FabSwingers.com forum: Missing the point and getting it wrong

By *ook OP Man
over a year ago

london

Ok straight to the point... Does anyone else totally get it wrong with Ongoing fab conversations. I always read the profile... (sometimes twice) before messaging or winking. I consider my responses carefully and think about what I have to say. I look carefully at pics and appreciate the story they may tell ( owned slut, bbc only etc), I take time to appreciate what that individual ( or couple) want and try hard to try and build a repore ( friend) but have recently found myself blocked for no apparent reason and wondering why? lol. One individual was a longtime’ friend’ then suddenly blocked me. It’s a fickle fab world and guess we move on but thinking I must be doing something wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are grumpier than normal this year I think. I know I am.

I'm always missing the point and getting pissed off about something ridiculous. It's almost like I'm human.

Don't worry about it too much. Maybe you said something terrible, maybe they were just having a bad day.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Is the long time friend still in fab?

If someone blocks you as frustrating as it is, I think you have to accept that you probably won't know why.

We will occasionally block people who are way too pushy, address only one of us or refer to me in the third person e.g. "does she deepthroat" but only if they're really persistent or send that kind of thing as a first message .

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"People are grumpier than normal this year I think. I know I am.

I'm always missing the point and getting pissed off about something ridiculous. It's almost like I'm human.

Don't worry about it too much. Maybe you said something terrible, maybe they were just having a bad day. "

I am all sweetness and light these days. Lockdown means less dealing with fucknuts on a day to day basis

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

People do seem to block very easily on here.. maybe I'm doing it wrong as I only have 3 on my blocklist.. all for a good reason I'm sure

I think I worry that I'll upset people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are grumpier than normal this year I think. I know I am.

I'm always missing the point and getting pissed off about something ridiculous. It's almost like I'm human.

Don't worry about it too much. Maybe you said something terrible, maybe they were just having a bad day.

I am all sweetness and light these days. Lockdown means less dealing with fucknuts on a day to day basis"

You've always been sweetness and light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you’re to considered and people might find the conversation doesn’t flow, don’t over think it and be more spontaneous, it shouldn’t be hard work chatting to someone.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It might just be how they are feeling OP and nothing to do with you at all.

Conversations to me are a bit exhausting at the moment as I’m feeling a bit meh, as I’m sure lots of others are too.

Try not to take it to heart.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Messages do dry up, I think that’s because we aren’t always online, that breaks the flow of the convo and unless they are keen as mustard it can be a tragic end to something beautiful (sorry I got all poetic towards the end)

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By *ook OP Man
over a year ago

london

Well thanks all ... I know I shouldn’t but do take it to heart...gets a bit depressing and confusing at times though

onwards and upwards!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Is the long time friend still in fab?

If someone blocks you as frustrating as it is, I think you have to accept that you probably won't know why.

But does she?

*runs for cover*

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Ok straight to the point... Does anyone else totally get it wrong with Ongoing fab conversations. I always read the profile... (sometimes twice) before messaging or winking. I consider my responses carefully and think about what I have to say. I look carefully at pics and appreciate the story they may tell ( owned slut, bbc only etc), I take time to appreciate what that individual ( or couple) want and try hard to try and build a repore ( friend) but have recently found myself blocked for no apparent reason and wondering why? lol. One individual was a longtime’ friend’ then suddenly blocked me. It’s a fickle fab world and guess we move on but thinking I must be doing something wrong? "

This recently happened to me - thought we were really getting on, looked forward to his messages every day, then, I get up one morning and im blocked - i was gutted.

Still, cant do anything about it now so we move on.

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By *exy studMan
over a year ago

Derby

I got blocked after she miss read a message had rant them blocked me. I thought we was getting on well.

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