FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

"straight' guys

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right, this is one for the "straight" guys who keep messaging me, several asking for bareback. One of the main reason I won't meet you, despite the pandemic, is the complete deceit behind it. If you're on here as straight, bareback a guy, which, hard as it for some of you to accept, I am, and then go and sleep with a woman who believes you're straight the risks of infection are so much higher and its really not fair on a the woman who believes you're straight. Honesty for the win guys, noones going to judge you for being bi I'm sure. Just sick of some of the same old messages.

Rant over.

Sorry

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I am totally straight and I'd never ask for bareback. I didn't get to my age by being stupid

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

I get many, many, many more messages from straight guys asking for meets. When challenged they say "I'm bi really just don't want the women to know" I don't like their lies so say no. Plus, bi guys are just much more fun tbh.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly! Just worries me there are guys fucking guys bareback, then going around saying straight and spreading God knows what. And people get aggressive when you call them out on it. My block list is longer than my friends list! According to one guy I should be "flattered" he even considered me...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get many, many, many more messages from straight guys asking for meets. When challenged they say "I'm bi really just don't want the women to know" I don't like their lies so say no. Plus, bi guys are just much more fun tbh."

In my mind if they're not comfortable enough to put bi on the profile, they're probably not going to be that up to the job in bed...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right, this is one for the "straight" guys who keep messaging me, several asking for bareback. One of the main reason I won't meet you, despite the pandemic, is the complete deceit behind it. If you're on here as straight, bareback a guy, which, hard as it for some of you to accept, I am, and then go and sleep with a woman who believes you're straight the risks of infection are so much higher and its really not fair on a the woman who believes you're straight. Honesty for the win guys, noones going to judge you for being bi I'm sure. Just sick of some of the same old messages.

Rant over.

Sorry

"

Our initial profile stipulated that we didn't want straight guys who'd done this......but many tv's unfairly claimed we were being transphobic.

Now, you're corresponding the same thing. The double standards of some are an ugly trait. Not you though...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right, this is one for the "straight" guys who keep messaging me, several asking for bareback. One of the main reason I won't meet you, despite the pandemic, is the complete deceit behind it. If you're on here as straight, bareback a guy, which, hard as it for some of you to accept, I am, and then go and sleep with a woman who believes you're straight the risks of infection are so much higher and its really not fair on a the woman who believes you're straight. Honesty for the win guys, noones going to judge you for being bi I'm sure. Just sick of some of the same old messages.

Rant over.

Sorry

Our initial profile stipulated that we didn't want straight guys who'd done this......but many tv's unfairly claimed we were being transphobic.

Now, you're corresponding the same thing. The double standards of some are an ugly trait. Not you though... "

I don't see that as transphobic, it's science and common sense. At least if the guy is up front you know the facts and have a choice.

My thinking is more I get tested regularly, and look after myself. I'm sure many on here, esp fab straight guys, aren't so careful. I wouldn't put myself at risk like that, and just hate the thought of people getting lied to for sex. (says the man in the dress)

Also what you want is your business, who is anyone to call you out on it!?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right, this is one for the "straight" guys who keep messaging me, several asking for bareback. One of the main reason I won't meet you, despite the pandemic, is the complete deceit behind it. If you're on here as straight, bareback a guy, which, hard as it for some of you to accept, I am, and then go and sleep with a woman who believes you're straight the risks of infection are so much higher and its really not fair on a the woman who believes you're straight. Honesty for the win guys, noones going to judge you for being bi I'm sure. Just sick of some of the same old messages.

Rant over.

Sorry

Our initial profile stipulated that we didn't want straight guys who'd done this......but many tv's unfairly claimed we were being transphobic.

Now, you're corresponding the same thing. The double standards of some are an ugly trait. Not you though...

I don't see that as transphobic, it's science and common sense. At least if the guy is up front you know the facts and have a choice.

My thinking is more I get tested regularly, and look after myself. I'm sure many on here, esp fab straight guys, aren't so careful. I wouldn't put myself at risk like that, and just hate the thought of people getting lied to for sex. (says the man in the dress)

Also what you want is your business, who is anyone to call you out on it!?"

You are a good-un

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

You are a good-un "

One tries sweetie xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Like the Op I get plenty of messages from straight guys but I take a different point of view.

I've met a few "straight guys" and I think most of them don't want to admit they're bi. Not all of them have partners either. Also a lot of them work and live in male environments and prefer to keep their sexuality to theirselves.

If a straight man is asking me for sex then my mind tells me that they're not straight, I don't get wound up about it.

If they have a partner, girlfriend etc then that's their problem and not mine. You can catch an STI from anyone male, female, straight or bi, so they shouldn't be asking for bareback.

Finally there are plenty of T girls and Guys that say they are bi but they are still on here without their partners knowing. I can't see the difference?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

If they have a partner, girlfriend etc then that's their problem and not mine. You can catch an STI from anyone male, female, straight or bi, so they shouldn't be asking for bareback.

Finally there are plenty of T girls and Guys that say they are bi but they are still on here without their partners knowing. I can't see the difference? "

With regards to stds yes you can, but certain sexual acts are higher risk than others. That's not opinion, that's fact,

And as regards the married men the same completely applies as far as I'm concerned. Cheating is cheating and I'm not a fan of it, makes me uncomfortable to be in that situation.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had loads of messages about bareback too, I simply don’t reply. There would be no chance of bareback

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just read that back, sorry if I came across as snappy, wasn't intended that way, simply expressing my views, which anyone is more than welcome to agree or disagree with, the world would be boring if we all thought the same xxxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had loads of messages about bareback too, I simply don’t reply. There would be no chance of bareback "

I just don't see how, on a site pretty much dedicated to anonymous sex, anyone would think the level of risk was worth it...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Right, this is one for the "straight" guys who keep messaging me, several asking for bareback. One of the main reason I won't meet you, despite the pandemic, is the complete deceit behind it. If you're on here as straight, bareback a guy, which, hard as it for some of you to accept, I am, and then go and sleep with a woman who believes you're straight the risks of infection are so much higher and its really not fair on a the woman who believes you're straight. Honesty for the win guys, noones going to judge you for being bi I'm sure. Just sick of some of the same old messages.

Rant over.

Sorry

"

Well said !

Respect

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I've met a few "straight guys" and I think most of them don't want to admit they're bi. Not all of them have partners either. Also a lot of them work and live in male environments and prefer to keep their sexuality to theirselves. "

But surely if they're wanting to keep their speciality from their workmates etc they wouldn't tell them they were on fab? And tbf 99% of the profiles aren't face pics anyway so not exactly recognisable. Can't get on board with that I'm afraid, sounds like a cop out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get many, many, many more messages from straight guys asking for meets. When challenged they say "I'm bi really just don't want the women to know" I don't like their lies so say no. Plus, bi guys are just much more fun tbh."

This

I don't reply to their messages, I don't have the time to, given the amount I get. I just delete them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had loads of messages about bareback too, I simply don’t reply. There would be no chance of bareback

I just don't see how, on a site pretty much dedicated to anonymous sex, anyone would think the level of risk was worth it... "

I know I agree. I suppose the like to try their luck?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

I just don’t know why anyone on here would go bareback ,

I was asked by a couple if I’d fuck his wife bareback

I respect and cherish my own health too much

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just don’t know why anyone on here would go bareback ,

I was asked by a couple if I’d fuck his wife bareback

I respect and cherish my own health too much "

Exactly!!! 7 degrees of separation is probably not far off in a local area, so even if the people you're with have only had sex with decent, clean people, somewhere down the line someone will catch something... Sorry I've not slept well am grumpy, and don't even know if I'm making much sense...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

since starting this thread I've had 2 offers of bareback from "straight" guys...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"I just don’t know why anyone on here would go bareback ,

I was asked by a couple if I’d fuck his wife bareback

I respect and cherish my own health too much

Exactly!!! 7 degrees of separation is probably not far off in a local area, so even if the people you're with have only had sex with decent, clean people, somewhere down the line someone will catch something... Sorry I've not slept well am grumpy, and don't even know if I'm making much sense... "

I completely agree with you

People have no respect for other peoples health

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" since starting this thread I've had 2 offers of bareback from "straight" guys... "

Tell them to send a picture of themselves in a frilly mini-dress, stockings + heels and you'll think about it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get many, many, many more messages from straight guys asking for meets. When challenged they say "I'm bi really just don't want the women to know" I don't like their lies so say no. Plus, bi guys are just much more fun tbh.

In my mind if they're not comfortable enough to put bi on the profile, they're probably not going to be that up to the job in bed... "

indeedy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore the tv ts ladies look so amazing and pretty. I have emailed some for chat as would love to social and who knows but always get ignored guys am no ones type.

I would love to meet and date one not from a bi point of view as they look so pretty and feminine yes I know when and if lucky to move to sexual fun then it’s bi interactions.

But I would never ask anyone for bareback fun no matter who it was I have with long term life partners but never with sexual friend as the risks are crazy.

Stay safe and well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get many, many, many more messages from straight guys asking for meets. When challenged they say "I'm bi really just don't want the women to know" I don't like their lies so say no. Plus, bi guys are just much more fun tbh."

Great support for bi guys...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"I just don’t know why anyone on here would go bareback ,

I was asked by a couple if I’d fuck his wife bareback

I respect and cherish my own health too much

Exactly!!! 7 degrees of separation is probably not far off in a local area, so even if the people you're with have only had sex with decent, clean people, somewhere down the line someone will catch something... Sorry I've not slept well am grumpy, and don't even know if I'm making much sense...

I completely agree with you

People have no respect for other peoples health "

True you have to respect other people's wishes but your health is your responsibility not others. You have to take care of yourself and not expect others to.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly! Just worries me there are guys fucking guys bareback, then going around saying straight and spreading God knows what. And people get aggressive when you call them out on it. My block list is longer than my friends list! According to one guy I should be "flattered" he even considered me... "

If men fuck men but admit they are bi they are immune to spreading sti's?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" since starting this thread I've had 2 offers of bareback from "straight" guys... "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aulupforitMan
over a year ago

Corbridge

Some guys can not even lie straight in bed lol

I have been bi since I was 23 an have only seen 4 people in that time I have actually known and that is even with going to bi/gay saunas every week and also swingers clubs.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore the tv ts ladies look so amazing and pretty. I have emailed some for chat as would love to social and who knows but always get ignored guys am no ones type.

"

If I see 'straight' on a profile I don't reply.

I've had so many bad previous experiences with straight guys before. I spend a couple hours getting ready, bath, shave, Veet, internal clean, makeup etc.

They either bottle it and don't show, or cum within 5 minutes.

Also as mentioned it's the fact they won't put Bi on their profile as it puts women off. But that puts me off, I need honesty.

I'm sure you are lovely, you sound sweet and I hope you find what you are looking for

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exactly! Just worries me there are guys fucking guys bareback, then going around saying straight and spreading God knows what. And people get aggressive when you call them out on it. My block list is longer than my friends list! According to one guy I should be "flattered" he even considered me...

If men fuck men but admit they are bi they are immune to spreading sti's?"

Not at all, I think I may have rolled two issues into one.. More that if they're open and tell you they are bi, you're more inclined to ask about if they've slept with guys and can be more aware of the risks and make an informed decision. Other point was that my experience of guys who claim to be straight is not good. They don't like the idea that I'm actually a guy, and as soon as they've got there's they seem to get very ashamed. I'm sure they aren't all like that, but I have made the rule for myself based on my own experience that I won't meet "straight" guys

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly! Just worries me there are guys fucking guys bareback, then going around saying straight and spreading God knows what. And people get aggressive when you call them out on it. My block list is longer than my friends list! According to one guy I should be "flattered" he even considered me...

If men fuck men but admit they are bi they are immune to spreading sti's?

Not at all, I think I may have rolled two issues into one.. More that if they're open and tell you they are bi, you're more inclined to ask about if they've slept with guys and can be more aware of the risks and make an informed decision. Other point was that my experience of guys who claim to be straight is not good. They don't like the idea that I'm actually a guy, and as soon as they've got there's they seem to get very ashamed. I'm sure they aren't all like that, but I have made the rule for myself based on my own experience that I won't meet "straight" guys"

I agree with your point about them being ashamed. Usually after they've cum. Look after yourself. X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right, this is one for the "straight" guys who keep messaging me, several asking for bareback. One of the main reason I won't meet you, despite the pandemic, is the complete deceit behind it. If you're on here as straight, bareback a guy, which, hard as it for some of you to accept, I am, and then go and sleep with a woman who believes you're straight the risks of infection are so much higher and its really not fair on a the woman who believes you're straight. Honesty for the win guys, noones going to judge you for being bi I'm sure. Just sick of some of the same old messages.

Rant over.

Sorry

Our initial profile stipulated that we didn't want straight guys who'd done this......but many tv's unfairly claimed we were being transphobic.

Now, you're corresponding the same thing. The double standards of some are an ugly trait. Not you though...

I don't see that as transphobic, it's science and common sense. At least if the guy is up front you know the facts and have a choice.

My thinking is more I get tested regularly, and look after myself. I'm sure many on here, esp fab straight guys, aren't so careful. I wouldn't put myself at risk like that, and just hate the thought of people getting lied to for sex. (says the man in the dress)

Also what you want is your business, who is anyone to call you out on it!?"

I think she has every right to call someone out on it. I also think it's highly responsible and thoughtful of her to do so.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I adore the tv ts ladies look so amazing and pretty. I have emailed some for chat as would love to social and who knows but always get ignored guys am no ones type.

If I see 'straight' on a profile I don't reply.

I've had so many bad previous experiences with straight guys before. I spend a couple hours getting ready, bath, shave, Veet, internal clean, makeup etc.

They either bottle it and don't show, or cum within 5 minutes.

Also as mentioned it's the fact they won't put Bi on their profile as it puts women off. But that puts me off, I need honesty.

I'm sure you are lovely, you sound sweet and I hope you find what you are looking for "

Preaching to the converted. I recognise all that. It takes ages to prepare.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had loads of ' Straight' guys message when had a couples profile even with us saying if your profile say Straight don't message,

And yes when we challenged them it was ' oh I'm bi but my mates on here don't want him to know ' or some other BS.

Easier to just block and delete

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I get many, many, many more messages from straight guys asking for meets. When challenged they say "I'm bi really just don't want the women to know" I don't like their lies so say no. Plus, bi guys are just much more fun tbh.

Great support for bi guys..."

You fab my pics but you've hidden your profile

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Op,a guy who I was chatting to yesterday said that if a straight guy said he wouldn't go with a tv then he was lying,and he was straight,I told him that he was delusional,it's the lies that I dislike if your bi,then don't hide the fact,and as for bareback that's just like playing Russian roulette,crazy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"

If men fuck men but admit they are bi they are immune to spreading sti's?"

.

The only reason why I seldom accept meets from straight guys is because I think most likely they are just fantasists/timewasters or messers.

I am not bothered to question other people's profile.

It's up to them what to put in theirs but it is up to me to analyse and make my decision.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 07/11/20 11:43:28]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Also what you want is your business, who is anyone to call you out on it!?

I think she has every right to call someone out on it. I also think it's highly responsible and thoughtful of her to do so."

I think you misunderstood what I meant, I meant someone decides they don't want to meet certain people, that's up to them entirely and noone should call them out on it. Believe it was in response to a comment about people getting shitty for not being someone's preference xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their profile states straight, safe sex and no interest in TV’s, yada yada yada, but their message tells you how much they want to meet for a bareback session.

Oh but they won’t leave a veri because they don’t want anyone to know!

Yeah sure, how soon can you get round here, right now, during lockdown.

Sadly we get them from couples all the time.

Miss V

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there should be another option when creating a fab profile that says "fab straight".

Those who know - they know

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Their profile states straight, safe sex and no interest in TV’s, yada yada yada, but their message tells you how much they want to meet for a bareback session.

Oh but they won’t leave a veri because they don’t want anyone to know!

Yeah sure, how soon can you get round here, right now, during lockdown.

Sadly we get them from couples all the time.

Miss V

"

It's ridiculous isn't it..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there should be another option when creating a fab profile that says "fab straight".

Those who know - they know

"

Haha, YES!!!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile states straight, safe sex and no interest in TV’s, yada yada yada, but their message tells you how much they want to meet for a bareback session.

Oh but they won’t leave a veri because they don’t want anyone to know!

Yeah sure, how soon can you get round here, right now, during lockdown.

Sadly we get them from couples all the time.

Miss V

It's ridiculous isn't it.. "

Yep! We used to take the time to reply but got a bit fed up of being told we should be grateful that anyone was interested in us lol!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"Right, this is one for the "straight" guys who keep messaging me, several asking for bareback. One of the main reason I won't meet you, despite the pandemic, is the complete deceit behind it. If you're on here as straight, bareback a guy, which, hard as it for some of you to accept, I am, and then go and sleep with a woman who believes you're straight the risks of infection are so much higher and its really not fair on a the woman who believes you're straight. Honesty for the win guys, noones going to judge you for being bi I'm sure. Just sick of some of the same old messages.

Rant over.

Sorry

"

This is why I get so annoyed and won't meet people off here its the deceit and hurting other people I can't get my head around but to be fair to the "straight " guys the majority of gay men they have this ridiculous fantasy of having sex with a "straight" man as they don't understand if you're straight you don't have sex with men...duh and 9 out of 10 TV/S get a kick out of knowing they're having sex with a man who has a female partner which i find appalling.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 07/11/20 13:56:39]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I don't find posts like this helpful

It has a judgemental taste with a slightly bitter undertone

Now, I am not for one minute, saying that there aren't disingenuous guys here, but the statement that 'no one will judge you for being bi' is naive at best

There's plenty of judgement to be found here, bi guys are constantly judged

I struggled for a long time with my sexuality, much of it to do with fear of judgement and acceptance

I totally get why guys want to be seen as straight. I don't 100% agree with it, but I certainly 'get it'

As for bareback sex with randoms, that's another thread all together and I think that discussion stands on its own two feet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly, I don't find posts like this helpful

It has a judgemental taste with a slightly bitter undertone

Now, I am not for one minute, saying that there aren't disingenuous guys here, but the statement that 'no one will judge you for being bi' is naive at best

There's plenty of judgement to be found here, bi guys are constantly judged

I struggled for a long time with my sexuality, much of it to do with fear of judgement and acceptance

I totally get why guys want to be seen as straight. I don't 100% agree with it, but I certainly 'get it'

As for bareback sex with randoms, that's another thread all together and I think that discussion stands on its own two feet"

I'm sorry if it came across that way, I'd had very little sleep and woken up to a barrage of the same old messages. As I've stated above this is solely based on my own experiences, I'm not saying all guys are like that and I'm. It saying any of it applies across the board. Just needed a rant...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 07/11/20 14:15:09]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I adore the tv ts ladies look so amazing and pretty. I have emailed some for chat as would love to social and who knows but always get ignored guys am no ones type.

If I see 'straight' on a profile I don't reply.

I've had so many bad previous experiences with straight guys before. I spend a couple hours getting ready, bath, shave, Veet, internal clean, makeup etc.

They either bottle it and don't show, or cum within 5 minutes.

Also as mentioned it's the fact they won't put Bi on their profile as it puts women off. But that puts me off, I need honesty.

I'm sure you are lovely, you sound sweet and I hope you find what you are looking for "

Thanks I know ladies take time get ready hence if I planned to meet I would never waste time that’s just mean and when I ready people stand others up it’s frustrating.

Hope people stay safe and find what want and need

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, I don't find posts like this helpful

It has a judgemental taste with a slightly bitter undertone

Now, I am not for one minute, saying that there aren't disingenuous guys here, but the statement that 'no one will judge you for being bi' is naive at best

There's plenty of judgement to be found here, bi guys are constantly judged

I struggled for a long time with my sexuality, much of it to do with fear of judgement and acceptance

I totally get why guys want to be seen as straight. I don't 100% agree with it, but I certainly 'get it'

As for bareback sex with randoms, that's another thread all together and I think that discussion stands on its own two feet

I'm sorry if it came across that way, I'd had very little sleep and woken up to a barrage of the same old messages. As I've stated above this is solely based on my own experiences, I'm not saying all guys are like that and I'm. It saying any of it applies across the board. Just needed a rant... "

Hey, we all need one of them every now & then

To balance my own comments, there are also a lot of gay guys here who pertain to be bi-sexual or bi-curious cos it gets them meets with guys

For a man, stating you are gay on here certainly invites sexual interest to drop right off the scale

Guys will meet other guys who state they are bi, but gay guys are, quite often (but not always) a forbidden fruit

The veris, of course, quite often tell a very different picture to the statement of sexuality

Homo (and bi) phobia is not only the domain of straight people

Infact, some of own statement stinks of it too

Life is complicated x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"

This is why I get so annoyed and won't meet people off here its the deceit and hurting other people I can't get my head around but to be fair to the "straight " guys the majority of gay men they have this ridiculous fantasy of having sex with a "straight" man as they don't understand if you're straight you don't have sex with men...duh and 9 out of 10 TV/S get a kick out of knowing they're having sex with a man who has a female partner which i find appalling. "

I wonder how reliable your statistic is.

I always thought gay men are attracted to masculinity and straight men tend to appear more masculine. So, the sexuality is just a co-incidence. I am not very confident a gay man would fancy a campy straight guy.

And your statement regarding tv/ts I find quite offensive.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I wonder how reliable your statistic is.

I always thought gay men are attracted to masculinity and straight men tend to appear more masculine. So, the sexuality is just a co-incidence. I am not very confident a gay man would fancy a campy straight guy.

And your statement regarding tv/ts I find quite offensive. "

Thank you, I tried writing something similar above but ended up deleting it as it was nowhere near as polite/well worded as your response x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top