FabSwingers.com forum: Boring Sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever had those kind of experiences where you are 'supposed ' to be enjoying yourself but just felt meh about it and wished you were at home eating cake by yourself?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Yes and thanks very much to my shite memory for some things I can barely remember it either, I just know it happened

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. I guess some people you're just not compatible with in that regard. If they ignore any prompts you give and it's just not working for you then it's just frustrating. It's a shame when it happens.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes and thanks very much to my shite memory for some things I can barely remember it either, I just know it happened

Sometimes a shite memory is for the best

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, the time the guy we were with tell asleep

. Full on snoring and everything. I must be a real crap shag

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. I guess some people you're just not compatible with in that regard. If they ignore any prompts you give and it's just not working for you then it's just frustrating. It's a shame when it happens. "

It really is a shame - especially when you get into well - and then the sex is just pfffttttt

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yep your describing my sex life with my ex husband, sadly going home having cake wasn't an option.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It really is a shame - especially when you get into well - and then the sex is just pfffttttt

Get on well *

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, the time the guy we were with tell asleep

. Full on snoring and everything. I must be a real crap shag

Ohhhh nooooo - maybe he was just tired

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep your describing my sex life with my ex husband, sadly going home having cake wasn't an option. "

An ex is an ex for a reason!

I hope you have cake in now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eedingexcitementMan
over a year ago

Witham

Been there many many times. Your mind wonders, and you really can't finish

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes, the time the guy we were with tell asleep

. Full on snoring and everything. I must be a real crap shag

Ohhhh nooooo - maybe he was just tired

. Who knows.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Yep your describing my sex life with my ex husband, sadly going home having cake wasn't an option.

An ex is an ex for a reason!

I hope you have cake in now

I bake the cakes for others to enjoy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been there many many times. Your mind wonders, and you really can't finish

Bad sex is like being at work watching the clock

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I just close my eyes, channel my inner porn star (I keep my shoes on) touch my nips,sigh rub my clit, sigh and Bob's your uncle! Job's a good un.

*Insert small talk here*

Exits centre stage.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Unfortunately yes.

I guess there are some you just are not sexually compatible with.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

We haven't come across that one lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and I don't even like cake

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Been there many many times. Your mind wonders, and you really can't finish

Bad sex is like being at work watching the clock

God, yes! X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just close my eyes, channel my inner porn star (I keep my shoes on) touch my nips,sigh rub my clit, sigh and Bob's your uncle! Job's a good un.

*Insert small talk here*

Exits centre stage.

Superstar

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unfortunately yes.

I guess there are some you just are not sexually compatible with."

True story x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We haven't come across that one lol "

Wow

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, and I don't even like cake

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I’ve got up and left halfway through.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah, I’ve got up and left halfway through."

To do your accounts?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

When I was younger yes.

When I first started on these kind of sites ( prior to FAB but also my early days on here) I had some less than satisfactory experiences yes.

However Ive grown and evolved over the last 3 years and now I know what works for me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, I’ve got up and left halfway through.

To do your accounts?"

For those wondering what she’s talking about, she’s convinced I’m an accountant.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just close my eyes, channel my inner porn star (I keep my shoes on) touch my nips,sigh rub my clit, sigh and Bob's your uncle! Job's a good un.

*Insert small talk here*

Exits centre stage.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got up and left too thankfully only the once though i have always been pretty lucky with meets

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Yes... Omg... That guy...!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be just me but is any sex boring, really!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep your describing my sex life with my ex husband, sadly going home having cake wasn't an option. "

Same here. Thank god things have changed for us x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I was younger yes.

When I first started on these kind of sites ( prior to FAB but also my early days on here) I had some less than satisfactory experiences yes.

However Ive grown and evolved over the last 3 years and now I know what works for me

Oh yes!

This for me too x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah, I’ve got up and left halfway through.

To do your accounts?

For those wondering what she’s talking about, she’s convinced I’m an accountant."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive got up and left too thankfully only the once though i have always been pretty lucky with meets

Mid thrust?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Might be just me but is any sex boring, really!

Yes it can be.

Especially in comparison to cake or pizza

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

"Yes, the time the guy we were with tell asleep

. Full on snoring and everything. I must be a real crap shag

"
lool

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Yep..I have known this feeling. I just put it behind me and forget about it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yep, been there!

Mrs TMN x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Have you ever had those kind of experiences where you are 'supposed ' to be enjoying yourself but just felt meh about it and wished you were at home eating cake by yourself?

Loads of my partners have said this

Oh, wait

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg yes a few times Chemistry is everything

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha I think its a rite of passage for us all to experience from time to time lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! Last time I started to count how many thrusts per minute

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Most night with hubby lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

When this happens i try to change hands.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Yes! Last time I started to count how many thrusts per minute

Is that what they mean by the rhythm method of contraception?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, I’ve got up and left halfway through."

me too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

"We haven't come across that one lol

Wow

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Have you ever had those kind of experiences where you are 'supposed ' to be enjoying yourself but just felt meh about it and wished you were at home eating cake by yourself?

Yep, usually after two many lambrinis and the room is starting to spin and you have that stunned fish vibe.

It’s climb on and climb off sex then.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"When I was younger yes.

When I first started on these kind of sites ( prior to FAB but also my early days on here) I had some less than satisfactory experiences yes.

However Ive grown and evolved over the last 3 years and now I know what works for me

Oh yes!

This for me too x"

Fuck sakes Poppins, just marry me now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Have you ever had those kind of experiences where you are 'supposed ' to be enjoying yourself but just felt meh about it and wished you were at home eating cake by yourself?

Yep, usually after two many lambrinis and the room is starting to spin and you have that stunned fish vibe.

It’s climb on and climb off sex then. "

Don't worry - if the room starts to spin - I'll tie you down to the bed.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"When I was younger yes.

When I first started on these kind of sites ( prior to FAB but also my early days on here) I had some less than satisfactory experiences yes.

However Ive grown and evolved over the last 3 years and now I know what works for me

Oh yes!

This for me too x

Fuck sakes Poppins, just marry me now

Can we be a thruple?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Yep, been there!

Mrs TMN x"

Sorry. Mr.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"When I was younger yes.

When I first started on these kind of sites ( prior to FAB but also my early days on here) I had some less than satisfactory experiences yes.

However Ive grown and evolved over the last 3 years and now I know what works for me

Fuck yes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

In my younger days before I met Mr, there was this one guy I invited back to my house. That was a mistake. He just didn't do it for me. I was pleased when it was time for him to leave.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Have you ever had those kind of experiences where you are 'supposed ' to be enjoying yourself but just felt meh about it and wished you were at home eating cake by yourself?

Loads of my partners have said this

Oh, wait

Do take cake as a back up

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

"Yes, the time the guy we were with tell asleep

. Full on snoring and everything. I must be a real crap shag

He obviously had no stamina, you must have been too much for him!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I love cake

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

One time.... At band camp.....

He seemed to think once was enough. With lots of effort on my part I proved him wrong.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

What cake are we talking about

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I’ve just stopped before now, someone you thought you were really in to, everything going good on a date & then in the sack nothing, may as well be a sack of potatoes for the feedback your getting.

That level of nothing has only happened a couple of times when younger luckily.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel awful for admitting this, but I once did my shopping list whilst in " the act".... It was so boring, uninspiring and "dead", I managed a 2 week list!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I feel awful for admitting this, but I once did my shopping list whilst in " the act".... It was so boring, uninspiring and "dead", I managed a 2 week list!

Were you on line shopping at the time lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I can't recall ever having been bored by sex.

I can only pray my partners feel the same way about me. Hah.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long time ago whilst at uni I got friendly with the guy who lived on the floor below.

I didn't fancy him much but we liked eachother and one evening he started to kiss me so I let him carry on to see if I got excited.

It was so boring as I think I was his 2nd one to have sex with (in his life) so he still didn't know what to do.. He was like a rabbit and kept on saying "fuck fuck"...

There was Alien movie on telly later on I was really looking forward to watch

I enjoyed the movie. At least.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt it amazing how different people think..a guy might think he's after giving a lady the ride of her life where the lady knows he'll never again get near her..suppose the thing here is maybe that any guy who might be lucky to get an opportunity to have sex with a lady ,the trick though is will he get another oppotunity ??..

...like l said a guys idea of great sex may not be anything like the ladys idea of great sex.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

cake

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once invited to a real nice couples house, electricity was in the air, conversation flowed brilliantly, the first kiss with her felt awkward...... Upstairs we went, slowly undressing... Lots of teasing and fantastic sex..... But the kissing never improved,such a shame..... I lurv the kissing side

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had those kind of experiences where you are 'supposed ' to be enjoying yourself but just felt meh about it and wished you were at home eating cake by yourself?

Loads of my partners have said this

Oh, wait

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times, but fortunately the vast majority of sex has been enjoyable.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Boring sex is sometimes better than no sex at all ,

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes it has happened a few times. Amazing what you end up thinking about tho.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t say that I have.

It’s never been ‘just sex’ for me and I think this is the difference.

I haven’t had sex with that many different women though so I’m yet to stumble on you boring ones.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Sadly, yes. Twice with the same guy.

I thought maybe that the first time he was off due to drink, but it actually turns out that lying on his back with his hands by his sides and doing sweet FA was his thing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once went down on a woman, who when I looked up was booking her grocery delivery slot with Asda,

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Yes years of it with ex wife.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lots of d*unken meaningless sex as a young man . I thought it was great at the time but in reality it probably wasn't the best.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Only a couple of times but yeah, it's so disappointing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With an old boyfriend years ago. We should have split up a year before we did. This is why I had my first swing. It was with a chubby guy twice my age, but still better than my ex. Xxxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"When I was younger yes.

When I first started on these kind of sites ( prior to FAB but also my early days on here) I had some less than satisfactory experiences yes.

However Ive grown and evolved over the last 3 years and now I know what works for me

Pretty much like this as well

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I once went down on a woman, who when I looked up was booking her grocery delivery slot with Asda, "

That made me chuckle.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might be just me but is any sex boring, really!

Yes it can be.

Especially in comparison to cake or pizza

Wouldn't bother me if you had it at the same time!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever had those kind of experiences where you are 'supposed ' to be enjoying yourself but just felt meh about it and wished you were at home eating cake by yourself?

Yes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Boring sex is sometimes better than no sex at all ,

Really? I just end up feeling frustrated so I'd rather go without. Thankfully i don't have to.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Boring sex is sometimes better than no sex at all ,

Lol not true

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Boring sex is sometimes better than no sex at all ,

Lol not true"

id rather not have sex if its not mind blowing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

Yep.

I got dressed and left. I have no time for this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?"

I’d argue that it’s the complete opposite.

If you have experienced it then you’re probably the person to blame.

You decided that person was worth having sex with and you’re part of the sex.

Say I was having sex with the op, she’s riding me all cow girl and stuff but it’s just not doing it for me so I reach up and pull her down and kiss her passionately whilst then having her in a position where I can then thrust up with her movements so I can now help show her what I like, all the time gauging how she’s reacting so that I can make sure she’s enjoying it too which is usually the thing that turns me on the most.

If that’s not working I’ll just flip her over and do her from behind whilst thinking about Victoria coren Mitchell.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?

I’d argue that it’s the complete opposite.

If you have experienced it then you’re probably the person to blame.

You decided that person was worth having sex with and you’re part of the sex.

If that’s not working I’ll just flip her over and do her from behind whilst thinking about Victoria coren Mitchell."

I was thinking it takes two to tango so whichever one you are 50% of the blame lies with you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much every time I’ve met someone from this site for sex.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?

I’d argue that it’s the complete opposite.

If you have experienced it then you’re probably the person to blame.

You decided that person was worth having sex with and you’re part of the sex.

If that’s not working I’ll just flip her over and do her from behind whilst thinking about Victoria coren Mitchell.

I was thinking it takes two to tango so whichever one you are 50% of the blame lies with you."

Exactly

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?

I’d argue that it’s the complete opposite.

If you have experienced it then you’re probably the person to blame.

You decided that person was worth having sex with and you’re part of the sex.

If that’s not working I’ll just flip her over and do her from behind whilst thinking about Victoria coren Mitchell."

I reckon Victoria is like a sack of potatoes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?

I’d argue that it’s the complete opposite.

If you have experienced it then you’re probably the person to blame.

You decided that person was worth having sex with and you’re part of the sex.

If that’s not working I’ll just flip her over and do her from behind whilst thinking about Victoria coren Mitchell.

I reckon Victoria is like a sack of potatoes

Take that back.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Shant

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?

I’d argue that it’s the complete opposite.

If you have experienced it then you’re probably the person to blame.

You decided that person was worth having sex with and you’re part of the sex.

If that’s not working I’ll just flip her over and do her from behind whilst thinking about Victoria coren Mitchell."

What a hero

yeah you show em what they’re missing lol

But alright yes it does take (at least) two people to be into each other, if one person is bored then the fault is with both for letting it get that far.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *riday10Man
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"I reckon Victoria is like a sack of potatoes

A sack of potatoes would make for a few meals at least

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?

I’d argue that it’s the complete opposite.

If you have experienced it then you’re probably the person to blame.

You decided that person was worth having sex with and you’re part of the sex.

If that’s not working I’ll just flip her over and do her from behind whilst thinking about Victoria coren Mitchell.

What a hero

yeah you show em what they’re missing lol

But alright yes it does take (at least) two people to be into each other, if one person is bored then the fault is with both for letting it get that far."

So you agree but still decided you needed to get an uncalled for dig in at my explanation.

It doesn’t even make sense.

When did I make any reference to ‘what they are missing’?

You’re the fucking hero by the sounds of that response.

Go you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?

I’d argue that it’s the complete opposite.

If you have experienced it then you’re probably the person to blame.

You decided that person was worth having sex with and you’re part of the sex.

If that’s not working I’ll just flip her over and do her from behind whilst thinking about Victoria coren Mitchell.

What a hero

yeah you show em what they’re missing lol

But alright yes it does take (at least) two people to be into each other, if one person is bored then the fault is with both for letting it get that far.

So you agree but still decided you needed to get an uncalled for dig in at my explanation.

It doesn’t even make sense.

When did I make any reference to ‘what they are missing’?

You’re the fucking hero by the sounds of that response.

Go you."

Blimey that escalated quickly lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Phew... my name hasn't appeared on here yet! Haha

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?"

I have crap sex all the time. I must be amaaaaazing in bed!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?"

I don't think it's as black and white as that

Like most of life, I think it comes down to communication. Most of my bad experiences were one night stands when I was younger - I didn't have to confidence to ask for what I wanted or suggest something different. If someone's pulling out what they think are their best moves, I still find it awkward if it's just not working for me, as I don't want to hurt their feelings! It's definitely something I've got better at, though

Mrs TMN x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Is this one of those things where if you've not experienced it then you're probably the person in question?

I’d argue that it’s the complete opposite.

If you have experienced it then you’re probably the person to blame.

You decided that person was worth having sex with and you’re part of the sex.

If that’s not working I’ll just flip her over and do her from behind whilst thinking about Victoria coren Mitchell.

I was thinking it takes two to tango so whichever one you are 50% of the blame lies with you."

With some it’s a head thing though. I went out with someone that as soon as we would get amorous would play with herself. No problem except it was every time, all the time, Even in missionary, position & how awkward didn’t matter. gently try & move her hand & all hell would break loose.

After her giving odd reasons for it I talked to her long term previous who was a friend of a friend & quietly asked.

He turned around & said during a row she said she did it so no man could say he gave her pleasure, It was a control thing, he was a secondary consideration.

It’s not always about the physical.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup i had one shockingly bad weekend away. He was boring and patronising. The sex was shocking. I couldn’t wait to get it over with

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

This is why it's best to arrange two meets a day, you're doubling your chances of a knee trembler.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - normally when handjobs are involved.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Sadly yes

Mind you, cake is a tough act to follow though....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread