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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, with lockdown and general lack of being able to do anything, we’re both planning a ‘DIY spa day’ for the weekend coming up!

However, we’re looking for ideas (both sensual and normal) to make it as spa-like as possible within the confines of home.

So far, we have mutual massages planned, face masks and a foot treatment. All by candlelight too.

Any other ideas to make the day as fun as possible? Anything sensual or fun you guys do that we should include??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Wash each other's hair, bathe each other and dry each other bodies before applying body lotion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ready prepared food to nibble on. Keep the relaxation going without needing to cook.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Shower together /bathe together...shave each other..nice music..candles...aromatherapy oils massages ..enjoy ..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

This channel is great for (self) massage techniques https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm5B8O2hLYrq90GlnXBwb2Q YouTube is a goldmine for relaxation techniques

I've been loving Boots Deep Moisturising Foot Cream recently. Pleasantly peppermint without being obnoxiously overpowering.

Warm snuggly towels/hot water bottles, steam, that sort of thing. Maybe hard boil a saucepan with some essential oil in it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wash each other's hair, bathe each other and dry each other bodies before applying body lotion. "

Ohhh...that sounds really nice! Never even thought of that! Thank you x

"Ready prepared food to nibble on. Keep the relaxation going without needing to cook.

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We definitely need to do this! Can’t have a nice massage, then pop into the kitchen to make sandwiches!!x

"Shower together /bathe together...shave each other..nice music..candles...aromatherapy oils massages ..enjoy ..

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Relaxing bath sounds good. Already have the spa day music lined up on Spotify!!x

"This channel is great for (self) massage techniques https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm5B8O2hLYrq90GlnXBwb2Q YouTube is a goldmine for relaxation techniques

I've been loving Boots Deep Moisturising Foot Cream recently. Pleasantly peppermint without being obnoxiously overpowering.

Warm snuggly towels/hot water bottles, steam, that sort of thing. Maybe hard boil a saucepan with some essential oil in it?"

Hot water bottles sounds great! The foot cream too! Thank you!!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wash each other's hair, bathe each other and dry each other bodies before applying body lotion.

Ohhh...that sounds really nice! Never even thought of that! Thank you x

Ready prepared food to nibble on. Keep the relaxation going without needing to cook.

We definitely need to do this! Can’t have a nice massage, then pop into the kitchen to make sandwiches!!x

Shower together /bathe together...shave each other..nice music..candles...aromatherapy oils massages ..enjoy ..

Relaxing bath sounds good. Already have the spa day music lined up on Spotify!!x

This channel is great for (self) massage techniques https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm5B8O2hLYrq90GlnXBwb2Q YouTube is a goldmine for relaxation techniques

I've been loving Boots Deep Moisturising Foot Cream recently. Pleasantly peppermint without being obnoxiously overpowering.

Warm snuggly towels/hot water bottles, steam, that sort of thing. Maybe hard boil a saucepan with some essential oil in it?

Hot water bottles sounds great! The foot cream too! Thank you!!x"

This all sounds such a lovely idea!

May I suggest face packs too! Either ones you have bought, or you can find recipes online for ones you can make from food such as oatmeal, honey and bananas!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Can I come round? You'd hardly know I was there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave the shower running really hot with the windows and doors shut. Then go in and enjoy a 5 minute steam room

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I come round? You'd hardly know I was there

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Hahah! It’s BYO Massage Oil and cucumber water though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wash each other's hair, bathe each other and dry each other bodies before applying body lotion.

Ohhh...that sounds really nice! Never even thought of that! Thank you x

Ready prepared food to nibble on. Keep the relaxation going without needing to cook.

We definitely need to do this! Can’t have a nice massage, then pop into the kitchen to make sandwiches!!x

Shower together /bathe together...shave each other..nice music..candles...aromatherapy oils massages ..enjoy ..

Relaxing bath sounds good. Already have the spa day music lined up on Spotify!!x

This channel is great for (self) massage techniques https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm5B8O2hLYrq90GlnXBwb2Q YouTube is a goldmine for relaxation techniques

I've been loving Boots Deep Moisturising Foot Cream recently. Pleasantly peppermint without being obnoxiously overpowering.

Warm snuggly towels/hot water bottles, steam, that sort of thing. Maybe hard boil a saucepan with some essential oil in it?

Hot water bottles sounds great! The foot cream too! Thank you!!x

This all sounds such a lovely idea!

May I suggest face packs too! Either ones you have bought, or you can find recipes online for ones you can make from food such as oatmeal, honey and bananas!

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Just got some face masks today! Homemade would have been fun! Might have turned into something a bit more messy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, with lockdown and general lack of being able to do anything, we’re both planning a ‘DIY spa day’ for the weekend coming up!

However, we’re looking for ideas (both sensual and normal) to make it as spa-like as possible within the confines of home.

So far, we have mutual massages planned, face masks and a foot treatment. All by candlelight too.

Any other ideas to make the day as fun as possible? Anything sensual or fun you guys do that we should include??"

For the authentic steam room experience, clad your entire kitchen in pine tongue and groove and hold the button down on the kettle till it boils dry...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Another YouTube suggestion, look into DIY facial methods? Like facial massage during cleansing while giving a (spa) (vanilla) facial.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Or scalp massage. Scalp massage is the bomb.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or scalp massage. Scalp massage is the bomb."

Haven’t had one of these for years!!!! Sounds like an amazing idea!!x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I can provide a facial

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another YouTube suggestion, look into DIY facial methods? Like facial massage during cleansing while giving a (spa) (vanilla) facial. "

Like that idea too. A DIY one sounds fun.

Thank you for your suggestions so far

We has the basics, but it’s suddenly looking like a proper and full day! X

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Hand massage.

We all take our hands for granted and rarely do they get sensually cared for.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

A hot tub.

If you don't want to splash out on a lay-z-spa then you can rent them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A hot tub.

If you don't want to splash out on a lay-z-spa then you can rent them.

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Yeah, crossed our minds. Would be very visible to neighbours though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hand massage.

We all take our hands for granted and rarely do they get sensually cared for.

C"

Ohhhh! That’s a good one! We’re adding it to the list! Thank you x

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Does a full body to full body massage with a PVC sheet and coconut oil count? If so, totally recommend that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does a full body to full body massage with a PVC sheet and coconut oil count? If so, totally recommend that."

Oh....that’s definitely been considered

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"So, with lockdown and general lack of being able to do anything, we’re both planning a ‘DIY spa day’ for the weekend coming up!

However, we’re looking for ideas (both sensual and normal) to make it as spa-like as possible within the confines of home.

So far, we have mutual massages planned, face masks and a foot treatment. All by candlelight too.

Any other ideas to make the day as fun as possible? Anything sensual or fun you guys do that we should include??"

Flood the rear garden so it's like looking out over a posh hotels lake

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"A hot tub.

If you don't want to splash out on a lay-z-spa then you can rent them.

Yeah, crossed our minds. Would be very visible to neighbours though

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Put a gazebo around it

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Go out or get a small padderling pool.

Get some oil and have fun with a naked whole body massage.

Instead of using your hands to just do the massage, Instead use your whole body instead.

Its really slippery and good fun to do though.

Though I will admit fully oiled up slipery sex is fun for either partner to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone! Today is DIY Spa day! Just about to set out prosecco with orange juice with breakfast, then onto the facials!

Thank you to everyone that replied, it absolutely helped x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thank you everyone! Today is DIY Spa day! Just about to set out prosecco with orange juice with breakfast, then onto the facials!

Thank you to everyone that replied, it absolutely helped x"

Enjoy the day!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have a brilliant day. It sounds fabulous

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Chill n enjoy

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Ooh enjoy! I hope you both have an amazing day

C

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone, we love the well wishes ? Day not long over, both very chilled and would recommend it to anyone!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"A hot tub.

If you don't want to splash out on a lay-z-spa then you can rent them.

Yeah, crossed our minds. Would be very visible to neighbours though

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Some that you rent come with a gazebo with sides

My suggestion, post massage and shower, head to the living room, if you have a log fire, have it going, if not, the heating on and have the log fire YouTube playing on your TV and spa-esque music

Pushed your furniture to the edges of your room, fill the floor with cushions, mattresses, beanbags, duvets... it gives you somewhere to crash and relax, maybe get frisky but no expectations.

The dark comfy chill rooms at spas are the best...

Oh and products? Two of my favourite spas use temple spa products, not the cheapest but not extortionate either. And you can buy online. Or check out the Rituals Hammam range.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Thank you everyone, we love the well wishes ? Day not long over, both very chilled and would recommend it to anyone!

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Oops. Too late, ah well. Glad you enjoyed it

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"A hot tub.

If you don't want to splash out on a lay-z-spa then you can rent them.

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Or simply order an Indian takeaway for two the night before and simply run a hot bath the next night.

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