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Eat the cake ladies! (And men)
Your weight doesn't define you. Being slim doesn't make you beautiful or confident!
 
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"Page 14... You're beautiful just the way you are! Page 15...How to lose weight fast! Page 16...chocolate cake recipe
Eat the cake ladies! (And men)
Your weight doesn't define you. Being slim doesn't make you beautiful or confident!
Lu "Absofuckinlutely Lu , well said | |||
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"You are berating women's mags for telling them how to be but doing the same thing. " Not even close... I'm encouraging them to eat/do whatever the fuck they want to...not what anyone else says they should. | |||
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"Page 14... You're beautiful just the way you are! Page 15...How to lose weight fast! Page 16...chocolate cake recipe
Eat the cake ladies! (And men)
Your weight doesn't define you. Being slim doesn't make you beautiful or confident!
Lu "
I think those womens magazines like heat etc are horrendous
Oh look x has put on a pound! | |||
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"I don't buy women's magazines. It might explain a lot. It certainly explains why I have no idea who half the people on reality shows are "Same! I've not bought one since my teens! | |||
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"I don't buy women's magazines. It might explain a lot. It certainly explains why I have no idea who half the people on reality shows are
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I've not bought one since my teens! "In the 70s I bought She magazine regularly. It was great. They had articles from women across the world, a column on sex written by Dr David Devlin that gave actual real advice, really informative pieces. I've never found anything like it since | |||
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"Page 14... You're beautiful just the way you are! Page 15...How to lose weight fast! Page 16...chocolate cake recipe
Eat the cake ladies! (And men)
Your weight doesn't define you. Being slim doesn't make you beautiful or confident!
Lu "Afuckingmen to that!!! | |||
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"You are berating women's mags for telling them how to be but doing the same thing. Not even close... I'm encouraging them to eat/do whatever the fuck they want to...not what anyone else says they should. " You said eat the cake because being slim doesn't make people confident. Eating cake makes me fat. Being slimmer gives me confidence and makes me feel better all round. | |||
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"You are berating women's mags for telling them how to be but doing the same thing. Not even close... I'm encouraging them to eat/do whatever the fuck they want to...not what anyone else says they should. You said eat the cake because being slim doesn't make people confident. Eating cake makes me fat. Being slimmer gives me confidence and makes me feel better all round." But it won't do that for everyone... I'm simply saying women should be how they are and not be made to feel bad about it. | |||
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"You are berating women's mags for telling them how to be but doing the same thing. Not even close... I'm encouraging them to eat/do whatever the fuck they want to...not what anyone else says they should. You said eat the cake because being slim doesn't make people confident. Eating cake makes me fat. Being slimmer gives me confidence and makes me feel better all round. But it won't do that for everyone... I'm simply saying women should be how they are and not be made to feel bad about it." We agree.  | |||
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"Page 14... You're beautiful just the way you are! Page 15...How to lose weight fast! Page 16...chocolate cake recipe
Eat the cake ladies! (And men)
Your weight doesn't define you. Being slim doesn't make you beautiful or confident!
Lu "You forgot the article showing how much weight a particular celebrity has put on. | |||
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"Page 14... You're beautiful just the way you are! Page 15...How to lose weight fast! Page 16...chocolate cake recipe
Eat the cake ladies! (And men)
Your weight doesn't define you. Being slim doesn't make you beautiful or confident!
Lu " so true.
I dont buy them - the only news I read is my Google feed.
Quite honestly I couldn't give a fuck if Posh Spice has gained 2lbs - but I'll read it if it's in front of me
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. " I wish I knew how to help do just that | |||
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"Page 14... You're beautiful just the way you are! Page 15...How to lose weight fast! Page 16...chocolate cake recipe
Eat the cake ladies! (And men)
Your weight doesn't define you. Being slim doesn't make you beautiful or confident!
Lu
so true.
I dont buy them - the only news I read is my Google feed.
Quite honestly I couldn't give a fuck if Posh Spice has gained 2lbs - but I'll read it if it's in front of me
Whilst eating cake obviously!"Yesss!!! | |||
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. I wish I knew how to help do just that" So do I but a huge change in attitude needs to happen. Taking fab as a very small sample. If I were to start a thread saying I feel that I'm very attractive and worthy of any man on here you can bet you'd life there would be a lot of comments saying how arrogance isn't attractive, true beauty comes from within , some people are just ugly on the inside , modesty in a woman is a virtue yada yada yada. However if I started a thread saying I felt unattractive and old immediately I'd be told how gorgeous I am, how any man would be lucky to have me etc etc. On the our of my league threads only the people with low self esteem are complimented. My point really is that we as a society celebrate self deprecation and low esteem, actually we reward it with compliments. High self esteem,confidence and self worth is seen as a bad thing,especially in women. It's no wonder that its a difficult put to climb out of. Society has too much invested in women feeling bad about themselves. | |||
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. I wish I knew how to help do just that So do I but a huge change in attitude needs to happen. Taking fab as a very small sample. If I were to start a thread saying I feel that I'm very attractive and worthy of any man on here you can bet you'd life there would be a lot of comments saying how arrogance isn't attractive, true beauty comes from within , some people are just ugly on the inside , modesty in a woman is a virtue yada yada yada. However if I started a thread saying I felt unattractive and old immediately I'd be told how gorgeous I am, how any man would be lucky to have me etc etc. On the our of my league threads only the people with low self esteem are complimented. My point really is that we as a society celebrate self deprecation and low esteem, actually we reward it with compliments. High self esteem,confidence and self worth is seen as a bad thing,especially in women. It's no wonder that its a difficult put to climb out of. Society has too much invested in women feeling bad about themselves." Oh for sure. I'm working on healing myself but I want to help others too | |||
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. I wish I knew how to help do just that So do I but a huge change in attitude needs to happen. Taking fab as a very small sample. If I were to start a thread saying I feel that I'm very attractive and worthy of any man on here you can bet you'd life there would be a lot of comments saying how arrogance isn't attractive, true beauty comes from within , some people are just ugly on the inside , modesty in a woman is a virtue yada yada yada. However if I started a thread saying I felt unattractive and old immediately I'd be told how gorgeous I am, how any man would be lucky to have me etc etc. On the our of my league threads only the people with low self esteem are complimented. My point really is that we as a society celebrate self deprecation and low esteem, actually we reward it with compliments. High self esteem,confidence and self worth is seen as a bad thing,especially in women. It's no wonder that its a difficult put to climb out of. Society has too much invested in women feeling bad about themselves. Oh for sure. I'm working on healing myself but I want to help others too" I think you do from what I've seen. Positive comments, acceptance and truthful compliments go a long way. But for gods sake women, stop basing your worth on whether men want to have sex with you. | |||
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" Oh for sure. I'm working on healing myself but I want to help others too I think you do from what I've seen. Positive comments, acceptance and truthful compliments go a long way. But for gods sake women, stop basing your worth on whether men want to have sex with you. " I very much appreciate you saying so. It does matter to me, quite a lot. And yes. We're worthwhile for all sorts of important reasons: our values, our strength, our compassion, our work. | |||
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" Oh for sure. I'm working on healing myself but I want to help others too I think you do from what I've seen. Positive comments, acceptance and truthful compliments go a long way. But for gods sake women, stop basing your worth on whether men want to have sex with you. I very much appreciate you saying so. It does matter to me, quite a lot. And yes. We're worthwhile for all sorts of important reasons: our values, our strength, our compassion, our work." Yes. I agree. | |||
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. I wish I knew how to help do just that So do I but a huge change in attitude needs to happen. Taking fab as a very small sample. If I were to start a thread saying I feel that I'm very attractive and worthy of any man on here you can bet you'd life there would be a lot of comments saying how arrogance isn't attractive, true beauty comes from within , some people are just ugly on the inside , modesty in a woman is a virtue yada yada yada. However if I started a thread saying I felt unattractive and old immediately I'd be told how gorgeous I am, how any man would be lucky to have me etc etc. On the our of my league threads only the people with low self esteem are complimented. My point really is that we as a society celebrate self deprecation and low esteem, actually we reward it with compliments. High self esteem,confidence and self worth is seen as a bad thing,especially in women. It's no wonder that its a difficult put to climb out of. Society has too much invested in women feeling bad about themselves." Absolutely spot on as usual | |||
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. I wish I knew how to help do just that So do I but a huge change in attitude needs to happen. Taking fab as a very small sample. If I were to start a thread saying I feel that I'm very attractive and worthy of any man on here you can bet you'd life there would be a lot of comments saying how arrogance isn't attractive, true beauty comes from within , some people are just ugly on the inside , modesty in a woman is a virtue yada yada yada. However if I started a thread saying I felt unattractive and old immediately I'd be told how gorgeous I am, how any man would be lucky to have me etc etc. On the our of my league threads only the people with low self esteem are complimented. My point really is that we as a society celebrate self deprecation and low esteem, actually we reward it with compliments. High self esteem,confidence and self worth is seen as a bad thing,especially in women. It's no wonder that its a difficult put to climb out of. Society has too much invested in women feeling bad about themselves." That’s true. How many times have I started a thread to say how I happy I am with how I look and seen the venom fly at me like I’m in a snake pit. | |||
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. I wish I knew how to help do just that So do I but a huge change in attitude needs to happen. Taking fab as a very small sample. If I were to start a thread saying I feel that I'm very attractive and worthy of any man on here you can bet you'd life there would be a lot of comments saying how arrogance isn't attractive, true beauty comes from within , some people are just ugly on the inside , modesty in a woman is a virtue yada yada yada. However if I started a thread saying I felt unattractive and old immediately I'd be told how gorgeous I am, how any man would be lucky to have me etc etc. On the our of my league threads only the people with low self esteem are complimented. My point really is that we as a society celebrate self deprecation and low esteem, actually we reward it with compliments. High self esteem,confidence and self worth is seen as a bad thing,especially in women. It's no wonder that its a difficult put to climb out of. Society has too much invested in women feeling bad about themselves. That’s true. How many times have I started a thread to say how I happy I am with how I look and seen the venom fly at me like I’m in a snake pit. " That's horrible! I think it's awesome you like how you look, I wish more people did! | |||
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. I wish I knew how to help do just that So do I but a huge change in attitude needs to happen. Taking fab as a very small sample. If I were to start a thread saying I feel that I'm very attractive and worthy of any man on here you can bet you'd life there would be a lot of comments saying how arrogance isn't attractive, true beauty comes from within , some people are just ugly on the inside , modesty in a woman is a virtue yada yada yada. However if I started a thread saying I felt unattractive and old immediately I'd be told how gorgeous I am, how any man would be lucky to have me etc etc. On the our of my league threads only the people with low self esteem are complimented. My point really is that we as a society celebrate self deprecation and low esteem, actually we reward it with compliments. High self esteem,confidence and self worth is seen as a bad thing,especially in women. It's no wonder that its a difficult put to climb out of. Society has too much invested in women feeling bad about themselves. That’s true. How many times have I started a thread to say how I happy I am with how I look and seen the venom fly at me like I’m in a snake pit. " It's a shame it's like that. I think the magazines are a product of that way of thinking not the cause of it. | |||
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. I wish I knew how to help do just that So do I but a huge change in attitude needs to happen. Taking fab as a very small sample. If I were to start a thread saying I feel that I'm very attractive and worthy of any man on here you can bet you'd life there would be a lot of comments saying how arrogance isn't attractive, true beauty comes from within , some people are just ugly on the inside , modesty in a woman is a virtue yada yada yada. However if I started a thread saying I felt unattractive and old immediately I'd be told how gorgeous I am, how any man would be lucky to have me etc etc. On the our of my league threads only the people with low self esteem are complimented. My point really is that we as a society celebrate self deprecation and low esteem, actually we reward it with compliments. High self esteem,confidence and self worth is seen as a bad thing,especially in women. It's no wonder that its a difficult put to climb out of. Society has too much invested in women feeling bad about themselves. That’s true. How many times have I started a thread to say how I happy I am with how I look and seen the venom fly at me like I’m in a snake pit. " If you ever delete your profile again, when you come back just have close up pics like cleavage where you can't tell your body shape. Post a thread saying you have body confidence issues. You will be drowning in compliments. | |||
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"Page 14... You're beautiful just the way you are! Page 15...How to lose weight fast! Page 16...chocolate cake recipe
Eat the cake ladies! (And men)
Your weight doesn't define you. Being slim doesn't make you beautiful or confident!
Lu " | |||
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. I wish I knew how to help do just that So do I but a huge change in attitude needs to happen. Taking fab as a very small sample. If I were to start a thread saying I feel that I'm very attractive and worthy of any man on here you can bet you'd life there would be a lot of comments saying how arrogance isn't attractive, true beauty comes from within , some people are just ugly on the inside , modesty in a woman is a virtue yada yada yada. However if I started a thread saying I felt unattractive and old immediately I'd be told how gorgeous I am, how any man would be lucky to have me etc etc. On the our of my league threads only the people with low self esteem are complimented. My point really is that we as a society celebrate self deprecation and low esteem, actually we reward it with compliments. High self esteem,confidence and self worth is seen as a bad thing,especially in women. It's no wonder that its a difficult put to climb out of. Society has too much invested in women feeling bad about themselves." Is it a female thing or a British thing in general? Americans don't seem to suffer from proclaiming their accolades in general. Just a thought x | |||
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"If everyone stopped buying the magazines they'd change what they publish. That won't happen though because low self esteem seeks out things to reinforce that rather than things that promote good self esteem. In my opinion only we get the magazines we deserve. I wish I knew how to help do just that So do I but a huge change in attitude needs to happen. Taking fab as a very small sample. If I were to start a thread saying I feel that I'm very attractive and worthy of any man on here you can bet you'd life there would be a lot of comments saying how arrogance isn't attractive, true beauty comes from within , some people are just ugly on the inside , modesty in a woman is a virtue yada yada yada. However if I started a thread saying I felt unattractive and old immediately I'd be told how gorgeous I am, how any man would be lucky to have me etc etc. On the our of my league threads only the people with low self esteem are complimented. My point really is that we as a society celebrate self deprecation and low esteem, actually we reward it with compliments. High self esteem,confidence and self worth is seen as a bad thing,especially in women. It's no wonder that its a difficult put to climb out of. Society has too much invested in women feeling bad about themselves. Is it a female thing or a British thing in general? Americans don't seem to suffer from proclaiming their accolades in general. Just a thought x" I don't know enough about other cultures to comment. I don't think it's solely a female thing because men frequently reward low self esteem with attention and women often use faux deprecation to elicit attention. It's crazy and mixed up. | |||
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