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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I just seems quieter in general Amber....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dick pic?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Ours is like that too. It's just generally quiet on here. Such a shame.

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By *ustfunandgamesMan
over a year ago

st Albans / NSA fantasy fun

Would love a chat

Say hello

Always in just knock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep my inbox is quite barren. No messages of note, nada, zilch

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By *.luke7Man
over a year ago

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People can’t deal with getting the horn whilst they are having to lockdown, I’d imagine..

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Mine is also like your too OP, only conversation they seem to want is sex talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just seems quieter in general Amber...."

The forums are still buzzing, no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ours is like that too. It's just generally quiet on here. Such a shame."

I don't why it makes me kind of sad. Does that mean that 99% of the men who messaged me just did so because they thought they had a prospect of an imminent meet? Nobody - out of hundreds of men - wants to just get to know me? Guess I must have a shit personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People can’t deal with getting the horn whilst they are having to lockdown, I’d imagine.."

Well they're not getting the horn from me, obviously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole site seems quiet at the moment

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I just seems quieter in general Amber....

The forums are still buzzing, no? "

That first word should have been "it's quieter....."

I think the forums are quieter too, very few people around after about 10pm for nocturnaling.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Enjoy it whilst it lasts I say.

Unfortunately they’re still thirsty up North.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

Mines the best it’s been so far and it’s just general chit chat and banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inbox is normally a desert. Only been fairly busy since yesterday because of the thread I posted and even then I sent all the first messages lol.

The only time my inbox is ever really busy on here is when I'm organising events so God knows when that will happen!

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By *JBezantMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Feel free to hit me up guys, be nice to just have some flanter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to chat if any ladies fancy it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just seems quieter in general Amber....

The forums are still buzzing, no?

That first word should have been "it's quieter....."

I think the forums are quieter too, very few people around after about 10pm for nocturnaling."

I'm always around til the morning #InsomniacLife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel free to hit me up guys, be nice to just have some flanter!"

Flanter!! That's a new word for me. Love it. Sometimes good does come from checking in on a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get about 3 messages A-day but that's by choice because I blocked single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ours is like that too. It's just generally quiet on here. Such a shame.

I don't why it makes me kind of sad. Does that mean that 99% of the men who messaged me just did so because they thought they had a prospect of an imminent meet? Nobody - out of hundreds of men - wants to just get to know me? Guess I must have a shit personality "

My inbox is the quietest it has ever been too, it's not you, it is the current situation.

I have no message filters on at all at this time, & yet still may only get 5 or 6 messages a day!

"Unprecedented" times indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’ll be why no one wants to chat cause me as a single guy gets blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat? "

You could always message people for a chat OP, and see how it goes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat? "

Not that mine's ever a hive of activity, but it is seeming quieter than usual at the moment..

Always happy to chat if anyone's interested?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I think there's an element of "single" people now having much less opportunity to be on Fab - more working from home, fewer reasons to go out in the evening etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat?

You could always message people for a chat OP, and see how it goes? "

I usually would, but most guys have "looking for fun/nsa" or similar on their profiles. Wouldn't be fair to message just looking for chat when that's not what they're after

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Fab is always peaks and troughs! Those whose inboxes are quiet at the moment, will probably see a surge in activity soon, keep the faith!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always message people for a chat OP, and see how it goes?

I usually would, but most guys have "looking for fun/nsa" or similar on their profiles. Wouldn't be fair to message just looking for chat when that's not what they're after "

Aaaahhhh, got you. Your thread has brought a few people who are up for a chat. Good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat?

You could always message people for a chat OP, and see how it goes?

I usually would, but most guys have "looking for fun/nsa" or similar on their profiles. Wouldn't be fair to message just looking for chat when that's not what they're after "

But for the foreseeable future, chat is all we have. Or at least that's all we should have. If you like the look of someones profile and their filters allow, go for it, what's the worst that could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is always peaks and troughs! Those whose inboxes are quiet at the moment, will probably see a surge in activity soon, keep the faith! "

Less fab admin the better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat?

You could always message people for a chat OP, and see how it goes?

I usually would, but most guys have "looking for fun/nsa" or similar on their profiles. Wouldn't be fair to message just looking for chat when that's not what they're after

But for the foreseeable future, chat is all we have. Or at least that's all we should have. If you like the look of someones profile and their filters allow, go for it, what's the worst that could happen "

They run far, far away when I say I'm looking to date

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Fab is always peaks and troughs! Those whose inboxes are quiet at the moment, will probably see a surge in activity soon, keep the faith!

Less fab admin the better "

Adjust your preferred age range to '99-99' and enjoy the silence

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Mines very quiet today too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat?

You could always message people for a chat OP, and see how it goes?

I usually would, but most guys have "looking for fun/nsa" or similar on their profiles. Wouldn't be fair to message just looking for chat when that's not what they're after

But for the foreseeable future, chat is all we have. Or at least that's all we should have. If you like the look of someones profile and their filters allow, go for it, what's the worst that could happen

They run far, far away when I say I'm looking to date "

They probably think their wives might well find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is the same.

But to be fair that’s pretty much situation normal tbh...

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I always like a chat.

It's has been quieter then usual since covid and it's getting worse as it goes on, seeing the same people in the forums all the time and the same people messaging too. I'm not a cam regular but I can bet its the same in there too, the regular fabbers still enjoying the social digital side on lockdown.

Its to be expected I guess as we're legally not allowed to meet.

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

I'm sending messages, even friendly non sexusl ones either get deleted or one word replies.

Always happy to chat as only way to build a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you still get more messages than I do

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Mines been quiet for a year lol

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Always happy to have a natter. Drop by sometime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Covid really hasn't impacted my inbox at all - empty as ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit to a couple of messages over the weekend, unfortunately, although I enjoyed them, far from the norm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is always peaks and troughs! Those whose inboxes are quiet at the moment, will probably see a surge in activity soon, keep the faith!

Less fab admin the better

Adjust your preferred age range to '99-99' and enjoy the silence "

I've unchecked all the boxes in "looking for".... this has considerably helped.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Our experience with non meet chats is that after 3 messages it dries up, and I am tired of carrying the conversation.

It's a shame, but I expect it's because people don't want to waste time getting to know people they may not meet for a while if ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why we have the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is always peaks and troughs! Those whose inboxes are quiet at the moment, will probably see a surge in activity soon, keep the faith! "

I've been here 12 years, still waiting for a peak

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It's really no different for a guy of my age. It's a lovely rarity when I do get that little light at the top the menu board!!

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Mine is empty, which is both good and bad

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I have noticed that in the last week interest has tailed off. So quite you can hear a pin drop!

Maybe it's just me ,

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is always peaks and troughs! Those whose inboxes are quiet at the moment, will probably see a surge in activity soon, keep the faith!

I've been here 12 years, still waiting for a peak "

Hell, being here over 3 years, am I still a newbie!

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

If your inbox is dry

Try and post on the threads.

Send pictures etc etc

That livens up the place.

I got about 100 msgs today just by being active on the forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your inbox is dry

Try and post on the threads.

Send pictures etc etc

That livens up the place.

I got about 100 msgs today just by being active on the forum "

I've never received 100 messages even on a good day! I get lots and lots of views but not many messages. Maybe my profile puts people off, but that is my real personality and a realistic portrayal of my body so a good filter I guess - if they don't like my profile they won't like me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Fab is always peaks and troughs! Those whose inboxes are quiet at the moment, will probably see a surge in activity soon, keep the faith!

I've been here 12 years, still waiting for a peak "

With 48 meet veris on your profile, that’s an average of 4 per year, and more than some have in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol mines is quieter too thought people just got fed up of me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is empty, which is both good and bad "

Want me to fill it up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inbox needs reviving here help

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Mine is empty, which is both good and bad

Want me to fill it up? "

Fill it with joy and splendor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is empty, which is both good and bad

Want me to fill it up?

Fill it with joy and splendor "

Now that's being demanding some. I'll just fill it with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inbox needs reviving here help "

Dust out the cobwebs first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inbox needs reviving here help

Dust out the cobwebs first "

Just vacuumed them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inbox needs reviving here help

Dust out the cobwebs first

Just vacuumed them up "

I've got some floors that need scrubbing, how are you with them? The painter lied when he said he wouldn't get a drop of paint anywhere :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message tonight, someone made a mistake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not raising awareness about too many messages, it's too few. These poor inboxes don't know if they're coming or going.

I like the forum boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message tonight, someone made a mistake lol"

Was bound to happen some time !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inbox needs reviving here help

Dust out the cobwebs first

Just vacuumed them up

I've got some floors that need scrubbing, how are you with them? The painter lied when he said he wouldn't get a drop of paint anywhere :/"

I think I’m under qualified lol .. but with some guidance I’m sure we could polish them up

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Mine is empty, which is both good and bad

Want me to fill it up?

Fill it with joy and splendor

Now that's being demanding some. I'll just fill it with me "

Hello?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message tonight, someone made a mistake lol"

Sorry pal I’ll send another just so you know it was genuine

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By *4D13OYMan
over a year ago

ashton

It's quite hard to get a reply back on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inbox needs reviving here help

Dust out the cobwebs first

Just vacuumed them up

I've got some floors that need scrubbing, how are you with them? The painter lied when he said he wouldn't get a drop of paint anywhere :/

I think I’m under qualified lol .. but with some guidance I’m sure we could polish them up "

My fingers have been scrubbed raw :/ as long as you can last at least 5hrs on your hands and knees then we're off to a good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a message tonight, someone made a mistake lol

Sorry pal I’ll send another just so you know it was genuine "

Lol thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's not raising awareness about too many messages, it's too few. These poor inboxes don't know if they're coming or going.

I like the forum boxes "

Haha I quite liked the way my inbox used to be! Maybe about 20 or 30 messages per day depending on how active I was, not too much to handle but still a nice amount of attention to be getting. I have my filters set pretty tight so that cuts out a lot of the "faf" brigade (although not all...). When I let my filters down for forum games I do get a lot more, but the quality of the messages also goes down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inbox needs reviving here help

Dust out the cobwebs first

Just vacuumed them up

I've got some floors that need scrubbing, how are you with them? The painter lied when he said he wouldn't get a drop of paint anywhere :/

I think I’m under qualified lol .. but with some guidance I’m sure we could polish them up

My fingers have been scrubbed raw :/ as long as you can last at least 5hrs on your hands and knees then we're off to a good start."

I can last 5hrs easy ... but the hand and knees .. what’s the plan with that ...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Mine is quiet too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get around 5 new messages a day and I still ignore them, they’re all from people that have messaged me months ago (not including messages from forum people).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's quite hard to get a reply back on here "

Even on the forums mate madness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inbox needs reviving here help

Dust out the cobwebs first

Just vacuumed them up

I've got some floors that need scrubbing, how are you with them? The painter lied when he said he wouldn't get a drop of paint anywhere :/

I think I’m under qualified lol .. but with some guidance I’m sure we could polish them up

My fingers have been scrubbed raw :/ as long as you can last at least 5hrs on your hands and knees then we're off to a good start.

I can last 5hrs easy ... but the hand and knees .. what’s the plan with that ... "

Haha only one way to find out !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy to chat... made a few friends on here in the past

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only get around 5 new messages a day and I still ignore them, they’re all from people that have messaged me months ago (not including messages from forum people). "

I just block repeat messagers. Sounds harsh but at least neither of us waste our time.

Also lets me know they're just pandering bullshitters. If I really was that stunning/beautiful/had an "amazing" body you'd think they'd remember me at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's not raising awareness about too many messages, it's too few. These poor inboxes don't know if they're coming or going.

I like the forum boxes

Haha I quite liked the way my inbox used to be! Maybe about 20 or 30 messages per day depending on how active I was, not too much to handle but still a nice amount of attention to be getting. I have my filters set pretty tight so that cuts out a lot of the "faf" brigade (although not all...). When I let my filters down for forum games I do get a lot more, but the quality of the messages also goes down. "

I favour sending the first message. My profile expresses that view I generally don't respond well to being messaged first.

Only on very very very rare occasions might it be a treat worth having from someone particular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m happy to chat... made a few friends on here in the past "

Ello ello ello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is quiet too "

You'll be regret not savouring the moment next time the flood gates open

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's not raising awareness about too many messages, it's too few. These poor inboxes don't know if they're coming or going.

I like the forum boxes

Haha I quite liked the way my inbox used to be! Maybe about 20 or 30 messages per day depending on how active I was, not too much to handle but still a nice amount of attention to be getting. I have my filters set pretty tight so that cuts out a lot of the "faf" brigade (although not all...). When I let my filters down for forum games I do get a lot more, but the quality of the messages also goes down.

I favour sending the first message. My profile expresses that view I generally don't respond well to being messaged first.

Only on very very very rare occasions might it be a treat worth having from someone particular "

I agree, now that I think about it pretty much all of my meets have been people I've messaged first. The ones that approach me never come through, funny that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is quiet too

You'll be regret not savouring the moment next time the flood gates open "
well hello there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still getting some messages but less. Think everyone's depressed in lockdown as well as unable to fuck xx

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Mine is quiet too

You'll be regret not savouring the moment next time the flood gates open "

Nah I think they are all afraid of me apparently I’m intimidating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is quiet too

You'll be regret not savouring the moment next time the flood gates open

Nah I think they are all afraid of me apparently I’m intimidating "

Whaaaaat!!! They clearly haven't met intimidating. You're an

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is quiet too

You'll be regret not savouring the moment next time the flood gates open

Nah I think they are all afraid of me apparently I’m intimidating

Whaaaaat!!! They clearly haven't met intimidating. You're an "

Yeah you tell em

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Mine is quiet too

You'll be regret not savouring the moment next time the flood gates open

Nah I think they are all afraid of me apparently I’m intimidating

Whaaaaat!!! They clearly haven't met intimidating. You're an "

I know right

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford

Welcome to the group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the group "

Welcome to the jungle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a bloody week off work and just so has to coincide with national lockdown and now starting to feel unwell. That's just double kick in teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat? "

Because women won’t reply to men on here so majority have given up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is always peaks and troughs! Those whose inboxes are quiet at the moment, will probably see a surge in activity soon, keep the faith!

I've been here 12 years, still waiting for a peak

With 48 meet veris on your profile, that’s an average of 4 per year, and more than some have in here "

You want to have a guess at how many of them are pro forma "he turned up and wasn't a complete cunt" verifications from large socials?

Hint - virtually all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the group

Welcome to the jungle "

You'll find most swinging from tree to tree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the group

Welcome to the jungle

You'll find most swinging from tree to tree "

Or someone’s balls

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Amber maybe 36 or younger are in bed

Us oldies are awake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never had that problem, if anything my messages have increased....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the group

Welcome to the jungle

You'll find most swinging from tree to tree

Or someone’s balls "

I'll have more luck swinging from a tree. There's a lack of the aforementioned appendage within arms reach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the group

Welcome to the jungle

You'll find most swinging from tree to tree

Or someone’s balls

I'll have more luck swinging from a tree. There's a lack of the aforementioned appendage within arms reach "

You need longer arms then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the group

Welcome to the jungle

You'll find most swinging from tree to tree

Or someone’s balls

I'll have more luck swinging from a tree. There's a lack of the aforementioned appendage within arms reach

You need longer arms then "

Yeah, 80+ miles long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be really tough on lockdown as I know to well. If anyone wants to chat just pm me xx

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

I thought it was just me

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale


"If your inbox is dry

Try and post on the threads.

Send pictures etc etc

That livens up the place.

I got about 100 msgs today just by being active on the forum

I've never received 100 messages even on a good day! I get lots and lots of views but not many messages. Maybe my profile puts people off, but that is my real personality and a realistic portrayal of my body so a good filter I guess - if they don't like my profile they won't like me "

I remember sending you a private msg a while back actually and i got a no thanks! Lol i actually liked your profile, hence my interest initially.

Just for reference, it meant a lot when you replied and said no thanks. Most don't bother, so your kind and beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the group

Welcome to the jungle

You'll find most swinging from tree to tree

Or someone’s balls

I'll have more luck swinging from a tree. There's a lack of the aforementioned appendage within arms reach

You need longer arms then

Yeah, 80+ miles long "

Haha .. sure we could reach halfway

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By *rownhotnessMan
over a year ago

Cheshire/London/Midlands

Mines open for msgs. Distance isn't an issue

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford


"Welcome to the group

Welcome to the jungle

You'll find most swinging from tree to tree

Or someone’s balls

I'll have more luck swinging from a tree. There's a lack of the aforementioned appendage within arms reach

You need longer arms then

Yeah, 80+ miles long

Haha .. sure we could reach halfway "

You’re allowed four other people in your bubble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the group

Welcome to the jungle

You'll find most swinging from tree to tree

Or someone’s balls

I'll have more luck swinging from a tree. There's a lack of the aforementioned appendage within arms reach

You need longer arms then

Yeah, 80+ miles long

Haha .. sure we could reach halfway "

At a stretch ;p

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I'm getting better quality messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines open for msgs. Distance isn't an issue "

Dinstance isn't usually an issue for sending messages ... Most happen at a push of a button

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford

I’m all in if anyone wants to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inbox has not really changed at all....

Still the spiders rather like being undisturbed

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York


"Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat?

You could always message people for a chat OP, and see how it goes?

I usually would, but most guys have "looking for fun/nsa" or similar on their profiles. Wouldn't be fair to message just looking for chat when that's not what they're after "

I think mine is along those lines but I do chat normally.

It's not all lift the covers and let me.in

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat? "

I would. In fact, right now it's all I'd be interested in....

But I wouldn't worry about a quiet inbox - I've haven't logged in here for about a fortnight and not one of my friends messaged to see if I was OK. I get emails when I get a message so I could have logged on for that

(friends with my phone number who I chat to away from here did check in, so it's not all bad

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not that it was ever buzzing before but with the new lockdown it's virtually radio silence (apart from the idiots at 2am looking to meet).

Guess no one just wants a chat? "

Overloaded with messages is not something I'm used to, guess a guy into lingerie is a bit niche! Still happy to just chat though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing new there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing how quickly the chat stops when getting a shag is off the menu!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now that I've put I'm looking to date on my profile I've even stopped getting winks hahaha oh dear...

Ladies, if you are being overwhelmed with attention on here I have the answer!

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Don't worry Amber its just all the single men are at home with there wife's/partners once they can sneek away your inbox will be flooded with dick pics im always happy to talk to people my inbox is open for chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get at least one message a day from a bi guy wanting to meet but I’m straight lol

If not for them and the catfish I’d have nobody to chat to here I think I’ll be spending more time looking at forums than trying to get friendly with anyone.

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By *E23SwCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

Ours is pretty dead we get a fair few inboxes a day but no one can keep the conversation going

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Ours has been a ghost town recently but we will persevere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is dead at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a pain in the ass cause I pop up to people and try to be polite but get very little back

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My sent box looks a bit like the yellow brick road.

I guess many are too busy too read them.

Or get lost in the deluge of unwanted messages.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Mine has always had a healthy number of messages to keep me entertained throughout the day, but blimey! I put up 2 new (what I thought were nice) photos AND a video, and.... my inbox has been the quietest it’s been in my 2 years on Fab!

Not the profile views- that went over the roof. But not too many messages

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I posted a pic yesterday and my inbox quickly mounted up and views were fourfold to normal

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford


"Mine has always had a healthy number of messages to keep me entertained throughout the day, but blimey! I put up 2 new (what I thought were nice) photos AND a video, and.... my inbox has been the quietest it’s been in my 2 years on Fab!

Not the profile views- that went over the roof. But not too many messages "

They were very nice photos; don’t put yourself down x

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Didn’t know I had an inbox lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Mine has always had a healthy number of messages to keep me entertained throughout the day, but blimey! I put up 2 new (what I thought were nice) photos AND a video, and.... my inbox has been the quietest it’s been in my 2 years on Fab!

Not the profile views- that went over the roof. But not too many messages "

Ill have to keep my eye on you. Just to make sure you get your quota of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want to manage mine? Despite my profile saying I won't reply I've currently 172 unread emails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you want to manage mine? Despite my profile saying I won't reply I've currently 172 unread emails "

If you're not going to reply, why not just delete them all?

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By *JBezantMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"My sent box looks a bit like the yellow brick road.

I guess many are too busy too read them.

Or get lost in the deluge of unwanted messages. "

Haha mate tell me about it, there’s always that feeling of shame when you go to message someone only to be confronted with a big warning sign!

I feel most of the messages get lost to the nether, you just gotta be lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to have a natter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you want to manage mine? Despite my profile saying I won't reply I've currently 172 unread emails

If you're not going to reply, why not just delete them all?"

I reply to people in my friends list and sometimes others.

I just ignore the rest. They fall off eventually or sometimes I do a bulk delete.

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