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Be nice people or don't but my eyes are starting to hurt.
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Let’s all be nice!! | |||
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"I love a good eye roll and think it is good for the soul. "I think I've already seen the inner workings of my brain this morning, that's normally a Monday morning thing  | |||
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"I've usually muttered FFS 10 times before I leave for work "Snap! | |||
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yep I just logged onto Fab and I've eye rolled several times already.
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"I love a good eye roll and think it is good for the soul. "Agreed 
It's often much better than the alternative | |||
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" yep I just logged onto Fab and I've eye rolled several times already.
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"Seen a few unnecessary comments in the forums today which have produced many eye rolls alone
Let’s all be nice!!"If only it were simple. | |||
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" yep I just logged onto Fab and I've eye rolled several times already.
"Come join me in the eye rolling corner, I'm having a bet on far down the road mine can go | |||
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Maybe it's the lockdown effect again x | |||
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"Oh I've had a full on angry rant already. That was before 09.30 too "Oh wow! Do you have coffee? | |||
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"More people should just eye roll and move on. It's a much more easier way to be
Maybe it's the lockdown effect again x"Imagine just adding am eyeroll, no comment on all those threads | |||
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"More people should just eye roll and move on. It's a much more easier way to be
Maybe it's the lockdown effect again x
Imagine just adding am eyeroll, no comment on all those threads "Don't imagine it. Do it  | |||
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"More people should just eye roll and move on. It's a much more easier way to be
Maybe it's the lockdown effect again x
Imagine just adding am eyeroll, no comment on all those threads
Don't imagine it. Do it " | |||
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"More people should just eye roll and move on. It's a much more easier way to be
Maybe it's the lockdown effect again x
Imagine just adding am eyeroll, no comment on all those threads
Don't imagine it. Do it
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I don't like it | |||
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"More people should just eye roll and move on. It's a much more easier way to be
Maybe it's the lockdown effect again x
Imagine just adding am eyeroll, no comment on all those threads
Don't imagine it. Do it
Omg it is so rude
I don't like it " | |||
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" yep I just logged onto Fab and I've eye rolled several times already.
"Great exercise for the eyes mind | |||
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"Oh I've had a full on angry rant already. That was before 09.30 too "Stay off the virus forum | |||
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"I suppose rolling them is better than poking people in them?" love this! | |||
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?' " | |||
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"Oh I've had a full on angry rant already. That was before 09.30 too
Stay off the virus forum "I briefly looked this morning and ran away very quickly and I don’t run | |||
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"Oh I've had a full on angry rant already. That was before 09.30 too
Stay off the virus forum
I briefly looked this morning and ran away very quickly and I don’t run " | |||
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"Sounds like the name of a sandwich made by apple. #iRoll" | |||
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?' "Yep! I do that too! | |||
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"Sounds like the name of a sandwich made by apple. #iRoll" | |||
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"Oh I've had a full on angry rant already. That was before 09.30 too
Oh wow! Do you have coffee? "I need coffee but only had tea so far. Trying to simmer down here | |||
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"Oh I've had a full on angry rant already. That was before 09.30 too
Oh wow! Do you have coffee?
I need coffee but only had tea so far. Trying to simmer down here "Coffee helps, trust me! Hope your okay though xx | |||
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?'
Yep! I do that too! "Oh yesssss, ain't that the truth! | |||
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?'
Yep! I do that too!
Oh yesssss, ain't that the truth! "Do we start up a 'FFS Club'? | |||
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?'
Yep! I do that too!
Oh yesssss, ain't that the truth!
Do we start up a 'FFS Club'? "Yes! | |||
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?'
Yep! I do that too!
Oh yesssss, ain't that the truth!
Do we start up a 'FFS Club'?
Yes! "And then await the bans.  | |||
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"The good thing about the eyeroll and the internet is no one sees it. I don't mean the emoji, I mean actually rolling eyes and keeping hands off keyboard." Yep! | |||
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"Update: had coffee. Feel a bit better."  | |||
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"Update: had coffee. Feel a bit better." I'm about to have a coffee | |||
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"Update: had coffee. Feel a bit better. I'm about to have a coffee "Coffee fixes everything | |||
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"I went out and left my phone at home, gave my eyes a little rest from the constant exercise Not very lighthearted here atm is it! Jo xx" We all need an eyeroll break sometimes and cake! Cake is always good too | |||
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"I want cake." Fucks sake I've not got any cake, eye roll | |||
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"I want cake. So do I now "Fortunately it's plaguey out there and I don't have any | |||
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"I just looked at local updates, and saw a status update looking for a 'fuck and go meet' - for tonight... ....er, lockdown? " | |||
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"How many eyes will roll if tell a joke?  "Knowing your jokes - not enough. | |||
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?'
Yep! I do that too!
Oh yesssss, ain't that the truth!
Do we start up a 'FFS Club'?
Yes! "
Yes!!! Do it and we can laugh!!! And laugh and say Ffs, really???!
Loads!!!
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?'
Yep! I do that too!
Oh yesssss, ain't that the truth!
Do we start up a 'FFS Club'?
Yes!
Yes!!! Do it and we can laugh!!! And laugh and say Ffs, really???!
Loads!!!
And laugh more!!! "Ffs, what about laughing, are we allowed to laugh???  | |||
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"How many eyes will roll if tell a joke? "I like the fact you know they are crap | |||
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"Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (what?) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (come on) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (yeah) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin'" I like your avatar, you look primed for a good pegging. | |||
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"Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (what?) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (come on) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (yeah) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' I like your avatar, you look primed for a good pegging. " | |||
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"Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (what?) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (come on) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (yeah) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' I like your avatar, you look primed for a good pegging.
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"Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (what?) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (come on) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' (yeah) Keep rollin' rollin' rollin' rollin' I like your avatar, you look primed for a good pegging.
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"I dropped my lunch on the floor with resulted in a massive FFS. Other than that I'm actually quite good ta OP, something I've been working on for a while has suddenly worked and I'm a tiny bit excited "I sploshed tomato based pasta sauce from my lunch on my white t-shirt, right in the centre between the boobs. I'm currently attempting Operation Baby Wipe to stop myself looking like a scruff for my 2pm meeting | |||
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"I dropped my lunch on the floor with resulted in a massive FFS. Other than that I'm actually quite good ta OP, something I've been working on for a while has suddenly worked and I'm a tiny bit excited
I sploshed tomato based pasta sauce from my lunch on my white t-shirt, right in the centre between the boobs. I'm currently attempting Operation Baby Wipe to stop myself looking like a scruff for my 2pm meeting "That's the kind of thing I do, I have an emergency scarf in work for such occasions lol | |||
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"I dropped my lunch on the floor with resulted in a massive FFS. Other than that I'm actually quite good ta OP, something I've been working on for a while has suddenly worked and I'm a tiny bit excited
I sploshed tomato based pasta sauce from my lunch on my white t-shirt, right in the centre between the boobs. I'm currently attempting Operation Baby Wipe to stop myself looking like a scruff for my 2pm meeting
That's the kind of thing I do, I have an emergency scarf in work for such occasions lol "Problem is, my boobs are pretty fucking prominent in the Teams video window | |||
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"I dropped my lunch on the floor with resulted in a massive FFS. Other than that I'm actually quite good ta OP, something I've been working on for a while has suddenly worked and I'm a tiny bit excited
I sploshed tomato based pasta sauce from my lunch on my white t-shirt, right in the centre between the boobs. I'm currently attempting Operation Baby Wipe to stop myself looking like a scruff for my 2pm meeting
That's the kind of thing I do, I have an emergency scarf in work for such occasions lol
Problem is, my boobs are pretty fucking prominent in the Teams video window "Ooh err missus  | |||
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"I dropped my lunch on the floor with resulted in a massive FFS. Other than that I'm actually quite good ta OP, something I've been working on for a while has suddenly worked and I'm a tiny bit excited
I sploshed tomato based pasta sauce from my lunch on my white t-shirt, right in the centre between the boobs. I'm currently attempting Operation Baby Wipe to stop myself looking like a scruff for my 2pm meeting
That's the kind of thing I do, I have an emergency scarf in work for such occasions lol
Problem is, my boobs are pretty fucking prominent in the Teams video window "Omg so glad it's not just me, seriously in some meetings the screen is mainly my cleavage | |||
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"I keep typing replies on some of the threads and then deleting them.. What is the point ffs... But it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone Tip of the day.. If it triggers you, just pass it by and let it be.. Be kind to yourself lol, you don't need that crap in your life! " Nail well and truly hit on the head there!! Guess what? It's a forum...on the internet...people are going to disagree and shock horror hold different opinions to you. There *are* far more important things in life to worry about. All this "be nice/kind" stuff is unnecessary - it's not the school playground, although it feels like it sometimes, we're all adults (although sometimes I question that too) people do behave differently and hold different opinions and are perfectly entitled to express them, if you don't like them either ignore them, or if necessary have an adult conversation about why you disagree with them - yes we all eye roll at things on here at times and sometimes with justification but getting hot under the collar about it is just not worth it. Yes we should all strive to be considerate and respectful of others but constantly telling and expecting others to "be nice" wears a little thin, it's not needed, it won't change those that deliberately set out to be disruptive or who hold a different view to you - so you just have to accept it happens and realise the world isn't all fluff and rainbows. And you can eye roll all you like at that - in fact have a few on me
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"The eye rolling emoji is the preserve of the Passive Aggressive who likes to frown on what others say and do so whilst imagining that it is better to eye roll than to say what they think or feel. Thing is ..... they post the eye roll so others CAN see it. The greater part of communication is through bodily language. Eye rolling shows your disease and displeasure. So .... is the eye roller any 'nicer' or 'less negative' ..... than the word user?? Not in my book. " All of this. It’s the same people who say ‘I’ll get the popcorn!’. They haven’t got the bollocks to say anything themselves, but want to stir up the shit and sit back watch it unfold. | |||
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"How many eyes will roll if tell a joke?
Knowing your jokes - not enough. "Haha I will never surrender | |||
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"How many eyes will roll if tell a joke?
Knowing your jokes - not enough.
Haha I will never surrender " | |||
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?'
Yep! I do that too! "Yesterday I gave myself an ocular migraine from eyerolling some of the utter provoking bollocks written on these forums. | |||
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"I dropped my lunch on the floor with resulted in a massive FFS. Other than that I'm actually quite good ta OP, something I've been working on for a while has suddenly worked and I'm a tiny bit excited
I sploshed tomato based pasta sauce from my lunch on my white t-shirt, right in the centre between the boobs. I'm currently attempting Operation Baby Wipe to stop myself looking like a scruff for my 2pm meeting "I need to know how Operation Baby Wipe worked out now.... | |||
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?'
Yep! I do that too!
Yesterday I gave myself an ocular migraine from eyerolling some of the utter provoking bollocks written on these forums. "Doctor Chunky at your service. | |||
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"I dropped my lunch on the floor with resulted in a massive FFS. Other than that I'm actually quite good ta OP, something I've been working on for a while has suddenly worked and I'm a tiny bit excited
I sploshed tomato based pasta sauce from my lunch on my white t-shirt, right in the centre between the boobs. I'm currently attempting Operation Baby Wipe to stop myself looking like a scruff for my 2pm meeting
I need to know how Operation Baby Wipe worked out now...."Overt tomato stain is diminished. Slight discolouration visible to me, but colleague assures me not visible on camera. I shoved my boobs at him in a 1:1 call to check. Operation Vanish Stain Remover required later | |||
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"I want cake. Fucks sake I've not got any cake, eye roll "Did you get cake? | |||
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"I'm probably far 'too easy going', but there are couple of people,on the site that i only have to see their name and I'm asking myself 'ffs, what have they written now?'
Yep! I do that too!
Yesterday I gave myself an ocular migraine from eyerolling some of the utter provoking bollocks written on these forums. "Ooo that sounds painful! be careful with those lovely eyes of yours  | |||
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Today is getting better with every minute closer to knocking off. | |||
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"My Friday is going brilliantly OP, thanks for asking. Sometimes I do eyeroll at certain threads/posts/words and yeah, sometimes I think ffs but then I try and remember people sometimes don't have much going on in their lives/need here for a sort of emotional crutch and I quickly think what's the point OR message a friend asking if they've seen the latest hypocritical crap. A few seconds later I'm fine. " Good friends help the world go round | |||
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"I dropped my lunch on the floor with resulted in a massive FFS. Other than that I'm actually quite good ta OP, something I've been working on for a while has suddenly worked and I'm a tiny bit excited "That's brilliant lovely! | |||
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"I dropped my lunch on the floor with resulted in a massive FFS. Other than that I'm actually quite good ta OP, something I've been working on for a while has suddenly worked and I'm a tiny bit excited
I sploshed tomato based pasta sauce from my lunch on my white t-shirt, right in the centre between the boobs. I'm currently attempting Operation Baby Wipe to stop myself looking like a scruff for my 2pm meeting
I need to know how Operation Baby Wipe worked out now....
Overt tomato stain is diminished. Slight discolouration visible to me, but colleague assures me not visible on camera. I shoved my boobs at him in a 1:1 call to check. Operation Vanish Stain Remover required later "I was worried. Bet your colleague was *so* upset at needing to check for you though | |||
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"I keep typing replies on some of the threads and then deleting them.. What is the point ffs... But it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone Tip of the day.. If it triggers you, just pass it by and let it be.. Be kind to yourself lol, you don't need that crap in your life! Nail well and truly hit on the head there!! Guess what? It's a forum...on the internet...people are going to disagree and shock horror hold different opinions to you. There *are* far more important things in life to worry about. All this "be nice/kind" stuff is unnecessary - it's not the school playground, although it feels like it sometimes, we're all adults (although sometimes I question that too) people do behave differently and hold different opinions and are perfectly entitled to express them, if you don't like them either ignore them, or if necessary have an adult conversation about why you disagree with them - yes we all eye roll at things on here at times and sometimes with justification but getting hot under the collar about it is just not worth it. Yes we should all strive to be considerate and respectful of others but constantly telling and expecting others to "be nice" wears a little thin, it's not needed, it won't change those that deliberately set out to be disruptive or who hold a different view to you - so you just have to accept it happens and realise the world isn't all fluff and rainbows. And you can eye roll all you like at that - in fact have a few on me
I will eyeroll you. No it isnt fluff and rainbows but there are trolls and bullies wrapped up in nice little bodies with good tits so no one bats an eye lid. The ones purposefully provoking people to get wound or upset should be dealt with way more than they are "As I said, eye roll all you like - it won't change my views as stated above - including that eye rolling and "be nice/kind" won't change a thing when it comes to those that are deliberately provocative. Yes, they should be dealt with where appropriate, nowhere in my post did I suggest they shouldn't, but it also, most of the time, comes down to individual interpretation of what is appropriate and that, a lot of the time, is subjective and comes back to what I said about differing opinions, and accepting that others hold them, and the choice to either ignore those you disagree with, challenge them in an adult way, or if you believe it necessary reporting it so admin can take a view and act if necessary. I say again, eye rolling and calling for people to "be nice/kind" won't change a thing, and as the post I originally responded to so eloquently stated: "it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone" | |||
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"I keep typing replies on some of the threads and then deleting them.. What is the point ffs... But it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone Tip of the day.. If it triggers you, just pass it by and let it be.. Be kind to yourself lol, you don't need that crap in your life! Nail well and truly hit on the head there!! Guess what? It's a forum...on the internet...people are going to disagree and shock horror hold different opinions to you. There *are* far more important things in life to worry about. All this "be nice/kind" stuff is unnecessary - it's not the school playground, although it feels like it sometimes, we're all adults (although sometimes I question that too) people do behave differently and hold different opinions and are perfectly entitled to express them, if you don't like them either ignore them, or if necessary have an adult conversation about why you disagree with them - yes we all eye roll at things on here at times and sometimes with justification but getting hot under the collar about it is just not worth it. Yes we should all strive to be considerate and respectful of others but constantly telling and expecting others to "be nice" wears a little thin, it's not needed, it won't change those that deliberately set out to be disruptive or who hold a different view to you - so you just have to accept it happens and realise the world isn't all fluff and rainbows. And you can eye roll all you like at that - in fact have a few on me
I will eyeroll you. No it isnt fluff and rainbows but there are trolls and bullies wrapped up in nice little bodies with good tits so no one bats an eye lid. The ones purposefully provoking people to get wound or upset should be dealt with way more than they are
As I said, eye roll all you like - it won't change my views as stated above - including that eye rolling and "be nice/kind" won't change a thing when it comes to those that are deliberately provocative.
Yes, they should be dealt with where appropriate, nowhere in my post did I suggest they shouldn't, but it also, most of the time, comes down to individual interpretation of what is appropriate and that, a lot of the time, is subjective and comes back to what I said about differing opinions, and accepting that others hold them, and the choice to either ignore those you disagree with, challenge them in an adult way, or if you believe it necessary reporting it so admin can take a view and act if necessary.
I say again, eye rolling and calling for people to "be nice/kind" won't change a thing, and as the post I originally responded to so eloquently stated:
"it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone""I personally think it is a bit sad to disregard the be kind statement, but maybe you preferred a time when people were told to man up and get over it. The world is a wank enough place at the moment and many folks come on here to have some escape where they are then lambasted by certain people for no good reason other than sport. When it is bullying or trolling it should NEVER be brushed over. Yes you can scroll passed and ignore as it won't feed them but sometimes it grates on that insecurity you have. | |||
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"I keep typing replies on some of the threads and then deleting them.. What is the point ffs... But it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone Tip of the day.. If it triggers you, just pass it by and let it be.. Be kind to yourself lol, you don't need that crap in your life! Nail well and truly hit on the head there!! Guess what? It's a forum...on the internet...people are going to disagree and shock horror hold different opinions to you. There *are* far more important things in life to worry about. All this "be nice/kind" stuff is unnecessary - it's not the school playground, although it feels like it sometimes, we're all adults (although sometimes I question that too) people do behave differently and hold different opinions and are perfectly entitled to express them, if you don't like them either ignore them, or if necessary have an adult conversation about why you disagree with them - yes we all eye roll at things on here at times and sometimes with justification but getting hot under the collar about it is just not worth it. Yes we should all strive to be considerate and respectful of others but constantly telling and expecting others to "be nice" wears a little thin, it's not needed, it won't change those that deliberately set out to be disruptive or who hold a different view to you - so you just have to accept it happens and realise the world isn't all fluff and rainbows. And you can eye roll all you like at that - in fact have a few on me
I will eyeroll you. No it isnt fluff and rainbows but there are trolls and bullies wrapped up in nice little bodies with good tits so no one bats an eye lid. The ones purposefully provoking people to get wound or upset should be dealt with way more than they are
As I said, eye roll all you like - it won't change my views as stated above - including that eye rolling and "be nice/kind" won't change a thing when it comes to those that are deliberately provocative.
Yes, they should be dealt with where appropriate, nowhere in my post did I suggest they shouldn't, but it also, most of the time, comes down to individual interpretation of what is appropriate and that, a lot of the time, is subjective and comes back to what I said about differing opinions, and accepting that others hold them, and the choice to either ignore those you disagree with, challenge them in an adult way, or if you believe it necessary reporting it so admin can take a view and act if necessary.
I say again, eye rolling and calling for people to "be nice/kind" won't change a thing, and as the post I originally responded to so eloquently stated:
"it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone"
I personally think it is a bit sad to disregard the be kind statement, but maybe you preferred a time when people were told to man up and get over it. The world is a wank enough place at the moment and many folks come on here to have some escape where they are then lambasted by certain people for no good reason other than sport.
When it is bullying or trolling it should NEVER be brushed over.
Yes you can scroll passed and ignore as it won't feed them but sometimes it grates on that insecurity you have.
"I haven't disregarded it - in fact in my original post I made it very clear that "we should all strive to be considerate and respectful of others" which is essentially the same thing - what I said was constantly being told to "be nice/kind" wears a little thin - being nice or kind should be a basic tenet each one of us strives for - it's called human decency, and no not everyone manages it, or even manages it 100% of the time. There are also people that portray a "butter wouldn't melt" image publically who privately are somewhat different and frankly I'd be more concerned about those people than those who are consistent regardless even if you disagree with their views. As for "maybe you preferred a time when people were told to man up and get over it"? How on earth do you conclude that from anything I've said? There's a world of difference between being realistic about life and understanding that sometimes you just have to accept things the way they are and what you've suggested - I learned to pick my fights as you can't win them all - and frankly the words I don't like of others on an internet forum is one fight it's not worth fighting. I agree true bullying and trolling should never be brushed over but also far too often cries of "bully" and "troll" are thrown about just because someone offers a different opinion, and it comes back to a subjective thing when that happens. Either way it still boils down to what can you do about it when you perceive it to happen? Basically one of three things: - Ignore it - Report it - Challenge it in an adult way if necessary and possible None of those are brushing over it, even ignoring isn't - true trolls/bullies crave the attention so by not giving it to them you're brushing them aside rather than over them. | |||
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"Yes it's a forum, yes it's not the end of the world, yes we can by pass anything we don't like and yes just because I asked people to be nice doesn't mean they are going to. No one had to read or reply to this. I had a moan then asked how everyone's day was going, that's all. I won't get all woe is me because I know people don't give a shit but I've had a really shitty week and come here for a bit of an escape from reality to find a lot of sniping basically. The eyeroll comments were a giggle to begin with, I'll apologise for having a sense of humour and go back to being a miserable cow "Much love xxx | |||
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"Yes it's a forum, yes it's not the end of the world, yes we can by pass anything we don't like and yes just because I asked people to be nice doesn't mean they are going to. No one had to read or reply to this. I had a moan then asked how everyone's day was going, that's all. I won't get all woe is me because I know people don't give a shit but I've had a really shitty week and come here for a bit of an escape from reality to find a lot of sniping basically. The eyeroll comments were a giggle to begin with, I'll apologise for having a sense of humour and go back to being a miserable cow
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I know I should be more active with my old positive posts but in truth my happy mojo has gone.
So I log on say hello to a few and disappear again.
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"I have hardly been on here due to the s for about 6 weeks or so.
I know I should be more active with my old positive posts but in truth my happy mojo has gone.
So I log on say hello to a few and disappear again.
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"I have hardly been on here due to the s for about 6 weeks or so.
I know I should be more active with my old positive posts but in truth my happy mojo has gone.
So I log on say hello to a few and disappear again.
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"I have hardly been on here due to the s for about 6 weeks or so.
I know I should be more active with my old positive posts but in truth my happy mojo has gone.
So I log on say hello to a few and disappear again.
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"I have hardly been on here due to the s for about 6 weeks or so.
I know I should be more active with my old positive posts but in truth my happy mojo has gone.
So I log on say hello to a few and disappear again.
Hugs to you Sparkles
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"I have hardly been on here due to the s for about 6 weeks or so.
I know I should be more active with my old positive posts but in truth my happy mojo has gone.
So I log on say hello to a few and disappear again.
Hugs to you Sparkles
Nice to see you"Funnily enough with my big chin I could be Bruce Forsyth's love child
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"I have hardly been on here due to the s for about 6 weeks or so.
I know I should be more active with my old positive posts but in truth my happy mojo has gone.
So I log on say hello to a few and disappear again.
Hugs to you Sparkles
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"I keep typing replies on some of the threads and then deleting them.. What is the point ffs... But it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone Tip of the day.. If it triggers you, just pass it by and let it be.. Be kind to yourself lol, you don't need that crap in your life! Nail well and truly hit on the head there!! Guess what? It's a forum...on the internet...people are going to disagree and shock horror hold different opinions to you. There *are* far more important things in life to worry about. All this "be nice/kind" stuff is unnecessary - it's not the school playground, although it feels like it sometimes, we're all adults (although sometimes I question that too) people do behave differently and hold different opinions and are perfectly entitled to express them, if you don't like them either ignore them, or if necessary have an adult conversation about why you disagree with them - yes we all eye roll at things on here at times and sometimes with justification but getting hot under the collar about it is just not worth it. Yes we should all strive to be considerate and respectful of others but constantly telling and expecting others to "be nice" wears a little thin, it's not needed, it won't change those that deliberately set out to be disruptive or who hold a different view to you - so you just have to accept it happens and realise the world isn't all fluff and rainbows. And you can eye roll all you like at that - in fact have a few on me
I will eyeroll you. No it isnt fluff and rainbows but there are trolls and bullies wrapped up in nice little bodies with good tits so no one bats an eye lid. The ones purposefully provoking people to get wound or upset should be dealt with way more than they are
As I said, eye roll all you like - it won't change my views as stated above - including that eye rolling and "be nice/kind" won't change a thing when it comes to those that are deliberately provocative.
Yes, they should be dealt with where appropriate, nowhere in my post did I suggest they shouldn't, but it also, most of the time, comes down to individual interpretation of what is appropriate and that, a lot of the time, is subjective and comes back to what I said about differing opinions, and accepting that others hold them, and the choice to either ignore those you disagree with, challenge them in an adult way, or if you believe it necessary reporting it so admin can take a view and act if necessary.
I say again, eye rolling and calling for people to "be nice/kind" won't change a thing, and as the post I originally responded to so eloquently stated:
"it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone"
I personally think it is a bit sad to disregard the be kind statement, but maybe you preferred a time when people were told to man up and get over it. The world is a wank enough place at the moment and many folks come on here to have some escape where they are then lambasted by certain people for no good reason other than sport.
When it is bullying or trolling it should NEVER be brushed over.
Yes you can scroll passed and ignore as it won't feed them but sometimes it grates on that insecurity you have.
I haven't disregarded it - in fact in my original post I made it very clear that "we should all strive to be considerate and respectful of others" which is essentially the same thing - what I said was constantly being told to "be nice/kind" wears a little thin - being nice or kind should be a basic tenet each one of us strives for - it's called human decency, and no not everyone manages it, or even manages it 100% of the time.
There are also people that portray a "butter wouldn't melt" image publically who privately are somewhat different and frankly I'd be more concerned about those people than those who are consistent regardless even if you disagree with their views.
As for "maybe you preferred a time when people were told to man up and get over it"? How on earth do you conclude that from anything I've said? There's a world of difference between being realistic about life and understanding that sometimes you just have to accept things the way they are and what you've suggested - I learned to pick my fights as you can't win them all - and frankly the words I don't like of others on an internet forum is one fight it's not worth fighting.
I agree true bullying and trolling should never be brushed over but also far too often cries of "bully" and "troll" are thrown about just because someone offers a different opinion, and it comes back to a subjective thing when that happens.
Either way it still boils down to what can you do about it when you perceive it to happen? Basically one of three things:
- Ignore it
- Report it
- Challenge it in an adult way if necessary and possible
None of those are brushing over it, even ignoring isn't - true trolls/bullies crave the attention so by not giving it to them you're brushing them aside rather than over them.
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"I have hardly been on here due to the s for about 6 weeks or so.
I know I should be more active with my old positive posts but in truth my happy mojo has gone.
So I log on say hello to a few and disappear again.
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"I keep typing replies on some of the threads and then deleting them.. What is the point ffs... But it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone Tip of the day.. If it triggers you, just pass it by and let it be.. Be kind to yourself lol, you don't need that crap in your life! Nail well and truly hit on the head there!! Guess what? It's a forum...on the internet...people are going to disagree and shock horror hold different opinions to you. There *are* far more important things in life to worry about. All this "be nice/kind" stuff is unnecessary - it's not the school playground, although it feels like it sometimes, we're all adults (although sometimes I question that too) people do behave differently and hold different opinions and are perfectly entitled to express them, if you don't like them either ignore them, or if necessary have an adult conversation about why you disagree with them - yes we all eye roll at things on here at times and sometimes with justification but getting hot under the collar about it is just not worth it. Yes we should all strive to be considerate and respectful of others but constantly telling and expecting others to "be nice" wears a little thin, it's not needed, it won't change those that deliberately set out to be disruptive or who hold a different view to you - so you just have to accept it happens and realise the world isn't all fluff and rainbows. And you can eye roll all you like at that - in fact have a few on me
I will eyeroll you. No it isnt fluff and rainbows but there are trolls and bullies wrapped up in nice little bodies with good tits so no one bats an eye lid. The ones purposefully provoking people to get wound or upset should be dealt with way more than they are
As I said, eye roll all you like - it won't change my views as stated above - including that eye rolling and "be nice/kind" won't change a thing when it comes to those that are deliberately provocative.
Yes, they should be dealt with where appropriate, nowhere in my post did I suggest they shouldn't, but it also, most of the time, comes down to individual interpretation of what is appropriate and that, a lot of the time, is subjective and comes back to what I said about differing opinions, and accepting that others hold them, and the choice to either ignore those you disagree with, challenge them in an adult way, or if you believe it necessary reporting it so admin can take a view and act if necessary.
I say again, eye rolling and calling for people to "be nice/kind" won't change a thing, and as the post I originally responded to so eloquently stated:
"it's only a forum, bigger things in life to worry about without sweating the small or ridiculous stuff.. Peace out everyone"
I personally think it is a bit sad to disregard the be kind statement, but maybe you preferred a time when people were told to man up and get over it. The world is a wank enough place at the moment and many folks come on here to have some escape where they are then lambasted by certain people for no good reason other than sport.
When it is bullying or trolling it should NEVER be brushed over.
Yes you can scroll passed and ignore as it won't feed them but sometimes it grates on that insecurity you have.
I haven't disregarded it - in fact in my original post I made it very clear that "we should all strive to be considerate and respectful of others" which is essentially the same thing - what I said was constantly being told to "be nice/kind" wears a little thin - being nice or kind should be a basic tenet each one of us strives for - it's called human decency, and no not everyone manages it, or even manages it 100% of the time.
There are also people that portray a "butter wouldn't melt" image publically who privately are somewhat different and frankly I'd be more concerned about those people than those who are consistent regardless even if you disagree with their views.
As for "maybe you preferred a time when people were told to man up and get over it"? How on earth do you conclude that from anything I've said? There's a world of difference between being realistic about life and understanding that sometimes you just have to accept things the way they are and what you've suggested - I learned to pick my fights as you can't win them all - and frankly the words I don't like of others on an internet forum is one fight it's not worth fighting.
I agree true bullying and trolling should never be brushed over but also far too often cries of "bully" and "troll" are thrown about just because someone offers a different opinion, and it comes back to a subjective thing when that happens.
Either way it still boils down to what can you do about it when you perceive it to happen? Basically one of three things:
- Ignore it
- Report it
- Challenge it in an adult way if necessary and possible
None of those are brushing over it, even ignoring isn't - true trolls/bullies crave the attention so by not giving it to them you're brushing them aside rather than over them.
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I know I should be more active with my old positive posts but in truth my happy mojo has gone.
So I log on say hello to a few and disappear again.
Hugs to you Sparkles
Hello Hope, we miss you
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