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Safe way to get into cuckolding?

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By *am_brown OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Hi all, met the girl of my dreams, absolutely stunning and I love her to pieces and her company.

Only thing, i don't seem to satisfy her much in the bedroom (nothing has been said by her to suggest this) i know she's very adventurous and doesn't shy away when i jokingly suggest her getting off with lots of other guys.

She has previously had boyfriends and fuck buddies at the same time, I'm wondering if this comes up, how do I be ok with her having other partners (ideally while I'm there with her) and not feel insecure and feel they'll replace me?

Sam x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know she's had boyfriends and fb before?

Does the idea of her fucking other men turn you on or horrify you?

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By *am_brown OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"How do you know she's had boyfriends and fb before?

Does the idea of her fucking other men turn you on or horrify you?"

Hi,

She mentioned it over drinks that she's had fuck buddies before whilst in a relationship.

Yes, the idea of her fucking other men does turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and fix what's wrong with your relationship before bringing others in. Speak to her, see if your feelings about her sexual fulfilment are correct and work on that if they are, you may find she's happy and it's in your imagination. She may also not be interested in seeing others for the time being; if it's a fairly new relationship you need time to nurture it and set a decent foundation.

IMO, swinging/cuckholding/hotwife etc won't help an already faltering relationship.

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By *am_brown OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Try and fix what's wrong with your relationship before bringing others in. Speak to her, see if your feelings about her sexual fulfilment are correct and work on that if they are, you may find she's happy and it's in your imagination. She may also not be interested in seeing others for the time being; if it's a fairly new relationship you need time to nurture it and set a decent foundation.

IMO, swinging/cuckholding/hotwife etc won't help an already faltering relationship.

"

That's actually really good advice, the company part is beautiful and chats e.t.c, maybe communicating in the bedroom might be right, I'm just anxious and possibly feeling a little insecure

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By *oom_4_1_MhoreCouple
over a year ago

Newport

I never thought I would want to share her, but I get off on it so much, and the feeling of her being with somebody hotter, bigger better but still comes back to me blows my mind. Reclaiming her is the best sex ever.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's not neccersarily a case of you not fulfilling her but maybe she likes the extra thrill of having an another guy. It's something you need to have an open and honest discussion about but you shouldn't enter anything unless you are fully into it too. You can't do it to keep her happy. Good luck OP

Mrs x

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By *ayley1996xTV/TS
over a year ago

Travels, so depends!

Very mature thought process, I commend you for that. I knew I didn't fulfill my last long-time GF and she ended up cheating maybe cuckoldry would have saved it before it was too late!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you're putting the dart before the horse here.

Why do you want says of dealing with a situation you haven't even discussed with her yet?

She's the one you ought to be talking to

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*cart, damn and blast autocorrect

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hi all, met the girl of my dreams, absolutely stunning and I love her to pieces and her company.

Only thing, i don't seem to satisfy her much in the bedroom (nothing has been said by her to suggest this) i know she's very adventurous and doesn't shy away when i jokingly suggest her getting off with lots of other guys.

She has previously had boyfriends and fuck buddies at the same time, I'm wondering if this comes up, how do I be ok with her having other partners (ideally while I'm there with her) and not feel insecure and feel they'll replace me?

Sam x"

Show her your fab profile and see what she says ?

If she doesn't hit you with a frying pan I'd say she's game and open minded

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Well tell her I’d give her one if she’s interested

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By *am_brown OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hi all, met the girl of my dreams, absolutely stunning and I love her to pieces and her company.

Only thing, i don't seem to satisfy her much in the bedroom (nothing has been said by her to suggest this) i know she's very adventurous and doesn't shy away when i jokingly suggest her getting off with lots of other guys.

She has previously had boyfriends and fuck buddies at the same time, I'm wondering if this comes up, how do I be ok with her having other partners (ideally while I'm there with her) and not feel insecure and feel they'll replace me?

Sam x

Show her your fab profile and see what she says ?

If she doesn't hit you with a frying pan I'd say she's game and open minded "

lol, you're funny

I like this site and it's good for keeping social life active during difficult times, it's gets lonely during lockdown. It's also good for advice as there's so many likemided people out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just discuss it and be honest about whether you want this or not, if it's a turn on then you could always arrange for her to chat to a few guys and take it a stage at a time. My only cuckolding experience progressed from online chat to meeting and worked out really well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I wish you was my boyfriend I never find guys that are want to share

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Some very good advice on here already OP, so I just hope things turn out how you want

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Definitely speak to her first, she may not want you to be there and you both will have to come up with equal boundaries, communication is key whether its good or bad, speak to each other or you may risk the relationship ending

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Think you really really need to have a good and honest conversation with her. You are presuming so much, she may have had bf and fwb at the same time before but your relationship may mean exclusivity to her, you don't know.

If you want to give cuckolding a shot, it requires honesty and the ability to talk to each other, else jealousy can be an issue. Good luck op

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By *am_brown OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

This is fantastic, so many messages of advice and support...I am and will take them all on board, main thing is communication and patience is the key, I thank you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to share my wife with other blokes. Such a turn on

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