coz everyone likes different things, so do what pleases YOU. At least that way you'll hopefully connect with people who like you for the real you, not the you that is trying to cover as many potential bases as possible. | |||
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"I really have no idea what to put on my profile. So much opposing advice, and so much is based on pictures, which I admit, mine are shit! That's why you're best off being yourself on your profile. You'll never please everyone coz everyone likes different things, so do what pleases YOU. At least that way you'll hopefully connect with people who like you for the real you, not the you that is trying to cover as many potential bases as possible." Very true, but being me doesn’t seem to get much attention. | |||
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"I may get yelled at for this but ......... a lot of women here aren’t looking for a ‘nice’ guy. Because most wont give us nice guys a chance. You are quick to say what you don’t like in a profile but rarely tell us what we do right. There is an old phrase from a movie I think ‘nice guys come last’ well that is certainly the case here for the majority of the time We want nice guys we find attractive... If you want to just fuck nice women you aren't attracted to, fine... I only want to fuck nice guys I fancy the arse off of(don't bother with the good looking, six pack crap, I find many different types of men attractive) ... Just being nice is not enough, it doesn't mean we don't want that... Being yourself, not blaming women for not being attracted to you (there will always be someone that is) or acting like a desperate arse... That's doing it right. " I didn’t realise what I said came across as desperate. I am not desperate, far from it. In all honesty I don’t need or crave validation from anyone. I am who I am, and the way I am built and look is also me. I don’t expect to be found attractive by everyone or anyone for that matter | |||
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"Yup. Makes me think all they are bothered about is getting their dick wet. I feel like screaming I want to know about you not your cock. " Men can be so dreadful, I mean how could anyone's profile on here give people the idea that a cock is important? | |||
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"My profile currently says "VWE, according to user feedback". I made a note of this so anyone reading my profile could make an informed decision – some people enjoy it, some people really don't. I am now wondering whether I should remove it. Last thing I want is to make anyone uncomfortable. " No, I’d say leave it as it is. You can’t please everyone so it’s not worth trying... | |||
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"My profile currently says "VWE, according to user feedback". I made a note of this so anyone reading my profile could make an informed decision – some people enjoy it, some people really don't. I am now wondering whether I should remove it. Last thing I want is to make anyone uncomfortable. " Well it is a sex/swingers site, and you are comic in how you say it (#humblebrag). The vast majority do want to see - they just dont want it to be the only topic of conversation. Which is more uncomfortable - seeing a picture and deciding no thanks or dropping your troos at a meet and them fainting in shock? For those who do not want to see, turn images off! | |||
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"I’ve clearly stated on mine before that mine is between the size of a tic tac and a butternut squash, this I feel has left enough Ambiguity for a little mystery, little mystery is also the name of my penis." Now that would make me chortle. Shows some humour which when we're talking willies... ya kinda need! | |||
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"The site seems to be awash with guys less scrupulous than before the pandemic. Most of the nice guys have gone to ground.... It’s turned into a ‘fuck n go’ site - even through all this I see status updates for meets "I like to think I'm a nice guy. I'm not the kinda who will send abusive messages, or bombard you if you don't reply. But I do agree that the majority of guys on here are giving the "nice guys" a bad name. Not everyone is the same at the end of the day. And definitely do not share dick size. It's not all about size at the end of the day. Or atleast I hope. Lol. | |||
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"I may get yelled at for this but ......... a lot of women here aren’t looking for a ‘nice’ guy. Because most wont give us nice guys a chance. You are quick to say what you don’t like in a profile but rarely tell us what we do right. There is an old phrase from a movie I think ‘nice guys come last’ well that is certainly the case here for the majority of the time We want nice guys we find attractive... If you want to just fuck nice women you aren't attracted to, fine... I only want to fuck nice guys I fancy the arse off of(don't bother with the good looking, six pack crap, I find many different types of men attractive) ... Just being nice is not enough, it doesn't mean we don't want that... Being yourself, not blaming women for not being attracted to you (there will always be someone that is) or acting like a desperate arse... That's doing it right. I didn’t realise what I said came across as desperate. I am not desperate, far from it. In all honesty I don’t need or crave validation from anyone. I am who I am, and the way I am built and look is also me. I don’t expect to be found attractive by everyone or anyone for that matter" I didn't say you did... You wanted to know how to do it right instead of what men do wrong... | |||
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"My profile currently says "VWE, according to user feedback". I made a note of this so anyone reading my profile could make an informed decision – some people enjoy it, some people really don't. I am now wondering whether I should remove it. Last thing I want is to make anyone uncomfortable. " Astbury, your profile should be whatever you want it to be. If you tried to tailor it to all the likes/dislikes people express about profiles, it'd be a jumble of nonsense. Everyone likes different things and this is good/fine. | |||
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"You can’t please everyone so it’s not worth trying... "I'm not try to please everyone – I'm trying to please *anyone*. Hah. "Well it is a sex/swingers site, and you are comic in how you say it (#humblebrag)." I'm sorry, I don't understand. "Which is more uncomfortable - seeing a picture and deciding no thanks or dropping your troos at a meet and them fainting in shock?" I have never posted a photo of my penis and I have no plans to start. "Astbury, your profile should be whatever you want it to be. If you tried to tailor it to all the likes/dislikes people express about profiles, it'd be a jumble of nonsense. Everyone likes different things and this is good/fine." I understand what you're trying to say here, but I don't think it's good advice. It's like telling someone who's getting ready for a job interview "Don't bother doing any preparation – just be yourself." That's just going to lead to permanent unemployment, homelessenss and death from exposure. | |||
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" Astbury, your profile should be whatever you want it to be. If you tried to tailor it to all the likes/dislikes people express about profiles, it'd be a jumble of nonsense. Everyone likes different things and this is good/fine. I understand what you're trying to say here, but I don't think it's good advice. It's like telling someone who's getting ready for a job interview "Don't bother doing any preparation – just be yourself." That's just going to lead to permanent unemployment, homelessenss and death from exposure. " I don't think your analogy is comparable there. There's on job description - you prepare to show how you match it. Every person has different sexual preferences, what they find attractive, what they're here for etc. You have to just show off you, that's all you can do. I like anal and having my arse whipped. If the thought of doing those things makes you feel queasy, you wouldn't put in your profile that you would be happy to whip arses and fuck them. That's what I'm trying to say. What I'm/we're looking for from a profile and a person is probably radically different to the next couple - we're not all for everyone. | |||
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"This thread inspired me to add a little update to my profile late last night. It'll probably get ignored, but they can't say they weren't told "The phrase 'heavy cummer' turns my guts. I'm not saying I'm a spunk hater, but I'm not looking for bukkake meets so I really don't care how many bucketfulls of wallpaper paste you can projectile vomit from your bellend. Whatever you think your penis size is, well, that's also pretty irrelevant coz men can't fucking measure anyway so whatever you tell me is gonna be cobblers. I swear you must be using a 1970's Xmas cracker novelty tape measure ffs" " | |||
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"Find themselves instantly put off when a man's profile references his penis size? I'm not even 100% sure why. The are many profiles here who specifically request that a mans cock size be a certain size or shape or colour. Obviously the same goes for profiles that require a specific body shape, size or colour for women etc It's a two way street basically. Imagine some dude posted here saying 'fellas, do you get put off when a womens profile shows what dress size she is' Being put off by someone typing their cock size on a profile is childish at best lol Let people advertise whatever they want, it's there space, no need to be put off by it. If anything, it can be a point of reference (and is for a lot of people) Lets say OP is looking for a specific thing, can be anything, as an example i will use big feet. Would you rather ask every other profile if they have big feet or not, or would you rather easily access this information by looking at a profile?" Just a small addition to my point above. I see a lot of guys thinking of changing their profiles. Lads, that would be counter productive and also the profile should be about you and how you want it to be! Dont try and tailor it to everyone's needs because you will end up with something that nobody likes. This obviously goes for everyone. Women and couples, would you ever change your profile because some like it but some dont? | |||
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"Totally, plus if they mention 'heavy cummer' I switch off instantly and think 'nope we clearly find importance in different things' I dunno, something about it just makes me think they have the Jay from the inbetweers level of understanding women " This exactly - guys, take notice!
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"TBF there are a lot of female profiles that do clearly state "must be 8" minimum" (trust me I've browsed a LOT of profiles! ). So guys boasting about having a large Johnson will get plenty of attention.
It'll put a lot of women off tho. Guys with big cocks tend to think they've done something special to get it but fact is it's just luck of the draw!
I'm not bitter, honest.... "Nah me either mate, too big hurts apparently. That’s what I tell myself anyway! | |||
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"I see a lot of guys thinking of changing their profiles. Lads, that would be counter productive and also the profile should be about you and how you want it to be! Dont try and tailor it to everyone's needs because you will end up with something that nobody likes." Again, I see where you're coming from with this, but the idea just doesn't hold up. I would quite like my profile to be a single line of text with no pictures. However, I would also like my profile to be *successful*. Therefore my profile cannot be the way I want it. Same with job interviews. I don't want to be there. I don't want to wear the silly clothes. I don't want to answer the stupid questions and kiss the arses and pretend I care. I just want to get paid enough to live indoors, have enough to eat and maybe even enjoy myself a little. We all have to do things we don't want to do if we want to have a chance of getting the things we want. "Women and couples, would you ever change your profile because some like it but some dont? " Why would they *need* to change their profiles? You might as well ask whether the interview panel would revise their CVs to impress all the people trying their hardest to get the job. | |||
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"I see a lot of guys thinking of changing their profiles. Lads, that would be counter productive and also the profile should be about you and how you want it to be! Dont try and tailor it to everyone's needs because you will end up with something that nobody likes. Again, I see where you're coming from with this, but the idea just doesn't hold up. I would quite like my profile to be a single line of text with no pictures. However, I would also like my profile to be *successful*. Therefore my profile cannot be the way I want it. Same with job interviews. I don't want to be there. I don't want to wear the silly clothes. I don't want to answer the stupid questions and kiss the arses and pretend I care. I just want to get paid enough to live indoors, have enough to eat and maybe even enjoy myself a little. We all have to do things we don't want to do if we want to have a chance of getting the things we want. Women and couples, would you ever change your profile because some like it but some dont? Why would they *need* to change their profiles? You might as well ask whether the interview panel would revise their CVs to impress all the people trying their hardest to get the job. " I totally get what your saying but, i think i haven't made my point clear. The point is, we are on a swinger/fetish/adult site yes. There for, it is all but natural for someone to advertise or talk about his penis size or they're amazing BJ skills for example. What I'm saying this, because this is natural in our context there should be no need to be put off by this? It should be a 'free for all, do as you like and if I'm interested i will be in touch environment'. The pressure on you, or me, should be non existent, at least in this space. The job interview example is a terrible comparison in my opinion. We are not providing a service and getting *paid* in return. We are here, or maybe i should say, everyone should be here to satisfy there own pleasure! | |||
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