FabSwingers.com forum: Advice you'd give your 18 year old self

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interested to see what people would tell their 18 year old self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all going to be ok being a mum at 18 xxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Believe in yourself, trust your gut, run like hell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah mine would be similar. In two years youll have the shock of your life but it will be the best thing to ever happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like the positivity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join fab early, dont get married, live life for yourself and dont take peoples crap in the hope that will change their ways hah

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Let the anger go earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell myself to research bat coronavirus and start work on a vaccine

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Sometimes being a friend is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can bring up your baby alone. Dint marry tgat f#%€$€g idiot

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Yaaaaaaas!!!!! Look at you! 10 years later and you’re going to be even more fabulous so keep doing what you’re doing. Also, those girls who are by your side through every up and down are still going to be by your side so get used to them. You’ve made the best friends for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be proud of who you are, you're making the right decision and fuck the haters (not literally)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deal with it now or it'll come back to get you later.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

You're stronger than you think, be strong keep focused

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"Yaaaaaaas!!!!! Look at you! 10 years later and you’re going to be even more fabulous so keep doing what you’re doing. Also, those girls who are by your side through every up and down are still going to be by your side so get used to them. You’ve made the best friends for life "

But in a serious note. Lay off the double wear covering the lips. That look didnt age well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, she wouldn't listen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry about things you have no control of. Don’t worry about things that have already happened.

Don’t worry about financial problems, money comes & goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brace yourself for a rough ride, but you get there eventually and it's worth the fight!

Also, next week's lottery numbers are 12,21,24,30,36 and 39.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Buy property!!! Dear today is cheap tomorrow

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just b true to yourself allways x

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By *stroboy78Man
over a year ago

Abergavenny

Don't think the world revolves around you

Go to uni

Listen to others

But mostly..

DONT BE SHIT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take your path and enjoy the little things ... because it is going to lead you to exactly where you were meant to be!!

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Non serious....

Your birthday present is going to be her offering herself to you... so don’t be an idiot and go over with your third wheel mate!

Serious.... put some of your wages in a savings account instead of behind the bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've changed much in 7 years

Probably open yourself up a bit more around new people and lighten up a bit and take part in the banter instead of getting defensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't compare yourself to others especially your eleder brother however marvellous he may be. Belive in yourself- You are good enough.

Spend more time with your parents and not just with your friends.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Confidence will come. Make memories and savour every moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revenge will ruin your twenties...

leave it be & Forgive & live your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay slim and don't wait for "the one". Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will heal more and you will feel safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look amazing naked and it'll only get worse as you age lol, so get ya tits out with confidence rather than being shy with the boys!

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By *stroboy78Man
over a year ago

Abergavenny

"Stay slim and don't wait for "the one". Have fun. "

When you find 'the one' make sure they know it every single day.

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By *it-of-AlrightMan
over a year ago

South west

Never try to understand a woman

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

But in a serious note. Lay off the double wear covering the lips. That look didnt age well "

Lord

I got mocked for my attempts at eyeshadow at that age, gave it up because the fuck would I know.

Matte brown at the lashline, fading just above the crease.

I was fucking blending, ish, with no guidance and back when harsh lines at the end of your eyeshadow was still a thing.

Girl you know what you're doing FFS

Haters gonna hate.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

He’ll control every aspect of your life then fuck you over. But it’s ok, you’ll keep the kids & house & eventually meet someone else on a swingers site who will adore you

J x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"None, she wouldn't listen"

Same. It would be pointless because what I know now I've learned of I told my 18 year old self to avoid it I wouldn't learn it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy your flat, rent it out, pack a bag and travel the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Revenge will ruin your twenties...

leave it be & Forgive & live your life.

Whatever it was you were just a Kid.

It takes a very strong person to admit a mistake and then grow from it. Everything I see from you on here tells Me you are one Hell of a Guy. You deserve every bit of happiness that comes your way !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe in yourself you might have a belly on you but not all women want gym fit guys you can get laid alot more than you think you can

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By *lfacatMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

“Just don’t, but sometimes do”!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I was living in a pub When i was 18 and had lots of guys giving me advice on what i should/shouldn't do. Some i listened to, some i didn't.

I've made mistakes, but I also have some amazing memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont join the army, make sure your future wife likes to swing. Not one who closes her legs for ever when you suggest it would be fun to swing. Once the kids are out of the way. Make sure the lady is bi so you can have bi times with other bi people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other thing I'd say is dont always be the nice guy take the chance

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Grab those opportunities with both hands

And remember you are fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to sleep without holding it.

Stop pulling it out in public.

Not all women think it's cute.

Don't show it off in interviews.

Stop rubbing it's head off strangers on the bus.

...and don't be a man in his forties still calling it 'Mr Fury' !!!....a grown man should have grownup relationships, especially with his teddy bear

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Enjoy being dressed up as a woman is not wrong or something to hide, enjoy the feeling of being dressed in lingerie, skirts and dresses. Try and get out to a club, or TV weekend.

Watch out riding your mates honda, the crash will add an interesting bit to your life.

Get the R6 back on the road,as quick as you can.

Stop being too shy, to stand up for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck every women who’s up for it lol

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Drink as much as you want it didn't kill you

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

Finish school, work hard at university, don't do a certain job and stay away from a certain lady. And have as much sex as you can get, you will really enjoy it at a later age

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Build a brick wall, being shy will get you nowhere. Stop writing about it and get off your arse and do it. The world is your oyster so go out and live it. Love, laugh, make mistakes and be happy but never, ever look back.

p.s., if anyone called M or P comes alone - run fast - in the opposite direction. get yourself a girlfriend, it's easier!

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Stop smoking.

Join the RAF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering you fucked up school due to ill health and messing about, concentrate on college. Maths isn't your string point, but you will to brush up on for electrical & the electronic courses.

Be careful of one particular girl, she only wants to get pregnant to get a ciuncil house.

Carry on with the sailing it will come in handy later on.

Be wary of some so call friends, once your cash has gone they will drop you.

Your mum will need you soon, make sure you are there for her.

Don't work too hard with your brother, it was a waste of time and effort.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I d say do not worry about things not happening in the way you thought they would.

Do not try to fix everything and everybody - it comes at a cost.

Other than that - look at life as one big adventure, embrace everything and try not to worry!

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Keep at it,...your name will be famous, just keep doing what you do and always with a smile on your face, it's tough right now, but the won't believe what you accomplish when you look back

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By *assConductorMan
over a year ago

the wild

Say yes more often.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Buy Bitcoin...

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Interested to see what people would tell their 18 year old self"

I wouldn't bother, the 18 year old me knew it all

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Good job. Don't change anything.

Your choices are mostly correct and well done.

Thank you from your future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will get better......eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Never wait or hesitate get in kid before its too late you may never get another chance cause years amass but it dont last live it long and live it fast "....Georgie was a friend of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave your idiot boyfriend xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't argue with the professors!

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

Learn to sing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bottle up your emotions, one day they will break you,

Manning up is nonsense and not healthy

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By *mbeMan
over a year ago

Mansfield

Be confident with women, and never turn down a fuck.

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

Don’t be picky..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to Cyprus, if you don't one day you'll be 40 and full of regret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run. Run for the hills. Trust your instinct and believe in yourself.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Be more assertive and trust your abilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get married, you'll waste 7 years of your life

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Stay with the first one, the second one might be more exciting but hes a cheating abusive cunty sociopath whos going to ruin the majority of your adult life and mentally scar you forever! Listen to your Mamma, she knew best

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

To plan, be patience, to persevere, value Progress.

Ps great question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you meet Marie, don’t mess her about and break her heart. She is the one; you’ll still think about her 30 years and 3 wives later

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Crack on!

Life is a gift!

Don't waste it!

Live it!

With love!

You can read this in any order and at any age doing it will be harder but better for you.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

be yourself, and dont try to please everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't marry either of them!

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Dont date that one

Dont marry him

Dont fall in love you just get hurt too much

Dont go to the pub that night to avoid heartbreak

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By *hom01Man
over a year ago

St. Albans

"Don't get married, you'll waste 7 years of your life"
Only seven ? You got away lightly !!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Try gay and dressing sex now don’t wait till you’re 40..

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

Stay away from FOOTBALL MANAGER games and do something good for yourself!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Get more cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Femininity is not a thing to fear but to embrace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is blind girl...Run like fk, he's not for you.

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

"Interested to see what people would tell their 18 year old self"

Don’t sweat it, you will walk again, so stay away from the fridge!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To walk away and your good enough no matter what anyone else tells you.

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

"Interested to see what people would tell their 18 year old self

Don’t sweat it, you will walk again, so stay away from the fridge!! "

Perhaps I should qualify that totally random advice..... I broke my back when I was 27. Took three years to recuperate and get my movement back. Once I was back at home, and able to hobble a bit, the fridge and the food cupboards became my best friends ....... but I put on 6 stone in as many months while I worried about whether I’d ever have a normal, or fairly normal, life again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t let so many people leave your life and try to stay connected a bit more you’ll miss them eventually

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