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Why Do You Have Sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Honest answers please, do you have sex to please yourself or to please your sexual partner? And any other grey area that might be between that.

For me personally I try to give women a very good and different type of sexual experience (in a good way of course) I aim to please her and introduce her body to new things, different techniques whether orally or via penetration. Maybe it's an ego boost for me which is why I give it my all, but yea I love to keep a woman cumming back for more tbh xx

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Both, but I get most from receiving pleasure, being truthful. I'm not here to pleasure others without anything in return!

So ner

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

If I didn't, I'd end up sticking it in plug sockets but apparently that's dangerous

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I only have sex if I want to. Unenthusiastic partners make for crap sex.

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

Both the gratification of giving pleasure and receiving. Has to be reciprocal. I get a lot of men wanting to be my sub on here or wanting to explore their fetishes. When I ask “will i climax in return?” I find that is not usually a given. It is too one say. I like the idea of toying with men emotionally, psychologically etc but because of so many other life commitments I don’t have the time. So mutual satisfaction is needed for fab meets is my current attitude. That other kind of one way giving I reserve for longer term relationships

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"If I didn't, I'd end up sticking it in plug sockets but apparently that's dangerous "

FFFFF!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Because it feels amazing and makes me feel alive. I also get a big kick out of the lady feeling the same which is partly down to me.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Both...I prefer it to be mutual. Yes, it turns me on to turn my partner on...but I want orgasms too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a partner but when I did I used to do it because it was lush for me!

Now when I have sex with guys I still do it cos it feels lush.

I’m giver when it comes to all things foreplay but when it comes to penetration I’m kinda lazy and like to be fucked

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Well the sofas won’t destroy them selfs

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

When I was younger, to feel wanted. I was kinda messed up due to lack of feeling parental love and worth.

Pre-last relationship for physical enjoyment, stress release, making other people feel good, making myself feel good.

Last relationship it was part of the love I had, plus the fun side, the trust side, the experiment side.

It's an ever evolving road I'm on.

I don't see myself as a sexual being for the now tho, my mojo disappeared when my heart got broken, so who knows what the next path will be.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I only have sex if I want to. Unenthusiastic partners make for crap sex."

I should clarify that I have sex for my pleasure and for my partner /partners.

Surely it should be enjoyable both/all parties.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Because its great fun and I get a real high from it.

I do it for my enjoyment but that enjoyment is for the other person's pleasure. If they are smiling, I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I should clarify that I have sex for my pleasure and for my partner /partners.

Surely it should be enjoyable both/all parties."

^^This^^ essentially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

strangely ... because the kids are out !

Lockdown is killing me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I have to make a living somehow

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Cos I have to make a living somehow "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's fun and enjoyable for all involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm told to.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

For the express purpose of procreation

*Joke*

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Mutual gratification

But so rarely does a guy make me come without me having to also play with myself.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Mutual pleasure in whichever form it takes, also doesn't have to end in a orgasm. It’s the journey thats important not the destination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I can and if the mood and the other person is too!!

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London


"Mutual gratification

But so rarely does a guy make me come without me having to also play with myself."

This.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I enjoy sex. I find it mood lifting, relaxing, cathartic, emotionally bonding, fun, and sensual.

All great reasons to have it.

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

Purely for the health benefits

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