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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, so. No nasty comments please. I have a slight facial tic (twitch) at times, especially when nervous. It’s nothing major, mostly my eyes. I am so so self conscious about it and it really puts me off going on cam and meeting new people.

Views? Would it bother you? Although I say no nasty comments, I do appreciate genuine honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you looked at yourself in the mirror when it happens?

My eye twitches really bad sometimes when I'm stressed. Feels like my whole face is moving but when I've looked in the mirror it hardly moves and people probably wouldn't notice.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

It's just nerves or stress xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you looked at yourself in the mirror when it happens?

My eye twitches really bad sometimes when I'm stressed. Feels like my whole face is moving but when I've looked in the mirror it hardly moves and people probably wouldn't notice.

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I have. Well, worse than that. I’ve looked at videos of myself and it’s quite prominent.

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

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When I’m speaking to superiors at work, I feel like I over emphasise a blink and hold my eyes shut a bit.

Doesn’t bother me one bit, and although I’ve noticed strange looks. People quickly get over it!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Nope personally that wouldn't bother me, I would appreciate being told about it first though, rather than find out on the social

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

It would not bother me but if it bothers you maybe ask your Gp for advice. There may be a simple solution to solve the problem.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I might notice it at first, but once used to it (and expecting it) I reckon it would be fine.

Sometimes just the unexpectedness of it startles you at first, that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest

In fact, I quite like the little things that make us unique

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all. Means a lot to hear the different opinions.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

One of my eyes does this when I'm over tired or stressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me in the slightest

In fact, I quite like the little things that make us unique "

Oh, and OP, I had facial palsy in my 20's so the left side of my face lags behind the right

Most of the time it isn't evident, but when I get tired or pissed, my left eye starts to shut of its own accord

It's purely because the eye muscles never regained their full strength after the palsy

I have no issue discussing it

I find because I own it, it has never been a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it wouldn't bother me, though it'd be better to know about it first, just so that it isn't a surprise =)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, it wouldn't bother me, though it'd be better to know about it first, just so that it isn't a surprise =) "

Thanks. Just really worries me. Worried it will put people off meeting in the first place if I mention it.

Although in the past a ‘friend’ told me it was cute and just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me in the slightest

In fact, I quite like the little things that make us unique

Oh, and OP, I had facial palsy in my 20's so the left side of my face lags behind the right

Most of the time it isn't evident, but when I get tired or pissed, my left eye starts to shut of its own accord

It's purely because the eye muscles never regained their full strength after the palsy

I have no issue discussing it

I find because I own it, it has never been a problem"

I guess. Thank you. Means a lot. I guess in general day to day life I just go with it. But when meeting on here or dating I worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it wouldn't bother me, though it'd be better to know about it first, just so that it isn't a surprise =)

Thanks. Just really worries me. Worried it will put people off meeting in the first place if I mention it.

Although in the past a ‘friend’ told me it was cute and just me. "

If it puts them off meeting you that's a good thing. You wouldn't want to sit there with someone who found it odd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, it wouldn't bother me, though it'd be better to know about it first, just so that it isn't a surprise =)

Thanks. Just really worries me. Worried it will put people off meeting in the first place if I mention it.

Although in the past a ‘friend’ told me it was cute and just me.

If it puts them off meeting you that's a good thing. You wouldn't want to sit there with someone who found it odd. "

An excellent point. X

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