FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics

By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Is it fair a guy has a face pic but the woman has pics of her legs feet and when you ask for a face pic you get ignored or ohh I work in a job which I can't show...

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"Is it fair a guy has a face pic but the woman has pics of her legs feet and when you ask for a face pic you get ignored or ohh I work in a job which I can't show..."

Fairness don’t come into it.. i have a face pic up and always have my choice

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Don’t have your face pic up. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is forced to use a face picture, I agree as a male it is maybe more expected, as it can be used as a method of filtering by the outnumbered ladies and couples. Keeping one in the friends only is common practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get why people wouldnt have them on public but you should sent one to someone if your gonna meet them like how they even gonna know if they like the look of you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is your choice to post a face pic and its her choice not to . It may seem unfair to you but its actually not.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Is it fair a guy has a face pic but the woman has pics of her legs feet and when you ask for a face pic you get ignored or ohh I work in a job which I can't show..."

Nothing fair / unfair about it.

It's your decision to show or share what you like. The same for them.

If you don't like that they won't share a face pic, just move on.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Showing your face is a personal choice. I am sure if someone was interested in meeting you they would share a face pic.

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I understand not having on show but even when you ask for a face pic so you know who your talking to still don't send one...

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

It's completely the other person's choice to show you there face or not, just because you may choose to show or share yours that in no way ENTITLES you to see someone else's

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I understand not having on show but even when you ask for a face pic so you know who your talking to still don't send one..."

I would only send a face pic to someone I’m interested in meeting.

It could be that they’re not interested.

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

OK sorry may have worded that wrong seen on profiles send face pic if want reply but they don't have a pic them so or like said pic of body parts and when you do ask for a face pic you get ghosted

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't have mine public but I wouldn't expect someone to meet me without seeing one. I like to establish a bit of rapport before sending one though so I'm not sending them out willy nilly.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I had an abusive ex before I joined the site.

I was proper paranoid about where I went and who I spoke to for the first 6 months or so as he was unpredictable. I didn't have face pics up but I did ask for them first. I dunno, it kinda made me feel safer that it was nobody he knew (ok it could have been him or someone he knew using random photos in reality but unlikey)

There are also a minority of "men" (use that term loosely) who will threaten to "out" you to friends and family and put your pics on lamp posts etc if you reject them and they have your face pics.

Wankstains.

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you have been talking to someone for week or more and asked couple times and know they are interested and still don't send??

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"If you have been talking to someone for week or more and asked couple times and know they are interested and still don't send??"

How do you KNOW they are interested tho?

How do you KNOW it ain't your uncle Fred taking you on a wild goose chase for shits n giggles?

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ohh I see also there does seem to be a big flux of new profiles you think they are genuine new members then they dissappear after few days are they real or botts?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Ohh I see also there does seem to be a big flux of new profiles you think they are genuine new members then they dissappear after few days are they real or botts?"

Well they ain't gonna be botts, there will be an actual human at the end, but who that human is ya just don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer no face pics by either party

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Because they said would meet once lockdown was over and safe to do so and see in person so would not send face pic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a common thing when meeting thru mediums like this

Many want you to compromise your privacy whilst they retain theirs

It's not limited to Fab

It's not limited to women

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

What a complete blind date type then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can do what they want, it's up to you to decide what is fair to you and swerve folk accordingly.

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes seems to be to many fakes or wanting you to sign up to some other site or join their sc or only fans nonsense erm no thanks

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

If you don’t want to meet someone who won’t send a face pic first (which is understandable) then just don’t talk to them. If I get a message from someone and their profile says “we don’t share face pics” I don’t reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t have your face pic up. Simples

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Ohh I see also there does seem to be a big flux of new profiles you think they are genuine new members then they dissappear after few days are they real or botts?"

Our local list always gets a couple of new members every Friday & always from Shrewsbury rarely anywhere else.

By my reckoning 80% of the town must be on here.

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not having a face pic would it not reduce your chances of getting a reply this of course is for the men as women will get messages by the hundreds

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

That's what I mean you see all these members in your local area and think great plenty people to talk with but there only here for a day or so then gone with the wind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I mean you see all these members in your local area and think great plenty people to talk with but there only here for a day or so then gone with the wind"

If you press the 'quote/reply' button it will be easier for us to see which comments /poster you are replying to

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Not having a face pic would it not reduce your chances of getting a reply this of course is for the men as women will get messages by the hundreds "

Yep, but you make your choice, we will not send face pics in a first message so any profiles that say they want one we swerve unless they have their faces up already in public pics.

Rather have a bit of messaging to see if we are on the same page first & to ensure they are real before we give our privacy away.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It depends on the context

If someone messages me expecting a face pic right away, I wouldn't

I might not be interested, or want to share my face pic with that person.

If you display your face that's a risk you choose to take I'm afraid.

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thanks for the info

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"That's what I mean you see all these members in your local area and think great plenty people to talk with but there only here for a day or so then gone with the wind

If you press the 'quote/reply' button it will be easier for us to see which comments /poster you are replying to

Sorry new to the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get why people wouldnt have them on public but you should sent one to someone if your gonna meet them like how they even gonna know if they like the look of you? "

Had to fab a couple of your pics. One for the fabulous pair of feeders and love the fag one!

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I get why people wouldnt have them on public but you should sent one to someone if your gonna meet them like how they even gonna know if they like the look of you?

Had to fab a couple of your pics. One for the fabulous pair of feeders and love the fag one! "

Indeed very nice pics fabbed them to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's the women with nothing more than a silhouette who "demand" a face picture be sent in the first message! Piss right aff hen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had an abusive ex before I joined the site.

There are also a minority of "men" (use that term loosely) who will threaten to "out" you to friends and family and put your pics on lamp posts etc if you reject them and they have your face pics.

Wankstains."

Yeah that happened to me some guy from here found my Facebook and posted my pics under my profile picture in my comments had to get the cops involved but I'm still posting my face pics cos I'm dumb

but it was really stressful at the time I hate guys that do that. Also I love your posts and your videos honestly you are amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get why people wouldnt have them on public but you should sent one to someone if your gonna meet them like how they even gonna know if they like the look of you?

Had to fab a couple of your pics. One for the fabulous pair of feeders and love the fag one! "

Awh thank you xx

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Not having a face pic would it not reduce your chances of getting a reply this of course is for the men as women will get messages by the hundreds "

Never had a face pic anywhere in my profile and never will and it hasn't prevented me from chatting to people.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don’t display face pics but my profile states that “if you’re gonna take the trouble to drop me a line, please enclose a face photo” . It also states that I will only engage with guys I’m considering meeting . So there is no guarantee that someone initiating a conversation with a face pic will get a reply anyway but of course if I opt to reply I will enclose mine .

If I initiate the first contact I enclose a face pic as a matter of course .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don’t want to send a face pic then that’s their choice. Just move on.

I usually don’t have a problem sending a face pic but I’m the odd occasion I have not wanted them to see who I am... it’s my choice.

I wouldn’t expect a meet without seeing and then seeing face pics.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I had an abusive ex before I joined the site.

There are also a minority of "men" (use that term loosely) who will threaten to "out" you to friends and family and put your pics on lamp posts etc if you reject them and they have your face pics.

Wankstains.

Yeah that happened to me some guy from here found my Facebook and posted my pics under my profile picture in my comments had to get the cops involved but I'm still posting my face pics cos I'm dumb

but it was really stressful at the time I hate guys that do that. Also I love your posts and your videos honestly you are amazing x"

So fucking unnecessary, I'm sorry that happened *shakes head in disappointment*

Thank you, genuinely touched x

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By *aylors1947Man
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

People don't have to show face pics if they don't want to at any stage. You are happy to have yours public but a lot aren't. I only show mine when I have chatted a good while now. If someone hassles me for one early on I'll stop talking. I never ask for one as normally it will happen as the chat progresses anyhow. I've actually met a couple of people without exchanging pics before.

Also with the way people are sharing pics of others in certain groups it makes me a lot more wary of showing mine now.

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