FabSwingers.com forum: What's the one thing you miss

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Other than ofcourse sex, what's the one thing you are really missing during lockdown this time?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Being able to try clothes on in shops.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being able to try clothes on in shops."

Ohhh that is a very good one. I hadn't even thought about that.

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

Sad to have missed the NFL London games and also the English Britball season

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Hugs

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I was going to say getting dressed every day, but I'm kind of getting used to not having to wear much most days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theatre and gigs

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Indoor rock climbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Traveling to races

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Live music is definitely mine. I cannot wait to get my arse to a banging gig again.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

My son

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My family. Doing community work in person

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My son "

Awwww I'm sorry you're not allowed to see your son. That really sucks. X

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"My son

Awwww I'm sorry you're not allowed to see your son. That really sucks. X"

Not seen him since February, been brutal

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

"Being able to try clothes on in shops."

Fitting room fantasy right up there but I digress

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My son

Awwww I'm sorry you're not allowed to see your son. That really sucks. X

Not seen him since February, been brutal "

Oh damn. That is crazy. Does he live far?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My son "

I hope he can visit you after this lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body covering apparatus... im down to my last pinny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parkrun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing and hugging my Mum and Dad,.... and welcome back OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theatre and gigs

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"My son

Awwww I'm sorry you're not allowed to see your son. That really sucks. X

Not seen him since February, been brutal

Oh damn. That is crazy. Does he live far? "

He's in Essex I'm in the Midlands.

At the end of the last lockdown I was back at work and work was crazy busy.

It was his birthday last weekend and mine next weekend so that's fucked. I had booked time off as holiday for it so we could meet up, but obviously that's gone to shit.

I'd like to thank all who've still been meeting and not following the guidelines. Cheers fuckers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just nipping into a mates while passing by

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Dance class

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"My son

I hope he can visit you after this lockdown. "

Aye, likely to have been a full cunting year by then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swimming and northern soul nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pint with the lads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CrossFit not just the workout which I can do at home but the people and the atmosphere in the box and the routine of going

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Missed out on 3 holidays abroad this year as all were cancelled. This sadden me as i work hard for my holidays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can be selfish for a moment I missed out on 3 running events that I was training for. They have all been postponed until next year which is better than being cancelled completely.

I am not close to my wider family and so I have been fortunate to have my eldest child as my bubble household and my youngest still lives at home. So thankful that my little family unit has remained but I have really missed our friends from a sport and activities perspective as well as from a social side but also knowing they are going through difficulties has been hard not being able to be there for them physically, so we have maintained contact using video chats as a group and we have sent a 'hug in a box' gift to one friend to lift her spirits...and it worked but also made her cry... bless her.

Her x

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Spontaneity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My son

I hope he can visit you after this lockdown.

Aye, likely to have been a full cunting year by then

Maybe the trains will be running in the xmas hols.

Just realised there's no hug emoji

that's a virtual hug

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Wheelchair basketball

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"My son

I hope he can visit you after this lockdown.

Aye, likely to have been a full cunting year by then

Maybe the trains will be running in the xmas hols.

Just realised there's no hug emoji

that's a virtual hug"

It's the bloody work thing that doesn't help. As soon as we're back open I'm back up to full speed and need the money too. For any guarantees I have to book holiday. This time round any holiday we booked still stands, so even though I'm off anyway due to furlough I'll still lose the 10 days I had booked but I'll get holiday rate for them instead of furlough pay. Swings n roundabouts. We can't take any holiday in December anyway even if I had it there to use.

I've resigned myself to some time next year. I'm peeved about it but can't change it unless I break the rules and I'm not prepared to do to that to other people. The more we fail each other the longer this shit will continue.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My son

I hope he can visit you after this lockdown.

Aye, likely to have been a full cunting year by then

Maybe the trains will be running in the xmas hols.

Just realised there's no hug emoji

that's a virtual hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liberalism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My son

I hope he can visit you after this lockdown.

Aye, likely to have been a full cunting year by then

Maybe the trains will be running in the xmas hols.

Just realised there's no hug emoji

that's a virtual hug

If I had a helicopter (a real one, not a twirly wang) I'd taxi you there n back every day before work for a week.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"My son

I hope he can visit you after this lockdown.

Aye, likely to have been a full cunting year by then

Maybe the trains will be running in the xmas hols.

Just realised there's no hug emoji

that's a virtual hug

If I had a helicopter (a real one, not a twirly wang) I'd taxi you there n back every day before work for a week.

I'd have to "wing walk" tho, to be on the safe side

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Female company and a life!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The list of what I miss is too long.

We haven't seen our son since January. We don't see him a lot because he's a three hour drive away and works about 60/70 hours a week but it'll be Jan/Feb at the earliest before we see him again.

My friends. Just sitting with a cup of coffee chatting shit with them.

Going out.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Fab social parties and nights out with my girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touch, closeness, affection, laughter. I mean I get all those with myself but it isn't the same!

I miss sex, but I miss human contact more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Concerts and festivals

Karaoke nights in a local boozer

Trying bras on in shops and not having to take them back because they dont fit

Having perfect makeup not sweated off by a mask

Play areas for my kids to play with other children

Dentists for non emergency treatment

Getting the correct medical help for my nerve pain

Ooooh I really could go on and on

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Seeing friends and family, hopefully 2021

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Same things I missed last time...

Being able to see friends and family freely

Gigs - had several planned for this year all postponed

Just simply having the freedom to come and go

But compared to the alternative I can suffer those until it's safe to do otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The list of what I miss is too long.

We haven't seen our son since January. We don't see him a lot because he's a three hour drive away and works about 60/70 hours a week but it'll be Jan/Feb at the earliest before we see him again.

My friends. Just sitting with a cup of coffee chatting shit with them.

Going out.

How often would you see him in the Before Times?

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