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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have always wondered which is better to send... I sometimes send winks because I dont want to annoy ladies with messages they will probably never read, and if they like what they see they can wink back and then i know to message..... but then i sometimes wonder if it is better to send a message than a wink as its maybe more polite...

what do the ladies prefer?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Everyone's different... but personally I don't even look at winks.

Every so often I click on them, but only to hit the "delete all" button...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Everyone's different... but personally I don't even look at winks.

Every so often I click on them, but only to hit the "delete all" button... "

Likewise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never look at winks either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your opinions... I will stick to messaging x

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I love it when somebody gives me a wink

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Always happy to receive either..but winks look like people cant be bothered sending a message..

Messages are fine providing they are not generic as in 'love you profile, please add us to your friends list' type..

If we get friends invites without a brief message explaining why they want to add us we just delete unread and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DOH, will have to change my tactics now. Means I'll be getting alot more F' Off mails now then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to ignore winks. If someone cannot be bothered to string a couple of sentences together we cannot be bothered to pay any attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a wink OP *looks at pics* ...but please don't poke me

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London


"I don't mind a wink OP *looks at pics* ...but please don't poke me "

I wouldn't mind giving you a good poke

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I have phases - sometimes like winks because they are easier to vet without having to type a reply.

But other times they just annoy me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG Jezebel, ure lush!!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"OMG Jezebel, ure lush!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to see more of you Jezebel X

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London


" I have phases - sometimes like winks because they are easier to vet without having to type a reply.

But other times they just annoy me... "

I just winked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use all the tool the site has..apart from the viewing the newest/hottest gallery pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer messages coz we find it more polite but then sometimes I think why not wink coz then they can see if they are interested with out having to write out yet another 'no thankyou' message :-/ lol we know how annoying and time consuming it can be lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never sure what reaction a wink is intending to provoke. Am I supposed to message them instantly and offer an instant shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I wink means im guilt free if I want to ignore it

If I like the profile I may respond with one of my own

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I like winks and will return if I like the others profile, then start messaging. If I'm not interested the winks just get deleted.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have always wondered which is better to send... I sometimes send winks because I dont want to annoy ladies with messages they will probably never read, and if they like what they see they can wink back and then i know to message..... but then i sometimes wonder if it is better to send a message than a wink as its maybe more polite...

what do the ladies prefer?"

A short but witty and specific to my profile message - infinitely [referable to winks and cut n pastes

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham


"I wink means im guilt free if I want to ignore it

If I like the profile I may respond with one of my own"

Same here

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

I like winks but don't notice them half the time it's a good way for some to break the ice. not everyone on here is a raging exhibitionist there are shy people into swinging too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont mind winks , and use them alot and not out of lazyness , but after typing a few sentances in mail to get no reply at all, so we think winks are a great way to see if a interest is out there, after return wink we,ll send a mail with a couple of sentances and our face pics then we take things from there,

so thumbs up for winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at winks and if they are looking good we will wink back and then wait and see ..........

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"we dont mind winks , and use them alot and not out of lazyness , but after typing a few sentances in mail to get no reply at all, so we think winks are a great way to see if a interest is out there, after return wink we,ll send a mail with a couple of sentances and our face pics then we take things from there,

so thumbs up for winks "

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

messages I rarely glance at winks or friends requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tend to ignore winks. If someone cannot be bothered to string a couple of sentences together we cannot be bothered to pay any attention"

I've never understood this way of thinking.

When here as a couple we have received winks that developed into a meet which was good enough to proceed to several meets.

It went something like this.....

We received wink, we checked out the profile and thought looked good and so we winked back, they then took this as an open invite to chat and so messaged, several messages later we had arranged a meet.

Winks are a part of this site and so are likely to be used by at least some members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tend to ignore winks. If someone cannot be bothered to string a couple of sentences together we cannot be bothered to pay any attention

I've never understood this way of thinking.

When here as a couple we have received winks that developed into a meet which was good enough to proceed to several meets.

It went something like this.....

We received wink, we checked out the profile and thought looked good and so we winked back, they then took this as an open invite to chat and so messaged, several messages later we had arranged a meet.

Winks are a part of this site and so are likely to be used by at least some members."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

enough of this inverted winkery! get winking ya winkers!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Everyone's different... but personally I don't even look at winks.

Every so often I click on them, but only to hit the "delete all" button... "

Me too.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

I love a good wank, sorry wink....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I propose that all winkers should wink at all those who are poo pooing winkers and complain in a post if they do not wink back.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"I propose that all winkers should wink at all those who are poo pooing winkers and complain in a post if they do not wink back. "

Lol

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